Bey had been thinking about what her old sister-in-law had said since yesterday.

The old sister-in-law system is right, if you can accept Ye Qingyu like this, you will accept it.

If you can't accept it, you break up.

In any relationship, I am most afraid that you will be entangled in the past, aggressively disgusted that you are so wrong, that you are not good, and on the other hand, you will not end, and keep saying bad words to hurt each other.

Why bother.

After all, whoever is born will not grow up the way you want.

According to the imagination, it will not be the current him. The sister-in-law said, for example, according to imagination, Ye Qingyu may be the same as Lin Quan, still struggling with his first love. Maybe that's not his way of doing things. Even if he doesn't have such a character, he won't like you, he likes other types of girls.

Bey was right to think about it.

So they broke up, and they can accept each other calmly with this result.

Because maybe even Ye Qingyu found out today, she Bey is not the kind of girlfriend he imagined, otherwise she would have brushed her teeth.

At that time, she knew that Ye Qingyu was like sinking into the tip of a bull's horns, as if she could do whatever she wanted as long as she brushed her teeth. Otherwise, he wouldn't live.

The Bey he imagined might have understood him and understood his stubbornness; will understand his domineering when he falls into the horns; will know how to appease his fried hair, and then after providing this emotional value, the Bey in his imagination, if he is really wronged, he will even be fine if he kneels by mistake later, he can accurately handle him, and then a counter-kill, a loss, which will make him unforgettable for the rest of his life, and he will not dare to draw arbitrary conclusions from then on.

But she didn't. I don't want to brush it, I obviously brush it, and I don't tell it.

She just wanted to collide, not only did she not have the appearance of Bey as Ye Qingyu imagined, but she just wanted to make Ye Qingyu angry to death at that time.

So Ye Qingyu should go to the "Bey" he imagined, but she wasn't.

She should also find the imaginary "Ye Qingyu" who can accept the real her according to her environment, her view of things, and her tolerance for her temper.

Bey asked the old sister-in-law: Sister-in-law, you say, is love really fate? In fact, the so-called fate is destined. It is destined that what kind of people you can accept, what kind of people you will find.

Fate, in other words, is just the word suitable.

The old sister-in-law replied systematically:

I only know that if you want to find a person with a good temper, who listens to you in everything and puts your ideas first, then you have to be able to stand the fact that he may be grinding and that he may not be self-motivated in his career. It is also possible that when something happens at home, even if he argues with his neighbors, he will not come out.

Anyway, you have the final say in the family, and you are used to listening to your daughter-in-law, so you can just take your own opinions.

Even if he earns less money, he may think, it's okay, anyway, his daughter-in-law will help carry it. Besides, everyone's life is about the same, and the same degree is fine.

And if you want to find someone who stands out for you everywhere, the family has less money, you don't need to say it, he himself is in a hurry, thinking that raising a family should not be equal between men and women, so he should be all inclusive, marry a man, dress and eat.

Then you don't have to worry about things outside the house, you don't have to tell him, he can help you think of it all in advance, and arrange it for you inside and out.

Bei Nose, who can arrange it properly, are all men with some ability.

A capable man, on behalf of his being followed by many people waiting to get ideas, he is used to helping people get ideas, their kind of people do different professions, but the same point is that they can give orders to people, and in the long run, they love to worry about some of them, then he may show a slightly stronger side in ordinary life.

So which one is right for you.

The old sister-in-law paused, thought for a while, and continued:

In fact, in addition to the above two categories, there is another category.

This category is the man of women's dreams.

He may have a good temper, but it doesn't mean that he has a good temper, he is not motivated if he talks well, and his family has no money, he still works hard to earn it, and he will still get out if he is bullied.

He may be strong, and he gives orders to people outside all the year round, but when he comes home, he is like a different person, well-behaved and sweet-mouthed, and he will listen to his daughter-in-law like the kind of good-natured man who often talks about it. ”

Bey asked, "Is there really such a person?" ”

Unexpectedly, the old sister-in-law said with certainty:

"Yes, they're all men who have been run-in.

They may have been in many relationships, and they have learned to grow after they have lost, regretted, gained, and cherished.

Haven't you heard that sentence, many predecessors planted trees, planted branches and leaves with tears, and the latter didn't do anything, just take advantage of the shade.

Perhaps, his relationship history is simple, and he has not grown up, but when he meets his wife who can guide, he will have to be married for many years, after many things, after communicating with his wife again and again, and even quarreling with tears, he slowly changed.

The wife is a magician, and she slowly trims the unmotivated into an attractive man.

Slowly trim that strong one into an ordinary husband who doesn't care what kind of social status he has outside, and he is just an ordinary husband at home, he will get rid of that strong state and know how to love. ”

So either go slowly and find a good one, which happens to be destined not to come as you imagined, but his shortcomings are not what you care about, and his advantages make you appreciate it very much. Then this is fate.

Or, just prune.

Always don't put it up.

Not to mention, while yelling not to look for it, too troublesome, don't prune, I'm like that. On the one hand, I am not ready to be single for the rest of my life, this is a pit for myself.

With this attitude, it won't be long after you get married, and the son you gave birth to yourself can't grow up to be what you want, let alone a husband who grew up in a different family, you can't be upright. Otherwise, after some people get married, their lives are getting better and better, and some people's lives are getting worse and worse.

Add a change, it's written now, everyone extinguishes the fire. I hope this chapter can appease you, it just so happens that the old sister-in-law hasn't come out for a long time, let her ramble on a chapter and use it as a fire extinguisher for a transition. In addition, I don't have to worry about the finale, I don't have to look at how many days are left until December, so I have to finish writing it to get the finale. Big beauties, all in a beautiful mood, good night.

(End of chapter)