Chapter Twenty-Three: We Are Not Three Fresh
Are girls really born to like to spend men's money?
On the way back to the night market, Bey kept thinking about it.
How many girls have a good tutor, and their parents will tell them early that we don't take advantage of others when we go out, and if the boys invite them to eat, we will invite them back. If he gives you a gift, you have to return the gift, and you can't ask for anything in vain.
And then these girls will really be polite and sincere to execute, they and boys in the relationship, never think of taking advantage of each other, and they don't care much about money.
However, at the end of the story, these girls will find out how bad the ending is.
There are many cases around me, and they seem to tell you a truth with the painful facts of personal experience, that is:
Men don't spend money on you, and he will break up very calmly.
He can't talk about losses if he hasn't paid, and he won't cherish the girl who is easy to get.
For example, some girls marry without a bride price, and one day in a quarrel, they find out that her man and her in-laws don't remember her goodness. People have always thought that this man is attractive and his son has the ability, or why don't you marry without a bride price? It's your own willingness, and you can't blame anyone else.
So slowly there is a love routine, and women have concluded that the man who spends money on you may not love you, but the man who doesn't spend money on you must not love you.
The girls thought to themselves, come on, it's always right to listen to the routine, I'll see if you spend money on me, or what will you use to prove that you love me.
There is even a love slogan, it is unlucky to spend money on a man for three years, and feeling sorry for a man is the beginning of a lifetime of unluck, and whoever spends money on a man is a big wrongdoer.
"Sister-in-law, do you say that their men are cheap. Treat them well, how can they not know how to cherish. Do you have to let them spend some money, make them feel that the money spent on you is too much, and they will fall in love if they are unwilling to break up like this? ”
The old sister-in-law snorted and said:
"You're talking about falling in love, it's quite simple, you don't understand the nature of marriage. How many men after marriage don't know what to do.
To use the simplest analogy, you ask him to cut his hair and change his clothes frequently, obviously it is all for his good, but he says that you are annoyed and suspects that you are menopausal. You buy him new clothes, and it's too good to say, and if you can't stand it, he says that you will spend money indiscriminately.
What's more, he hides out, and he doesn't like to stumble, and he pays attention to you everywhere with his friends, saying that his daughter-in-law is a nagging ghost, saying that if you change, you will talk about those useless snorts, and he has no common topic at all.
And who has that wow? There is a common topic with the little goblins outside who only spend his money regardless of whether he lives or dies. ”
The old sister-in-law also snorted: "Men are not cheap." The women had to be unaccustomed to them, and they were honest without thinking about him. Therefore, he must take all his money into his own hands. Empty his wallet, and the goblins outside will stop, and he can stop too. ”
Bey became even more angry after hearing this: "Sure enough, men are all merciless, promising, amorous, different, greedy, forgetful, and unkind. ”
The old sister-in-law was stunned: "...... No, child, sister-in-law just talked a little nonsense, that's good, really drip, don't lock your heart. You believe that your sister-in-law can pull out a good one for you, not to mention that there is a good one, even if there is no me, I can teach you by hand, let's cultivate one. ”
"I don't cultivate, I'm bored."
"You're only eighteen and don't have much energy, that's interesting.
Look at it, I'll give you an analysis, let's do this, which man will give you a gift in the future, don't be like a thousand pounds of heavy psychological burden, why is it so over, you can accept it generously.
Don't look like a big wrongdoer, Ma Yu gives people a gift of about the same price.
Because there is a problem of the difference in thinking between men and women.
You see why some girls are more and more favored by their husbands, and why some are still unlucky, that is, they don't understand the thoughts of men.
For example, if you don't accept it, the psychological burden is very heavy, then the man will feel that next time you don't give you a gift, you see that she is not happy, it is completely thankless.
Giving you a gift means that you are rare, and the more expensive it is within his ability, the rarer it is, do you understand this road? If you don't accept his gifts, you will give him the illusion that you don't like him very much, and that's how men think, they're from Mars.
Of course, we are good girls who can't just eat and not pull like Pixiu, you have to give a man a little feedback, like he gave you three expensive gifts, you give a reply, just say you look at you, buy me every time you see something good, I am very happy, and my friends envy me. Then I will buy you anything delicious and fun when I go out with my friends in the future, because I also want you to be as happy as I am.
Hey, let me tell you, Bei Nose, just this sentence can coax men to be happy, and it doesn't cost much. This is not a routine, this is according to the thinking of men and women, my sister-in-law is full of dry goods, you have to learn. ”
The old sister-in-law saw that Bey was silent, and had to continue to talk to Bey at a deep level:
"Any girl who is embarrassed to accept gifts, you think so, what's the matter, am I not worthy and worthless? No, I'm the most worthy, I'm a treasure in the world, I'm a treasure, any gift is worthy, not a person who can serve a plate for more than ten dollars in the Northeast, you will be confident when you think about it, and this confidence will definitely make a man perceive it in getting along, and he will not despise you. You brainwash him appropriately and make him think that you don't need to pay too much to him, because your appearance is already the most surprising gift from God to him.
So when it comes to shell nose, women will be coquettish, and men will pay for it. ”
Bey said: "It's too difficult, he can pay a few bucks and it takes so much effort, it's better to earn it himself." ”
The old sister-in-law system can't wait to slap the two of them at this time, it's over, where is this heart-sealing love, let her talk nonsense plus Dai Ying's matter, her family's nose is to cement the heart.
The old sister-in-law can only use a killer move: "You don't want to find a partner, do you want your mother to live a long life?" Don't forget the last step of the system upgrade. What are you covering your ears, can you avoid me? ”
Bey: "......"
But to be honest, my boyfriend really doesn't have the fragrance of girlfriends, at least Pianpian is very fragrant.
Moreover, it is more fragrant to make money.
"Auntie, Pianpin."
The stall aunt told Bey: "She went to the toilet, and the little chubby face was red, I said you go quickly, holding urine is the worst for the body, so I ran away quickly." ”
The aunt pursed her lips again, pointed to a few shops opposite, and said, "But it's a lack of morality, don't let us borrow the toilet, it seems that we need to run far in the future." You remember, there is an Internet café in front, and his boss doesn't care. ”
Bey nodded in response. I was about to urge my aunt to go back and sell the goods, but my uncle was too busy, and there was a shoe buyer in front of the stall, when he heard a commotion in the distance.
After a while, the two of them walked over, and discussed as they walked: "That kid looks like a habitual thief, and he looks like a thief, I can solve the case without the police." ”
Another person said, "No, they still steal money from little girls." You said that it's not good for a big guy to do something, and what he stole can't afford is the girl's living expenses, so people can't be in a hurry to fight with him. ”
As soon as the little girl's words came out, Bey was excited.
When the word "desperate" was finished, there was a bang, Bey's face was hot, and she picked up a piece of clothing and hung it and ran out.
Don't ask her why she hung her clothes, I don't know, my brain is blank.