Chapter 257: Postpartum hysteria?
"Postpartum hysteria?" Yinyu looked confused, "What is hysteria?" ”
"This is a condition that occurs after a woman gives birth to a child, usually because after giving birth, she is anxious, insecure about the future, and mentally sensitive." Mingpu explains:
"To put it bluntly, it's a heart disease. This symptom is not visible on the surface, and the manifestations are different. Some people will go crazy from time to time, and some will be inexplicably vexatious...... Others, the expression is more restrained, which is manifested in the desire to control, like Fu Jin. ”
And such a disease?
Yinyu looked shocked and worried, "You mean to say that Shu'er's hysteria is manifested in the desire to control?" ”
"Exactly." Mingpu had just finished reading a medical book on this subject, and he felt that he should not be wrong.
"Fu Jin must be because she loves Xiao Gege too much, and she feels that everything about Xiao Gege needs to be in her hands, so she will feel at ease."
Hearing this, Yinyu couldn't help but be silent.
So she felt that she was relieved to breastfeed herself, and even before the child was confined, she planned to get married in the future, also because of this disease?
Thinking that Nanshu not only suffered so much physically, but now she also has to suffer so much mentally, Yinyu only felt distressed.
"So how can she be cured?"
At this time, I am afraid that I can only follow her wishes and let her eliminate the anxiety in her heart, so as to alleviate her anxiety and anxiety. If you go against his will, I am afraid that the trauma in his heart will be expanded more and more. ”
Mingpu muttered, "And this disease will extend." ”
Yin Yu's eyes froze, "Extend? ”
"Yes, if Fu Jin has a desire to control because of love, then her desire to control will not be limited to Xiao Gege."
Mingpu glanced at Yinyu meaningfully and continued, "Fu Jin may extend this desire for control to you. ”
"Me?"
"Yes, whoever she loves will want to control whomever she wants. Therefore, it may be ...... to you This desire to control will also arise. ”
Yin Yu was stunned for a moment, and then smiled indifferently: "If she wants to control the master, then let her control it." ”
As long as it's good for her condition.
"Usually, I have to let Fu Jin try to keep her mood comfortable, so that she can feel safe at all times, and naturally, the anxiety in her heart will disappear."
"Hmm. I know. Yinyu nodded, and looked at Mingpu seriously: "In addition to the spirit, the conditioning of the body cannot be neglected, you need to bother more, you must recuperate for her." ”
"Yes."
Inside the amphibious courtyard.
At this time, Nan Shu was holding Yaya to breastfeed.
Mama Su on the side looked at her like this, hesitated again and again, but still considered and persuaded:
"Fujin, you are still weak now, let the nurse do the work for you, no matter how much you pamper Xiao Gege, then you have to take care of your body."
Nanshu curled her lips, "I'm measured." ”
She didn't want to rob the nurse's job, she just couldn't help but want to do more of what a mother should do and give Yaya more love in the days when she was still there.
Knowing that she was running low on milk, she said again: "Mama, you can ask the kitchen to make me some lactation-boosting soup." ”
Seeing that she insisted, Mama Su didn't dare to say anything, so she could only respond: "...... Yes, the old slave knows. ”
Nan Shu looked up at her and smiled, "Don't worry, Mama, most of the time it will be handed over to the nurse, I'm afraid I'm hungry for her." ”
In the time that followed, Nanshu still took care of her daughter as much as possible, and although Yinyu felt sorry for her, when he remembered what Mingpu said, he didn't dare to stop her, so he could only secretly ask Mama Su and Mama Chu to take care of her body.
As for himself, he tried his best to find time to stay with her and the child day and night, rushing next to her or giving her a hand to take care of his daughter.
A month passed quickly.
Under Mingpu's careful conditioning, Nanshu's body and posture have recovered well, her cheeks are ruddy and fleshy, and her skin is even more jade and clear, faintly revealing a trace of charm.
On the day of the full moon banquet, Brother Jiu came to congratulate many people.
Yinyu entertained guests in the front hall, while Nanshu received the ladies in the backyard.
The four Fujin and the ten Fujin were the first to arrive.
Shifujin also brought her one-year-old son here, but as soon as she came, she asked the personal maid to take him to the park to play, and she herself hugged the maid in Nanshu's hand for the first time.
"Yo, Yaya is prettier than a few days ago, it's so cute." As she spoke, she bowed her head and kissed her.
When Nanshu was confined, Shifujin came to accompany her every once in a while, so she was more familiar with Yaya.
Shifujin hugged Yaya to Sifujin, "Fourth sister-in-law, look, how beautiful our Yaya's eyes are, shiny and shiny, she will definitely look like a sister in the future, she is a big beauty." ”
"It's really funny." Sifujin also lightly touched Yaya's already fleshy little face, then hugged the swaddling clothes, turned his head and smiled at Nanshu:
"It's a little more playful than when I came to see her half a month ago."
"It's a shame that she's more hydrated now, otherwise I'd suspect that she's going to lose at the starting point."
Nanshu and Shifujin and Sifujin are friends, so there is less crampedness and fake politeness between getting along with the two, and more at ease.
When the two of them heard her words, they were stunned for a moment, then they snorted and laughed.
Shi Fujin sighed: "Sister, you are still happy, you gave birth to a daughter, you can make her a lot of beautiful dresses and clothes in the future, and you can buy her a lot of jewelry and jewelry when she is older." ”
She is a Mongolian, and she does not have such a strong sense of the concept of male superiority and inferiority of women.
"You are still young, you like your daughter, and you will have opportunities in the future, so you don't have to be too envious."
Nanshu's words fell, and the sound of a boy crying came from outside the door.
Hearing this, Shifujin turned back almost reflexively, and when she saw the maid coming back with her crying son, she immediately stepped forward to comfort her.
"What's the matter, why are you crying?"
The maid hurriedly replied, "Little Brother wants to find you to hang out with him." ”
Seeing this, Nan Shu hurriedly said: "You take him to the east courtyard to play, I have prepared a lot of children's toys over there." ”
In fact, there will not be many guests with children, and Nanshu's arrangement of the east courtyard is specially prepared for the son of Shifujin, after all, children at this age are the most unbearable.
After Shifujin left, Nanshu handed the maid over to the nurse again.
Then he pulled Sifujin and said, "The ninth master got a box of Hanshan blood swallows a while ago, it is said that it is a treasure that only comes once in ten years, and it has an excellent effect on nourishing the body, I know that the fourth sister-in-law has been recuperating recently, and when the fourth sister-in-law leaves, take it with you by the way." ”