Chapter 755: The subtle influence is called brainwashing
Ma Changming left the office after contacting the question of booking a box.
Calm regained in the office, Ye Haoran took out two books from the lower layer of the coffee table and looked at them, one was a book about management, which may have been used by Ma Changming for study, but it was a little letter, and there were no obvious traces of turning.
The other is a magazine, which came from Hong Kong Island, and men know it, and the traces of this book are obvious, and the corners of the book are all turned cytoplasm, so you can imagine how many times it has been read.
Ye Haoran also liked some of the content in it, and watched it change for more than half an hour.
Wei Lai, who was lying on his lap, didn't know when he opened his eyes.
Wei Lai, who woke up, didn't move, just looked at Ye Haoran quietly, found that Ye Haoran didn't notice him, closed his eyes again, and tried to chrysalis twice, and his entire upper body fell into Ye Haoran's arms.
With her hands around Ye Haoran's waist, she could even clearly feel the temperature on Ye Haoran's body on her face.
When Wei Lai was chrysalis, Ye Haoran felt it for the first time, put down the magazine, looked at Wei Lai with his eyes closed, and could clearly see the smile on the corner of Wei Lai's mouth.
"Get up when you wake up, and don't lie on me."
Wei Lai didn't make a sound, continued to pretend to be asleep, and even snored a little, just a little fake.
"If you don't get up again, I'll go."
Hearing that Ye Haoran was leaving, Wei Lai hurriedly tightened his hands around Ye Haoran's waist, and then knew that he had revealed a flaw.
Even if it was debunked by Ye Haoran, Wei Lai had no intention of letting go.
opened his eyes and glared at Ye Haoran: "I won't!" ”
After rubbing on Ye Haoran for a long time, there were some strange changes.
Wei Lai secretly felt it with curiosity, and his face turned red instantly.
"You obviously like me very much, why do you keep avoiding me!"
Ye Haoran opened his mouth and wanted to say that he didn't like Wei Lai, but liked all the beauties, but he was suffocated back to his heart before he could say it.
Wei Lai saw that Ye Haoran didn't answer, and immediately stepped up his offensive: "I'm not afraid, what are you afraid of, I'm also beautiful after studying well, I still have money, I'm worthy of you." ”
Before the last word was finished, Wei Lai was about to reach out to untie Ye Haoran's waist belt.
This action really scared Ye Haoran, he didn't understand anything at a young age, and he rushed to do this kind of thing after watching two episodes of TV series, and Wei Lai was also the only one.
originally wanted to take advantage of the situation and let Wei Lai solve his difficulties, but thinking of Wei Lai's problems, Ye Haoran still held back.
Holding his belt tightly and not letting go, he grabbed Wei Lai and said, "I don't hate you, but you can't do what I hate." ”
"You hate this? But when I watch it on TV, the boys like it? ”
That's the price of ignorance, and the dare to say anything.
Ye Haoran stretched out his hand to help Wei Lai and let her sit next to him, and Wei Lai, who had just been made, wrapped up again, as if he was hugging each other, and tried his best to put his face forward, if Ye Haoran hadn't dodged it, maybe the two would have kissed together.
Seizing the gap, Ye Haoran hurriedly explained: "What I hate is not this, but your way of life." ”
"Conduct yourself? What does it mean to make useful people and break off relationships that are not employed? ”
That's how Wei Lai's parents made Wei Lai, you want to make useful friends, and whoever can bring you benefits will be friends with whom, and those who can't help you, you have to draw a line with them.
Under the subtle influence of this concept, Wei Lai will gradually become the character he is today.
How parents educate their children is not what you teach children to learn, especially in middle and high school, when children already have their own ideas, they will adopt some of the parents' suggestions, plus some of their own ideas.
Therefore, many parents' thoughts will appear in other changes when it comes to their children.
This is also the reason why many teachers say that educating children should be based on guidance and cannot impose their own ideas.
Otherwise, it is easy to teach an extreme character.
That's how Wei Lai is.
Ye Haoran pondered in his heart for a moment before he spoke: "Not all interests between people are between people, and what interests are you talking about as a student, you don't do business, friends mean that someone can reach out to help you when you are in danger, not help you bully others together." ”
This kind of thing can't be pilled, otherwise it is easy to drive Wei Lai crazy, and the collision of the three views and the three views is by no means a trivial matter.
At the least, they quarrel and do their jobs, and if they do the worst, their families will be ruined.
The three views are the starting point and the end point of all contradictions.
Ye Haoran wants to change Wei Lai, it is not an easy task, and it depends on how deep the influence of Wei Lai's parents is on Wei Lai.
"But... My parents said that playing with useless people is a pure waste of time and energy, and I should make more useful people, Chen Nian..."
Wei Lai thought that Ye Haoran was talking about Chen Nian, after all, he had done a lot of things that were not very friendly to Chen Nian.
But after thinking of the relationship between Chen Nian and Xiaobei, Xiaobei and Ye Haoran, Wei Lai only mentioned one name and stopped what he was going to say.
When Ye Haoran heard her say this, he breathed a sigh of relief, and was not rejected by Yizheng's words, indicating that Wei Lai was not deeply poisoned, but only existed in the memory influence in his mind, and did not penetrate deep into the bone marrow.
"Speaking of Chen Nian, both of you are Qingbei, for example, if you were good friends in high school, and when you get to college, you are in trouble, or when you are bullied, will Chen Nian ignore you? To put it more seriously, she can even save your life in an emergency. ”
Wei Lai frowned, the surface was calm, but his heart was already thundering, and the collision of two different points of view in his heart made Wei Lai silent for a long time.
Ye Haoran was also a little surprised, he didn't expect that his position in Wei Lai's heart would be so important, if it was the persuasion of ordinary people, it might be that he didn't care about it.
If it is the persuasion of a good friend, there may be a quarrel or debate, and whoever wins will occupy the top, which is the process of subconsciously trying to unify the thoughts between friends.
How else to say that fish look for fish, shrimp look for shrimp.
And Wei Lai's situation means that Ye Haoran's concept is on par with another concept in Wei Lai's heart, and they are attacking each other, which is why Ye Haoran is very important in Wei Lai's heart.
"And, even if you don't like a person, you can't show this emotion on your face, this is called a city, and you can't do anything to hurt others, that's called a crime, I think you can live a happy and relaxed life, make friends without caring about anything, even if you don't get any benefits, but you get the company of others, at least you won't feel lonely."
Listening to Ye Haoran's words, Wei Lai nodded slowly, did not say anything shocking, nor did he defend himself, but just raised his head and stared at Ye Haoran seriously.
was inexplicably seen by Wei, and just as he was about to speak, Wei Laimeng came over.
Taking advantage of Ye Haoran's defenselessness for a while, he made a sneak attack, and it was successful!