270 Is it too early to talk about marriage?
Married, hey, it's been so many years, and I really haven't really thought about it.
Usually, when this word occasionally flashes in my head, I even feel ridiculous.
When my parents and relatives mentioned it, they also felt extremely irritable.
I still remember that when I was on May Day, I had a big fight with my mother because of this.
Now when I talk about it again, I don't have any resistance in my heart, and I can't help but have a little fantasy and a little longing.
What I want in my heart is no longer to deal with the firewood, rice, oil, salt and all kinds of boredom in life with someone I don't know, but to experience the flavors of life with the person I like.
In the next few decades, no matter whether it is smooth or bumpy, big and small, ups and downs, as long as the people around him are him, they are willing to chew it carefully regardless of whether they like it or hate.
All stages of life, the light and dark sides of life, are just the enrichment of the feelings and experiences of the two people, and they can be savored, experienced and enjoyed with a positive attitude with a peaceful mind.
It's a wonderful feeling, like you're out of life.
In the past, Xia Chengqi could barely be regarded as detached, but that kind of detachment was disdainful, and he was disgusted and bored with many things, which was a kind of deliberate alienation that saw through the essence of this world and was unwilling to agree with it.
And now this detachment is because with someone around you, you will no longer be easily stimulated by the world, and you are willing to get along with the world with a more peaceful and elegant attitude.
It's like water flows through different places, even though it keeps changing shapes, but the water is still water, still her own appearance. When it becomes a cloud, you can experience the loftiness and lightness, and when it merges into the sea, you can enjoy the silence and turbulence. No longer obsessed with withdrawing yourself from this world, embracing all things, and experiencing all things.
"What are you thinking?" Jiang Cheng stopped and waited for a red light.
Xia Chengqi shook his head: "I didn't think about anything, I felt that many things didn't seem to be so annoying, and I became happy to accept the various stages of life to go through."
Jiang Cheng disliked: "Wouldn't it be nice to just say that you want to get married?" I won't refuse you. ”
"It's not!" Xia Cheng looked at him with disgust, and the corners of his mouth had a helpless smile that was angry with the stupid donkey, "It's a very mysterious state, forget it, I tell you that you don't understand." ”
"It's a mysterious state...... The great aunt is gone? Jiang Cheng asked in surprise.
Xia Chengqi raised his hand and slapped him: "You are annoying!"
Jiang Cheng stared at the countdown seconds on the signal light and asked, "Then I'm really curious, what were you thinking very mysteriously just now?"
"I won't tell you." Xia Cheng pouted.
The car started again, and Jiang Cheng slowly accelerated: "Okay, now I actually start to have a secret, right?"
"Get out!" Xia Chengqi was angry and laughed.
Jiang Cheng said: "Okay, I'm a Virgo, and my obsessive-compulsive disorder is very serious."
"Fault!" Xia Cheng scolded, "I'm just thinking about it...... Thinking about ...... Uh, to put it simply, the world is better because of you, okay? ”
It doesn't seem to be this feeling, it's a little different, but she doesn't know how to describe it, and she doesn't want to tell Jiang Cheng too long-winded, because of his existence, what kind of changes have occurred in her inner thoughts, so in the end she decided to express this meaning very similarly.
Save him from worrying.
Jiang Cheng was unexpectedly angry: "You actually only feel this way now?"
"How dare you be dissatisfied?" Xia Chengqi was shocked, this guy is floating a little bit now.
Jiang Cheng was aggrieved and angry: "I have already entered the next stage."
"What stage?" Xia Chengqi asked angrily.
Jiang Cheng didn't know how to describe it for a while: "It's a very mysterious stage, uh...... It's ......"
"A very mysterious stage?" Xia Chengqi asked.
Jiang Cheng nodded: "It's a very mysterious stage, but I don't know what to say for a while."
"Then you just let me say it! Stupid donkey! ”
"Uh......"
The two glanced at each other, as if they roughly understood what the other party's mysterious state was.
