Lu Jia said: "I know, there are rumors in the class that I am a sugar daddy, as for whether it is right or not, half of it." ”

Mu Wei knew part of the truth, and poured himself a glass of wine when he heard the words.

Every time she listened to Lu Jia talk about these things, she felt uncomfortable.

Fortunately, Lu Jia doesn't often talk about it, and few people know what the facts are.

It seems that I can mention it today, which is to recognize Bey and Pian Pian in my heart. I think everyone can understand it at the same frequency.

This Lu Jia continued: "I once had a boyfriend with good conditions, he is 28 years old, so the wrong thing is that I don't have an old man, and the beginning of the story is not a pong, but in a relationship way. That's the right place, I really rely on him to go to college, he paid me a freshman year tuition, and he also gave me a monthly living allowance. ”

"You must be wondering how to use a boyfriend.

My mother ran away in the second year after giving birth, disgusted that my father couldn't speak, he really couldn't speak, and my father rode a three-wheeled person with a bucket in his hometown to earn money.

In short, my mother, when she had the opportunity to recognize a healthy man, ran away with someone, and didn't care about me waiting to be fed.

When my father was nine years old, it was smoking and snowing outside, and the car overturned into a ditch.

Since then, I have become an oil bottle, and my grandmother has taken me to live at my uncle's house.

When my grandmother was alive, I still had a book. After my grandmother was gone, I became a nanny for my aunt's family, and I was suspended from school twice to help him take care of the children. So I'm older than all of you.

It's normal to be a sophomore at 20 or 21 years old, right, but Pian Pian is 20? I'm even younger, right, I'm only eighteen years old, but I'm 23 years old this year. ”

As Bey and Sun Pianpian heard this, they also poured themselves a glass of wine.

The story is too top-notch.

It's really like you have a story, I have wine, and we can talk for a night.

Lu Jia then said: "Other people are studying hard in high school to get into college, and I'm worried about what to do once I get in." I was in a hurry to take advantage of the vacation to work, after all, even if I applied for a bursary, I always had to prepare some living expenses. That's it, I refueled people at the gas station in my hometown. My ex-boyfriend is the owner of the gas station, of course, he didn't earn it, his father was more powerful. ”

Lu Jia dissected herself very frankly and said:

"For me, who was only a sophomore in high school at that time, his appearance was like a fairy tale Prince Charming, rich and not bad, my life was too hard, and others would fall into it if they gave a little candy.

There are also reasons to be lazy to be with him.

Do you think that women themselves may really have a dependency mentality, and they hope that they can have this and that without struggling, and they feel that that is called happiness.

I used to think so.

But in fact, if you want to eat by your beauty, you can easily starve to death. At least I can't. And whenever I want to take a shortcut, reality always throws me a loud slap in the face. ”

Pian Pian twisted her eyebrows and asked, "He has had enough with you and dumped you?" ”

Lu Jia shook his head and denied:

"There's no way he's going to marry a girl like me, he's going to get married when he's old, you know.

I remember when we broke up, he said, Lu Jia, don't you see a girl like you getting married, you feel that you also have a chance.

You should analyze how those ordinary girls succeeded? It may really exist when the time and place are right, and the fate is good. After all, it's hard to tell. Yes, she is a blessed person who does not need to be busy.

For example, the boyfriend she is looking for is self-made on her own, and her parents can't restrain her, and my ex-boyfriend says that he can't do it, and he can't do without the support of his family.

For example, her future mother-in-law is herself a girl from an ordinary family, and she doesn't think there is anything to find a daughter-in-law with poor family conditions. At this point, it is also necessary for her mother-in-law to have no change in her psychology in the process of turning a small family girl into a rich wife, and she is not strong and not at home. Some ordinary girls become rich wives, and the more picky they become when they become mothers-in-law.

It's like this, my ex-boyfriend gave me an example with facts, love is impulsive, marriage is rational, and when it comes to marriage, there are too few people who don't look at the door. It is precisely because of this that there are very few examples of ordinary girls marrying rich people, so there will be a successful marriage like a propaganda film, which makes many girls mistakenly think that the success rate is very high.

