Moreover, every couple has their own way of getting along.

Lu Xun thinks that God has separated Gan Tang for four years, which is already the biggest tempering for the two of them, and in the future, when they become husband and wife, life will only be as sweet as honey.

……

On the way back, the eldest cousin-in-law asked Gan Tang in a low voice, seeing if Lu Xun had it.

A hot emotion suddenly rose in Gan Tang's heart.

Lu Xun said that if he didn't mention the right thing, he wouldn't mention the right thing, obviously the two of them only spent a stick of incense alone, so he was stunned and asked her about her food, clothing, housing and transportation.

It's as if she's a three-year-old child, and she's not yet self-reliant.

"Hmm...... He said that after the beginning of spring, when the ice surface melts, he will go fishing, and he will send two tails to his house. ”

In fact, Gantang also has a gift today, which is a concentric buckle gold ring.

According to Lu Xun, now the target of sending hairpins, bracelets, armbands and other things is too big, and her grandmother will not allow her to wear them.

Gan Tang really couldn't help Lu Xun's careful thoughts, and even coaxed her to hide her elders!

"Fish?" The eldest cousin's eyes lit up suddenly, "If you want to say what Yan Long likes the most, it is the Bo River outside the city, because of that river, the water source in this city is abundant, and there are fresh fish to eat at any time." ”

The geography of Xichuan is an endless grassland, and there are rivers there, but they are all small rivers, and there is no such wide river as the Bo River, which can defend against foreign thieves and nurture all things for the people in the city.

"Nishikawa short, have you eaten and drunk? If you are asked to live in Yanlong for a few years, you are afraid that you will cry. "Uncle said.

Xichuan and Yan Long, typical ten miles of different days and hundreds of miles of different customs, the eldest cousin is free and easy, if she is allowed to sit and lie down like Yan Longcheng's nobles and abide by the rules, she will really cry.

"No, no, mother, Yan Long, I won't stay long...... But if Tang'er suffers any grievances in Yan Long, I will definitely travel thousands of miles a day to support her...... But look at it now, the Lu family is not bad, and I don't need to travel thousands of miles a day. ”

At this meeting between the two families of Ganlu, although the two parties only got a stick of incense in total, they were alone with each other, but the elders had already passed each other's big and small things that the two families could talk about in the open.

If there is a word, it is long, and if there is no word, it is short.

In the blink of an eye, it is spring in March.

The weather in Yanlong is getting better and better, the newly smoked buds of the willow branches on Namo are full of vitality, and there is an endless stream of people who are busy taking care of agriculture and mulberry in the fields.

During this period of time, Gan Tang was very diligent, and in her busy life, there were about three things that filled her, the first thing was to continue to follow up on the personnel repatriation of all kinds of grange shops that she had inquired about in the previous two months, but there were still loopholes, the second thing was to be taught by the Gan family to be a daughter-in-law in three days, and the third thing was to let the second aunt go to Qimang Mountain with herself after preparing for the ceremony.

On this day, first of all, the elders of the Gan family came to tell Gan Tang about the things of being a bride.

Originally, it was "Tang'er was a bride, and she wanted to ......"

"Being a bride is not the same as being a girl, you have to pay attention to ......"

"When you get married, you ...... between husband and wife" and other topics.

When Gan Tang motioned to his girl to serve tea to a few elders, Gan Tang naturally mentioned his mother, "Tang'er remembers that my mother was like several uncles and aunts, teaching me to be a man and etiquette, and in a blink of an eye, she has been gone for almost five years. ”

"I don't know that my father and mother are in the spirit of heaven, do you know that I am going to get married?"

"Tang'er, don't be sad, although the eldest brother and sister-in-law are gone, but they have spirits in the sky and will protect you, you and the Lu family are a match made in heaven, and you can only be happy when you want to come to your father.

You...... If you really miss them, you can put more incense sticks on them when you come to the Yanguo Mansion to collect them, and tell them about your marriage. ”

Nowadays, the marriage is strictly in accordance with the six wedding rites in the "Zhou Li", which starts from Nacai and ends with the kiss, and each ceremony must open an ancestral hall to worship the ancestors.

Gan Tang misses his deceased father and mother, if he wants to put a stick of incense in front of his deceased father and deceased mother, no one will be harsh.

Gan Tang sighed, "What the fifth uncle said is, eh...... I've been back to Yanlong for more than half a year, but I've only been to my father's tomb twice to offer incense, which is really unfilial. Ladies and gentlemen, I am young and do not know the number of etiquette, if I want to go to Qimang Mountain to sprinkle and sweep the grave for my father and mother after the Nacai ceremony? ”

Several uncles and mothers looked at each other, this is not impossible, nowadays filial piety, and marriage is a major event, whether men and women want to go to the grave to say goodbye to their deceased parents is the embodiment of filial piety.

It's just that Gan Tang is now preparing for marriage in the Gan family, and her travel must be handled by the Gan family.

But who is in charge of this?

A few uncles want to handle it but are afraid of trouble.

"Tang'er, why don't you go with your eighth uncle." In the past few months, the eighth uncle and mother wanted to talk to Gan Tang several times about the management of good fields in Linxian County, but Gan Tang didn't answer, and the refusal was obvious, but she never wanted to give up.

