Incense is so different from the environment in which we grew up.

In their small Vietnamese village, the concept of marriage and love is simple and rustic.

She does not understand the differences in people's requirements for family in other environments in the world, let alone the different demands of each individual for family.

Xiang and Song are also in Moscow, but their thinking is actually divorced from the concept of the city.

I really like their idyllic traditional mentality.

However, I live in the 21st century, in a complex environment where I have to deal with various challenges from society.

The perceptions of the people around me are so different from theirs.

The people around me, including myself, really can't inherit that ancient virtue.

I also can't guarantee that anyone will be able to escape the squeeze and temptation of reality. What may seem like too many opportunities is actually too much uncertainty.

I think if I had met Andre 200 years ago, we would have chosen marriage as a natural way to conceive of our relationship.

Even if there is some disharmony in the kinship relationship, it does not affect us to live our own life as a farmer and a weaver.

I may not have been able to write a research report at the time, but I would have learned how to bake a cake!

Andre will not be entangled in whether to follow David's arrangement.

The sun rises and the sun sets, and perhaps the most troublesome thing for André at that time is what to name his child.

I really don't want to be rich and rich, I just want to be with my loved ones until I grow old.

However...... All this is really a luxury for me and Andre at the moment!

Love is romantic and follows the ideal principle, while marriage is realistic and follows the social principle.

When the two collide, one is bound to be sacrificed.

"Zhuangzi, Inner Chapter, Great Master": "The spring is dry, the fish are on land, wet with each other, wet with foam, it is better to forget each other in the rivers and lakes." ”

Someone once said: "Foam with each other", which may be touching; And "forgetting each other in the rivers and lakes" is another realm, choosing to give up strong feelings in exchange for a stable life, which may require a greater openness and a more indifferent state of mind.

It's not like I don't want to get along with Andrey. But now I find that it is a gift from God to be able to get along with each other, and there are so many situations that I can only choose - forget each other in the rivers and lakes!