As the third generation of the Xu family, is Xu Haiyuan a person who can easily be subdued?

Even if his mother pointed at him with a broomstick, this kid would never bow his head and admit his mistake.

"Who told them to bully their sister? Whoever bullies my sister, I'll beat him. ”

In Xu Haiyuan's world, there is no right or wrong, he only remembers one sentence.

"My dad said before, I want to protect my sister, love my sister, no one can bully my sister."

Su Anying was choked and glared at Xu Shiyan angrily.

"Whatever I say is in vain, your dad is good at talking, right?

Okay, let your dad tell you, if you don't make it clear today, don't go into the house and don't eat. ”

After Su Anying finished speaking, she threw the broom on the ground and entered the house.

Xu Shiyan didn't think about it, he was actually cheated by his five-year-old son, and he couldn't cry or laugh now.

"Come, son, let's chat." Xu Shiyan pulled his son's hand, and the two sat on the wooden pier.

Xu Jinping stretched out her head to look into the house, thought about it, and followed her father and brother to sit on the wooden pier together.

"Isn't it fun to fight today?"

Xu Shiyan didn't train his son, but talked to his son with a pleasant face, and reached out to help his son wipe the ashes off his face.

"It's not fun." Xu Haiyuan pursed his mouth and shook his head.

"He's not comfortable with me." Xu Haiyuan pointed to his chest.

Xu Haiyuan is only four years and three months old, but he has been taller than children of the same age since he was a child.

In addition, the living conditions of the Xu family are not bad, and Xu Haiyuan is quite strong, so he looks like he is more than six years old.

Such a small thing, just fighting with a child older than him, can you still lose a little?

This baby is just strong, eating soft and not hard.

Su Anying called him just now, but he was not convinced. At this time, Xu Shiyan asked with Yan Yuese, and he couldn't help but tell his father about his grievances.

"Come, Daddy, take a look."

Xu Shiyan lifted his son's clothes and took a look, nothing unusual.

Even if the child is older, his strength is limited, so he won't really hurt anything.

However, Xu Shiyan still pretended to rub his son.

"You see, fighting isn't that fun, is it?

In fact, even if you win, aren't you injured yourself? How uncomfortable. ”

Xu Shiyan raised his hand and rubbed the top of his son's head.

"Dad did say that you should protect your sister and love your sister.

Your sister was bullied, and you beat it back, which is not wrong.

However, fighting is not the only way, and before fighting, you have to judge whether you will suffer a loss.

If you feel that you are more likely to suffer a loss, can you find other ways? ”

Xu Shiyan feels that educating children is really a tangled matter.

For example, today's child fight, is it right or wrong? If you are bullied when you go out, do you want to fight back?

-for-tat and counter-violence with violence are certainly pleasant, but they are likely to plunge themselves into a greater crisis.

If it weren't for Huang Shuqing and Sun Yu today, with Xu Haiyuan and Xu Jinping, these two babies would dare to support others, and it is estimated that they would be beaten very badly.

Do you want to persuade your child to endure it? It's also very tangled.

In case the child listens to the words, he will always endure and not resist when he encounters things in the future, in that case, it will only make the other party more and more arrogant and intensified.

Therefore, the degree in the middle is too difficult to grasp.

Xu Haiyuan tilted his head, thinking about the proposal given by his father, "Then should I come back to my mother?" Let mom go to their grown-up? ”

After saying that, the little guy pursed his lips and frowned.

"It's too troublesome, I don't need my mother to come out of this matter, just punch it and it's over."

In the little guy's concept, those twists and turns are too troublesome and have no effect, so it is better to be more direct.

Yes, if you talk for a long time, it is equivalent to talking in vain.

Xu Shiyan looked at the sky speechlessly, how could he raise such a thing?

To say that it was influenced by grandpa? It's not right, the child's grandfather is an adult in the mountains, and he comes back for a few days all year round?

Besides, the old man's temper is much better now, he doesn't get angry, he laughs all day long, and he doesn't speak loudly to Xu Shiyan, it is impossible to affect the child.

Is that innately inherited? It's over, if it's inherited, I'll wait to clean up the mess for the bear stuff in the future.

"Such a violent stinky boy, I don't know who you're with?" Xu Shiyan stretched out his hand angrily and poked a finger on his son's forehead.

"Well, I can see it, I can't let you go crazy at home.

When school starts in the fall, you go to study, and I will tell Teacher Qi to let you go to the school to educate the red class. ”

Yuhong class is a saying in this year, in fact, it is the preschool class that later generations said.

Now at this time, there is no kindergarten, the place where the baby is coaxed is called the nursery, and the place where the preschool children are taught to learn is called the Yuhong class.

After years of propaganda about the uselessness of reading, even if the college entrance examination has been resumed for several years, in fact, there are still many people who don't attach much importance to studying.

Especially in the countryside, there are many people who think that their children can go to elementary school, and they can write a few words and calculate accounts.

As for sending the child to the red class, it is even more ridiculous, spending money to send the child out to make people coax, that is money burning.

Whose children aren't out in the wild all day? Just wait until you are old enough to go to the first grade, what kind of red class do you attend?

Most of the Yuhong class in Donggang Primary School are children of workers.

Especially when the parents are at work, no one cares about the children, so they are simply sent to the Yuhong class, at least someone will watch them.

At Donggang Primary School, children are required to be at least seven years old before they can enter the first grade.

The Yuhong class is to prepare children for the first grade, and the teacher will teach the children some pinyin and numbers, so the requirement is that children over six years old can go.

It is said that Xu Haiyuan is not old enough, but this baby is precocious, much smarter than children of the same age, and should be able to adapt to the red class.

Anyway, Xu Shiyan is looking for someone, and it is not difficult to send it.

For children, parents may not necessarily listen to their words, but teachers must implement them obediently.

Educating a child should not be completely dependent on the school and teachers, but it is always possible for a child to receive an education from a teacher at school.

Xu Haiyuan's baby is different from other children, it is obviously not a good way to make him so crazy at home all day long, and to spread wild everywhere.

It's not a bad thing to go to school early.

"Studying? Okay, too. Then I'm not at home, what should my sister do? ”

Xu Haiyuan has no aversion to studying, he only thinks about his sister. He went to study, wouldn't his sister have no one to accompany him at home?

"Dad, I'm going to school too."

Sure enough, Xu Jinping pouted and looked unhappy. She also wants to study, and she has to go to university.

"Pingping, you're still young, wait for another two years, and your father will send you to the Yuhong class, okay?"

Xu Shiyan was tossed by the two babies, one of them was older, and these two children were more difficult than the other.

Son, with a cold face and a poisonous mouth, he looks like everyone else is stupid all the time, and he looks amazing, but he is actually quite good at taking care of others.

It can be seen from his treatment of Yang Haoyu that as long as he likes it, he will definitely protect it.

Girl, it looks well-behaved and obedient, but in fact it is weird and spicy, definitely a little pepper.

Look at her today, she scratched the boy and bit it, and I don't know what the boy's parents will do when they see it.