Early in the morning, the Civil Affairs Bureau had already come to many couples.

As soon as Wen Jiu and Lu Jing walked into the hall, they saw a large electronic sign hanging in the most conspicuous place, pointing the way for couples who came here: the middle of marriage, the left side of divorce, and the right side of marriage mediation.

The two of them went to the middle, and a large gate to check documents appeared in front of them, and the two of them pointed the device code at the recognizer on the gate, and after checking their identities, a question immediately appeared on the screen next to the gate:

1. Have you really considered entering marriage, assuming marital responsibilities, abiding by the "Marriage Law", defending the moral bottom line of marriage, and jointly managing marriage?

There are two options at the bottom, "Yes" and "No".

Both of them pressed "yes" in unison.

Then a second question pops up on the screen:

2. Are you planning to have children, or are you a Dink family?

A: Planning to have a baby. B: Having conceived a child before marriage. C: Dink.

Both of them hesitated about this question.

Lu Jing didn't have any feelings for children, and even before he met Wen Jiu, he felt that he definitely didn't want children in his life.

Because he was not happy at all, he was afraid that he would not be able to be a father well, and he would be as unhappy as he would be when he came back and had a child.

But later, after he was with Wen Jiu, he knew that the original family could be so warm and happy, and he really wanted to form a family with Wen Jiu with an atmosphere like hers.

But he also has a tangled point, that is, he has previously understood the impact that women have on their bodies and careers when they give birth, and mothers may encounter a variety of dangers during pregnancy.

So whether you have children or not, you must respect your wife's wishes.

Lu Jing hesitated for a long time and looked at Wen Jiu: "Is it raw?" I listen to you. ”

Wen Jiu was also a little entangled.

She thought about when she would have a child, then thought about her career plan, and thought about her plan for raising children......

I was stunned for a few minutes and didn't choose.

Some staff at the scene saw that these two people were entangled, so they took the initiative to come over to help them.

"Are you stuck with the kids?"

Wen Jiu and Lu Jing nodded together.

The staff smiled and said: "Yes, it is rare to see a newcomer like you who thinks seriously about children's problems, and many people choose them casually." ”

Wen Jiu asked sincerely: "You can also get a certificate if you choose at will?" So what is the original purpose of these problems? ”

The staff said, "Of course, it's to protect women and children." Due to their biological characteristics, many women have to sacrifice their careers for the sake of their families, so let them think about all the consequences before getting married. ”

Wen Jiu nodded, this is indeed very humane.

The staff added: "But all we can do is to emphasize and remind in this way, and how to choose is still respectful of the individual." ”

Wen Jiu understood, and asked again: "Then can I get a certificate after I choose this item?" Does it matter what you choose? ”

The staff shook their heads: "If you choose Dink, we will issue a certificate, and the husband and wife will go to the hospital to do contraceptive surgery together." If you choose to have children, or if you already have children, then go for a marriage test and a parenting test. ”

Wen Jiu nodded, no wonder her mother said that the two of them would definitely not be able to receive it today, it turned out that there were so many processes for getting married.

But Wen Jiu still has a question......

I want to ask those who choose Dink, what to do when they regret it when they get older?

If you choose to have a child, what if your concept changes in the future and you don't want to have a child?

She was just about to ask, but in the mediation area next to her, there was a sudden fierce quarrel:

Woman: "I can't adjust it!" Do you know how cheap he is? When I was young, I kept telling me that I chose Dink in order to protect me and prevent me from having children! Now I'm fifty years old and he told me he wanted a baby! How the am I going to give birth to him? If you want to cheat and find a young woman, just say it! ”

M: "People's concepts change, I didn't like children when I was young, can't I like them now?" I didn't force you to give birth, didn't I say divorce? ”

Mediator: "Okay, since the two of them have made up their minds about divorce, then I would like to remind them about the division of property after the divorce: because they chose Dink at the beginning, and both of them had surgery, and now if either party wants to go to the hospital for dissolution surgery, it must be issued by the center." ”

Man: "Yes, yes, you can open it for me." ”

Mediator: "Yes, but the certificate will be on the record." And in the divorce lawsuit, it will be the proof that you will compensate the other party for huge losses and expenses......"

