Love you forever
"How long will you love me?"
"I will. ”
Forever, is an indefinite commitment. Can love last forever? This is an unanswered question. So what is love? Some people think they know love very well, but after a while, they will be confused about what love is. Love is never simple, if people can really figure out what love is, then eternal love will not exist.
Love is never only sweet, but actually a feast that contains sweet and sour. The feeling that goes hand in hand with sweet and spicy is happiness, and the feeling that goes hand in hand with bitterness and sourness is pain. Love can make people fly into the paradise of happiness, or it can make people fall into the abyss of pain. Happiness and pain are twins in love, and the sharp contrast makes happiness happier and pain more painful. This is one of the magic of love, which makes people desire love and also make people fear love.
If love can last forever, what kind of love is possible?
Everyone has a lot of nature. The country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change. For example, some people are lazy, and some people are diligent. A lazy person and a hardworking person are destined to not be together for a long time, because lazy people are sloppy, and hardworking people can't stand sloppy. This is the conflict of natures.
Two people who want to be together forever must at least understand each other's nature, and there is no conflict in their nature, so that it is possible. Do you know your own nature, do you know the other person's nature?
Humans are social animals, and each group we call society. Different societies will have different rights and wrongs, beauty and ugliness, good and evil. In society, we are constantly told what we can do and what we can't do, and slowly each of us forgets our true nature and puts layers of camouflage on ourselves, because none of us wants to be excluded. Do you remember how much disguise you had?
Where does right and wrong come from, beauty, ugliness, good and evil in society? Every human nature has a positive side and a negative side. For example, lazy people don't want to do things very much, so they do less, which is negative; the same lazy people will try all kinds of ways to be lazy for themselves, and some ways can facilitate a lot of people, which is what we call technological innovation, which is the positive side. The right and wrong of society, the beauty and ugliness, the good and the evil, are just one of the ways that this group of people generally accepts to make people's nature play a more positive role. Different societies will have different rights and wrongs, beauty and ugliness, good and evil, because each group will have a different understanding of human nature.
So if you forget how much disguise you have, how do you remember it?
It's very simple, forget all right and wrong, beauty and ugliness, good and evil, and only do what you want to do, and time will peel off layers of disguise. "That would keep me from surviving. Someone would have replied like that. Yes, regaining one's true nature is something that one person cannot do. You need someone to help you find out your true nature at any cost, because he/she is burdened with the pressure of two people to survive in society, and at the same time, you also need to face the irregular destruction caused by you only doing what you want to do, some of which can be terrible and beyond the limit of one's tolerance.
Who would be so stupid to do such a stupid thing? It's just a person who wants to be with you forever. Because wanting to be together forever and finding back to one's true nature is a mutual process.
Is human nature fixed or constantly generated, and what is it? No one has yet answered the question. Man is a life form that is close to perfection, and the answer to this question is probably only available if man evolves into a perfect form. So the rest of the snippet will only be some speculation.
If human nature is constantly generated, it will probably exist forever. Because discovering each other's nature is an indefinite job, two people together will not have a situation where they are tired of each other and just want to leave.
Some people think that lovers should look at each other and smile, everything is in plain sight, a kind of warmth, a tacit understanding slowly grows. Everything is self-explanatory, which means that there is nothing unfamiliar with each other anymore. It will indeed be a little warm at first, but as time goes by, it will only develop into dullness, develop into boredom, and finally only want to escape.
The fact that all known natures do not conflict does not mean that two people can last forever.
It is possible that the new nature has been formed for too long, and it has long been just trying to escape and not want to see it again. It's always easy for people of the same type to understand each other, because it's easy to understand each other, but it's also easy to get bored. Because in the process of understanding the other party, it is easier to give up. So the like-for-like possibility can always be close to zero.
It is also possible that the newly generated nature is in conflict, although this possibility is not very high. The two get along to the point where they discover the nature of the new generation, and the tacit understanding between the two will basically avoid this possibility, unless something too hurtful happens. For example, domestic violence. Between eternal lovers, if the balance of power is out of control for a long time, it is a very dangerous situation. Everyone has a moment when they are angry and wants to hit someone, and the unbinding balance of power will push this idea into action. When domestic violence happens, the beaten party will feel like ashes and feel that all the persistence has lost its meaning.
Eternal love needs to be persevered.
How many eternal lovers can there be? Actually, there should only be one. The time taken by the formation of nature probably becomes longer as a person grows. It will take longer and more difficult to find out the true nature. When people grow to the point where finding out the nature of a lover is a difficult thing to accomplish, there will only be one lover.
There will never be an expiration date, so there will only be one eternal lover.
He was cunning, mean, shameless, he liked light the most, and no one knew how terrible he was when there was light; she was kind, she liked darkness the most, and no one knew how terrible she was when there was no light; they were all lazy.
If a woman likes to hold up the chin of the man next to her with her fingertips, look into the man's eyes and say, "Niu, give the master a smile." "Then she must have done a very proud job when she was a man.
Homosexuality, presumably, is only possible if the eternal lover becomes a gender. In other cases, most of them are pretending, and the reason for pretending is just to flaunt their alternatives.
There is a kind of smoke without nicotine, from the gift of an eternal lover, pure as water.