Jiang Cheng's mind calmed down, and he was even a little proud: "So I have such a big influence on you?"
"It's my own thinking that is originally very advanced, and now it's just a matter of accumulation and sublimation, and I have a hammer relationship with you?" Xia Chengqi was disdainful.
Jiang Cheng nodded: "Fortunately, mine is also sublimated by itself, otherwise I would have lost this game to you."
"Say it again." Xia Chengqi's eyes were threatening.
Jiang Cheng was angry: "Yours can be sublimated by yourself, but mine can't?"
"No, you can't." Xia Chengqi was unreasonable.
Jiang Cheng pouted: "If you can't, you can't, I don't care."
Xia Cheng snorted proudly, on his toes.
Jiang Cheng felt very embarrassed, but he had no choice but to say, "You wait in two days."
Xia Chengqi suddenly glared at him angrily: "That's all you have to do."
"The waves of the Yangtze River push back the front waves, and the front waves are stunned on the beach." Jiang Cheng said viciously.
Xia Chengqi was disgusted: "Don't talk to you, a pervert!"
She twisted her body and gently cocked Erlang's legs, face
Twisting out the window, he reached out to comb the hair that touched the corners of his mouth, and put the rounded nails of his thumb between his lips and lightly bit them a few times.
Jiang Cheng asked, "What are you doing with Erlang's legs?"
Xia Chengqi turned his head in an instant as if he was enraged, and said with a flushed face: "You shut up for me!"
Jiang Cheng clicked on the music, and his head moved up and down briskly.
"Menstruation, do you understand menstruation, it's not that I think about it, it's that the body is restless by itself, do you know?" Xia Chengqi gritted his teeth in anger.
Jiang Cheng nodded: "I understand, I understand."
Xia Chengqi twisted his head to the side: "If you have the ability, don't let me help you at night."
Jiang Cheng hurriedly turned off the music and said: "Scientific studies have shown that during menstruation, the body and emotions are indeed extremely restless, which is the same as a man who will be high-spirited at every turn, completely out of his control, I deeply understand." Whoever talks about this is ignorant and filthy. On my own behalf, I would like to express my deep contempt for such acts. ”
"You dare to call me dirty?" Xia Chengqi's eyes widened.
Jiang Chengdu was stunned: "When did I say you were dirty?"
After thinking about it for a while, uh, well, Xia Chengqi seemed to have scolded him for his high morale before......
Tired, destroy.
Jiang Cheng turned on the music again, and he no longer had any illusions about the evening.
So Xia Chengqi became proud again.
……
"Is it still the code?" Xia Cheng asked Jiang Cheng, who stopped tapping on the keyboard, and stretched his waist gently.
Jiang Cheng shook his head: "It's almost there...... Do you still read? ”
Xia Chengqi got up from the rocking chair and stuffed the book in his hand into the bookshelf: "My eyes are a little tired."
So Jiang Cheng also got up from behind the desk, and the two left the study together.
After lying on the bed, Xia Chengqi poked Jiang Cheng's stomach with his fingers and asked, "Do you think it's a little too early for us to talk about marriage?"
"It's almost twelve o'clock in the middle of the night, and it's still early?" Jiang Cheng is not serious.
Xia Chengqi "snapped" on his belly: "Is it sick?"
Jiang Cheng hurriedly held her hand and said, "This kind of thing is the same as falling in love, when you think about it, it means that the time is just right, nothing is too early."
"Did I say I wanted to?" Xia Chengqi asked angrily.
"What don't you want you to ask?" Jiang Cheng is very branching.
Xia Chengqi glared: "I'm afraid of you."
"I didn't think about it." Jiang Chengdao.
Xia Chengqi was just about to turn around and ignore him, but he was already kissed by Jiang Cheng.
After kissing, her attitude really softened a little: "Can you not be angry all the time?"
Jiang Chengdao: "Can you not always give me a chance to be angry with you?"