He said that he had also expected success and hoped that I would be a special case with him, so he and I had the beginning of this love story, but I didn't expect to fail after trying hard. ”

Lu Jia's expression was very calm: "He said that he fought in front of his parents to marry me, no matter whether this is true or false, there is no point in tangling whether it is true or false, what is meaningful is that I asked myself, even if his parents do not object, are we really suitable?" ”

Pian Pian didn't understand, "If you agree, it's okay to go on." ”

Unexpectedly, Lu Jia shook her head and said, "It's not like this." A relationship is not an equal relationship from the beginning, and getting along with each other will only become more and more unhealthy in the future. Every time he gives me money, I listen to the voice of counting money, and people are obviously very willing to give it to me, but I myself will think too much, and I always feel that this is selling self-esteem and shame. ”

After drinking two glasses of wine in a row, Lu Jia continued:

"Also, during the three years I was with him, the sophomore, junior and freshman years of high school, I was very insecure.

I'm always afraid that he will be unhappy, and I am always afraid that I will be worse than his buddy's girlfriend and disgrace him.

Some of people's girlfriends are coming back from abroad, and the family conditions and themselves also have a halo, and the boyfriend sends a watch, and people can give a brand-name belt. It's not like me, spending a point to ask my boyfriend for a point.

For this reason, I have great perseverance and perseverance to learn to dance and learn to play the guitar in the fastest time, including my Mandarin level certificate and fluent foreign language, to be honest, I learned it all to please him at the beginning.

Not to mention, those ways to be coquettish to make my boyfriend more pampered, I'm just a miscellaneous, I watch all the little yellow films, and there is nothing I can't do. I, Cinderella, definitely worked hard enough.

I tried my best to prove to him that I was smart in every way except for my bad family background.

I'm telling you, when you try to prove something, it must be the place where you have the most inferiority. ”

Well, the other three agreed.

Lu Jia recalled the old days and sighed:

"Seriously, it's tiring to think about it now, and working to earn money by yourself are two tired ways.

I've concluded, in my state, even if my ex-boyfriend's family agrees that we're together, do you think we'll be able to live together for a few more years? ”

Some of Lu Jia's words today, Mu Wei also heard them for the first time.

Mu Wei echoed: "Maybe you won't be able to go on." When one party always reaches out to the other, the mentality will be wrong, and they will break up sooner or later. If he doesn't mention separation, you will break up yourself. Because you will be suspicious, as if you are guarding a treasure every day, afraid of being stolen. ”

Lu Jia said, "Yes, so from the moment he broke up with me, I knew that my future could not be turned over by finding a rich boyfriend." Let's not talk about whether I can find it again, and don't mention whether I have the ability to control rich men, it's because I don't have the talent to eat that bite at all. I'd rather go out and grovel to customers to earn money, that's half a cut shorter, but at least the state of mind is equal. ”

Bey asked Lu Jia: "Then how do you feel when you mention your ex-boyfriend now, and do you want to see him again?" ”

"I won't see you again, and if I meet, I have to pretend that I didn't see it, so let him and his new wife live a good life.

I don't hate him either, and I'm even a little grateful to him. After all, without him, I would have been able to go to college.

At the beginning, my aunt wanted me to go to work, but her factory was all found, and at that time, she was unwilling to let me go to school, whether it cost her family money or not. That's called being able to earn wages and hand it over to her right away, it's different.

So I have to admit that the fact that my ex-boyfriend sent me to college changed my life. ”

When the topic is talked about, Lu Jia also asked everyone rhetorically as if discussing knowledge:

"You say that many girls hate each other after a breakup, does that mean that the ex-boyfriend is not giving enough value? For example, the emotional value is not enough to care, the material value does not make them better, and even makes the family devalued, so they will have resentment. Including divorce, too, if enough is given in the division of property, and the children are arranged clearly, who do you say can not live without whom in these years? Hate what. ”