Chapter 114: Jiang Nansun's Growth

Jiang Nansun nodded silently.

She has long been mentally prepared for this.

In fact, she has always supported her mother's divorce before, in her opinion, her mother has suffered a lot of grievances in this family, and she has been stumbling for half her life.

But as He Tian talked to her more and more, her thoughts slowly changed.

Frankly speaking, in this family, although Mrs. Jiang is angry that her mother did not give birth to a son, she only talks verbally, and she has never deducted food and clothing for so many years.

Although my father had conflicts with my mother from time to time since I was obsessed with various investments, and the two hardly said anything later, my father did not scold my mother in any way.

My father and grandmother were kind to my mother, but they didn't do her badly either.

On the contrary, it is her mother, since she grew up, she has often been seen carrying her bag out to play mahjong or go shopping with friends.

Most of her mother's unhappiness she knew was what her mother told her, not what she saw with her own eyes.

So she began to wonder if what she had always thought about her mother's unhappiness was true?

In other words, is the mother's unhappiness really caused by grandma and father?

Mother, isn't she half responsible?

A few days ago, when my aunt called her mother and persuaded her to divorce and get out of the whirlpool of the Jiang family, Jiang Nansun was also listening beside her.

When Jiang Nansun saw the heartwarming look on her mother's face, her guesses fell to the ground.

Husband and wife were originally birds of the same forest, and they flew separately when disaster came.

This sentence is really appropriate.

She came back from school last night and had been thinking about all sorts of things.

In his mind, Zhang Anren's figure and his mother's figure slowly coincided.

Jiang Nansun realized that in fact, his mother and Zhang Anren are very similar, that is, they both know how to protect themselves.

So last night, her resentment and disgust towards Zhang Anren suddenly dissipated all at once.

Even her mother was such a person, how could she criticize an outsider?

“..... Oh my God, you said that if I don't want to do a doctorate, come out and find a job. Jiang Nansun raised his head, looked at He Tianqiang and said with a smile: "Anyway, you know the situation of my family, and there should be no money for studying for a doctorate, and my father, my grandmother, and my mother, they have not worked for many years, and now I don't know what they can do." I'm different, at least I'm young and strong, and I have a good educational background, so I should be able to find a good job. ”

When Jiang Nansun said this, she was standing under a green tree on the side of the road, and the afternoon sun passed through the gaps between the branches and leaves, just falling on her face.

But Jiang Nansun didn't use his hand to cover it, just stubbornly raised his head and tried to open his eyes and look at He Tian.

He Tian looked at Jiang Nansun and sighed, raised his right hand and put it on her head, helping her block the sun: "Nansun, family members want to help each other, but family members don't have to get used to them." You've seen what your grandmother has done to your father. Do you want to continue to get used to your mom and dad? ”

"Your grandmother is too old to work anymore. But your father and mother are only about 50 this year, if they are healthy, they can live for thirty or forty years, do you have to keep supporting your parents for so long? And even if you wanted to, do you think it's really good for them? ”

"Your dad is addicted to investing in stocks, and your mom feels sorry for herself all day long, aren't these all idle?"

At least the unhappiness that Dai Yin kept talking about, He Tian felt that most of them were idle.

She is so idle, that's why she is so dissatisfied.

While enjoying the material pleasures brought to her by the Jiang family, she lamented that she was locked in the cage of the Jiang family.

If this kind of life is a prison sentence, then even many people want to live in it.

If Dai Yin had the courage to file for divorce, or leave the Jiang family and start her own business like her sister Dai Qian, how could she still look up to her.

But she doesn't want to work hard and doesn't want to spend time trying to run the family, so don't pretend to be wronged all day long.

If the Jiang family falls behind, she loses the qualification to participate in the previous mahjong circles again, and can honestly find a job within her ability, she may be able to understand that under the pressure of life, it is really a luxury to ask for so much.

Thinking of this, He Tian looked at Jiang Nansun and said, "I suggest that you let your father and mother go out to find a job and get in touch with the life of ordinary people." Your family has always been very ungrounded, it's time to come down to the ground and take a good walk to see what this world really looks like. ”

"As for yourself, it's up to you whether you want to do a PhD or not. Reading is a kind of learning, work is also a kind of learning, as long as you have the heart, you can always grow up slowly. I just hope that you, remember what you are today, life can smooth your edges and corners, but don't let life blow out that breath in your chest. ”

Jiang Nansun in the play has changed a lot in the past few years of work, and the years have taken away her beauty as well as the beauty in her heart when she was young.

People have become a lot more sophisticated and realistic, although this is a good layer of protection for her, but He Tian still prefers to see that after a few years, the pride in her heart is still there.

Jiang Nansun didn't know if he understood He Tian's words, but he just snorted, and soon frowned and said, "But my father and mother have no work experience, what kind of job can they find?" ”

"It's not a big problem in this regard, if your father is willing to work, I can help him find a job, and ensure that he can work honestly and in peace. As for your mother, it's actually simpler, you don't need me, as long as she wants, your aunt can help her find a job, at least a job as a clerk in the office. ”

In He Tian's heart, it is impossible for a person like Dai Yin to work honestly.

She, like Jiang's father, has been raised in the Jiang family for so many years and has been raised as a waste.

In the TV series, after Jiang's father died, she left her daughter and Mrs. Jiang in the magic capital, and followed Daisy to Italy.

In Italy, he also borrowed to live at his sister's house, and soon "met" her prince, a Chinese working in Italy, and the two were together.

Isn't this just that after the Jiang family's meal ticket expired, they found a new meal ticket?

Although it may be that Dai Yin has feelings for this new meal ticket, she has always been accustomed to relying on others, the Jiang family, her sister, and the new man, and she has lost the courage and ability to be self-reliant before.

A so-called person who abandoned the first half of her life and started a new life is nothing more than changing her place where no one knows her and continuing to rely on others to live.

As for Father Jiang, if he can survive, then he really has to help deal with it.

If he is left alone, with his character, the probability of continuing to cause trouble to Jiang Nansun is still very high.

For the transformation of Jiang's father, He Tian is still very willing to participate.

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