Close-up of body movements: He leans forward, his shoulders fall down, and his gaze drifts over your head.

Behind the scenes: Many people can't help but use this kind of body language at the critical moment when they decide to tell the truth about the matter. This posture represents his mental suppleness, obedience, and a secret desire to gain your forgiveness. But you don't have to say right away – what he's going to say isn't necessarily what you're most worried about. Perhaps, he just needs your help. Response: Consider opening with a question like "You seem to have something to say to me" in an understatement tone, then just keep your mouth shut, give him time to think about the wording, and wait patiently for his response. Don't keep asking questions like a machine gun, but "steal" the opportunity for him to speak.

If what he wants to say is not something sorry for you, of course he won't hide it in his heart for long. If he wants to speak more and more often, and swallows the words back to his mouth, it means that the truth of the matter is very likely to cause you to be very displeased--at this time, you had better be mentally prepared, otherwise you will not be able to calmly think about how to deal with it once you are in a mess.

He was in a state of unease

Close-up of body movements: his hands are placed under his hips, that is, he sits on his own hands.

Behind the scenes: When people express their feelings freely and unreservedly, their hands often unconsciously flutter around, and they put their hands under their hips and sit on their own hands, indicating that the person is trying to control himself from blurting out things that he should not say.

But this control is not necessarily hiding something ugly, but rather fearing that what you say will spoil the whole situation or atmosphere - in fact, many people have a habit of doing so since childhood. This also indicates that the person is worried that his next words and actions will cause displeasure to others. The same is true of clasping your hands together on your thighs or tabletops, or putting your hands in your pockets. Response: Praise him for being a caring husband, etc. You can also soothe his uneasiness with relaxed, intimate body language – stretch your arms behind the chair and pose as complacent, or wrap your arms around him from behind. Once he feels your peace and serene, he will relax and the insecurity will fade away.

He was annoyed

Close-up of body movements: He clenched his fists, his gaze wandering, his jaw tense.

Behind the scenes: Since anger and hatred are emotions that are not easy to hide, he is bound to reduce the chance of direct eye contact with you. Subconsciously, he worries that once you look him in the eye, your inner restlessness will be seen through by you. Unconsciously clenching your fists is also a sign of impending anger. Finally, see if his jaw and cheekbones are tightly together. If he pursed his lips and the muscles on either side of his cheeks near his jaw twitched and contracted, he would have been furious in the depths of his heart. Coping: Except for severe violent tendencies, most men prefer to remain silent rather than engage in a head-on confrontation with a woman. If you want to know why he's angry, look him in the eye. If you meet his gaze and he only glare at you and immediately look away, then you are the fuse that provokes him to get angry. At this point, it's best to tell him directly, "I can see you're upset, is there something wrong?" to show that you're willing to work with him to solve the problem. If he's angry about something else, let him know that you can be the person he confides in, and then slowly reassure him.

He was under a lot of pressure

Close-up of body movements: He is constantly touching or combing his hair with his fingers.

Behind the scenes: Playing with hair is a symbol of mental decompression. Figgling the buttons on your coat and folding a napkin to and fro has the same meaning. He may also constantly change his sitting position, shake his feet, and tap his fingers back and forth on the table like a piano.

Response: All you can do to help him is distract him and stop him from continuing to drill the horns. Otherwise, the pressure snowballs. Don't keep asking him what happened. You can pull him back to reality with his absent-mindedness, invite him to the park for a walk, watch a movie, rely on another activity to arouse his interest. Once he takes his worries out of his mind, he will most likely tell you what is causing the stress. In many cases, he may not have a thorough understanding of the cause of his troubles.

He doesn't have you in his heart

Close-up of body movements: his eyes are often turned to the left and right, and he turns his body away from you.

Behind the scenes: His wandering eyes, his listless sitting (or standing), and his unwillingness to face you are most likely a sign that he doesn't care about you anymore. The same is true if he tilts his head back and extends his hands freely behind the chair or outside the armrests. In addition, he always responds with a few simple "yes" and "no" to your questions, and does not take the initiative to find something to talk to you, making you talk to yourself like a one-man show, which proves that his heart has flown elsewhere. You might as well stop talking and wait for thirty or forty seconds to see if he will realize the cold scene between the two and take the initiative to speak. If it doesn't work, it often means that he has really reached the point where he has nothing to say to you. However, it is not 100% fair to make a judgment based on body language alone, and you should also examine whether there are other signs of "fever" in the couple's relationship, such as a significant loss of interest in your sexuality, before deciding what to do next.

