Mrs. Lu sighed, "It's a good thing for children to be motivated, but it also depends on the timing, if you want to say that Qilang is wrong, Qilang is not wrong, he is no worse than his brothers, but is it a good thing to be out of office now?" ”

The old lady finally talked to Lu Fenghe about it in the car back.

"I heard that Qilang has made trouble with your uncle several times about this matter, and your uncle didn't let go, so Qilang thought about splitting up, and Xifu just split up and didn't mention it, so he said that your uncle and second uncle are doing well, and there is no reason to divide the family."

"What I know is that Shichiro wants to split up in order to get angry with the family, but I don't know that I think it's because his wife came out to talk about our room, and we forced them to split up."

"Shichiro Lady was locked up in the Buddhist hall by your uncle and grandmother, and I don't want her to disturb Shichiro's mind, but Shichiro is simply a ghost."

Lu Fenghe had a bold conjecture, "Uncle and grandmother are his own ......"

Old Mrs. Lu nodded, "If you can't persuade Qilang, let Qilang keep filial piety at home." ”

Lu Fenghe's whole person was not good, she took her grandmother's hand and didn't say a word, she thought that her uncle and grandmother had some kind of emergency, but she didn't expect it to be ended by herself.

"Your uncle and grandmother left a last word, she wants to watch her children and grandchildren, don't leave Biling during the period of filial piety."

"The second uncle and the third brother can't leave either?"

Old Lady Lu nodded, "I can't leave." ”

Lu Fenghe has mixed tastes, an old lady who is so thin as her uncle and grandmother, for the sake of her children and grandchildren, she is not afraid of death.

Mrs. Lu knew more than Lu Fenghe and thought more.

The elders actually know in their hearts that it is not a good time to be out of office at this time, not to mention the case of Shen Nanxun, the possibility of being out of office at this time is far higher than success.

The big room has a academy, there is Uncle Lu's family, and the small third room and the small fourth room have children who can go to school, no matter what, they can always be preserved.

But the second room is not necessarily, the business of the second room is generally because of the Lu family's industry they did before, the Lu family's industry is slowly withdrawn into the hands of the Yan branch, and the second room gradually has no dependence.

If it is Lu Qilang, the only one in the second room who has a reputation and has learned something, and then folds it in, in the future, there will be a chance for the second room to turn over.

Not to mention that the big house and the second room are the same clan and the same branch, the older generation is still good to say, and when the older generation is old, this will become a polite word.

In fact, because Xifu has taken care of the Lu family's business for many years, many shopkeepers only know San Langjun and do not know the Lu family, which has made Uncle Lu and Lu Erlang dissatisfied.

Sun's death not only blocked Lu Qilang's way out of office, but also blocked Lu Sanlang's way to control his business.

But Lu Sanlang and Lu Qilang are grandchildren after all, and the grandchildren of this dynasty can keep filial piety for a year.

A year later, Changfang still can't get back the business, that is, Changfang is incompetent. Lu Qilang hasn't figured it out yet, that is, he is asking for hardship.

Lu Zhan has to be good, only if the second Mrs. Lu is good, will the old lady Lu remember his brother's love.

Sun thought about it, she could only end it by herself, she could block the way of her grandchildren, she didn't die in vain, she couldn't stop it, then she tried her best.

Mrs. Lu arrived in Xifu relatively early, and when she saw the note left by the Sun family, she still didn't understand anything.

Lu Fenghe didn't expect his uncle and grandmother to make such a decision in order to let the third brother and the seventh brother fight for different long houses.

She suddenly thought of the scene where the second uncle knocked on the edge of the bed at night, but she was afraid that the second uncle's heartache for losing his mother was real, and the remorse that she couldn't stop her son from letting his mother sacrifice here was also true.

Lu Fenghe sent the old lady back, accompanied the old lady to eat, and persuaded the old lady to lie down before returning to the third room.

Zhao knew that she was back, so he called her first, and the two children were in Zhao's yard.

"I have already written a letter to your father, the old lady in Xifu is gone, your father and brother can not come back to mourn, but we are in Biling, but it is not possible to leave, our house also has to keep filial piety for the old lady for three months, and go to Kuizhou to wait for the burning of Qiqi."

First, it is a cousin, and keeping filial piety is all based on his heart, and keeping it until the funeral is also considered to be full of heart.

Second, it was the female roll that went, and the husband's clan was not so strict with his filial piety.

"Can you count the days of the funeral?" Zhao asked Lu Fenghe, and when Zhao left, Xifu was still in chaos.

Lu Fenghe nodded, "Forget it, the spirit will be suspended for the twenty-fourth day, and I have to wait for my uncle and grandmother's family to come over." ”

Zhao nodded, this time is still short, the funeral time at this time is long and short, the long one is more than a year, and there are also those who are buried in a hurry the next day.

Twenty days is even considered short.

"Available?"

"I used it, and I came back with my grandmother after using it."

"Then go to the meeting, tomorrow you should be kneeling, your father and brother are not here, although you are a married aunt, but you can't be lazy."

Lu Fenghe nodded in response, "I know." ”

Although most people in the Lu family don't think there's anything wrong with Lu Fenghe's return home, they don't think that the daughter-in-law of the Lu family is an outsider.

But this era is like this, it is always an era of male superiority and female inferiority.

According to the length of mourning time, the mourning clothes worn are roughly subdivided into five such as beheading, Qi decay, great merit, small merit, and hemp.

He was the most decrepid, and he served three years of mourning, and wore the coarsest clothes made of raw linen, and most of them were ministers for kings, sons for fathers, and wives for husbands.

Qi decay is second, wearing coarse linen clothes, from the length of mourning, whether to use a rod or not, and is divided into four grades.

First class: three years of Qi decay, that is, three years of mourning, with a rod. It is used for the father who has died, the son who is the mother, and the unmarried daughter who is the mother.

Second class: Qi decay rod period, that is, mourning for one year, with a rod. It is used when the father is still alive, the son is the mother, the unmarried daughter is the mother, and the husband is the wife.

Third class: Qi decay without cane period, that is, mourning for one year, without cane. Applicable to grandparents, uncles, brothers, unmarried sisters, and married daughters to parents.

Fourth-class: Qi decay March, that is, mourning March, without a rod. Applicable to great-grandparents, great-grandparents.

Great merit, second to Qi decay first-class mourning clothes, made of cooked linen, finer than raw linen. Mourn for the ninth month without a rod. Applicable to married aunts, cousins, and unmarried cousins.

Small work, second to the first class mourning clothes of great work, is made of cooked linen, and the larger work is more fine. Mourn for the month of May without a rod. Applies to grandparents, cousins, brothers, married cousins, and maternal grandparents.

Linen, the lightest first-class mourning garment, is made of the finest cooked linen. Mourn for three months, without a rod. It is applicable to great-grandparents, grandparents, parents-in-law, and uncles, aunts, cousins, parents-in-law with foreign surnames, etc.

The Sun family went, but Lu Zhan was still alive, and he was the second master of the parent, and he only needed to use a staff and serve a year of mourning.

And Lu Sanlang, Lu Liulang, Lu Qilang and other grandchildren need to be mourned without a cane and for a year.

As for Uncle Lu, Lu Sanye, Lu Siye and other nephews, they are dressed in cooked linen and do not use a cane for mourning in September.

When he arrived at Lu Dalang and other nephews, he wore ripe linen and served the mourning in May.

As for a married girl like Lu Fenghe, she is the lightest, cooked in linen, without a cane, and mourns for three months.