Chapter 36: Lectures on Psychology
Hearing the knock on the door, Qiao Yingzi pushed Lin Lei'er away violently.
Hurriedly got out of bed.
"Mom, when did you come back? Don't call me. ”
"It's been a while since I came back, and when I saw that you were resting, I didn't call you, thinking that the meal was ready, and then I asked you to eat."
Listening to the conversation between Qiao Yingzi and Song Qian outside the house, Lin Leier also hurriedly turned over and got out of bed.
"Auntie, I'm sorry, Yingzi saw that I was a little sleepy, so she asked me to lie on the bed for a while, and I wanted to sleep until now." Lin Leier came outside the house and explained to Song Qian.
"It's okay, Auntie understands, you don't need to explain, just keep the line!" Song Qian said with a smile.
"Definitely, definitely." Lin Leier hurriedly replied.
"You two wash your hands and eat." After Song Qian finished speaking, she turned around and went to take care of the kitten.
Qiao Yingzi pushed Lin Lei'er, and the two entered the bathroom together.
In the bathroom,
Qiao Yingzi and Lin Leier were laughing and playing in front of the sink.
Song Qian in the living room shook her head, feeling that her daughter was hopeless, like a conjoined baby, eager to stick to Lin Leier.
While eating, Lin Leier suddenly remembered that she had promised to go karting with Ji Yangyang and Fang Yifan today, but she actually forgot about it. The strange thing is that neither Fang Yifan nor Ji Yangyang contacted him.
There were some doubts in my heart.
After eating, he and Qiao Yingzi washed the dishes.
Then accompany Yingzi to finish a roll, and Lin Leier went back upstairs.
Fang Yuan and Tong Wenjie were not at home, and Fang Yifan was the only one at home.
"Cousin, didn't you go out today?"
"What else do you say? Didn't we make an appointment with Ji Yangyang to drive a go-kart? When you come back from the resort, you don't see anyone. Fang Yifan said angrily.
"I'm sorry, cousin, I'm in a hurry! Get out and take a trip. ”
"Does it matter? Do you need to help? Fang Yifan hurriedly asked.
"It's okay, it's settled."
"If there is something to say in the future, we are brothers."
"Okay, cousin."
"Oh, by the way, cousin, why didn't you two send me a message or call me in the afternoon."
"Hey, it's not like I saw that you disappeared directly after you came back, so I told Ji Yangyang to make an appointment next time."
"I'm sorry, cousin, but I missed the appointment."
"It's okay, you just invite me to have a good meal with Ji Yangyang."
"Okay, you two pick the location, and when the time comes, call all the people in our six crowds." Lin Leier replied.
After finishing speaking, Lin Leier returned to her room and chatted with Qiao Yingzi on her mobile phone.
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Chunfeng Middle School.
In the afternoon, there will be a parent-teacher conference with the theme of "Mental Health in the Third Year of High School".
The large lecture hall is filled with parents of third-graders.
Song Qian, Tong Wenjie and Liu Jing sat together in the first row.
At the podium at this time.
Li Meng's loud voice echoed in the classroom, "Hello parents! This parent-teacher conference! We have specially arranged a psychological lecture. ”
"The purpose is to start from both the school and the family to reduce the pressure on the children."
"I have brought many senior years of high school, and the third year of high school is the most stressful year in the six years of middle school life, and it is also the most stressful year for the children to grow up to now."
"So in this case, there are a lot of children who will have some radical behaviors and will use some wrong ways to decompress. Such as falling in love, such as smoking, drinking, and even some violent behavior. ”
"Let's take love as an example, not only delays time, but also may cause other troubles, and in the end, almost no relationship can end well, and family relationships are the same. Indeed, we admit that the year of the college entrance examination is very important, but it only accounts for a few tenths of life, and it is not worth destroying the parent-child relationship for this year. Therefore, our school invited Mr. Sun, a professor of psychology from the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences, today. ”
Under the stage, an elegant middle-aged man with eyes walked up to the stage with warm applause.
"Teacher Sun, who specializes in the mental health of teenagers, will ask Teacher Sun to share a psychological topic with us." After Li Meng finished the introduction, he stepped down and sat next to Song Qian. Sitting on the other side was Teacher Pan.
"Hello everyone, what I am sharing with you today is from the above two aspects: the first is mental pressure, and the second is the so-called early love."
"Now, I'll briefly talk to you about these two aspects."
"Later, I will share with you in detail."
"Parents who want to do it again must be very familiar with early love......
At this time, in the audience, Teacher Pan asked Li Meng curiously: "Teacher Li, I have eight hexagrams." ”
Li Meng replied impatiently: "Don't say it, listen to the lecture." ”
Teacher Pan continued to ask, "Have you ever been in love?" ”
After hesitating for a moment, Li Meng replied, "No." ”
Song Qian next to her heard the conversation between the two, and asked curiously, "Teacher Li, when was the first time you fell in love?" ”
Li Meng was a little embarrassed, and complained a little about Teacher Pan in her heart. "I haven't talked about it."
As soon as these words came out, Teacher Pan was a little happy, and Song Qian asked with a surprised face: "Teacher Li, what is the situation?" ”
"I don't have time, I don't want to talk." Li Meng replied.
"Then you haven't found a boyfriend yet, aren't your parents in a hurry?" Tong Wenjie also joined in.
For a while, Li Meng was a little big-headed, and the boredom with Teacher Pan in his heart became deeper and deeper, and he resented him. If he hadn't started this, he wouldn't have been so uncomfortable now.
Li Meng was embarrassed not to answer Tong Wenjie's words, so she said: "My parents don't let me talk about school, and I don't want to talk about it after I finish my job." ”
Teacher Pan on the side continued: "Just looking at you on stage, I thought you were stimulated by early love? ”
"It has nothing to do with you whether I'm stimulated or not! The third year of high school is stressful, so don't irritate me. Li Meng's tone was a little rushed.
Teacher Pan touched his nose in embarrassment and kept silent.
Li Meng breathed a sigh of relief and was finally able to listen to the lecture with peace of mind.
In the future, I can no longer sit next to Mr. Pan. It's clean, and there are a lot of words, and it's not good.
On stage, the lecture continued.
"Here, I want to first make a point clear, love, it is not divided into morning and night, we should not use a morning word to misread it."
"Actually, we can think about what a beautiful thing it is to be in love!"
"It's just that it was a special time period that clashed with our learning tasks in the third year of high school."
"Many of us are parents in the third year of high school now! Always doubt your child, do you have a puppy love? ”
"I'm telling you, often this kind of behavior will damage the parent-child relationship between you and increase the pressure on each other......"
The parent-teacher conference has finally ended.
Liu Jing, Tong Wenjie and Song Qian walked out of the lecture hall side by side, talking and walking.
"This teacher is quite dry."
"Have you ever given a lecture like this in the past?" Tong Wenjie asked.
"No, for the first time this year, it seems that a child was hospitalized because of depression."
"Huh? All hospitalized, so serious! ”
"I had it some time ago, but now it's fine." Song Qian said calmly.
"When? You don't tell me either? Tong Wenjie and Liu Jing were a little surprised.
"Hey, it's all over, I found out that it was mild before, and then Lei'er gave me a cat, which is very pleasant to see the cat when I come home every day. Yingzi's studies are also getting better and better. I'm cured. ”