"Then I didn't think about it." Xia Chengqi was hard-mouthed.
Jiang Cheng asked, "What don't you want you to ask?"
Xia Chengqi's eyes showed murderous aura.
Jiang Cheng pointed out: "At this time, you can actually say this, because Auntie mentioned it during the meal, so you asked, so I have nothing to say."
Xia Chengqian: "......"
"But why didn't you say that, because you really thought about it, so when you were empty-hearted, the first thing you thought about was to deny it quickly, not anything else." Jiang Cheng continued to chatter.
Xia Chengqian: "......"
"Were you shocked by my whipping?" Jiang Cheng asked.
Xia Chengqi felt that he was stupid: "I don't want to do it now."
"Then we'll kiss you for a while, and then you'll think about it." Jiang Cheng leaned his mouth over.
Xia Chengqi pushed his face to the side: "Get out."
Jiang Cheng was serious: "To be honest, it's a bit early to talk about marriage now, and there will be a year until September next year, but if you don't care about getting a license, then it's really not too early to talk about it." What do you think of getting married on October 1st? ”
This guy's attitude became too fast, and Xia Chengqi couldn't react for a while.
"If you don't speak, you think it's okay? Then I'll have to get my family ready to do it. Jiang Cheng gestured and took his mobile phone.
Xia Chengqi stretched out his hand to stop him: "You are going to die, you got married on October 1st, and now it's September 17th!"
"It's a bit of a rush, so why not November 1st? But then you'll have to take a leave of absence. Jiang Cheng was worried.
Xia Chengqi was speechless: "Shut up, I didn't say I got married this year!"
Jiang Cheng scratched his chin: "Then October 1st next year?"
Xia Chengqi actually subconsciously felt that it was a little late, so he didn't answer and asked: "Didn't you say that you didn't want to tie the knot?"
"Didn't I mean to tease you? But it looks like you're not satisfied with October 1 next year? October 1 of the following year? Jiang Cheng continued to suggest.
Xia Chengqi's mouth subconsciously pursed.
"It's still early for the year after tomorrow?" Jiang Cheng pretended to be shocked, "The year after tomorrow? No, it's too late, at the latest it will be October 1 of the year after next, at most October 2, and then there will be no negotiation. "Pen Library
Although Xia Chengqi knew that Jiang Cheng was deliberately angry with her, she still couldn't help but be angry, but in the end, she couldn't help but not shake her face, but put her hand on Jiang Cheng's stomach and pulled his hair.
Jiang Cheng grinned in pain, but he still didn't have a serious character: "It's in the wrong place, a little further down, don't you feel a little different?"
Xia Chengqi successfully broke the defense and punched it down:"
I won't talk to you anymore! ”
Jiang Cheng was measured, laughed, and said: "If you think it's okay to get married first and then get a certificate, then you can get married during the New Year or next year's May Day." To be honest, I think I'm a little late for November next year, and I'm too late for September, what do you think? ”
Xia Chengqi rolled his eyes and said, "I don't want to get married."
Jiang Chengcheng cried wolf: "Strange, how can I live if you don't marry me......" while howling and kissing Xia Chengqi's neck and face.
Xia Chengqi really didn't have anything to do with him, and said while pushing his face: "May 15, I think it's okay next year."
Jiang Cheng stopped woodpecker behavior: "Actually, I think May Day is a little late."
"And what do you want?" Xia Chengqi asked angrily.
Jiang Chengdao: "Marry on the spot."
"Think beautifully." Xia Chengqi glanced at him with a shy eyebrow, "I'm too early for May Day next year." ”
Jiang Cheng turned over and stepped on her: "It's really too early?"
Xia Cheng was disgusted: "Don't make trouble."
Jiang Cheng's hand touched her waist: "I'll give you one last chance."
Xia Cheng pouted: "It's not too early, it's really true."
Jiang Cheng simply launched an attack directly.
