Chapter 189: Fan Shengmei confided in her heart
After helping Andy analyze the problem of the singularity, the waiter just started to serve the food, and the three of them ended the topic, but chatted all over the world.
During this time, Andy talked to Han Tao about a recent M&A she was leading, as well as some legal issues involving finance and accounting.
This is Han Tao's scope of expertise, and Andy doesn't know that Cheng Xuan wants to sell the Red Star Group, Han Tao is now a major shareholder, and he knows the internal situation very well.
Therefore, the more the two chatted, the more speculative they became, and Andy was answered to many questions that he couldn't get around before, and at the same time, he also received very professional legal advice from Han Tao, so that she once proposed to hire Han Tao as her legal counsel.
And Fan Shengmei, who was on the side, watched Andy and Han Tao discuss with great envy, and only when the two of them were able to speak in a gap did she sigh enviously:
"Andy, I think you and Brother Han are very suitable, you see that the two of you are in the same condition, and you are both elites in your own industry, and you can talk about it, you are really a good match!"
When Andy heard that Fan Shengmei said that he and Han Tao were very suitable, he was a little flustered for a while, and then his face turned red:
"Fan Xiaomei, don't mess with the mandarin duck spectrum, we can't be suitable, I should be older than Han Lu."
"Andy, I heard you right, you came back from abroad, you are so conservative, don't you know that sibling love is very popular now?
And you and Brother Han can still talk like this, this is much more reliable than the untouchable online love singularity, hehehe! β
Fan Shengmei was embarrassed to see Andy, so she couldn't help but joke with her.
At this time, Andy also saw that Fan Shengmei was joking with herself, so she glanced at her and said:
"Is it because they can talk about it, two people are going to fall in love?
Like-minded people, there is no pure friendship? If you think it's appropriate, you must develop into boyfriend and girlfriend? β
"What do you think?"
Fan Shengmei held her chin with her hand, looked at Andy who was in love with Xiaobai seriously, and then said helplessly:
"Andy, you're a little too naΓ―ve about relationship problems, I can tell you responsibly, there really isn't!
No matter what situation between men and women get together, it is more or less mixed with feelings other than friends, or love, or unrequited love, etc.
Of course, it doesn't mean that it has to be love, it may also be a confidant or tacit understanding, and this confidant I mean the level of being willing to be a lover.
For example, two people are connected by the same fate, or have experienced something together, and the friendship has been further extended, which is also an emotion beyond friendship! β
Hearing this, without waiting for Andy to respond, Han Tao also nodded and agreed:
"I agree with Xiaomei's statement, if the relationship between friends has been tempered by time and all the impurities have been removed, then only the most sincere, simplest and purest are left.
So even if you are not related by blood, you feel as if you are your own relatives, unconditional trust, this is the confidant that many people respect, share joy with each other, and bear each other's sorrows.
At this point, in addition to love, the rest will definitely go beyond friendship, but the difference with lovers is that both parties will always leave a safe distance.
This distance can't, and I don't dare to cross it easily, to put it bluntly, it's a sense of boundaries, at least, it should be a tacit understanding that two people can agree on. β
Hearing Han Tao and Fan Shengmei's remarks, Andy suddenly fell into deep thought, and she immediately thought of her friend Tan Zongming.
Andy knew that he lacked knowledge of feelings, and even rejected them because of some concerns.
But now after listening to their words, thinking about Tan Zongming's kindness to himself for so many years, maybe the two of them are so-called confidants, or there are other reasons.
Thinking about it this way, Andy couldn't help but be glad that Tan Zongming hadn't confessed to himself, otherwise, with his own state, he might even lose his only friend.
Seeing that Andy was deep in thought, he knew that the topic between the three of them had crossed the line a little, so Han Tao changed the topic and asked about Fan Shengmei and Andy's foundation.
When Andy heard this, he generously introduced himself briefly, she originally had a stable job abroad, returned to China because of some personal matters, and now she is the chief financial officer in Chengxuan, mainly responsible for an acquisition.
Fan Shengmei first talked about her work, saying that she works in the human resources department of a company, although there is no room for growth, but the salary of more than 10,000 yuan a month can be regarded as a stable income.