He's lying

Close-up of body movements: He covers his mouth with his hands, or scratches his nose and ears.

Behind the scenes: If he suddenly scratches his ears and nose for no reason, or covers his mouth with his hands, you better be careful! Because when lying, blood will rush to the face, causing the nose, ears and other parts to start itching due to the slight increase in temperature, and people will scratch it unconsciously. Signs of lying also include: sudden increase or decrease in pitch, repeated use of the same words and phrases, and doubling the number of blinks (the average person blinks about 8~12 times per minute). Response: He may have told inconsequential lies just to be a hero and not to disgrace himself. If he fidgets and his cheeks flush, things are not simple. At this point, don't ask questions like a prisoner. You might as well use a very calm attitude to directly say that "it doesn't hurt to say something directly". If he still refuses to tell the truth, then you have to play the role of a female detective and try to search for any suspicious clues to see what kind of medicine he is selling in his gourd.

Shaking his head

In everyday life, it is common for people to shake their heads or nod their heads to show their opinion about something or something, and this kind of person is so confident that he is self-serving. They are very good at expressing themselves in social situations and are often admired for their indomitable spirit in their careers.

Laughing as he talked

This kind of person will feel very relaxed and happy when talking to you. Most of them have a cheerful personality, never be harsh on life, and pay attention to "contentment and happiness", full of human feelings. Single-minded feelings, especially cherish friendship and family affection. He is popular and likes a peaceful life.

Break your knuckles

Such people are accustomed to snapping their fingers to a rattling sound. They are usually energetic, very talkative, and like to drill the "horns". He is picky about his career and working environment, and if it is something he likes to do, he will do it hard at any cost.

Shaking of legs and feet

This type of person always likes to shake the whole leg with his feet or toes, and the most obvious manifestation is selfishness, little consideration for others, self-interest in everything, stinginess towards others, but contentment with himself. But he is very good at thinking and can often ask unexpected questions.

Slap your head

Most of the time, this gesture is meant to be an expression of remorse and self-condemnation. This kind of person does not pay much attention to emotions and is harsh on people, but has a pioneering spirit for the cause. They are generally outspoken, sincere, compassionate, and willing to help others, but unable to keep secrets.

Fiddling with ornaments

Most people with this habit are women, and they are generally more introverted and do not easily expose their feelings. Another characteristic of them is that they are serious and down-to-earth, whenever there is a symposium, a party or a dance, people disperse, but they are always the ones who clean up the venue in the end.

Shrug your shoulders and spread your hands

People who are accustomed to this kind of movement usually spread their hands and shrug their shoulders to show that they don't care. Most of them are passionate, honest and imaginative. They will create life, they will enjoy life, and the greatest happiness they pursue is to live in a harmonious and comfortable environment.

Wipe your mouth and pinch your nose

Most of the people who are accustomed to wiping their mouths and pinching their noses like to play tricks on others, but they dare not "dare to do it" and love to grandstand. This kind of person is ultimately a person who is dominated by others, who may do what others want him to do, and often can't make up his mind when shopping.

Compare the hand-to-foot, chattering people:

1. Cheerful personality, 2. Easy to talk, 3. Have a popular face, 4. Unwilling to stop, 5. Have a personality that you know and are anxious to say before the other party says, 6. The awareness of exploring other people's secrets is particularly strong.

People who like to pat each other on the shoulder:

1. This is a habit that is common among people who are energetic and clear; 2. This kind of joy is felt by one's whole body, and it is also necessary to appear with the whole body, so there is this addiction; 3. It is especially when you feel superior to the other person; 4. It is the intention to show kindness and affection to the other person.

The person who caresses the skirt:

1. The habit that introverted women often have, 2. The consciousness of injustice and dissatisfaction that she believes that she is above others but cannot realize it, and 3. She herself never spits out words of grievance and only expects the other party to say it.

People who rub their hands together:

1. When you first see your face, rubbing your hands underneath is a habit that people with a small genius have; 2. This habit is always unbeautiful, inferior, and inferior in the eyes of others, so I often suffer.

The man who bends his fingers and makes a crackling sound:

1. Most of them are simple and neat habits; 2. People who bend their fingers forcefully, move rudely and make loud noises, are fond of making tricks and say big things with empty content; 3. People who make small noises with their fingers slightly bent on their knees are perverse, unwilling, and have a tendency to be challenging.

