Second, the strange things that followed

"I'm Huangfu Yiyi in the third class of the third year of college, I heard that you know that Lie Yufeng has a girlfriend, but you still have to dig the foot of the wall, it's a shame among girls, I want to challenge you!"

"Huh?" the class exclaimed again.

Strange things one after another, what's going on lately?

The conversation in the activity room revolved around Huangfu Yiyi's inexplicable challenge.

"I really don't understand why a senior senior sister who I don't know before is so cold as to pull out the two of you (northern dialect, meaning to be out), and so suddenly, is it because everyone is nervous about to fight?" Duanmu Ying was also confused.

"It's impossible, it's not a newcomer to the battlefield, it's just that we have faced a life-and-death situation in the past six months, what is there to be nervous about now?" Kaori thought about something else, "Yufeng, you see that you can't even stand the junior sister, should you officially marry my sister Yumi?"

"You have a bit of a text, okay?"

"Why isn't this the text?"

Another girl recklessly pushed the door and broke in, looking at the lawsuit with a face on her face.

"Who are you going to duel with?" Yu Feng thought to himself, it has really been an evil in the past two days, and every person who comes here has this kind of expression that wants to play with you.

"I'm going to complain about the Daydream Club! It's all because of you, my relationship with my roommate is even worse!"

What's going on?

"Classmate, what's going on?" asked Yumi.

"It's your bad idea! Let me coax my roommate and talk to her, but the other friend thinks I'm not interesting enough, and now they don't pay much attention to me, it's all your fault! I didn't want to talk to her because I was afraid that others would misunderstand, and you said it was so good, so I said it......"

This girl named Dongfang Junjie "complained" for a long time, at first she was still in a state of humming, and then somehow she began to beg Yumi to continue to give her ideas, Yumi took the trouble to listen to her complaints, and told her how to deal with it.

"So you mean, I'm going to say that right now?"

"I'm just suggesting. ”

"Okay, I'll go. The girl seemed to see hope again, and ran out with a smoke.

Yumi, who had been wronged twice in the morning, lowered her head at this time, her eyes were red, and tears rolled in her eyes for a long time, but they still fell.

Everyone gathered around, and Kaori said angrily: "I said at the beginning that this girl is very annoying, don't worry about her business, what is there to help such a person?"

"Don't talk about Yumi. ”

"I'm angry with that person, what kind of attitude? I can't handle the relationship with my classmates and rely on Yumi's head!"

"Yumi, I'll lend you the wind a hug for a while, don't be sad. Xiaoxue whispered.

Yumi acted really fast, hugged Yufeng and cried.

"What the hell is going on?" Yufeng, who was acting as a pillow, felt very embarrassed, and had to say something.

"Yesterday, this girl came to ask for help on how to deal with the relationship between classmates, and Yumi saw that she was pitiful and agreed to help her, but now she was beaten upside down. ”

"Be specific. ”

"What kind of Dongfang Junjie is doing it herself," Kaori suddenly sat on the table, "She wants every friend around her to say that she is good, and even envy her, but as a result, she can't do it herself, so she has to ask others if she is okay and how she is doing." She attaches great importance to other people's opinions, and when others say that they are not good, she feels uncomfortable, and often provokes B in order to take care of A's emotions, and Ding when she takes care of C's feelings, and in the end she doesn't please anywhere. ”

"I ...... I sound a little confused, who will translate Kaori's words?"

"I'm pinching you, can't I tell you clearly?"

The others in the room shook their heads in unison.

"Well, I'll give you an analogy. Kaori thought for a moment, "I want to buy a dress, and I want everyone in the community to sincerely praise me for the beauty of this dress, but I am only willing to spend ten copper shells on this dress, so I can only buy a stall disposal product, so I began to ask you, is this one good? If you say it's good, I'll buy it, and go back to wear it for others to see, as long as one person says it's not good-looking, I'll come back and complain to you, saying that I didn't want to buy this dress, because you said I paid attention to your opinion, and others said it didn't look good." But I didn't express which one I wanted to buy before, I completely listened to you, and I didn't think that it would be impossible for Ten Copper Shells to buy clothes that would be praised by everyone. If I were such a person, and I asked you again, what would you say if you thought it was appropriate for me to buy that dress?"

"If you want me to don't answer, the result is obvious, no matter which one you choose, it won't win everyone's approval, why should I complain?"

"That's right, normal people will react like this, anyway, it's wrong to choose, it's better not to choose, but then I feel that everyone is not willing to help me with ideas? Why are they all away from me? ”

"Isn't that just the time to learn from the pain, find the crux of why no one dares to give her advice anymore, and then change yourself?"

"Your idea is naΓ―ve. Kaori sighed lightly, "Her approach is to continue to ask the people around her, how do you think I should ease the relationship with my friend? As long as the method said by her friend does not work, she will come to Xingshi to ask for guilt like today, and over time, who wants to make friends with her?"

"I also have a question, the relationship between friends is not the same as buying clothes, if the clothes are bought from the stalls, they will not be recognized by everyone, but why can't the relationship between friends be understood by everyone?"

I heard that she had a boyfriend before, and she also asked her classmates every day if her boyfriend was good, and there were no shortcomings in people, and as long as someone said that even a little bit of bad was wrong, she would go back and quarrel with her boyfriend, and finally the man took the initiative to break up, and it was said that he would avoid her when he went to school. ”

"It's ...... It's a bit tricky, I don't know what my problem is, I blindly ask for help from others, and in turn I have to blame others. ”

"So I said she did it to herself, just ignore her. ”

"Well, let me think about it...... Did you tell her those things at the time?"

"No, Yumi is afraid to hit her. ”

"In that case, Kaori and Yan Han will prepare for a duel, Dongfang Junjie's affairs will be wrapped up in me, and when you return victoriously in the afternoon, I will definitely be able to help you deal with this. ”

"Really?" Yumi sniffled.

"Well, really. ”

"I believe in you!" Yumi hugged Yufeng again.

"Hey, you can't hold it endlessly. Monlin protested.