Once upon a time, "straight male cancer" appeared on the Internet and was criticized. And the idea of "sharing joys and sorrows with you is not there, who are you in glory and wealth" is also popular. It's just that in this flashy world, the bottom line of the should is gradually ignored.

Why does director Feng Xiaogang spur everyone to the word "**silk"? Because people are easy to be hypnotized. Saying every day, "I'm good," then it's really good. But what about saying to yourself every day, "I'm **silk"?

This is a serious question, because quite a few people don't know that this is a self-deprecating statement, or think it's cool, so they really talk about it.

In today's society, people's self-confidence has not yet been established, and new devastation has been overwhelming.

That's what I'm going to talk about. When people are faced with these polluting terms, what kind of attitude should they have to face?

Let's start with the example of boys and girls.

What you must know is that with the development of society, there is such a trend of thought in society: after playing with each other's feelings and bodies, abandon each other. And then as an emotional experience.

And the by-product of this distorted thinking is that the injured person becomes the perpetrator, the perpetrator creates the injured person again, and the injured person becomes the perpetrator.

I use this example as an example to illustrate, and I want to say one thing. Remember, boys and girls: whatever you think of your personality, be sure to distinguish between good and bad opinions and heroes to you.

Girls who are scantily clad in nightclubs or on the road at night are injured. Of course, the law should strengthen the punishment of perpetrators, but on the other hand, "girls should protect themselves when they are outside and try not to dress so revealingly." to avoid increasing the possibility of being harmed" is by no means the same as "she is dressed so revealingly, she deserves to be hurt".

Don't use the phrase "I can be sassy, you can't bother." "Go and respond. Of course, everyone is free to dress for themselves. But everyone should have the ability to protect themselves, because behind them, there are friends, parents, family, sisters, and everyone has the responsibility not to make the people who love them the most sad.

And to do this, we need to have a clear three views and an upward mind.

When a girl is in a relationship with a boy, she does not go to bed as a bond to maintain love, which is called self-love. After love is broken, cherish yourself and not degenerate yourself, which is called self-esteem. Not to hurt others is called self-respect. Do not feel sorry for yourself, but quickly stand up and look for tomorrow, which is called self-confidence.

Self-love, self-esteem, self-respect, self-confidence, you can be called a goddess.

When a man is in love with a girl, he does not pursue it with a lewd and obscene mentality, which is called self-control. Dealing with everything that happens in between in a responsible manner is called self-intelligence. After the breakdown, not facing the life after it with a negative attitude is called self-improvement. No matter what suitable, every day to seriously improve yourself, called self-confidence.

A man who is self-controlled, self-wise, self-reliant, and confident can become a male god.

There must be people who think that what I said is too illusory and too impossible. But, dear reader: are you really willing to be a ** silk for the rest of your life?

Watching others spend all their time drinking, loving and loving, and having nothing for themselves? If you don't want to, quickly abandon those self-denials.

If you can't decide on your wallet, you have to decide on your figure first. It's never hard to get four-pack abs.

If you can't decide on your appearance, you have to decide your mentality first. Tell yourself to live a decent life.

If you can't decide on life, then decide everything about yourself first. Is it handsome, is it beautiful, is it wise, is it not? is it not? Why don't you get up quickly and cultivate yourself while moving bricks. Moving bricks can exercise muscles, you told me that moving bricks is **silk?

Many times, it is the case that outside perceptions affect our inner judgment. Is cool right for you? Is personality right for you? Lonely, lonely, cold. Then look for excitement, find happiness, and find heat. But don't do it yourself. Don't hurt anyone. This is true for both men and women.

Feminism, straight male cancer, like a pair of antonyms. Misinterpret each other, attack. If you want to be independent and equal, don't think about attacking others and taking advantage of your good things.

The real life must be written by oneself. Be a decent person and don't let those self-deprecating words become synonymous with yourself. On the positive side, it's not good for your growth. On the flip side, it's like watching a rabbit fall into a trap and not rescuing a fox that's still snickering, the next target of the hound named "Fallen" may not be you.