"It doesn't matter if there are boys living on the same floor or not, it doesn't affect too much, even if the whole building is for girls, the doors are closed all year round, and I'm sure the same is true for the boys' dormitories upstairs. Beigong Yuheng paced, "From dress, personal belongings to details of life, and relationships with others...... A lot of things are regarded as ** by everyone, and they can't be taken out for everyone to see. So people want to have their own private space, so there are indoor doors, and there are things like screens. The dormitory doors of the college are not facing the main corridor, but open in pairs, such a strange layout is also to protect the students' ** to the greatest extent. Beigong Yuheng is indeed reasonable, and he can't find a more reasonable explanation for the reason why the bedroom door is designed like this.

"But why did you open a window on the side of the wall that should have been opened?

Everyone shook their heads together, Beigong must be an excellent teacher in the future, often asking questions at critical moments, and attracting everyone's interest in a way that hangs their appetite.

"That's because people are social animals after all, it is difficult to survive alone from the collective, we have the same psychological needs to communicate with people, communication, and many people especially want to know other people's ** while protecting themselves, commonly known as gossip, no girl is not gossip at all, everyone more or less wants to know about other people's things, especially private things. For example, as members of the Daydream Club, many of you have asked us about their scandals about the wind, right?"

"Yesterday, someone asked me if Meng Lin and Xiaoxue were fighting openly and secretly in the bedroom every day. Kaori responded positively.

"I've been asked similar questions......"

As Beigong Yuheng expected, everyone was asked about Yufeng's gossip.

"Uh...... And then?" Yu Feng felt a little embarrassed, and it was not something to brag about being rumored all the time.

"Therefore, it is important to see the importance of doors and windows, which can not only meet the requirements of protecting yourself, but also do it from time to time to snoop on other people's secrets, killing two birds with one stone. When the door opens, it means welcome, and when the door closes, it means rejection, how simple. ”

"If you say that, I'm sure I'm not a gossip. Duanmu Ying interjected, "I never cared about these things. ”

"That's wrong, it's not that you don't gossip, everyone who is curious gossips, but what you are curious about is not the love between men and women that ordinary girls are interested in, but in the practice of martial arts, do you say that you don't ask about other people's martial arts moves?

"It does ......"

"Beigong, you are so amazing! How do you know so much?" Not only Yumi, but many people have become "fans" of Beigong Yuheng at this time.

"Since I was 11 years old, in the sixth grade of primary school, I have been studying psychology and have read almost every book I can buy in the world. She said very proudly, "Among the freshmen, except for the girl in Class A who naturally knows how to read minds, no one understands people's psychology better than me. ”

"Are you talking about me?" A faint voice came, startling everyone, and carefully identified it as Dongfang Lanxin from Class A.

"Have you been listening? The sudden interjection scared people to death. ”

"I happened to be passing by, and I was attracted by this classmate's talk. ”

"Can you tell me how you read people's minds, isn't that interesting?"

"I don't know what the principle is, but I always read out the inner thoughts of others without warning, and it causes me a lot of distress. Dongfang Lanxin sighed, facing me is equivalent to tearing down the so-called walls and doors, I can know anything about it, isn't it very unsafe? Even so, people will still keep a considerable distance from me, and it is even more difficult for anyone to be friends with me. ”

"I can understand the feeling. Xiaoxue finally said something.

"Me too, because of the psychology from elementary school, the classmates around me like to ask me all kinds of questions, I became a psychological counselor in the school, at first I felt very good, very fulfilled, and then the disadvantages slowly appeared, everyone wanted to know what others think, and at the same time was afraid of being seen by me, so I have been wary of me. When I gradually discovered this, I stopped helping people analyze their psychology, hoping to be a normal girl again, but I didn't expect my friends to alienate me one by one, and then I realized that my value was limited to this, and since then I have become silent, until now. "It turns out that Beigong Yuheng is a very talkative person, and Dongfang Lanxin's experience is generally the same.

It is good for a person to have a special talent in a certain area, but if this talent is too prominent, the people around him will attach a fixed label to him, and his understanding will gradually become singular and one-sided, so that one day he will lose his value when he loses his talent in this area.

In the Analects, Confucius once said that "a gentleman is not a tool", which is to remind students not to only focus on one aspect of their expertise and ignore others, so that they will eventually become like "utensils", which can only play a unilateral role and are not fully understood.

"What she said about the door just now, I have also studied it myself, I think the door is an external symbol of the heart door, the thicker the door and more layers indicate that the owner's sense of insecurity is stronger, the door simply means that the owner feels relatively safe, the door is open all year round means that the owner is the most open, there is no secret, so we describe the peaceful and prosperous times when they say that the night is not closed. ”

"The door symbolizes the door of the heart, the door of the heart is closed when the door is closed, and the door of the heart is always open when the door is open......" Yufeng carefully savored this sentence.

"It's just a personal opinion. ”

"Wouldn't it be fun to chat like this when we left the door open in the future?" Yumi suggested.

"For the sake of your love career, as a sister, I have to make sacrifices. ”

"Yes, we'll take care of Yufeng and won't let him peek at you. I don't want Meng Lin to agree very happily.

"I'm also welcome. ”

"What are you thinking?" Meng Lin found Yu Feng standing at the corridor window, stunned.

"I was thinking, it's a nice thing to have a power outage, and as we just said, people are building walls, closing doors, installing windows, opening doors to get to know people. However, the darkness changed all this, the sudden darkness connected the whole world, the walls, doors, and windows became useless at this time, and we did not have to worry about our own ** being discovered, nor could we spy on others. But at the same time, the darkness plunges us into a larger, more primitive sense of insecurity, and it is not clear what is happening around us, and there will be sudden danger? So people push open doors and windows, start looking for companions, and begin to give the task of protecting themselves to those around them, and the people around them to those around them, until they are tightly bound together. In the darkness we are more willing to believe in others, in the light we are more willing to believe in ourselves, and with the electric light, we can always be in the light, and we forget to believe in others, get close to others, and more often be wary of others, so the occasional power outage is also a good opportunity for us to close the distance between each other and experience another state of life. ”

"Hero, have you been promoted to philosopher?"

"Due to the darkness and danger, the ancestors of human beings have been closely united in all corners of the world to create a brilliant civilization, but for us, living in the light since childhood, the need and dependence on others are much smaller, and the importance of ** is getting higher and higher......"

In the corridor, the students in the other dormitories were also chatting enthusiastically, and all kinds of words mixed with laughter echoed in the floor, and this kind of scene had never happened during the day.

This is like the Yin and Yang theory of the Chinese people, everything in the world is divided into two most basic forms and states of Yin and Yang: during the day, Yang is vigorous, people believe that they are wary of others, more aggressive, and show a strong side; when the night comes, Yin Qi is strong, people feel tired and sleepy, and they will trust others more, need to be protected by others, and show a weak side.

However, the appearance of the lamp has broken this balance to some extent, it allows people in the dark to rely on themselves to ensure safety, losing their dependence and trust on others, and the emergence of more electrical and electronic equipment allows people to play well by themselves, no longer need others so much, and the world has more strife and hostility.

Breaking all the lights doesn't seem to be a good way either, people are used to this kind of life, and it's impossible to go back to the past when Ru Mao drank blood, so it's better to have power outages every once in a while, and tell yourself that we actually need partners and need others......

Before you know it, as one person begins to yawn, everyone feels sleepiness hit, and the bedroom door closes gently one by one, leaving only sporadic conversation in the corridor.

Meng Lin and Xiao Xue were particularly interested today, and whispered under the bed for a long time, but Yu Feng had already gone too far.