0474 Watching the fishing godsister

"My sister is kind-hearted, it's a good thing to help people in need, not to mention that Xiaoyu is still your best friend, she used to take so good care of you, how could it be wrong to help her?"

Jiang Guanyu first gave affirmation, and then his voice changed: "But human nature is complicated, and it is even more rare to raise Mi En's fight against Mi Hat, so it is not wrong for you to help others, but you must pay attention to the ways and means, if the methods are not used correctly, in the end, maybe you will turn against each other."

"Oh!"

Cher looked like she didn't understand.

"It's better to teach a man and a fish than to teach a man to fish!"

Jiang Guanyu said earnestly.

Cher fell into thought thoughtfully.

Although she was not stupid, she was only a fifteen-year-old girl after all, and she had been thinking about it for a long time, but she had not come up with a good solution.

Simply grabbed his arm coquettishly and shook it: "Brother, I can't think of it, you just say what should I do now to help the buns, right?"

"You, you're not stupid, but you haven't entered the society yet, and you don't understand the world."

Jiang Guanyu asked as if he was taking the school exam, "What do you think Xiaoyu and her mother need most now?"

"Money."

Cher blurted out without hesitation.

Jiang Guanyu's face darkened, and he flicked on her head angrily: "Lack of money is certain, but the question now is, do you want to help Xiaoyu and ask her opinion?"

Cher rubbed her head and was stunned.

Yes, she wanted to help Baozi, but she never asked Baozi's opinion.

"No, right?"

Jiang Guanyu knew the answer when he saw her reaction.

"Hmm! I just wanted to help her, that's why I wanted her mother to work in the store."

Xue'er pursed her lips and said weakly.

"But have you thought about it, what will Baozi think if you make such a unilateral arrangement?"

Jiang Guan Yu is kind and seductive.

Xue'er frowned and was silent for a long time without speaking.

"Although I don't have much contact with Xiaoyu, I can see from a few contacts that she is a girl with strong self-esteem, otherwise, she would not be so strict-mouthed, and she has never revealed half a sentence to you about such a big incident at home."

Jiang Guanyu looked at his sister with perceptive eyes.

Xue'er nodded thoughtfully: "Indeed, if I hadn't noticed that something was wrong with her in the past two days and quietly followed her to the hospital after school, I'm afraid she wouldn't have told me."

After speaking, he looked at Jiang Guanyu with some sadness: "Brother, did you say that Baozi didn't treat me as a friend?"

"No, on the contrary, this shows that she really regards you as a friend, and she doesn't want you to look down on her, so she doesn't want to tell you such a family ugly."

Jiang Guanyu has been a human being for two lives, and speculating on the idea of a little girl is not a piece of cake.

"Why? We're best friends."

Cher still felt a little incomprehensible.

"It's a complex question, it involves human nature, and it can't be explained in a few simple words."

Jiang Guanyu pondered for a moment, and said, for example, "In the past, when our family had no money, did she take special care of you?"

"Well, at that time, I was angry with you and my mother, I didn't want the family's money, and I lived a life where I didn't have a last meal, and the buns were all changed to bring me delicious food......

Speaking of this, Xue'er showed a sudden realization: "I understand."

"Got what?"

Jiang Guanyu looked at his sister with a smile.

"I remember that I was actually quite resistant at the time, and I didn't want to accept the pity of others, so every time Baozi brought me food, she said that she couldn't finish it, and it was too wasteful to lose it, so she coaxed me to eat it."

Xue'er said with some emotion, "It's not that she can't finish eating, but she's afraid that it will hurt my self-esteem, so she finds all kinds of excuses to give it to me."

"That's right, this is where Xiaoyu is more mature than you, she knows Zhao

Take care of your self-esteem and try to accept her help in a way that you feel comfortable with, so that you don't feel inferior to her, and you can become good friends."

Jiang Guanyu said earnestly: "The way for friends to get along is sincerity, but also equality."

"That's why my brother will lend money to Brother Xiao Ning to buy a house, instead of giving it to him?"

Xue'er looked at him with adoring eyes wide open.

"Not bad."

Jiang Guanyu said appreciatively: "With Brother Xiao Ning's temper, if I give him a house directly, he will definitely not accept it, and there will be a sense of humiliation of being given by others, so I will lend him money to make it easier for him to accept."

"I see what my brother means."

Xue'er nodded thoughtfully.

Jiang Guanyu smiled with relief: "Then what are you going to do?"

"Lend her money so that she can pay it back slowly when she has money in the future."

Cher said with a grin.

Jiang Guanyu said with a smile, "What if she doesn't want to borrow it?"

"No, I'll pay attention to the way and help her in a tactful way, and it won't make her feel uncomfortable."

Xue'er said confidently: "Baozi is actually a person with strong self-esteem, as long as she borrows my money, she will definitely work hard to earn money to repay me, I will tell her that if she drops out of school, it will be difficult to find a job, and she will not be able to pay my money at all, so that she can only turn her debt into motivation, study hard, and strive to be admitted to a good literary academy."

Jiang Guanyu was greatly pleased, and suggested to her to fill in the gaps: "Actually, you have a good idea of letting her mother go to work in the store, but you must ask Baozi's opinion in advance, and after reaching a consensus, you will work hard to promote this matter."

"Hmm! I lent her money to rent a house and helped her mother find a job to support the family, so that she would not be so stressed."

The matter was resolved smoothly, and Cher was also very happy.

"If you do the same thing from a different angle, you will have different results."

Jiang Guanyu pinched his sister's face fondly: "So, don't blame you Sister Tingting, doing business and helping friends are two different things, and as a manager, she is not wrong to oppose your opinion."

"Well, I used to be a little angry because I didn't think it through and thought she was too unsympathetic, but now I understand that I was too emotional."

Xue'er stuck out her tongue and said with some worry, "Sister Tingting didn't come back to live today, can't she be angry with me?"

"No, isn't it going to open the day after tomorrow, she just arranged the staff dormitory today, bought furniture and daily necessities, and is taking the staff to clean the dormitory, I don't know what time it will be busy, so I will live in the staff dormitory tonight."

Jiang Guanyu explained with a smile. Z.br>

"Oh, that's good, I'll apologize to her when she comes back."

Xue'er relieved her heart and said a little embarrassed.

"Well, my sister has really grown up."

Jiang Guanyu said with relief.

Jingle bells!

Cher grimaced mischievously, and was about to speak when a hurried phone rang.