Chapter 209 is only understood after experiencing it

"Your father-in-law wants to be a matchmaker?" , The corners of Lin Dafu's mouth twitched and asked, the profession of matchmaker, who has to do it, for example, Yan Bugui, he can't do it.

The matchmaker opened his mouth and said thousands of mountains and thousands of waters!

Some matchmakers are still a little disciplined when they take the benefits, but Yan Bugui is different, that guy, the benefits are the point, and if you get the benefits, it is like a flower, if there is no benefit, it is not enough to say that it is cow dung.

Stupid guy, didn't he understand Yan Bugui's strength in this area at the beginning!

"Uncle Lin, I don't know what he thinks." , Yu Li was a little helpless, and smiled bitterly, Lin Jiaguo saw her helplessness, and said, "The key is what your sister thinks?"

When everyone heard this, they immediately nodded their heads, as if this was really the case.

At Yu Haitang's age, she has not yet reached the point where her family is forced to marry, and there is room for change, her attitude is the most important thing.

"She?" , Yu Li showed a headache, and said with a toothache: "I don't know how she can be so focused on free love, you said that she wants to fall in love freely, and she has to find a reliable person."

"A person like Xu Damao, who is married three times, is really in line with free love?"

Several people were speechless, not knowing what to say, Lin Jiaguo took a puff of cigarette, shook his head and smiled slightly.

This kind of thing is not clear, some people like to find an honest and down-to-earth life, and some feel that they must experience a sensational love.

The charm of the uncle is sometimes really attractive, especially the kind of thinking that is biased towards openness.

Some invisible rules, even preaching, are regarded by her as a constraint on her own freedom, and the more you restrict her, the more she will arouse her rebellion and rebellion. wap.. com

On the contrary, Xu Damao is not short of a mouth that can speak well.

One wants to jump out of the circle she thinks is a bondage, and the other opens his arms and uses a mouth to keep tempting.

When encountering this kind of thing, Lin Jiaguo didn't dare to make up his mind, Yu Haitang's girl, it's not easy to mess with, if something goes wrong in the future, she will have to be blamed.

Yu Li didn't want to get an idea here, she just felt depressed in her heart, so she just came to talk about it.

On the other side, Yan Jiecheng also looked at his father Yan Bugui speechlessly, and couldn't help but say: "Dad, this kind of thing can't be said nonsense, if Yu Haitang really has a bad time because of this matter in the future, not only will you complain, but even me and Yu Li will not be able to please you."

"I didn't say anything." , Yan Bugui was still a little weak-hearted, and stiffened his neck and said: "This Xu Damao has become the third master in the courtyard, isn't he already on the right path, do you think everyone is chosen randomly?"

In the face of this kind of strong words, Yan Xie became full of black lines, how did Xu Damao choose the three masters, didn't everyone force the count?

In the final analysis, Xu Damao's ability to be the third master has nothing to do with the changes in his down-to-earth life, at this time, his father just used this reason to prevaricate himself, speechless.

"Dad, some benefits are not good." , Yan Jiecheng gave a warning sound, glanced at his father deeply, and said with a warning in his tone: "Can Xu Damao's merry temperament be changed?"

"When Lou Xiao'e divorced, Huang Fang appeared, and when Qin Lian divorced, Jia Hong appeared."

"Dad, if you mislead people for some benefits, some people will make trouble with you in the future, and even Yu Li will, do you understand?"

The words of warning one after another made Yan Bugui's eyes dodge a little, but when he thought about the thirty yuan promised by Xu Damao, he suppressed the weakness of his heart again.

Thirty yuan, other matchmakers don't know how many pairs to introduce to get this money, but he, as long as he does one vote, he can get it.

"I know it in my heart, you don't have to say more." , Yan Bugui waved his hand and asked Yan Jiecheng to get out, Yan Jiecheng took a look, yes, this saliva is going to be dry, and it has no effect at all.

Walking out of the house, Yan Jiecheng felt that he needed to go to his father-in-law's house with Yu Li, some words must be made clear in advance, as for whether it was a cheating father, Yan Jiecheng didn't care about it, it was better than being complained about in the future.

After making a decision in his heart, he came to the Lin family's house and called Yu Li, preparing to go to his father-in-law's house tonight.

