Liuya couldn't understand it, and asked: "Eldest sister, why do you have to find a beautiful one, just find someone with a very capable family background!" ”

Tian Shao glanced at her: "Do you think that an average-looking person can enter Minji's eyes?" ”

Don't say that Min Ji can't look down on her, and she doesn't want to be Yan Kong. Because the mother is not outstanding, there is a half probability that the child will have an ordinary appearance in the future, and she will have to be responsible for her future grandchildren. Of course, if Min Ji likes an ordinary-looking one, she won't interfere, but let her choose the best.

Liuya thought about the reason for Tian Shao's relationship with Tan Yue, and couldn't help laughing: "Good looks, it is indeed very advantageous." ”

Tian Shao does not deny this: "Being good looks is one reason, and she is also very smart." She studied in a small county town with relatively poor educational conditions in elementary and junior high school, and only transferred to the third year of junior high school, otherwise the university she was admitted to would definitely be better than now. ”

Also, she likes to cook, and her soft temperament complements Minji. Because I like Min Ji, I am willing to change for him. You see that it has only been half a year, and it has changed a lot. ”

Can she not know Gu Wenbai's shortcomings? Of course I know, but these shortcomings can be made up for through acquired learning. But the temperament and temperament have been cultivated, and it is difficult to change it. Tian Shao would rather spend some effort to teach Gu Wenbai than let Min Ji marry a wife who is not in his favor.

This marriage is not because I like each other and want to get married, but because of the combination of interests. After marriage, it is difficult for two arrogant people to compromise and retreat for each other. For those who take the career path, if the marriage is not smooth, it is easy to be exploited.

After becoming a mother, Tian Shao deeply realized the old saying, raising a child at the age of 100 is often worried about 99. For the sake of her son, she also worked hard.

Liuya gave a thumbs up and praised: "It's still the eldest sister who is thoughtful." If my cousin and sister-in-law could be like you, Jiaojiao would not marry such a husband. ”

Li Jiao got married a year ago, and her husband is her college roommate's fellow countryman. He is a graduate student of the other party's University of Finance and Economics and works in a listed company. Her husband is very polite and capable, but his family background is very poor. He is the third eldest in the family, with an older brother and a younger sister at the top.

Tian Shao shook his head and said: "You can't blame your cousin and sister-in-law for this, I told her that she was not suitable for Liu Xiaoming, and she insisted on marrying without persuasion." Now that life is like this, no one is to blame. ”

When Tian Shao knew about her husband's family background, she had a special opinion on the other party, and after contact, she felt that the two of them were not suitable. For this reason, I also talked to Li Jiao, saying that the two of them grew up in different environments, and it was difficult to reach an agreement on values, outlook on life, and outlook on consumption.

I don't want Li Jiao to say that her grandfather and father are also from the countryside, and they have a lot in common with their boyfriends, and there is no inconsistency between the three views that Tian Shao said.

Sankui and Tao Shuhui met Liu Xiaoming, and when they saw that he graduated from a prestigious university and worked hard and motivated, they agreed to this family business.

When you fall in love, it's sweet, but as soon as you get married, the problem is exposed. Li Jiao has lived a prosperous life since she was a child, and likes to go shopping in restaurants on weekends, and she buys organic vegetables and imported fruits every day. But his husband's family is poor and the money for studying is borrowed, and when he sees her spending money so much, he will say that he will quarrel when he comes and goes. This is a small contradiction, and when she is pregnant, her mother-in-law comes to take care of it, and it is a disaster.

Liuya was surprised: "You said that she was not suitable for Liu Xiaoming?" How did I not know? ”

Tian Shao felt that there was nothing to say about this matter, and Uncle Li and Sankui were embarrassed to say that Li Jiao felt that Tian Shao was biased.

is also the same, Liuya sighed with Erya when she knew that Li Jiao was not doing well, saying that if Tian Shao took the pass, she would not have a good time.

You must know that Diandian and Niu Niu and Miaojin asked Tian Shao to check when they fell in love. Although there will be conflicts and quarrels after marriage, it is not like Li Jiao.

Tian Shao said: "She was carried away by love at the time, and it was useless to say more. The road is chosen by himself, whether he laughs or tears himself. ”

She has always felt that the important thing in marriage is not the family conditions, but the other party's character, sense of responsibility and family style. Like Niuniu's wife, the conditions at home are not good in the countryside, but her parents are reasonable and far-sighted. In this way, whether the children of other families marry in or over, there will be no irreconcilable contradictions.

Liuya originally pitied Li Jiao's lack of knowledge, but now she thinks that she asked for herself, and the eldest sister said that it was not suitable and insisted on marrying: "She is not doing well, not only does it cause the uncle and aunt to be uneasy, but even the father and mother are worried." ”

Tian Shao snorted coldly and said, "You are in the research institute, I didn't let them tell you." Last week, my mother went to my uncle's door, and she came back crying with a stomach. I can't get angry and go over to reason with my father to the Liu family. If Er Ya hadn't arrived in time, they would have started fighting. ”

At the beginning, Li Jiao didn't listen to persuasion, and she didn't have a good time after marriage, so Tian Shao didn't say that it was a waste of time to listen. If you choose the wrong one, you can stop the loss in time, she is reluctant to divorce and always goes back to her parents' house to cry, and it is her own family who is tossing.

Tian Shao didn't care about Li Jiao's business, but after hearing that Li Guihua almost fought with the people of the Liu family, he was so angry that he called and scolded Li Guihua and Tian Dalin.

At such an age, I am most afraid of falling and knocking, and if I am not careful, I may die. Li Guihua and Tian Dalin are in their seventies, but they are physically tough, and these are all raised by Tian Shaohua at a large price.

As soon as Liuya heard this, she became angry: "They are fighting with people at such an old age, are they crazy?" ”

There has to be a good one, not to mention that they themselves have been sinned, but they also have to bring a few sisters to suffer, and the older they get, the more confused they become.

Tian Shao said: "Because of this, my uncle also specially brought Li Jiao over to apologize to me, just look at his old man's face." ”

Liuya felt that it was wrong when she heard this, and asked, "Eldest sister, you didn't scold Li Jiao?" ”

"What are you scolding her for? She couldn't carry it herself, and I didn't want to waste my saliva. ”

The Liu family now obviously regards Li Jiao's salary and house as their own, so it hurts to watch her spend money.

In the concept of some old people, women marry in and don't say anything, even people belong to their family. And that's what the Liu family thinks now.

For Li Jiao, her salary and dowry are her own, and she can use it however she likes.

The contradictions between the two parties are irreconcilable, and they cannot be stopped unless they are divorced. And this is also the reason why Tian Shao is too lazy to scold her, she is reluctant to break it, so she will stay up by herself!

Liuya felt more and more embarrassed when she heard this: "What's so good about that man, let her practice herself like this?" ”

Tian Shao didn't want to talk about her, so he didn't want to affect his mood: "Wen Bai will graduate from college next month, and when I graduate, I will go to the Gu family to ask for marriage." ”

"Eldest sister, when do you want to get married?"

"At the end of the year, your brother-in-law will be as busy as a spinning top, and his son can't be absent when he gets married and becomes a father. Therefore, the wedding date is either National Day or New Year's Day. ”

Liuya nodded and said that the wedding date was set and told her that it would be better to ask for leave in advance.