Thinking of this, I asked Andrei:

- "Andrei, why are Italians so keen on falling in love?" ”

- "That's a strange question, isn't that?" Andrei put down the book and looked at me, smiling.

- "What's so strange?" I leaned on the bed and looked up and asked him.

Andrei put his hands on the back of his chair, looked at me a little strangely, and said:

- "You say, what country is not keen on falling in love?" ”

- "I say that the degree of enthusiasm is not the same, I feel that Italians are more fanatical than other peoples. For example, can you imagine Romeo being British or German? I can't imagine it anyway. I said.

- "Then can you imagine that he is Russian?" Andrei asked me.

- "Well, it's hard to say. The Russians are too hard to say how they do things, they seem to do everything. I replied.

- "I think the Russians and Italians are the ones who can enjoy life in the world, right?" Don't you think both peoples will enjoy it? Andrei said

- "It's natural to enjoy it, do you need it?" I asked?

- "Haha, Linna, I think enjoyment is a talent, and it's really not something you can enjoy if you want to. Andrei said with a smile. For example, you can enjoy music, but Mozart must have enjoyed music more than Tyson. In the same way, Mozart may not have the pleasure of Tyson's boxing, right? Do you say it has nothing to do with talent? Andrei asked.

- "Then you mean that Russians and Italians have a talent for falling in love?" I said

- "I think so! ”

- "Is this also a talent?" ”

- "Then why do you say that they are more enthusiastic?" You think there's a difference, right? ”

- "I think it's a cultural difference!"

- "What determines the difference between cultures?" ”

- "Haha, this may really have something to do with the national character." ”

- "Personality is acquired, but there is also a large factor that is innate, right?" ”

- "Well, yes, Andrey, you said that people in these two countries prefer to enjoy and are therefore more keen on falling in love, right? ”

- "I think so. ”

- "So you're in a relationship, you think you're enjoying life, right?" ”

- "Yes? ”

- "Then if you don't fall in love, don't you feel that you have nothing to love?" ”

- "That's not it, I think it's a metaphor for falling in love." Linna, it's like you wore a beautiful dress at the party, you think it's beautiful, right? That's a beautiful experience, you didn't wear such a beautiful dress, you can only say that you are a little regretful, so that you don't have to say that you have no love. You can experience something else. ”

- "I think that's the case too, so I don't think the impact of falling in love on people is probably not very great. ”

- "No, Linna! The impact on different people is different. ”

- "I don't understand! ”

- "There is a sentence that says, "I could have endured the darkness, if I hadn't met the light" So, love is like light, and it may really be nothing to people who have never felt it. But, my dear, how unbearable you say it must be for those who are accustomed to the light. ”

- "You're saying that the experience is not the same as the experience, right?" ”

- "You eat cake and Rosa, Mary eating cake should not be much different from how she feels about cake." This is the simplest low-level enjoyment, and the experience should be the same for everyone. But with Tom Cruise, you and Rosa and Mary will feel very different, right? ”

- "Naturally, Mary is a fan of Tom, and I don't have any feelings for him, so I'm not a fan of him. ”

- "But even if you're not a fan of Tom, you don't hate him, do you?" ”

- "That's not enough, otherwise, I won't be able to stand him sticking to my wall!" I laughed.

- "Yes, you don't love him even though you hang him in your room. So, it's especially difficult to really fall in love with someone.

You can not experience the feeling of being in love, but you can't help but admit it.

It's like when we see Maradona playing on the football pitch, and although it's hard for us to fully understand it, you can still feel that he enjoyed it, right?

It's the same when you fall in love, other people's strong feelings can be contagious and affect you. However, the truest feelings can only be understood when you experience them. ”

- "Is it like a blind man who sees the light?" ”

- "I think everyone has different feelings about love, depending on the kind of person you meet. The days without love are dark, and you may meet someone who is like a candle that brightens your life and makes you feel like you're in love. Maybe you will meet someone who is like a beacon who will illuminate all of you. That's when you feel like that's what you need most. Maybe one day you meet someone like the sun who lights up your world. What would you think? Those who encounter candles may not be able to imagine what the sun looks like, right? ”

- "So, the individual differences in falling in love are really big. It's really hard to communicate. ”

- "Yes, the connotation of love is too rich, so it will give people the ultimate beautiful experience!" ”

- "Haha, I see, Andrey, you mean that you will enjoy it. There are really people who denigrate love, in essence, that is, they don't have the opportunity or ability to enjoy it, right? ”

- "Yes! Many people are very egoistic, even narcissistic, thinking that what they can't feel doesn't exist, and their feelings may apply to themselves, but if it's a slander of other people's good feelings, it's not only unconvincing, it's a little ridiculous. But in this world, as you said, people who have never felt love dare to denigrate love the most, haha"

——"There is a saying in China that "once the sea was difficult to water, except for Wushan, it is not a cloud", which is also a personal feeling. It's really impossible for outsiders to understand. It seems that what kind of love you meet is the key. ”

- "Yes! ”

- "Andrea, I asked you that Italians are very interested in love, and you said that they will enjoy life, is there any necessary connection between this?" ”

- "You don't object to the Italians enjoying it, do you?" ”

- "I agree with that. They love art and Milan is the fashion capital. They love good food, the best chefs in Europe are from Italy, they like to listen to opera, drink fine wine, drink coffee and enjoy football. …… Of course, they are also the best lovers! ”

- "Italians like a high quality of life, they love luxury. They believe that love is the most extravagant in quality life! Falling in love is the greatest enjoyment. ”

- "Haha, Andrey, if you say that, I think I'm a billionaire!" ”

- "I think the richest man in the world is my standard of living!" ”

- "Hahahaha......"

In the dormitory, Andre and I, two self-absorbed fools, were laughing happily!

I don't know how other people feel when they're in love, anyway, Andre and I felt at the time that we were very satisfied with having each other, and other things in this world really didn't appeal that much to the two of us.

I think maybe I really have the luxury that Andre said, which makes me disdain other inferior products!