Chapter 352: Pretending to be a Poor and Rich Second Generation x a Real Vanity Poor Girl (13)
It was late at night, and there was still a light on the Xie family's mansion in the Mid-Levels Villa.
In the study, Xie Bingkun looked at his wife's portrait with some dazedness, silent.
In fact, he wanted to say something, but there was no one to say it, and he didn't want to tell outsiders. The pair of children who should have been closest to him have already separated from him.
When his wife was still there, it was hard to imagine that he would face such an embarrassing scene in the future.
If the conflict between the son and him, the accusations and opinions against him, he can ignore it and make people stick to his own ideas and attitudes, then the daughter ......
His daughter's outburst today was a major blow to him.
He thought he had done everything a parent could do, urging his children to study, to provide the best quality education, food, clothing, shelter and transportation, except for ...... In addition to when they make mistakes willfully, they point out and demand correction.
But isn't that what a parent should do?
Those who spoil children, the children have grown into losers, prodigal second ancestors, and behave in the name of the family outside, I don't know how much I regret it.
The son is not this kind of squirrel, but naΓ―ve, he has to stand up to him in everything, and now it is even more serious, he actually stole the family's household registration book and ran out to marry a woman who didn't know where he came from!
Xie Zhiyan's circle of friends is frank and open, even if he doesn't see it, some people see it and tell him.
Although it was indeed Zong Ze who told him, it was also the concern and worry that a cousin should express. He didn't think there was anything wrong, so he just took Zong Ze with him by the way.
Thinking about how to explain things clearly, I can persuade my son to turn back.
I didn't expect this to become Zong Ze's crime, and what I didn't expect was that as a father, he didn't even have a chance to speak in front of a pair of children!
It's very bald.
If this is Xie Bingkun's usual idea in the past, then tonight, his daughter's outburst forced him to think again and overturn his old opinion.
His daughter has always been his pride, sensible, excellent and beautiful, married and had children at the right age, nothing made him worry about anything, but he was also very sensible and took on a mess of the family, very much with the demeanor of the eldest sister, usually the father and son have any conflicts in the play and persuade each other.
But today's daughter's sudden collapse broke out, which had to make Xie Bingkun think deeply, is it himself...... Really excessive?
In the eyes of outsiders, is he really so harsh or even mean to his children?
The pain and blow shown by his daughter really made him feel very sad, although Zong Ze came to comfort him as usual, for some reason, those words that could work before suddenly took on another meaning in his ears.
Thinking of this, he dialed the phone of a decades-old buddy.
At half past one in the morning, Mr. Zhou had fallen into a comfortable sleep after a busy day, but the phone rang.
He apologized to his wife for being woken up, then got up and walked to the balcony to connect.
"Mr. Xie?"
"Old Zhou, I can only look for you. β
As a friend of his deceased wife and also Xie Bingkun's personal lawyer, Lawyer Zhou is clear about the affairs of the Xie family. After hearing about Xie Bingkun's troubles, the dizziness caused by lack of sleep made him lose some of his previous work principles.
"Am I an incompetent father, you say?"
"Yes. β
Although Xie Bingkun called to listen to the views of outsiders, he wanted outsiders to stand on his side, but he didn't expect Lawyer Zhou to answer cleanly.
"Hearing Lily and Zhiyan's accusations, do you feel very aggrieved?"
"yes. β
"I feel that my old father's hard work has been wrong, and I have cultivated them for so many years, but I don't know how to be grateful, but I turn around and accuse you because of a little childish feeling, and I don't care about your father's face and dignity at all. β
"Yes, yes, yes. β
"What about you, as a father, you only do superficial work and raise them, and of course you do this better than most fathers, because you spend a lot of money to raise them. β
β...... Isn't that enough?" Xie Bingkun froze, not understanding what he meant.
Lao Zhou just laughed and didn't explain.
"Don't laugh, let me die to understand, for now, you are willing to say two words to me, just say it, I promise not to be angry. β
"Okay then," Lao Zhou found a chair to sit down and looked at the dark night sky, "As a father, it is natural to raise children, and after giving birth to them, you have the obligation and responsibility to raise them well, provide them with the conditions you can, participate in any important moment of their growth, understand their feelings, and use all the languages you can do over and over again. behavior, to tell them to tell everyone, in this world, you love them the most, this kind of love does not remember to lose and does not ask for return, does not transfer because they are not good, just because you are their father!"
Lao Zhou's words were loud, making Xie Bingkun break out in a cold sweat.
But that's not all.
"What do you do, at home as in a company? Being a father is like being a leader? Do you know the ideals of your children, do you understand their demands, have you been bullied outside, when are you sad, who do they like, what they hate to eat......
These words were like a loud drum, which made Xie Bingkun dizzy.
"Bingkun, before accusing the children, ask yourself, why are they sad, you take your eldest nephew every day, to the company and even partners, and praise the eldest nephew, mentioning that your son is a thing that can't support the wall with the mud of the rebellious beast...... You taste it yourself, and you taste it again. Especially on the occasion when the eldest nephew and son appear together, your performance is really, too bad. If I didn't know you, I'd think you had a feud with your son, and your eldest nephew might be your illegitimate son, sorry, that's what most people think. β
After Lawyer Zhou's mind was completely clear, his words naturally came back.
"The most important point is that the father should love the child without asking for anything in return, tolerate the child, what is excellent, judge it purely by your standards? How many cooperation cases have you talked about, how much money have you earned? In my opinion, they are all quite excellent children, more than the vast majority of rich second generations. It's just that you are wearing colored glasses, and you can only see one Xie Zongze. But don't be discouraged, they will still love you if they are angry, otherwise they would have coaxed you a long time ago, and they would have ignored you when they got your money, you still have a chance, seize it, otherwise you will really be alone. β
Xie Bingkun was speechless, and finally said a plan before the call.
"You changed my will, and the shares Lily and Zhiyan shared them equally. β