1. Emotional crisis
"Since Yuzhan likes to appreciate virtue, it's better for them to be together, although that boy didn't do anything wrong, he did miss a lot, and many times he missed it and missed it, and he couldn't find it back. Listening to Meng Lin's tone, it seemed that there was once a sincere love in front of her, but she couldn't cherish the feeling.
"Agreed, twisted melons are not sweet. ”
Yu Feng noticed the change in Meng Lin, and he was a little lost, could he be the replacement for her after missing the best emotion?
Meng Lin quietly poked Xinyan and asked her to see Yu Feng's expression.
"Are you still listening to us?" Xinyan said three times in a row before bringing Yufeng back to reality.
"Oh, listening, I was a little distracted just now......" In order to hide his embarrassment, Yufeng looked out the window.
"See, right? This is the boy's reaction, your master Yufeng knocked over the five-flavor bottle in his heart, and drank a large bottle of old vinegar. ”
"What...... What do you say about old vinegar ......"
"Cut, it's still hard-mouthed, did you start thinking because I said I missed it and couldn't get it back?
"No ......"
"You unconscionable. Meng Lin grabbed Yu Feng's ear, "The first time this girl liked someone else, the first time she fell in love was now, and she still doubted me, I didn't write love letters to my classmates like you." ”
"I was wrong...... Wrong...... It hurts ......."
Xiaoxue burst out laughing and explained to Xinyan: "This is Meng Lin giving you a demonstration, she just said a vague word, Yufeng began to think wildly, and she will be unhappy, she wants to tell you that it is absolutely impossible to make Yuzhan like Yufeng." ”
"I think too, it is impossible for a woman and two husbands to be accepted by the world. ”
But now Yuzhan can't get through this in his heart, and at the same time he doesn't know what Jiande will think and do. ”
"This is the most troublesome, if Jiande has a conflict with Luqiu for this, it will be troublesome. Meng Lin said seriously, and her hand was not taken away from the wind's ears, "If a Scorpio boy like him who is so devoted to him and asks girls to die for him, he will definitely fight." ”
"Oops...... Aren't you a Scorpio yourself?"
"That's why I want to teach you a good lesson. ”
Xinyan doesn't know what zodiac signs are, and she doesn't understand what these two people are doing.
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"Okay, let's get down to business, do you know that many emotional breakdowns are not caused by rival lovers, but by their own misbehavior?" After Yu Feng said a lot of good things, Meng Lin finally returned to her bed and continued the topic just now.
"What kind of strange statement is this......" Yufeng was still rubbing his ears.
"For example, if there is another person who openly pursues your girlfriend, but any guy is going to be angry, right? Then he may do some impulsive behavior, such as threatening the other person, insulting the other person, or even resorting to extreme behaviors such as duels, right?"
"Well, wasn't the duel between the two boys just for the sake of Yu Zhan before? In other words, Yu Zhan's divine power is too powerful, and he can make the boys fascinated one by one unconsciously, and it is not like she doesn't marry. ”
"Her affection for Jiande is real. Xin Yan corrected.
"Don't digress, but these guys often only think about their own feelings, and don't notice whether their girlfriend likes this solution, even if they win, what can they do, but the girlfriend ends up leaving you, I've seen a lot of such things. There is a difference between girls' ideas and boys, and this difference is not small, girls of the Chinese nationality are more reserved and introverted, and their sense of security is relatively poor, so they don't want their private affairs to be known by too many people, if their boyfriends abuse each other or fight with their rivals in public, it is very embarrassing in the eyes of girls, if this kind of thing often happens, I'm afraid she won't like any boy. ”
"But in the face of the provocation of the rival, what should the boy do?
"Is it you?" Meng Lin asked him deliberately.
"I'm a sword...... No...... It can't be as if nothing happened anyway. ”
"Actually, it's not necessarily good to ignore it, because it may make the girl feel that you don't care about her. ”
"Dilemma, what is wrong to do?"
"That's where boys' thinking differs from ours, do you think there's only two ways to solve this kind of thing?"
"For the time being, that's all I can think of, either leave it alone or solve the problem immediately, albeit simply and crudely. ”
"But you don't know that there are many other solutions to this kind of problem, boys often choose simple and direct solutions in the face of love rivals, short and quick solutions, while girls, on the contrary, they always want to find a relatively less antagonistic and fierce solution, and even try to find a relatively perfect solution. ”
"In other words, you can be with the person you like without hurting the other party's feelings, and in the end, everyone can get along in harmony?"
"Sounds greedy, doesn't it? But girls are in this mode of thinking, especially Chinese girls, who always want a way to solve emotional problems in a harmonious way. ”
"Flexible solution, such as?" Yufeng still can't think of how to do it.
"I've seen two examples, let's take them......"
One is a senior sister of Menglin High School, who encountered emotional entanglement when she was a sophomore in high school, and her boyfriend and rival had a falling out, so that almost the whole school knew that the senior sister couldn't hold her head up and be a person at school. Her boyfriend didn't allow her to say a word to other boys, and this request made the senior sister feel that she was particularly disrespected, and the other party didn't believe her very much, and the trust between the two gradually broke down and ended in a breakup.