And the third uncle made a fuss about the separation of the family, and gave the second grandfather and the second grandmother a hammer, and now they were invited by the Gan family for three days and two ends to drink tea and chat (lesson), and they have no shame to go out, but they feel guilty about their eldest son and eldest daughter-in-law, and write several times to ask the third uncle's family to move back from Linxian.

In the end, it was father and son, and the third uncle didn't want to have a stiff relationship with his parents, and his reply gradually relaxed, but now hundreds of hectares of fertile land are catching up with the farmer, planting seedlings and planting seedlings, and the third uncle has no time to come back, and their family still lives in Linxian.

Gan Tang smiled back at the eighth uncle, "Eighth uncle, Tang'er remembers that you were infected with the wind cold a few days ago because of the cold in the spring, although Tang'er has no experience in childbirth, but during this time, I listened to the teachings of my uncles and mothers, and I also know that women should take care of themselves after giving birth, so as not to fall into the root of the disease, how can Tang'er let you worry about Tang'er." ”

After Gan Tang said sincerely, his eyes wandered, and finally he landed somewhere at random as if unintentionally, "Otherwise, the second aunt will accompany me, and we will go back the same day." ”

Second Aunt Gan has always maintained her non-talkative personality during this time, obviously she is the closest uncle to Gantang, but often she doesn't talk as much as some uncles who have been separated from Gantang for three generations.

The most obvious point is that Aunt Gan is the wife of the patriarch, and among the uncles and aunts, she has always been the middle one, but after entering the house, her position will get closer and closer to the corner, and when she leaves, it is also the fifth uncle and aunt who make a concluding statement.

"That's right, second sister-in-law, why don't you take Tang'er there...... Eh, second sister-in-law, why did you get to the corner? ”

I don't know if it was the aunt who first agreed with the idea, and then the other aunts also agreed.

Aunt Gan took off the Buddha beads on her wrist under her sleeve again, and silently recited a sentence of Amitabha Buddha, and should accompany Gan Tang to Qimang Mountain.

……

On the day when the Lu family came to Gan's house, the Gan's house was re-decorated inside and out, and incense candles three feet high and one palm thick were lit on the incense table of the prince of heaven and earth.

The matchmaker invited by the Lu family, the princess of Shun Wang, arrived at the door at the auspicious time in a four-horse carriage with blue birds and white bronze calves, and the second grandfather and second grandmother and Gan Tang's maternal grandmother welcomed her into the door.

Along with her, there are hundreds of small maids who hold fish, geese, sheep, deer, gelding, duck mother, incense, cake, sake, liquor, japonica rice, millet rice, rock sugar, winter melon, orange cake, persimmon, noodles, sheep and pig, blessing, mandarin duck candy road, acacia bell, carved mandarin duck, phoenix bracelet, ring, pu reed, curly cypress, relic beast, blessed beast, lacquer, glue, silk clothes, five-color silk, nine children's women, nine children's ink, and other gifts that symbolize auspiciousness and good couples.

These little maids walked from the Yanguo Mansion to the Gan Mansion, the line was long, and there were auspicious songs and harmony along the way, and the scene was not grand.

Along the way, there are many people around to watch the excitement, it is the root of the imperial city, that is, the people, they have also seen a lot of the world, and they have discussed that the two Lu Gan families, who are about to marry the Qin and Jin Dynasty, are so lively today, and how grand the wedding ceremony will be in the future.

In a room on the second floor of an inconspicuous restaurant, a man and a woman leaned against the window.

The man wears a brocade and a jade hat to show that his family is rich, and although the woman is covered with a thick cloak, you can look at the clothes under her cloak - the clothes are also good materials, but half of the hidden clothes that should have been covered are exposed, and the smooth and white breasts can't be covered.

The man put a woman's face on the face and asked her to look out the window at the bustle of the street, "Those things should have been yours...... Wu Niangzi. You said that your father is not ridiculous, in order to climb the Yanguo Mansion, take you and the Yanguo Gongzi to climb the relationship, but my good cousin, the former prince of the country fell, and the Lu family was also in danger, and your father became a stepping stone for the prince and the Yanguo Mansion to save his life, and his family wealth was confiscated, and men, women and children were punished for the end of coolies and prostitutes. Nowadays, a pair of jade pillows for thousands of people, a little red lips for thousands of people to taste ......"

The man rubbed the woman's arms and lips with extreme disgust, and the woman bit her lip stubbornly and unwillingly.

The man was not happy to see a woman like this, so he forcefully broke the woman's mouth, "Now, your son's brother is going to marry a bride, and you can't even have a relationship with him." ”

"Lu Jiuyi seems to have not been looking for you for a few months, now I know what he is doing during this time when he hasn't looked for you." The man's voice was disgusted.

"Do you know whose family Lu Jiyi's bride is? The Gan family is a little lady who killed her father, and her identity is not as good as you were at the beginning...... Mei'er, if you make me happy, I will make their family affairs for you......" The man's eyes became more and more evil, and he stroked Wu Niangzi's hand more and more unruly.

While gnawing on Wu Niangzi's cheek, he said, "Mei'er, I can't bear to make you sad, I won't let Lu Jiuyi, who failed you, feel better, you have to reward me well." ”