71. Open your heart

The other party soon became Liang Haixing's wife. What made Liang Haixing even more relieved and disturbed was that the conditions agreed to by his wife were fulfilled. During the New Year's holidays, Liang Haixing's wife first thought of Liang Haixing's hometown, and Liang Haixing sometimes felt uneasy. His wife smiled and said, "What's this, my parents' house is already better than yours, so I should take care of your home more." ”

What moved Liang Haixing even more was his wife's reasonableness. In the first year of his son's birth, the eldest grandson, and another single seedling, Liang Haixing's parents want their son and grandson to go back to their hometown for the New Year together. But when Liang Haixing thought of the cold winter in his rural hometown, even his heart trembled, not to mention his son who had just been born for a short time! Of course, the parents also said in the letter that if it feels too cold, it will not be reluctant. After the psychological struggle, Liang Haixing still felt that there was no need to tell his wife that his parents wanted his wife to go home for the New Year with his son, and it was understandable that his grandfather wanted to spend the New Year with his newborn grandson, but his hometown was too cold, and his son was born not long ago, and he would definitely not be able to stand it when he returned to his hometown. However, I didn't expect that when the Chinese New Year was approaching, my wife offered to take her son back to her hometown for the New Year. Liang Haixing was very puzzled, and his wife was even more puzzled: Why, grandpa doesn't want his grandson. Liang Haixing took the letter from his father to his wife. The wife said, "Then why didn't you tell me earlier?" Liang Haixing said, mainly because he was afraid that the conditions at home were not good and too cold. The wife said, "Wasn't it cold at home in the past? Didn't you spend your winters in the countryside when you were young? How did the children from the countryside come over, and how could our children not be able to stand it when they occasionally went to their grandfather's house? The old man has been waiting for a year, what is the picture, isn't the picture just the New Year's reunion? Isn't it just that children and grandchildren are around their knees? ”

Liang Haixing's hometown is in a remote rural area, and the transportation is extremely inconvenient, Liang Haixing's wife was worried that her son would freeze, so she wore a thick cotton jacket, wrapped her son in it, and the apples and eggs she brought with her were covered with a thick layer of ice. Liang Haixing's wife's actions naturally won the praise of the villagers. The people in the village not only knew that the Liang family had a college student who was an official in the city, but also married a very virtuous daughter-in-law. Liang Haixing's sister often jokes with Liang Haixing: In the future, I will call my sister-in-law sister, and Liang Haixing will be called my brother-in-law.

Although he graduated from the Chinese department, perhaps Du Yitian often criticized Liang Haixing for being too ambitious, and Liang Haixing rarely wrote articles. In the few articles, most of them are about mothers. Some people are puzzled and think that Liang Haixing has a mother-lover complex. Liang Haixing said: There are two mothers in our family, one is the mother who gave birth to herself, and the other is the mother of her son and his wife. Liang Haixing sees his mother as a symbol of motherhood. Liang Haixing often said that women are synonymous with motherhood, and motherhood in the world is unified.

Liang Haixing was thinking wildly, and there was a bicycle bell outside the door. Liang Haixing's wife said: "Maybe the guests are here." Liang Haixing hurriedly said, "I'll go out and have a look." ”

Sure enough, as soon as Liang Haixing went out, he saw Zhao Liang carrying two bottles of wine, looking around in the corridor.

Walking into Liang Haixing's house and looking at the table full of dishes, Zhao Liang said: "My brother and sister's cooking skills are very good, I think the dishes are better than those in the big hotel." Liang Haixing's wife smiled slightly and said, "Director Zhao has won the award, and I can't cook, so you can make do with it." ”

Liang Haixing's wife said, made tea, put the teapot on the dining table, and said to Liang Haixing: "After a while, you eat slowly, I'll go upstairs to see the children, and call me if something happens." ”

The wife went upstairs, and Liang Haixing and Zhao Liang were left in the room drinking tea and waiting for Du Yitian. Zhao Liang said to Liang Haixing, in fact, tonight, it was Liu Dake who wanted to invite Liang Haixing to dinner, and the restaurant was arranged. Seeing that Liang Haixing had something to do at night, he temporarily canceled it again. Liang Haixing was a little uneasy, and said, "Then why didn't you say it earlier, and call Director Liu together." Zhao Liang didn't answer directly, but said, "This wine is what Director Liu asked me to bring to you." Otherwise, I wouldn't have the money to buy such good wine. Only then did Liang Haixing discover that the two bottles of liquor on the desk were famous liquors that were difficult to buy even with money. Liang Haixing said: "Then let's drink the bar sent by Director Liu tonight?" Zhao Liang smiled slightly and said, "This is a little bit of heart that Director Liu asked me to send you." Zhao Liang seemed to be worried that Liang Haixing didn't understand his intentions, and continued: "Do you think it's appropriate to let Du Yitian drink the wine that Director Liu gave you?" Zhao Liang seemed to be worried that Liang Haixing didn't understand his intentions, so he deliberately said the word "Du Yitian" very seriously. Liang Haixing immediately understood Zhao Liang's words, and nodded.