The second is a distant cousin of Meng Lin, she has also encountered similar problems, but her boyfriend is very smart, first of all, he politely made a stand with his rival, saying that he would not spend more energy on his rival. As he said, he didn't trouble his rival once, but focused on how to be good to his cousin, picking her up and going to school, often surprising her, accompanying her more, etc., never doubting her and checking her whereabouts. This rival worked hard for two years, and finally couldn't stand it anymore so he chose to quit voluntarily, and told his cousin that he was convinced and wished them happiness.
This is the result that the girls want, it's good to get together and disperse, why do you have to make chickens and dogs jump, I don't like everyone pointing fingers behind my back, saying what the two boys are doing for her. In those two years, the relationship between my cousin and her boyfriend heated up rapidly, and the two got married as soon as they graduated from college, and now the child is three years old.
"Indeed...... I really didn't think about it, not to focus on confronting the rival in love, but on being friendly to the woman, it is indeed a sentence full of wisdom, destroying the enemy is not the goal, the purpose is to protect the lover. ”
"Very wise young man, I didn't see the wrong person. "Monlin was very happy.
"If I had changed, I wouldn't have paid attention to other boys, especially those who had thoughts about me, and I would consciously not talk to them. Xiaoxue said.
"Boys' favorite is a girlfriend like you, consciously staying away from other members of the opposite sex, but there are too few such girls, most people still want to make more friends, Xinyan, what do you say?"
"I agree with Monlin. ”
"If someone confesses to Xiaoxue and pesters her, do you want Xiaoxue to turn around and walk away after politely refusing, or give him a trick of "Frozen Thousand Miles" to freeze him into a popsicle?"
"It's better to refuse tactfully......"
"I'll only use ordinary magic to knock him out. ”
"Xiaoxue, you're so special......"
"So Meng Lin will keep a certain distance from her suitors and be friends?"
"Of course not, you don't know my sister's situation, there is a dead heart in the snow, and there is an infatuated Yumi in the back, I won't lose a big deal in order to make more friends. ”
"After listening to it for a long time, I still don't know how to persuade Yuzhan ......"
The key is to ask her what she thinks is the most important, whether it is friends or love, sometimes girls also need to make trade-offs, and at the same time, it depends on how Jiande handles this matter. ”
"Actually, I think," Yu Feng thought for a while, "Lu Qiutong may not like the rain as he himself says, at least it is much worse than Jiande." ”
"How so?"
Yu Zhan left Fu Yang at that time, Jiande knew that his strength was not good, but he would chase her and save her without hesitation, but Lu Qiutong and Yu Zhan had been separated for many years, but they had stayed in Xu Guo and never looked for her, obviously thinking that his life was more important. "The wind got to the point.
"Indeed, after so many years, you should not go without looking for the rain. Xinyan pondered for a while, "I understand, thank you." ”
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"I'm hungry......"
"Me too. ”
"Is there any more food for this big night?" Yu Feng said to himself, "I'll go and make a fortune for you, just wait." ”
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Early the next morning
The road is not endless
I can't tell the grievances of the world
It has been fate for generations
Shedding the same blood
Drinking the same water
It's a long and long road
Red flowers, of course, are paired with green leaves
Who will accompany you in this life
Slim back and forth
The old days are resurfacing
Although the lotus root is broken, it is still connected
Sigh that things in the world are changing......
Yumi's singing voice floated from the balcony into the bedroom, like a heavenly sound.
"Have you heard this song?" Yufeng likes this old song "Love the Country and Love the Beauty More".
"Of course, the theme of "Heaven and Dragon Slayer" is its song, which was the first martial arts TV series I came into contact with. Monlin snorted.
"Shall we give Yumi a harmony?" Xiaoxue was also interested.
Love the country and love the beauty more (love beauty)
Which hero would rather be lonely (rather be alone)
Good sons are full of guts (full of guts)
Ambition and pride are famous all over the world
Life is just a few autumns
Don't get drunk and don't give up
My beauty in the east
The Yellow River flows to the west
Come on, have a drink
Don't get drunk and don't give up
Don't worry about your worries
The four of them completed the chorus on the balcony of the dormitory.
"I'm so happy to have everyone's cooperation when singing. Yumi is immersed in happiness.
"Is it true that the biggest pursuit of a boy in his life is to sit on the country and embrace the beauty?" Meng Lin asked Yu Feng.
"Jiangshan doesn't dare to think about it, but beauties can still fight for it. ”
"Hmph, then who asked you to fight for several beauties at the same time?"
"Let's not pull our ears every time?"
"Not good. Meng Lin turned to Yumi and said, "You need to speed up the process of becoming a regular." ”
"Why did you suddenly say this ......" Yumi was very surprised, which showed that Meng Lin and Xiaoxue accepted herself, and she was so excited that she wiped her tears.
"Because we all like you very much. Xiaoxue added.