As soon as Yu Li heard what Yan Jiecheng meant, she agreed, she couldn't persuade Yu Haitang, the rest was only to do her best, if it still didn't work out, she would be able to feel at ease in the future.

After the two left, Tong Li got up and closed the door, and said a little speechlessly: "Now the little girl, how can she open and close her mouth one by one is free to love, it is incomprehensible."

Lin Jiaguo shook his head and laughed when he heard this, the emancipation of the mind is impacting this inherent concept, especially at this stage of the fourteenth and twenty-fifth age stage, men and women living in the city are even different.

The emancipation of the mind has made them see something different, and in their eyes, the inherent concept is like a fence-like bondage, and they are desperate to get out of the wall, but they ignore something.

In the inherent concept, there is not only the dregs of feudal thought, but also the essence refined by people who have experienced it from generation to generation.

And these essences are all in the storm of their thoughts, and they are temporarily and selectively forgotten.

Only after experiencing it, learning to turn around, and learning to bow your head, will you find that some things really make sense.

Among them, there is no one who is right or wrong, and there is no one who is good or bad, and the process of growing up is not only understood after experiencing it?

Is there anything wrong with free love? No, because both men and women want to find someone who is suitable for each other.

Is there anything wrong with a half-marriage to a certain extent? No, there is nothing wrong with that, because most parents use their experience to choose a relatively easy path for their children.

There are thousands of roads, and it is people who get out of the fireworks.

"Aunt Tong, there's nothing strange about this, women choose husbands, men choose wives, they are just looking for the right person for themselves." , Li Xiuzhi laughed out loud and continued: "Isn't there a sentence that says, whether the shoes fit or not, only you know."

Hearing this, Tong Li sat down and shook her head and smiled, for her, the conflict between the emancipation of the mind and the inherent concept is just a choice.

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Under the temptation of money, Yan Bugui worked seriously, but the result was not so satisfactory, because of several persuasions, he was blocked back by Yu Li.

On this day, Yu Haitang came to the courtyard with her things, and after visiting her sister Yu Li, she was ready to go to the backyard to see Xu Damao.

"Don't be so crazy, can you?" , Yu Li darkened her face and said, "There is an introduction to the blind date, you will come to the door?"

"Shall I go to a friend's house?" , Yu Haitang spread her hands and said what she was thinking, during this time, she was really annoyed, the family persuaded him to find a young unmarried, she also hesitated, but she felt that Xu Damao understood her.

"Okay, you can go if you want, I don't care about you." , Yu Li was also angry, she did everything she had to do, she just had a clear conscience.

Yu Haitang also snorted, raised his feet and left, and went to the backyard.

In the backyard, in the house, Xu Damao saw Yu Haitang coming, he was overjoyed, and beckoned her to come in and sit.

"Xu Damao, how about going to the movies today?" , Yu Haitang spoke, Xu Damao immediately nodded, and said with a smile: "If you want to go, I will accompany you, and after watching the movie, I will accompany you to the department store."

Saying that, Xu Damao got closer to Yu Haitang and said with a smile: "During this time, I will accompany you, and I will accompany you as much as you want."

"That's what you said!" , Yu Haitang smiled, working as a broadcaster in the rolling mill, she had no less suitors, but when she was with Xu Damao, she felt that there were a lot more topics, which made her feel comfortable.

After a while, Xu Damao walked out of the house with Yu Haitang and came to the middle courtyard, where he saw He Yushui having a snowball fight with Lin Xiaoya and a few girls, and Yu Haitang greeted with a smile.

The two said a few words, Yu Haitang left with Xu Damao, He Yushui looked at the backs of the two and didn't say anything, this is everyone's choice, what should be said has been said, there is no need to stop it.

"This is a big cow." , Silly Zhu walked out and sighed, in terms of pickling girls, he admired Xu Damao.

"Brother, do you want to learn?" , He Yushui teased, and Silly Zhu immediately shook his head and said, "Don't, your brother and I don't have that blessing."

He Yushui chuckled, called Liu Siyuan and a few little girls, and prepared to go to the supply and marketing cooperatives to buy snacks.

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"Rainwater, buy me something." , Qin Lian came out and said what she wanted to buy, and after He Yushui remembered it clearly, she walked out of the yard with a few little girls.

"I'm going to sit on Jingru in a while, do you want to go?" , Qin Lian asked, Silly Zhu shook his head, and said, "I'm not going, the road is slippery, be careful when you walk over."

