Chapter 178: Navigating the Lost Way is Being Honest with Yourself
Lu Jiazhen began to cut the steak, and took care of himself and tasted red wine in his cup: "Well, yes, there is a reason why it is expensive." Sour, astringent, bitter, and finally sweet. ”
Gong Licheng stood up extremely gentlemanly and poured Lu Jia another half a cup.
The red wine bottle was turning in his hand as he thought:
His Lu Jia deliberately, they had already mentioned Qingyu, but she didn't talk about it.
Is Tongtong also living this kind of life?
At this time, anyone who was involved with Qingyu and was not angered was really good.
Gong Licheng sat down, cleared his throat first, and then said:
"Otherwise, what is in love, you have to be in a relationship for a while, two people have to understand each other, this process is essential.
But why do some people talk about a few years is not as good as some talk about a month, talk about what you eat and drink every day, and talk about virtue for a hundred years. Is that called understanding?
Ten years does not mean that the relationship is deep. And even if we end up together, the day it happens, you'll find it like the first day you knew him.
And if you talk about it for a month, if you have encountered something, opinions, quarrels, slowly re-integrate, learn to retreat, tolerate, and understand each other more deeply, this is called a day is really a day, and the foundation of the real benefits is laid there, and the next horse is flat, you say. ”
Lu Jia's expression remained the same, she wanted to see how Gong Licheng talked step by step: "En." ”
Gong Licheng was affirmed, gave an example of himself, and invited merit:
"Just like you this time, you went for eight days, you didn't tell me the ticket change, you didn't tell me when you came back, you ran to take a bath and stay for one night, and you didn't have a phone call.
If I hadn't called Tongtong, I wouldn't have known you would have come back.
Jiajia, you said that if you change to a boyfriend who doesn't know you, will he lose his temper and ask you, you are busy and your phone is broken? Go online a little more, do you have me in your heart?
But I'm different, I know you're accompanying Bey, and I understand the feelings between you ladies, so you have to be wholeheartedly with Bey, so who goes to the bath and still holds the mobile phone in your hand, can you devote yourself to drinking. ”
Lu Jia couldn't help laughing: "After getting off the plane, the phone did run out of battery, and then I drank too much when I went in." I'll pay attention in the future, don't forget it, or you'll be worried. ”
In fact, it's more about anger, but don't talk about it, it seems quite unreasonable.
I believe Gong Licheng also understands.
Gong Licheng really understands that he can say what he is uncomfortable about, and he will be satisfied if he can get the result he wants. There's no need to mind Lu Jia's excuses, saying that you don't think so, you are an excuse, isn't there something wrong with nitpicking.
If you don't say it, life will be better.
"So, you see, there's going to be a process of understanding.
If I don't understand the depth of the relationship between you and Bey, then I will definitely ask you that your boyfriend is important, and your good friend is important.
But also to run in with each other. Even though I know you, I feel neglected.
Where the two sides are not doing well, like the two of us, they talk about it, and then change it, then there is no bad relationship, what do you think? ”
Lu Jia thought to herself, ah, such a step-by-step way led to Ye Qingyu.
It's really embarrassing for Gong Licheng, afraid of getting burned, but he still wants to say a few words for his brother, this time he looked at her face carefully, what did she Lu Jia do to make Gong Licheng so careful.
Don't you just like it?
In fact, the relationship between men and women is like this, because they care, they will have a low profile, as if they have done something wrong.
Don't say that Gong Licheng is right, there is no need to be a grandson with you.
Even if there is a mistake, if he doesn't care about you, he won't be a grandson with you, and it won't be your turn to say that he is right or wrong.
Thinking about it like this, Lu Jia's heart softened a lot: "Gong Licheng, don't go around, I'm uncomfortable listening to you." Don't you just want to express that if those two people still have feelings, just sit down and talk, and let me persuade Bey, right? ”
"Yes, if you don't say that you are empathetic, a few years older than Bey is not in vain."
