In the small building in the backyard, Miaoyin Niangzi frequently looked forward to the hall in front of her, feeling very worried, and all kinds of miscellaneous thoughts came to her mind, always worried that Aya Gong Li Lang would not be able to get along.

Cui Shi was sitting in the middle of the table perusing a book of rites, studying the various etiquette regulations and matters that need to be paid attention to when the children get married. These things are also very unfamiliar areas to her, but since she is the head of the household, they are also unavoidable responsibilities and obligations.

Last night, Dugu Xin talked to Cui Shi in detail about his plans for his children's marriage, and Cui Shi realized that not only the oldest Miaoyin lady, but also the second daughter of the household will marry Daxingtai next year for a long time.

And according to the meaning of Dugu Xin's discussion with Daxingtai, the marriage of Gongdaxingtai must be handled first, and the ceremonies will start before Miaoyinju's dress.

After Cui Shi learned this, his mood naturally became a little urgent, and he needed to quickly memorize the rites. But Miao Yin walked anxiously in front of her seat, and she couldn't read the content recorded on the gift scroll at this time.

"You lady didn't have any fearlessness last night, why did you become nervous and scared today? Could it be that he is worried that Li Jialangjun will be willful and can't be loved by you?"

Cui Shi simply put down the scroll in his hand, looked at the little lady and said with a smile.

"I'm not stupid, I'm not dizzy, how can I not love Li Lang? Besides, this matter was originally Aye's admiration for Li Lang and his intention was the first. Mother, you can't see how anxious Aya was when Li Lang was still coming?"

After hearing this, Miaoyin Niangzi hurriedly shook her head and said, but her face was still sad, and she approached Cui Shi and sat down and continued: "It's just that I heard that there are many calculations about marriage and etiquette in the world. There are some people who are stingy and reluctant to fill the women's makeup with plump makeup, so they are cold and picky about the men, so as to cover up their pettiness and rudeness, or they will ruin the good relationship that is set......

Cui Shi didn't expect that this little lady had already worried about this step, and after hearing this, she was stunned for a moment, and then she couldn't help but shake her head and sigh and said, "You little lady is really idle and boring, worrying about other miscellaneous affairs. Although my family has a large population, you have always had food and drink, and you don't need to withhold women's dowries to make ends meet!"

"It's not just a bunch of thought, it's something you need to think about! If it is true, I am no longer the lady of the household, and the lady in this door no longer has the responsibility to make a dowry for me."

Miaoyin Niangzi frowned slightly, and her tone was not in a hurry, obviously this matter was also considered for time.

When she saw that Cui Shi was about to speak again, she continued: "Of course, I also know in my heart that Ye Niang did not treat me as a disgusting person from another family, and she was still willing to tolerate me deeply in the household. But this is only indoors, and I am not qualified to blame Ye Niang for the next year's dowry, whether it is rich or frugal."

Speaking of this, she looked at Cui's again and said curiously, "Mother, when you entered this household, how much did the relatives of the old household give? It's not that I want to snoop on my privacy, but I'm going to be on the verge of it, so I'm inevitably curious......

When Cui Shi heard this, she couldn't help but feel a little embarrassed, although she and this little lady have the status of mother and daughter, but the age between them is not enough to form a generation difference.

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Before this little lady was raised in the household, Cui's could still pose as some stepmothers and elders, but in recent years, they have not been close enough.

This question is indeed a little sensitive and embarrassing, if someone asks it, Cui's will not pay attention to the other party, but this little lady obviously doesn't have too many thoughts, just just curious.

Cui's and Dugu Xin are old husbands and young wives, and the daughters of famous families are subordinate to the military family, which naturally has many considerations based on reality.

"At that time, I was far less shrewd than you, a little lady, and I already knew a lot about it. At that time, a family of men and women lived in a narrow household, but it was a burden to have a living mouth open to eat. If you can't eat enough, how can you talk about any dowry!"

Speaking of his life experience, Cui's is also emotional. Their family lived in Henan, and they did not follow when Xiaowu moved westward, until the Eastern Dynasty moved the capital to Yecheng, and the Henan clans were strong and powerful

Following the uprising, he arrived in Kansai.

In the early years of the Great Unification, it was difficult to maintain the national economy, and although the imperial court rewarded them with honorable honors, it was just vanity. Living in a foreign land and having no assets, Cui's words about food and clothing are unsustainable, and it is definitely not an exaggeration, but a real thing.

Although her family has relatives and friends in Kansai, their situation is not very calm, and the huge family has no reason to rely on others for help. Cui's uncle Cui Yanmu and Wei Xiaokuan used to be classmates in Luoxia, Duguxin was widowed a few years ago, and under Wei Xiaokuan's guidance, Cui became Duguxin's stepwife.