People who move their fingers while talking:

1. When he stops talking, he will tear up pieces of paper or scribble graffiti, etc., and he is a person with an anxious temperament and a quick turn of mind; 2. Although he has the flexibility to think about two things in the same way, when his mind thinks of several questions, he will always give the other party a sense of unhappiness.

The person touching the nose:

1. Some people often rub their noses red, which is common for people with good brains and clear minds; 2. Especially this kind of person, who feels lonely because of being ahead of time or respectful, and will show the habit of self-loathing when he says that I don't care.

Put the whole nose sometimes without touching, sometimes twisting the person:

1.The habitual habit that I express naturally when I think in my head and have done a thing properly.

People who pick their nostrils:

1. When he talks with others about the topic of sitting or attending meetings, he frequently picks his nose, 2. This is a sign of using his brain to organize his thoughts in order, and 3. He is scorned because others think that he ignores etiquette.

Head-scratchers:

1. It is also a habit to scratch one's head when encountering anything; 2. Men have a hearty personality, but they are a little perverse, do not stick to small things, forget things, and are easily dominated by emotions; women are perverse and obsessed with trivial things, and they insist on passing the trivial things they say with an emotional attitude.

People who stroke their jaws:

1. Of course, when you are alone, touching your jaw is thinking about things; 2. When you touch others, you frequently touch your jaw because you want to know each other better; 3. You also try to be regarded as excellent by the other party, which is also a common addiction of people who are tricky.

People who bite their nails:

1. Reading books, watching TV, and biting your nails while watching selflessly are the habits of people who fail to fully suck breast milk when they are babies, and are easy to manifest; 2. People who often feel lonely; 3. People who have many unfulfilled desires.

People who blink while talking:

1. When facing others, busy blinking is a person with strong feelings, 2. When thinking about things in the head and trying to organize them perfectly, it is a common habit for women to blink their eyes widely, and they are people who are confident in their charm and have a high reputation, and they have a supple appearance, but they never wronged themselves.

The Man Who Frows:

1. A little nervous, no matter what happens, 2. Sudden mood restlessness, because I want to calm my mood, so I have this habit; 3. In short, it is a state of unrest and no self-confidence.

Horizontal licking of the upper lip:

1. The person who licks the upper lip seems to be strong, but in fact the owner of the spirit is fragile inside, and 2. The upper lip is when he is nervous, or to prevent his own mind from giving him insight into the habits that often occur.

People who frequently stick out their tongues slightly:

1. People who are extremely neurotic, and who do not admit defeat, have many habits; 2. People who are often worried about the words of others, who are in a never-ending state of mind, often have habits; 3. No matter how little things are, they don't want to leak or fail, and for this reason, when they use their brains to worry, they often show the habit.

Self-questioners:

1. People who are good and popular have many habits; 2. They like to talk to others; 3. People who are deep in the city and have a strategy have no such habits; 4. Because of this habit, they are sometimes despised by the other party.

People who talk to themselves:

1. People who are weak-willed, clumsy, and always suffer in society have many habits; 2. Kind, but have a lot of dissatisfaction; 3. Explain to yourself what is going on, so you murmur alone.

People who change their hairstyles frequently:

1. People who are willing to learn everything, 2. People who are willing to listen to the advice of others, but it is difficult to be beneficial, 3. There are shortcomings that are difficult to be consistent in thinking and work, 4. Being more accommodating to the opposite sex.

People with trembling feet and knees:

1. The knees tremble slightly when thinking, which is commonly known as the habit of poverty, 2. The introverted temperament, but the desire in the heart is not satisfied and the thoughts of self-abandonment are crowded together.

People who walk in slippers:

1. People who are negative and have a strong self-concept have many habits, 2. They don't work hard to hope for promotion, 3. They are dissatisfied with others, and 4. They are chased by desires.

People with abrasion on the outside of the sole:

1. Kind-hearted, 2. Tendency to impose kindness on others, 3. Indifference to financial relations, 4. Rapid action, but slow by nature.

The person who wears the inside of the sole:

1. The depression in the heart is not divergent, and it is a phenomenon of introverted people; 2. Although the surface is clear, but constantly obsessed with small things; 3. People who often overthink the other party and incur losses.

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