Liang Haixing glanced at the wine brought by Zhao Liang, turned around and put it in the back room.

"Although you haven't been in the hall for long, you're lucky." Zhao Liang took a sip of tea gently, glanced at Liang Haixing, and sighed. Liang Haixing didn't know what Zhao Liang was thinking at this time, so he said casually: "In the future, do you need the care of the fellow and the director?" ”

"Need my attention? You're mistaken. My brother still needs your care in the future. Zhao Liang looked unimpressed.

Liang Haixing looked at Zhao Liang with puzzled eyes and said with a smile: "The fellow is really joking. ”

"I'm speaking from my heart." Zhao Liang looked serious. Zhao Liang saw that Liang Haixing seemed to have something to say when he opened his mouth, so he hurriedly waved his hand and said: "One of the fundamental reasons why many words of the ancients have been passed down to the present is that they are classics that have been proven by practice. As early as more than 2,400 years ago, Mencius said that the heavens will descend on the people, and they must first suffer their minds, strain their muscles and bones, starve their bodies and skin, empty their bodies, and act chaotically. And the words of the ancients, sometimes you have to understand it from another angle. For example, Confucius once said, if you are not in your position, you will not seek your government. But if you understand it from another angle, you will find that it means something else. That is, if there is a position, there is a government. That's where you are now. ”

Liang Haixing thought: After such a big bend, I finally got around my body. Liang Haixing didn't know what Zhao Liang was thinking at this time, and it was not easy to interrupt, so he listened quietly.

"What I don't like the most is that some people claim to be very capable, and often say, I am not in that position, if I am in that position, I will definitely do a better job than the current leader. Actually, it's wrong. Self-cultivation and family governance, peace in the world. Which leader has reached today's position is not the result of experience? Today's leaders are not only smarter than the ancients, but they are also thinkers, and they have a deeper understanding of the words of the ancients than we can comprehend. There is a level at the first level, and there are many things, and the superior leaders think more long-term than our subordinates. Now the leader wants to reuse you, give you an important position first, and others will not say anything. When you have made achievements, the leader began to say again, people should be promoted if their work is outstanding, everything seems so logical, in fact, the leader has already laid the groundwork. To say that it is elegant is called layout, and to say it vulgarly is scheming. Some people can't see this, and when they encounter the promotion of cadres, they always complain about the sky, why do they promote him and not me? The leader can block back with a word: How much contribution have you made to the agency and what achievements have you made?! And the fact is that as early as many years ago, the leaders of the people had already laid out the situation. Of course, there are also some problems of ability and timing, and some people's personal ability and quality are not suitable for working in some important positions. Of course, there are also people who are engaged in important positions, but they do not grasp it. You now have the conditions for future promotion, in terms of job positions, research offices, and the brains and batons of the director; In terms of personal relationships, Huang Zhenggang, the deputy director in charge, is so good to you, especially Director Liu takes care of you everywhere. The number one person retired soon, and there was almost no suspense for Huang Zhenggang to take over as the number one, and it was only a matter of time before Director Liu entered the hall team. So you will improve in the future, don't forget your fellow countrymen. ”

Liang Haixing had to admit that Zhao Liang was worthy of being the leader of the personnel department, and he had such a thorough grasp of the analysis of the work of the organs, and he was also very insightful. I admire Zhao Liang's insight even more. However, there seems to be a suspicion of flattering oneself in his words, and if he acquiesces, he seems to be a little immodest, and the affairs of the organ are very complicated, and sometimes the appointment notice is printed at one time and another, but the actual appointment result will change. Thinking of this, Liang Haixing said: "Aren't you better at work than me now?" Deputy Director of the Personnel Division, I will need you to take care of me more in the future. ”

Zhao Liang smiled slightly, as if he had something difficult to say in his heart, and said: "People feel that the personnel department is in charge of cadres, the position is important, the leaders are trusted, and the work is decent. I thought so at first, but when I arrived at the HR department and got a comprehensive understanding of human resources, I realized that this was not the case at all. In the final analysis, the personnel department is a rubber stamp, and the personnel department will perform the procedures for the leaders to decide. It doesn't play a subjective role at all. It's only when you encounter some troublesome things that the leader will think of you and let you step forward to be a firewall. Especially the deputy director, it is basically a treatment, the honorary deputy director, how much power does he actually have, and how much of it is his own decision? Not to mention the deputy director, the director is not like this? We are fellow countrymen, so let's take care of each other, but I always feel that you are better than me, and I don't believe you will see. ”

"Haha. Not necessarily, right? ”

"I'm telling the truth. Maybe you don't believe my words, but have you thought about it, why did Du Tiantian's attitude towards you take a 180-degree turn? At the beginning, it was not pleasing to look at you horizontally and vertically, let alone inviting you to dinner, it was annoying to see you. Now you are still you, why has his attitude changed so much? Of course, in addition to the fact that his work is not going well, he is currently a little depressed, and he has not seen the absolute trust of Director Huang or even Director Gu of the first place. You are currently on the rise, and he is the last man, and there will be more places to use you in the future, and he is paving the way for the future. ”