"yes, I see." After Qin Lian nodded, she went back to the house to get some things, and walked out of the middle courtyard.

As soon as Silly Zhu was about to return to the house, he was stopped by Yi Zhonghai, an uncle.

"Uncle Yi, do you have something?" , Silly Zhu asked, and beckoned Uncle Yi Zhonghai to go back to the house and sit, standing outside, the weather was too cold.

In the room, the two sat down, and after chatting a few words, Yi Zhonghai, the first uncle, said: "Silly Zhu, why don't you eat together for this year's Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, the matter between you and Qin Huairu is in the past, who is right and who is wrong, there is no need to mention it now."

"Look at how cold-faced you get along now, especially Qin Lian and Qin Huairu, it's not very nice to say, isn't it."

Hearing this, Silly Zhu frowned, and said, "Uncle Yi, I don't want to eat the reunion dinner, forget it, I already have a plan here."

Resolutely refused, there was no room for turnaround, Yi Zhonghai was a little disappointed, and then smiled and stopped mentioning it.

I wanted to test the stupid pillar, but this reaction is obviously difficult to ease the relationship.

After chatting for a while, Yi Zhonghai left, and after the stupid pillar closed the door, he shook his head, not to mention that he didn't nod, even Qin Lian wouldn't nod.

After the first uncle Yi Zhonghai returned to the house, Qin Huairu, who was sitting in the house, looked at the face of the first uncle Yi Zhonghai and knew that it had not been done.

"Isn't this a hot face sticking to someone's cold ass, what do you think!" , Jia Zhang expressed his dissatisfaction, Qin Huairu looked at her and sighed in her heart.

That's right, in fact, she is the one who really wants to ease the relationship, and Yi Zhonghai, the first uncle, is just passing the word.

The reason why he wanted to use this incident to ease the relationship was that Qin Huairu understood that it would be good if he could make Silly Zhu and Qin Lian reduce some of their hostility.

It's a pity that Silly Zhu didn't give this opportunity, which is also where Qin Huairu was disappointed.

"Mother-in-law, it's good to have a better relationship with this neighborhood, and they all say that distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors!" , Qin Huairu gave an explanation, and there was also a little bit of the meaning of this mother-in-law, and Jia Zhang, who had been quiet for a while, had some old ways to sprout.

"You want to have a good relationship, but people ignore you." , Jia Zhangshi snorted, looked at the two of them, and said, "I can't learn how to stick a hot face to a cold ass, don't pull me in this matter."

A stable life, coupled with a little increase in savings, gave Jia Zhang's confidence, besides, there is no benefit, why should she please others.

Qin Huairu didn't want to reason with this mother-in-law, so after thanking Yi Zhonghai, the first uncle, she got up and left.

Walking out of the house, Qin Huairu just wanted to go back to the house, and when she thought of something, she turned around and left the middle courtyard again, and after coming to the front yard, she walked out of the courtyard.

In the evening, carrying some things bought, after Yu Haitang said goodbye to Xu Damao, he came to Yu Li's house with his things.

Yu Li looked at the things that Yu Haitang mentioned, her mind was inexplicable, Yu Haitang looked at her, and said with a smug smile: "This is what Xu Damao bought for me, sister, do you think this is a good man?"

Yu Haitang wanted to prove something in this way, Yu Li smiled bitterly, this girl cares about the present, and she and her family are worried about the future.

"I don't know, just think it through yourself." , Yu Li doesn't want to say more, I'm tired!

Feeling that she had won, Yu Haitang smiled proudly, she wanted to let everyone who opposed her see that she Yu Haitang was not blind.

"Where's my brother-in-law?" , Yu Haitang didn't see Yan Jiecheng, and asked, Yu Li got closer to the stove and said, "Drink at Nanyi's house."

When the two sisters were talking, in the backyard, after Xu Damao returned to the house, he was in a good mood, and some of Yu Haitang's statements today have made him see the dawn.

What he cares about is whether Yu Haitang nods, as for Yu Li and the others, Xu Damao doesn't care at all, if he can get along, then get along harmoniously, if he can't get along, it's better to be a stranger.

"It seems that Yu Li must be given a little sweetness." , Xu Damao muttered, he really wanted to get Yu Haitang as soon as possible, get married as soon as possible, and then have children as soon as possible.

