After all, you must know that all rains are the same, and since they are all the same, then I wish you and me a hearty and full enjoyment.

"Butterfly Love Flowers: Feelings"

The breeze shakes the willow trees. The white feathers fluttered, and the eyes were full of thoughts.

Kan envy was a pillar for his last life. Haunting the past comes and goes.

Unique pair of zero residual mud flocculent. Things are wrong, afraid to listen to the dusk rain.

Old dreams are often silent. Romance and memories meet.

Author: Tang Tang (Le Yun)

"Baby, where have you been?" Depression sent a message,

"I don't know where I've been, I'll ask the master." Xue Jie happily replied depressed, "Where are you now?" ”

"I'm downstairs in our community, call me when you arrive." Depression sent a message,

"Uh-huh, okay." Xue Jie sat in the front row, recovered from depression, and looked up at the scene on the way, all of which were bare mountains.

"Why are you all mountains here? It's higher than the mountains we have there. Xue Jie sent a message with emotion,

"Of course, we are very close to Taihang Mountain here." Depressed and proud,

"Oh, no wonder, by the way, depressed, the master said we still have more than an hour to arrive." Xue Jie's heart is full of anticipation,

"Uh-huh, okay, I'll just wait downstairs." The depressed heart is finally steady.

I have insomnia, I have a bad appetite, I can't handle relationships well, I'm cowardly, I'm manic, I have a shower...... All of this comes equally from my inner inferiority, laziness, and unwillingness. Some people are trapped in the rain, some people are in the rain and some people enjoy the rain, we are so different, but we are all in the rain. I have never walked out of my hometown, I have never walked into myself, I have not experienced the rain of the world, I don't believe that the young man holds the sword and fights, and there is only one rain left at the end of the world.

This passage really opened my mind. It all stemmed from a trauma that I never talked about, and over the years, every time I encountered a similar situation, I avoided it in the same way. I've never confronted it, dissected it, or solved it. So I encountered it again and again, avoided it, and couldn't solve it. I thought I was traveling through the world, but everywhere it was raining like my hometown. In essence, we are all living in our own lives, and in the end, neither of us can completely save anyone. What is hard to do and what should be done is often the same thing.

"Depressed, I'm here, where are you? There's a fresh hot pot restaurant in front of me, I'll take a picture of it for you. As soon as she got out of the car, Xue Jie hurriedly contacted Depression,

"Mmmm, you take a picture of me, I'll come over right away." depressed seconds back,

"By the way, you take me to the supermarket, I'll buy some gifts for your family, it's not good to go empty-handed." Xue Jie is still very polite,

"Okay, you stay put, I'll come to you." Depressed and hurriedly replied to Xue Jie,

If you desire a genuine love relationship, then the first step you must take is naturally to treat yourself as a truly precious and lovely being, learning to love, to respect, and to cherish yourself. But when one has not enjoyed the love from the object, it is difficult to learn to love oneself. It is easy to love others, but loving yourself as you are is like holding a red hot iron in your arms, and it burns on you with great pain.

The first thing I learned in love was how to love myself, and the philosophy of love is profound and simple: if you don't love yourself, who else can you love? If you don't love yourself, who can love you? I see that many people around me don't know how to love themselves, so I feel distressed. In fact, self-love will not let you lose anyone, as long as you are stable and strong enough, not internal friction, not inferior, and the energy field is clean and stable, the people you attract will be good. Therefore, I hope that everyone can love yourself even if no one loves you, you are your whole world.

"Fool, after a day in the car, are you tired? I should have borne all these hardships, and in the end I let you bear them, and I feel sorry for you. Seeing Xue Jie, she was depressed and distressed, so she hurriedly took Xue Jie's suitcase, took Xue Jie's hand, and blamed herself as she walked.

"What's this? You see, I didn't show up in front of you in a good way. Xue Jie didn't feel tired at all, and was cute to the depression, "Honey, do you miss me?" ”

"I definitely want to," said gloomily, "I miss you and worry about you, I don't know how I spent my day." ”

"Oh, look, I knew it." Xue Jie hugged the depression,

What is love? I felt and perceived my world like a blind man touching an elephant, and finally found it "a comfortable way to get along". But I only seem to love myself, and no matter how fervent I am about the love that others give me, I always feel that one day it will disappear, and I am afraid that others will love me, but I will not get the response I deserve. Growing up is painful, I don't praise it, but it gives me experience, it gives me experience, it gives me the opportunity to understand the world. After a long period of self-hatred and non-acceptance, one day I thought that I might as well accept this imperfect self, accept her split, accept her obedience, accept her, love her. Yes, I never thought that I could still love myself, love in the true sense of the word, that is, infinite patience, infinite understanding, infinite infinite love. Strangely, when I experienced this love, I found that my relationship with the world eased, and I could even share a little love with others.

"Let's just buy some and go back, the family has already bought a lot of things to eat for the New Year, and there will be more to buy, it's good to have a meaning." Depressed said to Xue Jie, "You are the biggest gift here." ”

"Cut, just you can talk." Xue Jie walked up and down, "Look, there's a supermarket in front, let's go buy it there." ”

"Okay." Looking at the girl in front of me who loves herself wholeheartedly, my heart is full of emotion: Girl, can you stop self-criticism? Can you be nicer to yourself? Perhaps the most important question is, can you love yourself well?

A person with a clean heart, clear thinking, and no superfluous emotions and delusions will bring people a sense of security. Because she doesn't hurt anyone, she doesn't hurt herself. Don't cause trouble, and don't trouble others. In a way, it's a vow. This is similar to the Buddhism's "precept and wisdom", quitting greed, hatred and ignorance, and inner stability, in order to give birth to wisdom. Learning to love yourself may seem like a few words, but in fact it is full of hardships and pains, and some people are lucky that they were born in a loving environment and naturally learn to love. In order for other people to learn to love in an environment where they are not loved, they must look for the opposite side of not being loved, but the more they see the opposite, the more they will question why they can't see the shadow of love in themselves. People who grow up in such an environment often have no ability to love and no ability to be loved.

"Baby, you sit behind me, I rode an electric motorcycle, I'll take the things." Said to Xue Jie depressedly and gently,

"Okay, let's go, I'm hungry, let's go home." Xue Jie's happy response was depressed,.

When you pass by, my life will always be polished for a second. I don't know why I like you, what I like about you, what I like, but I just like you, I like you, I like you very much, I like you more and more.