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Seeing that Pan Xiaowei not only came to the crew early today, but also kept looking at the door, Hu Man, who also knew that Dong Ni would come to film today, sighed secretly, and then said to Pan Xiaowei bitterly:

"Why is it that the better you treat a woman, the less she takes you to heart?"

"The Beb effect in psychology says that when you experience a strong stimulus, the stimulus applied again becomes insignificant, so ah, when you are too good to her and always put her first, she will take your goodness for granted, will not be grateful, will only think you are boring, there is a saying, your long-term companionship may not be as good as the sudden warmth of others."

"The more afraid you are of losing someone, the easier it is for you to lose her, this is Murphy's Law, the more afraid of things, the easier it is to happen, so what, even if you are obedient to her, she may still leave you, because you are too afraid of losing her, you have already put yourself in a low position in your feelings, even if she is not a goddess, but you hold her too high and let her self-confidence go too far, she will think that she deserves better, how can she look down on you?"

"Obviously she doesn't love you, and it's not good for you, why are you just reluctant to let go, because the sunk cost effect is at work, the more you pay, the more difficult it is to let go, because you feel unwilling in your heart, and you can't bear your own costs, but you think about it in turn, if you want the other party to love you more, you should restrain your own pay, to guide the other party to pay, whether it is time or energy, she has input, she will know how to cherish."

"If you want a woman to cherish you can't do without you, you can also borrow the psychological Zeignick memory effect, which tells us that the more you can't get something, the more precious it is, the easier it is to get it, the less cherished things in the world are easy to get and never lose, love is like a game, greed is into the game, and widowhood is in control."

Combined with how well he and Dong Ni get along, Pan Xiaowei feels that Hu Man is right, and it is definitely a wise saying.

But when Xu Kai and Dong Ni appeared, Pan Xiaowei instantly left behind Hu Man's advice to him, and walked over to Dong Ni as soon as possible.

Seeing that Pan Xiaowei was still so obsessed with Dong Ni, Hu Man shook his head in disappointment: "I will never be able to wake up a person I don't want to wake up." ”

At this time, a few days ago, Hu Man met a little rich second generation in a bar by chance with a large bouquet of roses to visit Hu Man's class.

Seeing Pan Xiaowei sticking to Dong Ni's side with a smile on his face, Hu Man sighed, then smiled and took the flowers sent by the second generation of Xiaofu and chatted with him.

On the other side, Pan Xiaowei said to Dong Ni with a smile: "Shishi, you are finally back, if you don't come back, I will go back to school to find you." ”

What Dong Ni is most afraid of now is that Xu Kai misunderstands that she has broken ties with Pan Xiaowei, after all, she and Pan Xiaowei were childhood sweethearts before.

Therefore, seeing that Pan Xiaowei posted it and said that it was so easy for Xu Kai to misunderstand, Dong Ni immediately said to Pan Xiaowei with a cold face: "What are you looking for me, haven't I already made it clear to you." ”

Dong Ni has really made it clear to Pan Xiaowei.

But Pan Xiaowei still calls Dong Ni every day.

If the phone can't get through, Pan Xiaowei will send a message to Dong Ni, and bombard them one after another.

was so annoyed that Dong Ni finally blocked Pan Xiaowei.

Who would have thought that Dong Ni would have rejected Pan Xiaowei so clearly, but Pan Xiaowei was still reluctant to Dong Ni.

Pan Xiaowei didn't seem to understand that Dong Ni was drawing a line with him, he grinned his teeth and smiled: "You are so beautiful today, in fact, you should have dressed yourself like this a long time ago." ”

I have to say that Pan Xiaowei is still very sensitive to Dong Ni's changes.

Of course, this is also because Dong Ni has changed too much in the past few days.

First of all, because she accepted the clothes that Xu Kai bought for her, Dong Ni's dress suddenly rose a big step.

Secondly, before coming out today, Xu Kai personally put on Dong Ni's makeup, which made Dong Ni's makeup rise to a big level.

The key is that because of Xu Kai's moisturization, Dong Ni, who used to be young, has now begun to exude the smell of a mature woman.

With such a synthesis, Dong Ni is of course radiant.

Xu Kai felt that Pan Xiaowei couldn't be allowed to be so obsessed with Dong Ni anymore.

This is not a good thing for Dong Ni, Pan Xiaowei, or even for herself.

Therefore, Xu Kai said to Pan Xiaowei: "Wei Shao, I have something to tell you, there are many people, otherwise, let's go over there and talk about it?" ”

As soon as Dong Ni heard this, she knew that Xu Kai was going to help her have a showdown with Pan Xiaowei.

In this regard, Dong Ni secretly breathed a sigh of relief.

Again, Dong Ni doesn't love Pan Xiaowei, but she doesn't want to hurt Pan Xiaowei, who has liked her for so many years, and she is even more unwilling to face the collapse of Pan Xiaowei in person.

In this way, Xu Kai went to have a showdown with Pan Xiaowei, which was the best result for Dong Ni.

But what Xu Kai and Dong Ni didn't expect was that Pan Xiaowei also said: "I also have something to tell Brother Yu." ”

“？”

Xu Kai was stunned for a moment, and then smiled faintly: "Then you can talk about it first." ”

"I'm making my own movie, do you want Uncle Xu to help me find a group performer?"

In the face of Pan Xiaowei's deliberate flattery, Xu Kai was really helpless: "It's late, brother, my brother has finished greening you, and there is no point in you doing this now." ”

"Brother Yu, don't worry, the price I give Uncle Xu must be the highest in Hengdian, and it will be ...... every day."

"I appreciate your kindness, but my dad has been too busy lately to take over your play."

As soon as Xu Kai's words came out, Pan Xiaowei's heart sank.

There will be a lot of dramas if there is no group leader, after all, there will never be a shortage of group performances in Hengdian, so as long as you can receive the play, as long as you can receive money, the group leader will call casually, and then arrange it casually, and you can sit and wait for the money to be collected.

But Pan Xiaowei made it clear that he was sending money to Xu Kai's family, and Xu Kai didn't want it.

Thinking about it again, Xu Kai and Dong Ni disappeared together, appeared again, and now they are still standing together so intimately.

Pan Xiaowei, who is not a stupid person, how can he not feel it, it may be that Xu Kai has greened him, and now he is ready to have a showdown with him?

Pan Xiaowei didn't know that the relationship between himself and Dong Ni may be irretrievable.

But Pan Xiaowei is stubbornly unwilling to accept this fact.

Pan Xiaowei looked at his watch in a panic, and then said exaggeratedly: "Oh, I just remembered, I'm still in a hurry......"

Speaking of which, Pan Xiaowei suddenly saw a person who surprised him very much - Dong Ye!

Pan Xiaowei once went to meet Dong Ye with Dong Ni.

Pan Xiaowei was very impressed by the beautiful and sexy and extremely eccentric Dong Ye, so he was sure that the person who walked over from a distance was Dong Ni's sister Dong Ye.

"Why is she here?"

Pan Xiaowei didn't wonder for too long.

Soon, Dong also walked to Xu Kai's side, and then naturally hugged Xu Kai's arm, and said to Xu Kai sweetly: "Husband, Haitang called you back for breakfast." ”

"Husband?"

"Yu Qingyun is Dong Ye's husband?"

reacted, and Pan Xiaowei's eyes suddenly radiated excitement: "It turned out that I misunderstood, Yu Qingyun is not Xiao Ni's lover, but Xiao Ni's brother-in-law!" ”

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