But the next second, she heard Yang Xiangwei say: "It's really stupid, how can you not tell your parents?" Of course, I have to tell my parents about such a big thing. What does a little girl know? It's because you don't understand anything that you'll be deceived. ”

"In the final analysis, it's all the parents' fault, if the parents do well and the little girl is in danger, shouldn't the first reaction be to ask her parents for help?"

But she didn't dare, what did she mean? It shows that the parents are not doing a good job, so that the little girl thinks that being scolded by her parents is more serious than being deceived by bad people. ”

"Is it normal that she would rather be deceived by bad people than blamed by her parents?"

"It's definitely not normal. Parents are the first umbrella for children, the first protector of children when they encounter danger, when children encounter bad people, shouldn't parents stand up to protect her? ”

……

Yang Xiangwei directly scolded the parents in the story, saying that they were too incompetent.

When did the parents in the first umbrella turn out to be more terrible than the bad guys?

This is not normal.

Tang Wenjing's eyes suddenly turned red, she lowered her head, not daring to let Yang Xiangwei see it.

Yang Xiangwei did not expose it, and continued: "If the little girl tells her parents, she may encounter three situations, the first and the best result is that the parents did not blame her, but stood up to protect her as soon as possible. Of course, this is also the best thing to achieve, and it is also the result that I hope for the most. ”

"The second is that the parents will scold the little girl first, scolding her for not being angry, but they will also protect her and find a way to solve it."

"The third and worst case is that the parents not only fail to solve the problem, but also blame the little girl. Since then, the little girl has been stigmatized. ”

"If it's the third option, I want the little girl to ask the teacher for help. If the teacher can't do it, go directly to the police for help. Because the police will protect every good citizen who abides by the law. ”

……

Yang Xiangwei looked serious and asked Tang Wenjing if there was a word called "imperfect victim".

Imperfect victims, often present in society.

When girls are harassed outside, they blame the girl for not dressing properly, either wearing a skirt that is too short, or wearing clothes that are too revealing and dressed up too beautifully.

However, is it true that a crime will not be started because a girl dresses very conservatively?

Apparently not.

A person with malicious intentions, he doesn't care who you are, he only cares about one thing - whether you are weaker than him.

As long as you are weaker than him, no matter who you are, he can "bully" you.

Someone has experimented with different styles of clothing to appear on the bus to see which one has a higher chance of being taken advantage of.

Before this experiment, everyone would have thought that scantily clad women would be more likely to do so, but this is not the case - the more well-behaved women look, the more likely they are to encounter this kind of thing.

Because, the more well-behaved girls are, the less they will resist when they encounter such unspeakable things.

They don't want to be discovered, they don't want to be embarrassed, they don't want to be stigmatized, they don't want to ......

So, what kind of girl will look particularly well-behaved and obedient?

Yang Xiangwei said: "So, grandma sometimes doesn't like you to wear clothes that are particularly conservative and look particularly well-behaved. Sometimes, grandma even wants you to look a little bad, such as wearing a suspender belt and a tattoo on your arm, so that you look like a little girl...... The little sister doesn't sound good, but people know at a glance that this girl is not easy to bully, and others will not dare to bully you. ”

Tang Wenjing was a little crying and laughing.

She always thought that what her grandmother liked was her "well-behaved and obedient", but she didn't expect her grandmother to want her to become a little sister?!

Oh, my God!

If this word is going to get out, others are afraid that they will not think that her grandmother is crazy.

"Nothing is more important than your peace and well-being, growing up healthy." Yang Xiangwei said earnestly, "Grandma wants you to remember that you are a 'little sister', and if you dare to bully you, you will beat me back." Grandma will pay for the medical expenses. ”

"Grandma, I'm not going to fight...... she's just afraid that grandma will see those photos.

Tang Wenjing had some confidence, but she was still a little hesitant whether to "ask Yang Xiangwei for help".

After arriving at the school, Tang Wenjing was restless all day and kept thinking about this matter.

In the end, what made Tang Wenjing make a decision was the message she saw from the lonely person after school.

[Why don't you reply to my message?] 】

[Do you dare to go back? You weren't taught enough yesterday, did you? 】

……

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Tang Wenjing mustered up her courage and stood in front of Yang Xiangwei with her mobile phone.

Yang Xiangwei saw through it at a glance, thought of something, and immediately showed a concerned look: "What's wrong?" Were you bullied at school? Whoever bullied you, tell grandma, grandma will help you get revenge. ”

Tang Wenjing's eyes turned red, and she said, "Grandma, I'm sorry, I've embarrassed you......"

With a heart, he handed the phone to Yang Xiangwei, and then lowered his head, not daring to look at Yang Xiangwei's expression.

Yang Xiangwei had expected it, but she didn't expect Tang Wenjing to trust herself so much and confess this matter to her so quickly.

Yang Xiangwei didn't want to disappoint Tang Wenjing, she took the phone, looked at the content that the man sent to Tang Wenjing, and scolded directly: "This kind of shameless thing, how dare you send you this kind of thing?!" ”

"Don't be afraid, you are right to tell grandma, we should not condone this disgusting criminal."

"You remember, it's not your fault!"

"You didn't embarrass your grandmother, you were brave and did the right thing. When you encounter such a sinister bad guy, when you find that you can't solve it, you should ask the adults for help. ”

……

"Grandma......" Tang Wenjing threw herself into Yang Xiangwei's arms, "Woo woo...... Whining...... I really didn't mean to! I didn't know he was a bad guy at first......"

"Bad people don't deliberately put it on their faces, they like to pretend that they are good people, like wolves, only in sheep's clothing, can they sneak into the sheepfold to deceive the lambs, and only when the big sheep is not looking. It's them who are bad, what does it have to do with our family being quiet? Yang Xiangwei hugged her, not rushing to deal with the disgusting man, but comforted Tang Wenjing for the first time, "Do you remember the 'imperfect victim' mentioned by grandma?" You're not a victim of imperfection, you're a victim, you've been hurt, and it has nothing to do with your imperfection. It's the bad guys we should punish, not you ......"

"Woo woo woo ......"

"Alas...... I'm sorry, it's grandma who should apologize to you, it's grandma who didn't take care of you. If your grandmother had educated your father well, your father would not have divorced your mother, and your mother would not have neglected you because she had to work so hard to support you...... In the end, it's all grandma's fault. ”

"No, this has nothing to do with grandma, it's my fault......"

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