Lu Jia looked at Gong Licheng: "Sensei wears a high hat." The problem is that Bey doesn't want to talk, she has no desire to sit down and talk about it, watch Ye Qingyu's performance after talking, listen to his promises, and wait for him to change. You said she didn't want to, how can we persuade her. The first thing Bey did when he returned to school was to apply to the school to delete all the posts about Lin Quan's high-rise building and Bayes, that is, about Ye Qingyu. It's been deleted. ”
Gong Licheng wondered: "How can it be like this." To put it bluntly, if that Lin Quan appeared, Qingyu was jealous and ate too much. Qingyu has a Su thing there, what's it called? That's fine. Explain the relationship clearly, and let Qingyu not believe in his girlfriend so much in the future, isn't it? ”
Lu Jia put down the knife and fork, couldn't eat it at all, and wrinkled her eyebrows when she heard the words: "I found that you men are really interesting, no matter how complicated things are, it's easy to get to you, just look at the result." What about the disappointment and sadness of this process for women, the feelings are negligible, right? ”
Lu Jia and Gong Licheng said, let's talk about the smallest impact.
One drives an eye-catching sports car, and the other drives a Bentley that is so expensive that they go to the neighborhood to fight.
Do you know how many people went to their floors to watch the excitement that day?
Did you know that when we take the elevator with others, according to the floor we are on, the aunts' eyes will be gossipy?
Do you know how low-key Bey usually is?
If it was Bey's home, it would have been better, and Bey would have felt that since he had brought those two people, he would have to bear the accusations of those two people.
But it was her home, Pianpin's home, and although they really didn't care, when she got to Bey, Bey would feel uncomfortable.
Lu Jia continued: "What's more, this is still the smallest trouble, what happened during this period, Gong Licheng, you know better than me." ”
Gong Licheng admitted: "Let's sit down, no wonder Bey is angry, I have to say that Qingyu seems to have something wrong." Even if Qingyu wants to find face in front of a few of us, then he can't order his girlfriend in front of his friends, which is wrong. Teaching children in front of them and teaching wives behind their backs, these are all counted. Besides, let you sit down and save face? Where can that face go? Aren't we laughing at a few of us? ”
Don't be dumped, so that you have ability.
It's not good, don't be sad if you shake it off, there is no one and the next one, the old and chic, that is more capable.
Of course, if you are in a chic state, you won't be angry at all. After seeing the excitement and smiling, I will no longer contact it, okay? Qingyu, in particular, is very good at disdain, and they can't compare.
The best way to deal with it is that the next time your girlfriend never eats with her ex-boyfriend again, where can she tell you, you can teach her behind her back, so that she feels that it is a mistake not to tell you, then it is more capable.
As a result, I didn't achieve any purpose, and I was yellow, and after I was yellow, I regretted it so much.
No need to ask, Qingyu must be having a hard time these days, nothing.
"I asked Tongtong, and Tongtong said that there was also something about his uncle's past. Did Bey misunderstand Qingyu's character? ”
Lu Jia looked at Gong Licheng and asked rhetorically: "Is there a problem with character, are you sure?" You have been in a mess in the past, and that's why I'm angry with you. ”
Let's see, in the end, I was implicated.
Gong Licheng poured himself a glass of wine, and sighed before speaking, but when he looked up again, he chose to be honest: "Jiajia, let's discuss, from now on, just talk about things, don't be angry." ”
"Okay."
"Then I'll say it. I don't know if it's because a few of you think that, or what.
I don't think that Qingyu and I, we have objectified women and disrespected women.
You can say something else, but we don't recognize it.
Involving men and women, everyone is an adult, you are willing to do it, there is no need to go online. ”
"Gong Licheng."
"If you don't get angry, then listen to me.
Anyone is, if you don't have a good feeling, you won't be together, or you can't be an uncle and aunt on the road?
But this good feeling, I admit, we men have a preliminary impression of women.
This woman can be happy for a while, or can she marry home.
There will be a preliminary verdict.
Just like you women also have this kind of judgment, this person is a handsome guy but his family is poor, you don't want to marry him, you feel that you can't agree to marry him, but you can get along for a while, and you can have the good things you once had.
Or position yourself as the kind of suitor, let him use it to pass the boring time, eat together, and go shopping.
