Chapter 188: Rebuilding the Father-Son Relationship
Su Qianyan saw that his face was full of sadness, and he thought that Qi Lin Yuan only believed in her at the moment, in fact, if he could feel the family affection and let go of his heart, maybe in the future, he would not be too obsessed with her departure.
"Your Majesty, I have a way to help you!" Su Qianyan smiled playfully.
When Qi You heard this, the sadness on his face dissipated, and he asked anxiously, "What way?" ”
"Your Majesty, there is actually a trick to cultivating family affection, I have three methods here, if you can understand the truth, think about it, you will definitely be able to rebuild the father-son relationship with the King of Yunan!"
"What is it, let's hear it, if it has an effect, I will be rewarded!"
Su Qianyan stretched out his hand and said: "This first method, in fact, is very ordinary, for a person whose heart is closed, if you want to pry open his heart, then you have to be special to him!"
"Special?"
"That's right! Exceptional, special preference, special attention! For example, if you reward the king of Xiyang with 100 acres of land, then reward the king of Yunan with 1,000 acres, which is particularly good! ”
"And this preference, that's your attitude has to be shown! For example, if you are traveling together, everyone else is walking, and you want to let the king of the south ride in the carriage with you, this is a preference! Others don't have it, he does! That's preference! As the so-called fearless, pampered and arrogant, only if he knows your 0 preference, he will begin to 'fear' and treat you as his backer!
"Last but not least, you must be the first to know his joys and sorrows! The first time to soothe his emotions, the first time to know his needs! You don't have to ask him to open your mouth, you've got it done for him! This is the special attention, the attention to his heart! ”
Listening to Su Qianyan's endless words, Qi You felt that it made sense!
"Isn't that the same as pursuing a woman?" Qi You asked.
"Isn't that right? Chasing a child is to treat him with a burning heart, you have to let him know! Melted his heart first, and then you had a chance! ”
Qi You nodded, and then asked, "This is your first method, that is, the three special, what about the second method?" ”
Su Qianyan stretched out his second finger and said, "The second method, that is, to move with affection, what does he lack?" He lacks fatherly love and family affection! You have to make him feel the great love of his father! Move him with true feelings! "
"This ...... How should he feel this? Qi You took out his pen seriously, intending to write it down on the scroll.
Su Qianyan thought for a while and said: "He must not have had a perfect childhood like ordinary children when he was young, so you can find some old things and let him relive his good childhood, such as riding horses and archery, playing with Trojan horse swings, and reading him bedtime stories......
"Bedtime stories?"
"Oh...... That is, it is to read a book and make him sleep...... Let him read your good before bedtime! ”
Qi You felt that it was correct, and he wrote down Su Qianyan's words.
"The third method is that you have to treat him as a child, you don't look at him as tall and big, in fact, he has no childhood, childhood is missing, so you treat him as a child to make up for his shortcomings."
"Makes sense, it makes sense! You're a great idea! "Qi You Longyan was very happy, and immediately gave Su Qianyan a lot of rewards!
At night, Qi You came again, this time, he learned the lesson of last night, and combined with Su Qianyan's strategy, he found a lot of things!
There will definitely be progress tonight, and he confidently walked into Qi Lin Yuan's dormitory.
"Yuan'er! Father is here to accompany you! Qi You happily came to the side of the collapse, looked at Qi Lin Yuan, and helped him sit up.
"My father is busy with government affairs, so he doesn't have to come every day."
"Then what's the matter, you're still young, how can you rest assured that your father won't come to see you?" Qi You said with concern.
Small? Qi Lin Yuan frowned, he called it "Still young?" ”
Although he didn't know why, he didn't show any dissatisfaction.
This is the will, the prince handed over a bow.
The bow was very worn, and it was evident that it was used by a young son for play, not for a young man.
"Yuan'er, do you remember? This bow was made for you by your father? Qi You handed the bow to Gu Chengli, "When you were a child, you saw that your eldest brother and second brother were both riding horses and shooting arrows, so you also said that you wanted to learn, but the bow was too big for you to pull, so you pestered your father to make you a bow to take advantage of." ”
"After you got this bow, you shot in front of the target every day, and you hit every shot, which is amazing! Your eldest brother and second brother were not convinced, and said that they would try to compete with you! Qi You recalled the scene back then, his eyes were slightly red, and he was full of emotion.
Gu Chengli looked at the old little bow in his hand, he didn't have these memories in his mind, but through Qi You's description, he also found it very interesting.
Ordinary fathers probably teach their children well.
"And this." Qi You ordered someone to push a small wooden horse, the wood was good wood, but it could also be seen to be dilapidated.
"You also fell off this wooden horse, and your mother blamed me at that time, how did you make such a high wooden horse, and you fell down and screamed!" After Qi You finished speaking, he shook his head and laughed.
Qi You took all the toys that Gu Chengli had played with when he was young and introduced them to him one by one.
Gu Chengli looked at those toys that were not exquisite, all of which he had never gotten in Gu Hou's Mansion.
"My father has a good collection of these." Gu Chengli looked at Qi You, he didn't seem to be a king at the moment, but an old father.
A helpless smile appeared on Qi You's tired face, and he said, "Over the years, I have been blaming myself all the time. Every time I dream back in the middle of the night, I can hear your mother calling me to save her...... I heard you call my father pestering me to take you to ride horses and shoot arrows, saying that you are better than the eldest brother and the second brother! You also said that you want to accompany me to the battlefield to kill the enemy, and you want to see Daddy's most heroic appearance! ”
"When you were a child, you were very naughty, you were my youngest son, you were my heart, and you were only ...... when your mother took you away from the rebels You're only so old......" Qi You said as he gestured, his eyes filled with tears.
"Your mother was a weak woman, and I can't figure out why she had so much courage at that time...... I'm sorry for you, I tried my best to look for you and I couldn't find you, but now you're back! Yuan'er, you should never leave your father again, okay? Qi You burst into tears and hugged Gu Chengli tightly.
Seeing a generation of kings crying like this, Gu Chengli's originally cold heart moved slightly.
His eyes were slightly red, he reached out and hugged Qi You's back, and said, "Father, son, I won't leave." ”
"Good, good!" Qi You rested his head on Gu Chengli's shoulder and nodded again and again.
"It's late at night, you rest first, and my father will watch you rest before leaving." Qi You wiped his tears, patted Gu Chengli's shoulder and stood up, pulling the quilt for him.