Seeing that Qin Lian was already pregnant, when the stupid child's child was born, wouldn't he Xu Damao have to eat deflated once he saw the child.

Thinking about this, Xu Damao naturally doesn't want to fall too far behind, if he marries Yu Haitang and she can get pregnant soon, won't he Xu Damao be able to press the stupid pillar everywhere!

Thinking about that kind of comfortable day, Xu Damao felt that it was necessary to speed up.

"Then let's find a home remedy." , Xu Damao's eyes narrowed, he already had an idea, a useful home remedy, not only can please Yu Li, but also make Yan Bugui grateful, it is simply too much to kill one stone.

After lighting a cigarette and taking a few puffs, Xu Damao analyzed in his mind who he had to go to get this kind of home remedies.

The candidates in his mind were excluded one by one, and after a while, Xu Damao's eyes narrowed, and he had a direction.

"Then I'll ask tomorrow and try to get married as soon as possible next year." , muttering, Xu Damao got up and went to find the kettle, ready hot water to soak his feet, today, he was really tired enough.

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The snow was falling heavily, the snow was too thick, and on the morning of the Chinese New Year's Eve, the people in the courtyard were clearing the snow, and a few staff members came over from the street, beckoning everyone to sweep the road outside, so as not to delay people's travel.

"Whew!"

"Finally finished!" , Liang Ladi took a breath and said to Tong Li next to her: "Aunt Tong, I'm going back, these four mao are brought by Xiuzhi's gang, do you want to be together?"

Tong Li nodded, she wasn't ready to talk about it here, it was too cold.

The two of them left with tools, returned to the courtyard, and after entering the house, the warm temperature made the two of them feel a lot more comfortable.

"Xiuzhi, Simao didn't make a fuss, did he?" , Liang Ladi asked with a smile and said, "You bring four at once, it's much more tiring than going to snow clearing."

Li Xiuzhi smiled and said, "I just changed his diaper, and now I'm crawling around on the bed in the inner room."

Liang Ladi walked into the inner room and saw the four children arching around on the surrounding bed, so she couldn't help laughing and said, "This little sister is very domineering, she actually doesn't let the other three go to her side."

Several people were talking in the house, and after a while, Lin Jiaguo and several people came back and began to prepare various ingredients, Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, to make a hearty meal.

Outside the house, the children's frolicking was getting louder and louder, so that the adults couldn't help but smile, Lin Jiaguo and Li Xiuzhi were handling the ingredients in the house.

At this time, in Yan Bugui's house, Xu Damao was talking to Yan Bugui about home remedies.

"Second uncle, I can tell you, people have said that you have to check the person first, and then prescribe the right medicine."

Xu Damao smoked a cigarette and continued: "I have worked hard to find someone."

When the second uncle Yan Bugui and the second aunt heard it, they were all grateful, if Xu Damao directly gave the two of them a home remedy, the two would still be suspicious, but this was to let people go for an examination before prescribing the right medicine, from this point of view, the two were relieved.

There are many old Chinese medicine masters among the Chinese people, and Yan Bugui knows this.

"Don't worry, you help me, I will help you, do you say yes." , Yan Bugui naturally knows the reason why Xu Damao is tired and tired, if the home remedies are really useful, Yu Li also has to thank Xu Damao, he Yan Bugui is much easier to do the work.

Xu Damao smiled and nodded, extremely satisfied, not in vain, after taking a puff of cigarette, he advised: "Wait for the New Year, on the third day of the new year, we will take Xie Cheng and Yu Li together."

"Okay!" , Yan Bugui is indispensable, although he needs to buy a little more gifts to visit in the New Year, but who can let the idea of hugging his grandson be able to overpower this thought.

After saying this, Xu Damao left, he did not spend the New Year in the courtyard, but prepared to go back to the countryside to have Chinese New Year's Eve dinner with his father and mother.

When every household began to waft the fragrance of food, the sound of firecrackers began to sound, one after another, in the sound of firecrackers, the festive atmosphere, there was.

In the house, Lin Jiaguo pulled the three big ones back to the house and lectured a few words, firecrackers are inexplicably attractive to boys, and they are so young that they are actually cheering to pick them up.

Seeing that the three children were wronged, Li Xiuzhi and the others laughed, and after Lin Jiaguo let the three children know the danger, they were ready to eat.