It may also be a preliminary judgment that this person is a wronged man, for example, there was once a girl who classified me like this, and this Brother Gong is a person who can fund to play together. Buy a bag or something. Being with him satisfies material pleasures.
You see if I'm telling the truth.
Then you say, a girl who thinks like this, can you say that she is objectifying us men, and she is disrespecting us men?
Adult single men and women, and it is not about destroying the family that involves ethics and morality, but whether they are willing or not. If others define me as buying bags, then if I am willing to buy bags, or even I am willing to be a spare tire, what does it have to do with others? How can it not respect objectification. ”
Gong Licheng took a sip of wine:
"So, there's really no need to go up to a very complicated level.
I don't want to argue with you about right or wrong, but to be honest, we just feel that we have said it in advance, and it won't be troublesome to deal with some relationships.
Because it's about money, don't open your mouth after breaking up. There will also be a breakup and a big fuss, which will affect the company's affairs.
Isn't the purpose of a prenuptial agreement also to be agreed in advance to avoid future troubles?
And the person who will let us say it well in advance, or that sentence, is basically the first impression, you are choking enough to be a daughter-in-law with me, but I am still interested in you, then you don't agree, the girl agrees, just have a while, or let it go, in case you can become a daughter-in-law. In this way, the non-deception began, in fact, this is how it happened.
Don't say it, negotiating this kind of thing is a deal. It's really a business, how can there be a place to get married, I am tempted, and I feel that the two are getting more and more together.
There are also those who use her as a marriage object at the beginning, but they become the object of play everywhere?
Why? ”
Gong Licheng twisted his eyebrows and looked at Lu Jia: "So this is a division of people, there are variables, and the emotional world is like this." It's not that I buy you, you sell me, you can't think like that. We're not really bad enough to do that.
What's more, what about Qingyu to Bey, we have to talk from the bottom of our hearts, don't deny it, don't deny anything, I'll wronged my brother. ”
"No, no, no, Bey doesn't talk to him anymore, and it's useless for you to explain the flowers to me."
“…… That's right. Then I hope you don't fall into the misunderstanding and misunderstand me so much. ”
Lu Jia looked at Gong Licheng and suddenly said, "I bent over, so I accepted your defense well." ”
"Huh?"
Lu Jia said:
"It is said that girls have to stand up straight and make money in order to be respected.
But in this real world, how can it be completely straight.
When I first entered the workplace, I finally had the ability to do what I imagined, but it is not surprising that a legal aid earns hundreds of dollars, and they have to compete for the allocation of places.
Even if you have worked for many years, don't you need to toast to take on a case, don't you need to socialize, don't you need to pay a smile to others?
I've worked too many jobs. Including going out to sell gift four-piece sets now, and also having a drink with the exhibition center manager, so that Bey and them don't come into contact with too many people, I'm going to go.
So I'm not so black and white and understand the world.
But I think that even though Bey wasn't allowed to go out and get in touch with the ugly world, maybe Bey and the others understood that.
Because several of us can become friends, including Tongtong, but we appreciate each other for a common denominator, that is, a girl, when she can stand to make money, she will stand up, if she needs to bend down, she can even squat, but no matter how poor it is, she will not lie down.
It's good that on the road to facing a cruel society, there can still be a few people along the way, even if we may stumble, and we would rather stubbornly pretend to be stupid and can't see the reality clearly.
And what I don't think Bei Yi can accept is that he Ye Qingyu can really find any kind of girl.
It can be done, and in the end, if there is a problem, it will work. But other men's men said in advance that they have no future with you, and you still agree, what kind of girl is this? What about the skin, what about self-esteem.
And you can ask for a girl who lies flat on a man, and you have found more than one such girl. What about your so-called character, that's it, you men know that it's not beautiful, it's really messy. You too, and your face is vibrating with me. ”
After Lu Jia finished speaking, she threw the napkin on the table, and told her a lot of anger.
Gong Licheng hurriedly caught up with his suit, "Isn't that the aesthetic poor in the past." Besides, there are few good girls like you, so I want to marry you as soon as I get in touch. I can't let you go to the market for circulation, we have seen the bad ones to know how precious the good ones are, this is called discerning pearls. ”
"You don't come to this set."