In this way, the three of them chatted freely while drinking, and because of the woman's sensuality, Andy and Fan Shengmei gradually opened their hearts.
may be the reason for drinking, as she spoke, Fan Shengmei suddenly became depressed, and began to confide in her heart:
"Actually, I have a lot to say, but I can't find anyone to talk to, so today I will continue Brother Han's wine and talk to you two for a while.
Although I can also earn about 10,000 yuan a month, I come from a small place, and my family conditions are very poor, and the most important thing is that my parents are patriarchal.
So since graduating, most of my salary has been sent to my family, helping my parents to provide for the elderly, and helping my brother sell the house and make a down payment.
In the end, I had to help pay off the mortgage, so over the years, I couldn't save any money by frugality, and in the past two years, I even gave up on myself and had the idea of fishing for a golden beetle.
Because I know that I am not qualified for ordinary love, because even if I get married in the future, a son-in-law with a bad family background will not be able to satisfy a family like mine.
Therefore, I can only find a golden beetle son-in-law and a rich man, and only then can I satisfy the bottomless pit at home.
In fact, I envy you, you and Andy are both financially free, both elites in the industry, and there is no family drag.
But I can't, no matter how hard I try for so many years, I can't get rid of the influence of my family. β
Speaking of this, Fan Shengmei was extremely melancholy and sighed: "Hey! Don't talk about it, it's all tears! β
After listening to Fan Shengmei's very depressed narrative, Andy couldn't help but think of her own life experience, and she felt some empathy, and she was also worried.
She has been abandoned since she was a child, and she is also self-reliant when she grows up, she can understand Fan Shengmei's difficulties too well, so Andy adjusted her emotions and said:
"Fan Xiaomei, don't give up on yourself, I believe that everything will be fine.
In fact, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and I also have my own suffering, and when I have the opportunity to tell you about my situation, you will know when the time comes, you are actually quite happy. β
"Okay, when you want to find a listener, I'm on call."
After listening to Andy's words, Fan Shengmei adjusted her mood and looked at her with a smile and replied.
Andy looked at her with wide eyes, and even said in English: "You are so good! β
"You're good too!"
Fan Shengmei winked at Andy playfully, replied charmingly, and then looked at Han Tao and said:
"Brother Han's family should be very good, I also understood the chat between you and Andy just now, it is a big project of tens of billions, it is the same as hundreds of thousands in the mouths of the two of you, it is estimated that you will not be able to understand the hardship of a small staff like us!"
Han Tao wiped his mouth and replied humorously:
"Don't compare yourself with us, we are cubs selling Ye Tian and don't feel distressed! Anyway, the money is not our own, we are just taking the money of the capitalists and doing things for the capitalists! β
Seeing Han Tao say this, Andy also nodded in agreement, Fan Shengmei smiled, looked at Han Tao curiously and asked:
"Brother Han, you haven't said that your situation is young! How old are you, handsome and rich, there must be a lot of girls chasing you! β
As soon as Fan Shengmei's words came out, Han Tao knew that she was probing her tone, but in fact, she had more pity for Fan Shengmei than good feelings.
Although in today's society, money worship is not a big mistake, but if she can't learn to be independent and self-reliant, and see and handle the relationship between herself and her family, it will be difficult to find a true love!
Just like Wang Baichuan in the original plot, Fan Shengmei uses more than likes this man who really likes him.
Fan Shengmei is like a person who fell into the water, grabbing a life-saving straw, she kidnapped Wang Baichuan with love.
Therefore, for a man, such a woman is not suitable for being a girlfriend, and it is difficult to deliver sincerity, even if you give up all your worries and deliver, you will be bruised all over your body!
Therefore, in order to change the topic, Han Tao simply jokingly came to a blind date version of self-introduction.
"Han Tao, male, 30 years old, living in the Ode to Joy Community in the magic capital, master's degree, height 184cm, weight 78kg, appearance is okay, annual salary of more than one million, and has been in two relationships.
Seeking a confidant, gentle and charming, elegant and quiet or heroic, I am willing to shelter her from the sun and rain. β
"Hahaha!"
"It's so funny, I don't know if I thought Brother Han you were here for a blind date!"
As expected, the effect was surprisingly good, and as soon as his words fell, he made Andy and Fan Shengmei laugh.
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