The taste of missing
Why do people miss someone? because they love someone, or they fall in love with someone. Loving each other is called love, and whether unrequited love is love or not, in fact, no one can say clearly. It's like no one can say what love is. Love always makes people lose themselves.
There are always people who love each other but can't stay together. If we love each other but can't stay together, we will say that they are not fated, or that fate has not yet arrived. The only thing people who can't stay together can do is to miss. Missing, little by little projecting their own shadow into the other party's heart, if the shadow is clear enough, it will be called the dream lover.
Everyone will have a favorite person, two favorite people, and a lot of general favorite people. We say that love needs to be single-minded, but is that really true? In fact, it is just to occupy all of one's time. We will say that love cannot withstand betrayal, but is there really betrayal in love? If a person leaves someone and chooses to be with another person, it is called betrayal, then everyone can only be with the person they like the most.
Can a person only be with the people he likes the most? If so, then the person is deprived of a lot of things he likes, and a lot less happiness. If there is less happiness, there will naturally be more quarrels, and if you torture each other for a long time, you will want to leave each other and find other likes.
It's never wrong to like, and it's never a sin to like. Everyone will have uncontrollably liking someone, because the other party's thoughts have long been planted in the image, because a kiss can feel the affection of thousands of years.
Some love, two people separated, still exists. Because love still exists, there will be thoughts.
If a person misses it long enough, he will forget what the only thing he can do, and he will start to desperately find fate. If you don't care what fate is, maybe you can. The fate found is more to leave unspeakable pain to each other. If there is enough pain, it will only make each other want to see each other again. Fate, in fact, can't be forced.
The Buddha said that looking back 500 times in exchange for a passing shoulder, this is a way to seek fate. This kind of relationship comes from the need for a balance between people to give in return. Silently give to others, waiting for others to pay in return. In fact, it is compulsive, so the ending always leaves a wound.
Missing is a kind of entanglement, a kind of bitterness, a kind of sweetness, a kind of pain, and a kind of persistence.
What is entangled is whether you should look for the person you miss, what is bitter is that there is no self by the person you miss, but the sweetness is because you love each other, the pain is because of the separation, and the persistence is because it is a person who can't let go.
"Now there is a rift in their relationship. ”
"Is it because of time? After all, this time they have been separated for a thousand years. ”
"How did you stay apart for so long?" the otaku was a little curious.
"Because of love debts, for them, as long as they see it once, they will not let people forget. There is always a stage when people only stare at the brightest light. ”
"It's not the time of time, a thousand years, compared to that time when he was trapped in the timeline, it's pitifully short. This time there will be a problem, it is that he does not dare to accept her infatuation. ”
"Why don't you dare?"
"You know, now she is very angry with his family, and if he is also infatuated, he is afraid that he will kill his family by mistake. In that state, he couldn't refuse any of her requests. ”
"Actually, he is not so angry with her family!"
"Well, the debt relationship between the two families has gotten out of control, it's time for them to take a good break. ”
"It's a wonderful place. ”
"Dad, don't you want to go back?"
"Well, you can't do it. There will be no leaders who will not even dare to accept infatuation. ”
"It's the guide. ”
"It's just a salutation, don't take it so seriously. If you want to help that place, you might as well radiate the reality of the past. ”
"You're crazy. "The otaku was a little speechless.
"From what you know about them, is the balance of power between them dangerous?"
"It's been there, and she's got too many emotions, feelings made into a costume. To be honest, I admire his self-control. I can understand what kind of rage he was at that time. ”
"So he's invincible, and you're his assistant. ”
"The invincible golden body has been broken, and he has been defeated once. ”
"Regardless of the balance of power, I was defeated only once, and I didn't even dare to imagine that such a commander would exist before the change. Isn't it called invincible after defeating once?"
No one answered this question.
Late at night, there is a kind of longing, like rain.