Gong Licheng blocked the elevator and squeezed in, the elevator door closed, and he could still be heard asking Lu Jia: "Okay, don't mention that set first." Which exhibition manager makes you drink? He doesn't want to live anymore, does he? ”
"Gong Licheng, if you dare to find fault and affect the deal I finally negotiated, I will drink for nothing, and I am anxious with you. Then let's pull it down too! ”
……
On the fifth day of the breakup, Ye Qingyu met Gong Licheng, who coaxed his daughter-in-law, and Zhou Zhe, who returned from a business trip.
Through this dialogue with Lu Jia, Gong Licheng felt that he respected and loved Lu Jia more. Sometimes chatting or even arguing is also a kind of understanding between the two parties, so of course all the time must be squeezed out for Lu Jia.
But Ye Qingyu didn't expect that when he and Gong Licheng and Zhou Zhe first entered the hotel, they also met Bey.
A sudden meeting.
At this time, Bey was annoyed at the front desk, and in order to thank her for introducing the order, she invited Da Zhuang and Gao Bei to dinner. Sister Gao Bei has now gotten into Big Brother's car and rushed to work, but as soon as she took out her bag, she found that she forgot to bring her wallet.
What's wrong with her.
Bey hurriedly asked the front desk: "Please ask, can you borrow me a charger, my phone is out of battery." When I can call, I ask a friend to deliver the money. ”
"Bey, what's going on?" Gong Licheng asked in the lobby.
Bei Yi looked back and saw Ye Qingyu standing next to Gong Licheng first.
Bei Yi staggered her eyes and found that Zhou Zhe was nodding at her, she also smiled and nodded politely, and then stepped forward and said to Gong Licheng: "Brother Gong, I forgot to bring my wallet, can you lend me some money." ”
Ye Qingyu heard a familiar voice, and when he heard this, he suddenly couldn't stand it, suppressed the ups and downs in his heart, and hurriedly turned around to look at the side.
And Gong Licheng here, "What else to borrow, brother will pay for you, which table?" And took out another wad of money to Bey: "Take it, then you go back, go back and spend it." ”
Teased Bey, as if he was giving her money to buy candy to eat: "I'll have money when I go back, I don't want it." ”
And throughout the whole process, whether it was Ye Qingyu or Bey, the two of them didn't even nod. They all pretend to be strangers they don't know.
Ye Qingyu stood in the middle of the elevator, and as the elevator door was about to close, he kept looking at the shadow who was walking towards the gate.
And as the elevator door closed completely, the girl also pushed open the lobby turnstile and walked out.
I never said that Ye's past was right, and Tongtong's emotion also made her position clear, and it was because it was wrong that she wrote about breaking up, didn't you? So why do some readers' messages still rise to the level of three views. Objectification and disrespect for women are all here. There is also a more extreme message, if other readers dare to have different opinions, choosing to reconcile is cheap. There are also obviously not written like that, but they are still fighting between the lines to find faults, I think even if I explain this, maybe this kind of person can find some faults. I used different supporting characters to explain.,It's enough.,This chapter is over.,The next thing is all the plot.,If you don't understand, pull it down.。 I really don't understand this kind of reader, are you talking about anger or are you using Ye to vent your emotions, if it's just venting, what if you let the rest of you read the book well. This is the so-called banner of three views held high, and it is not okay if everyone chooses differently, right? I saw an old book friend leave a message saying that Peaches knows that society is like this, so we hope to promote positive energy, which I have thought about deeply, and it really should. But I can easily designate that I can write, and I can't easily insert a chapter to teach right and wrong, to be complete, and the characters must be full of flesh and blood, not according to how to write right. You can't write like a template. For example, if Fang Yue is old and dropped, the God of Wealth will take care of it, then don't sing like that, sing positive energy red songs, the influence of the province is deeper, no, it's not critical literature. If I dig out my heart again, I will earn money for a mask, and I want to buy two sets of new pajamas for the New Year, and the pajamas are all worn off, don't you ask too much of me, understand each other
(End of chapter)