Everyone has feelings.

What is affection? Affection that is felt? Maybe it's possible. When a person has a relationship with another person, he or she will begin to have some expectations for the other person. And when a person expects from others, he must suffer from others and gain from himself. The expectations were satisfied, and probably the love between the two increased a little.

If so, perhaps the core of the relationship is the sacrifice and the touching and warmth that comes from it. And the motivation for people to pursue affection is that when they need help, others will sacrifice their own interests to help them.

Feelings are never a one-person thing. If there is affection between two people, someone will need to sacrifice themselves to fulfill others. Therefore, when the person who originally sacrificed also has expectations, it is actually difficult for the person who originally benefited to refuse.

If a person has someone who is difficult to refuse, in fact, there are a lot of constraints and constraints invisibly. Therefore, when people face feelings, they often feel torn. I feel torn because I'm going to lose, and I'm going to suffer.

In this regard, the more affection a person has, the more bondage there is. The more restraints, the harder it is to feel free. In the same way, a person can't actually have feelings with everyone, and pursuing people who have feelings with everyone will only make you feel more and more depressed and less and less free.

A person needs to learn to reject others in his love life. People who don't know how to reject others will only make others want to take advantage more and more. Because of feelings, sometimes it is difficult to refuse, so you need to learn.

Some people will be more cunning, and after receiving a sacrifice from one person, they will go to someone else and continue to make people sacrifice. And when others have expectations, they will try their best to explain that it is unreasonable, so that people will dispel their thoughts. In fact, for words like reasonable, it can be said that it is just a means for people to play tricks.

Whether it is reasonable or not is really only the degree of sacrifice to be made. And love is the kind of relationship that can make the greatest sacrifice. Love, in fact, is very heavy. People who feel the heaviness of love are people who habitually cheat.

One cannot be fraternal simply because there is a limit to the extent to which one can sacrifice. And love, because it is the most sacrificial emotion, one's love is more limited than other feelings. People's desire for love is probably the warmth brought by the sacrifice of love, and the pain of love is the pain caused by the loss of this warmth. And people's possessiveness for love is because of the finite nature of love.

The beauty of feelings is because of the voluntariness of sacrifice. Love can be like a trickle or it can be vigorous. Relatively speaking, the vigorous love, the feeling of warmth is unforgettable, but at the same time, it is easy to make people feel tired; tired, it is better to change the style, trickle is also another form of warmth, moisturizing things silently.

And people's eternal pursuit of love is actually to possess habitual, familiar love. People will have this kind of possession, because of the familiar, habitual love, which makes people more intimate, and also warmer and sweeter. As people say, friends, old is good. Love, in fact, is also good for the old. Because it's kinder.

It's always difficult, probably because this possessiveness is too strong. And for people, temptation is everywhere. Maybe when people learn to let go, let go and let people fly, and they will always be in front of them.

While feelings bring warmth to people, they also put shackles on people. As people's feelings increase, the feeling of freedom will become less and less. Freedom is also what people seek. Therefore, the number of human feelings will only decrease as people grow. And the love that is the most constrained will have fewer in number. There will only be one eternal lover. If the eternal lover does not exist, the community cannot continue......

Author's note: I really want to add a story to this part of the content, and I thought about it for a long time, so I don't want to add it.