After a period of kissing and touching, Xia Chengqi begged for mercy, she is on her period now, she feels that she can't solve it, maybe she will have to work hard to help Jiang Cheng in the end, what is she trying to do?
"Not early, not early, not early...... But are you serious? Xia Chengqi asked with a blushing face.
Jiang Cheng nodded: "Seriously, if you think it's okay, we can all think about how to end it then."
Xia Chengqi is too late and too late now, and he feels unreal when he is early, so he hesitates and says, "Let me think about it again...... The weather seems to be okay on May Day? ”
"Well, May 11, the weather is okay." Jiang Cheng doesn't like to get married in summer or winter, so he has nothing to do to find guilt. Getting married during the New Year is actually understandable, it's a holiday, getting married in the summer, it's really a bit incomprehensible.
Xia Chengqian's hand slid around Jiang Cheng's back: "Have you ever thought about when to tie the knot before?"
"May Day, I thought about May Day before, the time is right, and the weather can also be." Jiang Chengdao.
Xia Chengqi didn't believe it: "You haven't talked to me about marriage before."
Jiang Chengdao: "Aren't you afraid that you are too early, I thought that I would try to discuss these things with you after the New Year." At that time, the two of us had been talking for half a year, and it wouldn't be anything if we talked casually. ”
Xia Chengqi thinks that it is quite early to talk about marriage in half a year, and it is more appropriate to talk about it after talking about it for about two years, but if you ignore the time and just talk about the feeling, she thinks that it is appropriate to talk about marriage now, neither early nor late.
"Are you really sure it's me for the rest of your life?" Xia Chengqi asked softly.
Jiang Cheng propped his elbows on the side of Xia Chengqi's head, supported his face with his palms, and looked straight into Xia Chengqi's eyes: "I should ask you this."
Xia Chengqi's eyes dodged, and his mouth pouted: "It's quite certain now, but I won't know in the future."
"So now you're deliberately mad at me, aren't you?" Jiang Cheng tugged at her little nose.
Xia Chengqi grabbed his wrist with both hands and took it away: "Who deliberately got angry with you?" You men, you won't cherish what you get, what if after two months, you suddenly treat me badly? It's also possible. ”
Jiang Cheng breathed a sigh of relief: "I thought you were asking me to continue to work hard, I thought to myself that I was like this, if I work harder, your life will be in danger."
"What do you mean?" Xia Chengqi asked.
"When other girls see that your boyfriend is so good to you, they won't be jealous and want to kill you." Jiang Cheng said facelessly.
Xia Chengqi rolled his eyes: "Don't be so confident, okay...... Although you are telling the truth. ”
"Huh?" Jiang Cheng was shocked, "Do you really think so?" It seems that I have been a little kind to you, for the sake of your life, I should downgrade the service. ”
Xia Cheng pouted: "Don't, it's just right now."
So Jiang Cheng was shameless again: "Look at my proportion, it's just right, it's too fine."
"The size is just right, and it's also very thin." Xia Chengqi giggled.
Jiang Cheng glared: "You're a good scar, forget the pain."
Xia Chengqi twisted and bold: "It's been five days, I must have forgotten it."
Jiang Cheng went to grab Xia Chengqi's hand: "Then you have a good grasp of it, knowledge is such a thing, you have to master it solidly, and you can forget how to do it at every turn."
Xia Chengqi smiled and pumped his hand: "Don't make trouble...... Are you sure you want to do it next year? ”
Jiang Cheng nodded: "If you have time before May Day, it's okay."
"You want to be beautiful...... So, sleep? Xia Cheng said.
Jiang Cheng asked, "You really don't want to re-master the knowledge you have forgotten?"
Xia Cheng was ashamed: "Don't."
"Master it in advance, and be mentally prepared in two days." Jiang Cheng took her hand and moved slowly.
Xia Chengqi looked at him angrily: "Hooligans."
She suspected that after mastering it, Jiang Cheng still had to let her dictate.