Under such circumstances, the Cui family had neither the ability nor the heart to prepare any dowry for the Cui family, but obtained a large amount of money and goods from Duguxin, which also greatly improved the family's life.

When she heard this little lady ask about makeup, Cui's was both a little embarrassed and envious, envious of this little lady's calmness in planning makeup and selfishness.

Thinking like this, it is not greedy for money and goods, and the dowry represents the status and right of voice of a woman in her husband's family to a certain extent, and Cui's is deeply touched by this.

Although she is nominally a housewife, there are not many people who can actually do her beak in family affairs. For example, this time, such a major event as the marriage of children, even if it is not caused by Cui's family, but as the eldest woman in the household, she should have the right to know and even the right to decide.

But what kind of plan and decision the husband has, he will not discuss it with her, and if it is not even for such a misunderstanding, he will not even bother to notify her.

Even so, Cui's was helpless about this, there was no way to fight for his wife's right to speak, and last night he even had to rely on Miaoyin, the little lady, to come forward to resolve the misunderstanding between the husband and the master.

In the final analysis, even if Cui Shi resented her husband for not respecting her enough, she didn't even have a temporary place to avoid. All the use of food, clothing, shelter and transportation depends on the husband's gift, and naturally there is no qualification to make different noises.

"My mother had a really hard time at that time, I still remember when we first met, my brothers and sisters refused to listen to my mother's teachings, and I was not sensible at that time, and I was afraid that I would be abused by my mother. Now that I think about it, my mother is not tired of us stubborn young people, and she is still willing to go on a blind date, which is already very affectionate!"

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Hearing what Cui said about the past, Miaoyin Niangzi couldn't help but sigh with emotion.

When Cui Shi heard this, her eyes turned even redder, and this recognition moved her greatly, and she even held Miaoyin's wrist and said, "The little lady called me Grandma, but I really didn't do much for you. The follow-up matters, my mother has everything in mind, and she must make the most thorough preparations, even if the lady goes to another house in the coming year, she will never let you live crampedly!"

"With my mother's assurance, I feel much more at ease. It's not that I'm not sympathetic to Ye Niang's hard work in managing the karma, but the Taishi has his own heirs, and I am not friendly, so I don't think there will be any mutual assistance in the coming year. Once she becomes a bride from another family, and she is estranged from her brothers, if the husband is not kind and compassionate, he will be in a very difficult situation!"

Hearing this, Cui Shi also nodded approvingly: "The little lady has really grown up, I really didn't think so deeply at your age. Indeed, no matter how affectionately others help each other, people still have their own ideas to show calmness."

"I can't afford my mother's praise, since my mother is no longer in the world, I have learned to think more about things. Now that I want to plan to build a family with a good man and a gentleman, I naturally think more."

Seeing that Cui's expression became serious, Miao Yin continued, "Before, Aya said that she was worried that the two families would be different, and I was afraid that they would not be able to get along. But these people's words are only outdoor disputes, but so that the two people in the household live in harmony, in fact, there is no need to worry too much. What can really hurt the true feelings is actually all kinds of diseases in the house!"

"That's right!"

Cui Shi nodded again after hearing this, quite agreeing with this.

"My mother also said before that it was difficult for the family to come to Kansai for the first time, and the family supported each other with men, women and children, but imagine how difficult it would be for Li Lang to make a living alone in this hometown! I am neither a virtuous and virtuous person, nor a shrewd and capable virtuous helper, and those who can help Li Lang can only be from home

Carry more character forces in the middle."

Miao Yin only tried to see the dagger when he said this, but he hurriedly said, "Of course, Li Lang is not handsome and talented, and he will not be greedy for these tacky things. But if I don't show anything at all, I don't feel at ease in my heart. There is no clever means of intelligence in itself, so it can only do such cheesy calculations. If Ye Niang wants to live a happy life, it is better to give a long word!"

After listening to this little lady's calculations, Cui Shi couldn't help but knock his fingers on the door of her smooth head, and said with a smile: "You also said that you are not shrewd in things, you lady has already sought your Aya family business, how can you be shrewd?" I'll tell you about this measure......

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"Thank you, Grandma, thank you, Grandma!"

Miaoyin Lady also smiled when she heard this, and said seriously: "At the moment, I am still naïve, and I have to beg my mother for mercy and protection. But in a few years, I will become the eldest sister in the household, and I will have the prestige of teaching my younger siblings. At that time, I naturally won't forget my mother's care for me earlier, even if my mother doesn't say it, I must help my little sister get married!"

"Then I'll thank you for your sister first!"

After hearing this, Cui Shi shook his head and sighed, and pointed at this lady helplessly, although it seemed to be joking, but thinking about it, what this lady said really made some sense. There is a difference between the eldest and the youngest in a family, which may not be a harmony, and if the little daughter of the family can get the intimate care of the eldest sister, it is undoubtedly a good thing.

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