As soon as she said this, the woman burst out laughing: "Leave! Gotta leave! After you leave, you give birth to your child, and I will be my rich woman! ”

The man was momentarily stunned: "I have to think about it again." ”

Woman: "You think about a ...... of ass"

After another quarrel, the two of them fought, and many staff members hurried to fight.

Wen Jiu retracted his gaze and nodded silently.

Got it.

After choosing Dink, you can also repent, but if only one party repents, then the other party has to be compensated.

It's hard to say whether these things can reduce the divorce rate, but they do maintain the fairness of marriage to a certain extent, so as not to let someone be deceived by the sweet words at the beginning.

But in fact, she doesn't want children, it's just that she is still young and wants to develop her career, and she doesn't know when she will have children.

She asked the staff tentatively: "If you choose to have a child, will you stipulate when you will have a child?" ”

The staff shook their heads: "No, respect your personal plan, you just need to pass the parental qualification exam and the marriage examination." ”

Wen Jiu nodded, and looked at Lu Jing again: "We chose to have a child, right?" ”

Lu Jing also nodded, and the tails of his eyes raised slightly: "I listen to you." ”

The two of them chose an A together, and then, guided by the staff, went to another room to take the parenting test.

The two of them sat down in front of the computer, and a sentence was displayed on the screen: "This exam has a full score of 100 points, 95 points to pass, and only by passing the exam can you get the parental qualification certificate, and you can register for the child, otherwise the child will belong to the black household." ”

Wen Jiu clicked to confirm, and "Parent Qualification Examination - Entrance to the Mother Version and Father Version" appeared on the computer.

Wen Jiu clicked into the "Mother Version", and Lu Jing entered the "Father Version".

Thinking that no one said that he couldn't communicate during the exam, Wen Jiu leaned over and took a look: "I'll see what the difference is between the parents' questions." ”

Most of the previous questions are the same, such as:

- Do you accept that your child is very ordinary, or even less accomplished than you are today?

INTERVIEWER Do you support your child's desire to live this life? This includes, but is not limited to, career planning, sexual orientation, hobbies, etc.

– Can you do it without pinning your unfulfilled dreams on your children?

……

Later, the difference between the mother's version and the father's version of the paper began to appear.

In the mother's version, some of the questions are as follows:

INTERVIEWER Did you know that a mother giving birth to a child may bring a lot of irreversible damage to the body? Including but not limited to stretch marks, out-of-shape, bladder drop, and various life-threatening hazards that may accompany childbirth?

- If you are a working mother and you can finally rest after a hard day's work, but your child is crying in the middle of the night, what do you do?

I have to say that this question really hits the heart!

Wen Jiu hasn't been born yet, and now he's starting to be afraid.

The father's version has more problems over there:

INTERVIEWER Do you familiarize yourself with the Maternity Code throughout your pregnancy, and care for your wife's physical and emotional health?

INTERVIEWER Are you able to spend time with your children every day and avoid widowed parenting?

There are also many wives who have conflicts with their family members, and how to stand in line.

This is not difficult, his mother died, and his father was equal to nothing, so naturally he didn't have to think about it, and he was completely on his wife's side.

Finally, there are short-answer questions in the parent version of the exam:

– Why do you want children?

– When do you think the best time to have a baby?

Wait a minute.

After scanning the whole question, Wen Jiu and Lu Jing both began to answer the question.

In fact, if the three views are correct, these questions will not be wrong at all.

So both of them also know that this is to remind them of the responsibility that their parents should pay, and to go through the process, it is not really difficult to get married.

After answering the questions, the two of them handed in the papers and waited quietly for the results.