"Jump"

This book not only writes about the plight of contemporary girls, but also inspires us to have the courage to start over at any time and reject the rotten and bad life.

This book tells the story of five girls, whose names are listed in the book. Every girl has their own different dilemma, and it is very realistic, so here is a brief introduction to them.

Paula: Like most ordinary girls, she has lived a step-by-step life since she was a child, and then got married and had children, but she just has no ego, she is a daughter, a wife and a mother, but not herself.

Utit: Too rational, too much attention to detail. I have been in love many times, but each one ended without a problem. Sometimes she knows exactly what she wants, but she always gets lost in the search.

Brida: A female writer, it seems that she has a good family, a loving husband and lovely children, and her husband is still her inspiration, but long-term breastfeeding has made her Nana an empty bag, and staying up late makes her tired, but after the divorce, she thinks about her ex-husband who gave her creative inspiration, but the old time has long been gone.

Marika: Her problem lies in her family of origin, her family seems to love her sister a little more, and she has witnessed her mother's cheating, which makes her grow up with low self-esteem, sensitivity and vulnerability, and does not believe in marriage. had a relationship, but the man cheated, and she couldn't face it.

Jorind: She is Marika's younger sister, selfish and depraved, married a boy she didn't like, cheated and got pregnant in marriage, gave birth to a child and gave it to her sister to raise, and lived with her sister after the divorce. It's no wonder Marika has a mental problem, and I think a big part of it is because of her sister Jorind.

The predicament of the five of them corresponds to the predicament of the majority of girls, who have no ego, are affected by their original families, wavering in their choices, have low self-esteem and sensitivity, become self-depraved, extremely selfish and willful, and other reasons.

In this way, it seems that they all feel that they all have a decadent life, but in fact, they all bravely walked out and chose to start over. Life is a difficult walk on the tightrope, and there is no need to be afraid in the trough period, as long as you grit your teeth and jump forward, you can jump out of the quagmire and regain your life.

So this book is in a certain way, it is still quite inspiring, after reading this book, I feel that girls can not lose the ability to heal themselves at any time, they must learn to stop losses in time, do not abandon their conscience on the way to make a living, and do not give up their dignity on the road to love.

Most people don't start excelling until they're in their thirties. Education, ability, wealth and status are all foreshadowing, and for you, what is more important is vision and pattern. I once saw a sentence and thought it was very good: what you love and what you follow, you are what you are.

When you are still in your twenties, don't spend too much energy and time hesitating and dwelling on what is the best choice, because no one knows. This is your own life, you can only experience it by yourself, and be the master.

Since you have an idea, you should be bold to try, feel more different life, try more interesting jobs, read more, have time to go out and see more, talk about two more loves, make some friends with different personalities, and wait until you have paid all the tuition fees you should pay, after the age of thirty, you can live the life you want calmly.

So, don't be too anxious, being young means anything is possible. Even if you really reach the age of 30 and still can't achieve anything, then don't be afraid, because at that time you are already different from you at the age of 20, if you really want to do something, experience, efficiency, ability, methods, ways, determination and resources, etc., all of this will help you.

Never think it's too late, at this moment, it's the best age for you to struggle.

Reading this book, Adele's songs are looping on the record player, and if you've watched her interviews, you might also fall in love with her sober and transparent soul.

In the journey of frustration and reinvigoration, there is a word of encouragement for you: if you don't feel your grief deeply, you miss everything. I hope you can find yourself, recognize yourself, and learn to love yourself. If you don't feel safe, make yourself a house that you can't destroy in the face of a storm.