Chapter 385: Andy's Sudden Confession
Seeing Andy in deep thought, Han Tao walked to the record player and put on the record and stylus, and then the vinyl disc began to rotate, and the music that slowly came out was romantic and retro, this way of listening to music is completely irreplaceable by digital music.
This is also a hobby that Han Tao likes more under the influence of his grandmother, and he feels that vinyl records bring not only feelings, but also a sense of ritual in life.
Just like Grandma Jiang's living habits, when you get used to living a delicate life, you can experience a sense of happiness in life.
After a long time, Han Tao saw that Andy was still entangled, so he touched his wine glass with her and said, "Andy, although you are not resistant to my contact, it is not necessarily that you like me, it may be something else."
I don't want to have a hyper-friendship relationship before you know what love is and what a friend is. I admit that I have many shortcomings, such as the common problem of men, or the amorous feelings, but I never take advantage of others.
Of course, if I choose to accept this person, I will not give up and will not regret it, no matter what difficulties there are in the middle, two people can face it together, this is my bottom line. ”
Speaking of this, Han Tao looked at Andy's eyes very seriously, and continued solemnly: "You don't reject my touch, it can only be said that we have the foundation to move forward.
It is precisely because I understand your past that I have to remind you that the reason why you reject the contact of others may be caused by the psychological shadow caused to you when you were a child, or it is caused by a long-term mental tension and anxiety in your heart, which is a psychological problem that can be completely overcome. ”
Hearing Han Tao's words, Andy thought for a long time, shook his head and said, "No, Han Tao, I do have a strong sense of self-protection because I have been insecure since I was a child, but I can tell the difference between emotions."
I have also had contact with Fan Xiaomei and Xiaoqu, although they resist, but they will not exclude, and I can also feel the friendship between me and them.
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But when I was in contact with Wei Wei, I always rejected and resisted him. But I won't be with you, I'll feel at ease, and I don't think you mind, we can give it a try. ”
Seeing that Andy was still serious after thinking about it, Han Tao was worried that refusing again would hurt her sensitive heart, so he smiled:
"Okay, then let's try it, but don't be pressured, it's good that you and I are still the same as before, and when you confirm your true feelings during the contact process, I'll talk about it when you're sure you can accept it."
In fact, you just have too little contact with people, as long as you maintain the mentality of the recent period and mingle with the girls on the 22nd floor, you will soon be able to adapt to getting along with people.
You can't always wrap yourself up, only by opening your heart can you let the outside sun shine in, and you can find the answer you want faster. ”
Andy nodded, thought for a while, and said, "Han Tao, do you think this is a disease for me, do you want to see a psychiatrist?" ”
Han Tao saw that she began to doubt herself again, and said with a smile: "Andy, your experience and life experience have brought you too much depression, it is impossible to say that there is no problem in your heart, but just find a psychiatrist, I can help you treat this problem." ”
Hearing this, Andy looked at Han Tao in surprise: "Han Tao, you say... Do you know how to cure my psychological problems? ”
"That's right, you don't have as much of a problem as you think. You just shut yourself off too tightly, too lacking in love, whether it's the love between parents and children, or the love between friends, or the love between lovers, all of them are lacking.
So for your mental illness, love is the best panacea, because the reason why you are insecure is caused by a lack of feelings, it is estimated that it would be good to have two relationships or make a few more friends. ”
"There seems to be some truth to this statement, but I don't think there's anything wrong."
Andy said with a smile, she sensed Han Tao's thoughts, and knew that he was very old Tan, and he was guiding himself out of his closed heart.
In this way, the two of them finished drinking a bottle of wine with a smile, thinking that it was over, Andy was not yet happy, she walked to Han Tao's wine cabinet and asked:
"Han Tao, I still want to drink a little, you won't mind, right?"
"Of course I don't mind, just bring it to you if you want to drink, isn't the wine there for drinking!"
Han Tao nodded in response, Andy said that he didn't mind, and didn't ask if he could drink a little with her, indicating that he really didn't drink enough. As for being discouraged because she is worried about her body, this kind of thing can't be said, otherwise it will be too disappointing.
"Okay, just drink this, I haven't been so relaxed for a long time, I ............ abroad before"
Andy completely let go, and began to talk to Han Tao about her bits and pieces over the years, and then talked about her work after returning to China, including the subordinates assigned to her by Lao Tan, and also complained a lot.
When Han Tao heard her talk about Liu Siming, he suddenly remembered that in the original plot, this person seemed to have died suddenly because of overtime, which brought a lot of trouble to Andy, so he said:
"Andy, I also saw this Liu Siming last time I went to a meeting, and then I also let the legal department know about the people under you, after all, it is related to the acquisition of Red Star.
As far as I know, this person's mind is not at work at all, and you also said that he always looks at stocks during the day, so it is better not to let such a person be in charge of such an important matter, otherwise he will always make mistakes, and go back to work overtime every night to get documents, and it is easy to have problems. ”
"What could go wrong?"
Andy didn't understand Han Tao's words, and asked a little puzzled: "The jobs I arranged for him are all reasonable jobs, and he didn't work well during the day, so he worked overtime." ”
"Andy, the reasonable arrangement in your eyes does not mean that others can do it, especially the Liu Siming you mentioned. Since he is not suitable for this job, why don't you talk to Lao Tan and let him take charge of other things, otherwise he will always be black and white upside down, and it is easy to die suddenly. ”
"It's not that serious, is it?"
Andy frowned, and couldn't help but say: "Actually, I also thought about replacing people, but he has been with him for so long, and it takes a long time to get familiar with new people, so as to avoid delaying the progress and delaying it until now." In addition, he is the person arranged by Lao Tan, and he is an old employee, so it is not good to replace him directly. ”
Hearing her say this, Han Tao shook his head: "Andy, I heard you say that his state has slowed down the progress of the work, rather than standing still, it is better to change people, which can avoid risks and speed up the progress."
If you are worried about the long adaptation period of the newcomer, you can also add an assistant to his team, since Liu Siming can't do a good job, then let others help him, and be responsible for the planning and revision of the text.
Listen to me, you can tell Lao Tan about my analysis tomorrow, and he will understand. ”
"Okay, I think what you said makes sense, I'll think about it!"
Andy was a little moved, she did feel that Liu Siming was not suitable, and she was not in tune with herself, and the plan she made was purely a lake trouble, there was really nothing new, maybe changing someone could really have a different effect.
However, she doesn't plan to tell Lao Tan so soon, she can add someone to adapt to it first, and also give Liu Siming a chance, if the revised plan is still full of problems, then she doesn't blame herself for not giving face to the old employees.
Drinking and chatting, soon the second bottle bottomed out, seeing that Andy was already a little drunk, Han Tao let her rest on the sofa alone, and after cleaning up briefly, he made a pot of tea, planning to sober up and send her down.
It may be that alcohol catalyzes the germination of hormones, Andy looked at Han Tao's eyes a little confused, and took the initiative to approach and said:
"Han Tao, I want to try the scientific method, according to the book, if we kiss now, under normal circumstances, I will feel my heart beat faster, my body is hot, my limbs are sore, and my head is dizzy!"
Han Tao was stunned by Andy's seriousness, but before he could respond, Andy had already knocked him down, and then kissed him unfamiliarly.
Seeing that Andy was dedicated to studying, and he did not reject it in the slightest, and completely lost his previous apprehension and coldness, Han Tao couldn't bear to refuse, but taught her how to kiss very seriously.
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