Jiang Chengdao: "We are not boyfriend and girlfriend, so there is no need to discuss this kind of issue too seriously." I'm just giving an example to show that your mother's words are not wrong, and there is no need to apologize. ”

Xia Chengqi asked: "But you feel uncomfortable, otherwise you wouldn't have said so much." Rather than convincing me, you're just convincing yourself. ”

Jiang Cheng glanced up at her and said funny: "Drink porridge, you'll be cold soon." ”

"Living habits can be run-in, consumption habits are also changing according to their own economic situation, only people's three views, of course, values are also within the three views, but consumption habits can only represent a part of the values, other more ideas in the three views, people's views on the world, some of the existence of this world, people's moral concepts, many things at the spiritual level, are difficult to change much after the stereotype, isn't it? I think that's more important than what you're talking about. ”

Xia Chengqi was obviously a little more serious.

It's quite similar to her work style.

Jiang Cheng couldn't help but sigh and said:

"If two people love each other enough, most of the problems caused by the wrong door can indeed be eliminated through the two running-in and mutual understanding, at most it is only a matter of time. But at least so far, I haven't seen that kind of love.

"What I've seen more is that people always have pointless quarrels over trivial things, because of consumption, because of gifts, because of face, because of clothing, because of personal hygiene, because one person does not keep up with the rhythm of another person when playing games......

"And because of the bride price and dowry of the house, there are even more people who turn their faces and break up or even turn against each other, and the ones you think are unimportant are precisely the key to defeating most love."

"Then have you ever thought about it......" Xia Chengqi leaned forward slightly, looking at Jiang Cheng quite aggressively, "The key to defeating most love...... Is it because most love is not love at all? ”

"But if that's not love, what is love?" Jiang Cheng asked.

He was asking Xia Chengqi, and he was also asking himself.

They have also sincerely liked each other, and they have also been happy or depressed and sad because of each other's words......

They also used to look up at the starry sky together in the quiet night, hugged each other for a long time in the gentle evening breeze, and they also longed to grow old in the wilderness, but the reality was that they were exhausted by all kinds of trivial things......

"If those are not love, maybe there is really no such thing as love in this world."

In fact, Jiang Cheng's thoughts are the same as Xia Chengqi's, maybe most of love is not love at all.

But he felt that he couldn't think like that, because if that wasn't love, then what was love?

"That's because they're not firm enough, it's because for them, there's something more precious than the other person."

Xia Chengqi obviously has his own firm views on love:

"Not to mention those who break up because of the bride price or dowry, it is two giant babies who fall in love, and finally because their parents' requirements cannot be met, and then they quarrel and break up. If you have to say that this is also love, I can only say...... You're young, and your brain is already broken. ”

Jiang Cheng looked at Xia Chengqi and sighed, "I finally know why you don't have a boyfriend at this age...... You're not your average idealistic anymore. ”

He reached out and gently placed the peeled egg into the porridge bowl, then peeled another one.

Xia Chengqi looked at him like this, lost his desire to continue communicating, sighed deeply, and lowered his head to drink porridge.

Jiang Cheng quickly peeled another egg, put it into the porridge bowl in front of her again, and then looked at the silent Xia Chengqian, and couldn't help but say:

"Everyone has their own ideas, and it's not up to us to decide what love is. Although I myself am a little pessimistic about love, I think that if a male version of Xia Chengqi appears, there will definitely be real love between the two of you. People should be a little more realistic, but I can't say that idealism is wrong. ”

"So you agree with what I said?" Xia Chengqi raised his head and said.

Jiang Chengdao: "It can only be said that it is spiritual support. Actually, I think it's the same for everyone. Everyone is advising others to be realistic. But in fact, who would like a realistic person. It's just that life is easier that way...... If there is an unrealistic opportunity in front of us, I don't think anyone will miss it.

"Correspondingly, if there is an unrealistic love in front of everyone, I don't think anyone will not cherish it."

Xia Chengqi asked: "So, you come to tell me, how did this real world come about?" ”

"......" Jiang Cheng knew what Xia Chengqi wanted to say.

[The world says that the world is real, but isn't the world made up of people?]

It is precisely because of the reality of the world that there is this real world, and in the end, the world clings to the world, as if the reality of this world existed from the beginning.

Unrealistic love can only be created by unrealistic people, and realistic people will never have the opportunity to see an unrealistic love. ]

Jiang Cheng knew that these were what Xia Chengqi wanted to say, and Jiang Cheng was noncommittal about her opinion.

The more the truth is debated, the clearer it becomes, but there are also some truths that can never be understood.

Even he himself couldn't figure out these truths, maybe today it is still this kind of thinking, and tomorrow it will become another kind of thinking.

He felt that for a person like him, it was okay to think about these questions once in a while, but it was a bit unnecessary to think about them as serious philosophical issues and debate them.

What's more, he is the kind of person who doesn't like to persuade others, so he simply keeps silent.

Xia Chengqi saw that he didn't speak, and continued to bow his head and drink porridge.

Jiang Cheng shrugged his shoulders and said, "I'll go first." ”

Xia Chengqi didn't raise his head: "Let's go." ”

Looking at her extremely disappointed look, Jiang Cheng wanted to laugh for some reason.

Tsk, cute.

……

As soon as Jiang Cheng left, Xia Chengqi's mobile phone rang.

She was just finishing the porridge when she picked up her phone and connected it.

Xia Chengqian: "Hey, Dad, is there something wrong?" ”

Xia's father hesitated: "It's strange, Dad just wants to ask, that Xiao Jiang, ......"

Xia Chengqi's tone was stiff: "He has nothing to do with me." ”

Xia Dad: "Not really." If there were, Dad wouldn't have said anything. After all, people are still young......"

Xia Chengqi said in an indifferent tone: "I really don't." ”

Dad Xia was a little relieved, but also a little sad: "Alas, actually, that kid is indeed a little young when he looks old." However, if you can bring you food when you are sick, you can be considered to take care of people. ”

Xia Chengqi: "What's the use of taking care of people?" I can also take care of myself. ”

Dad Xia felt that his daughter was in a bad mood, and hurriedly said: "I'm still angry with my parents, and my parents are also good for you...... But if you find a boyfriend in the future, no matter what he does, as long as he can be good to you and make you happy, Dad can actually support it. ”

Xia Chengqi: "Is it okay to have a long assembly line?" ”

Dad Xia said: "Didn't you say he wasn't?" ”

Xia Chengqi: "I'll give you an example. ”