Seeing Andy's painful appearance, Han Tao knew that her mental pressure was too great, so he guided and asked:

"Andy, the most important thing you should do now is to calm down and remember well, can you confirm that your grandmother and your mother are both mentally ill? Can you be sure that the two of them are the result of genetic factors? ”

"No, I was very young at the time, so I didn't know anything about it at all, but I vaguely remembered that my mother went crazy later, but I had already checked it before, and the genetic chance of mental illness in my immediate family was 46.3 out of 100."

After that, Andy's expression was even more dazed, she couldn't remember much at that time, but she knew that she and her mother had wandered around after leaving her grandmother's house, and she basically didn't have much memory of her grandmother.

Han Tao held her hand, shook his head directly and said, "Andy, in this way, you are not sure if there are some aspects of the genetics of the family, right?"

And you don't know why your grandmother is sick, so we can't listen to Wei Guoqiang's words and confirm that your mother's illness is genetic.

You don't know about China, they lived in a special era at that time, and there are many that can cause a person's mental breakdown, such as being severely stimulated, and it is not necessarily a hereditary mental illness.

And I can make a clear question in your narrative, that is, your mother didn't have a mental illness from the beginning, otherwise how could Wei Guoqiang, a young talent who went to Daishan from the magic capital to the countryside, like a mental illness, but he hasn't been ill for so many years, why did he suddenly get sick? ”

Andy looked at Han Tao and returned with a frown: "I have already said this question just now, Wei Guoqiang said that my mother was sick because of a high fever after accidentally falling into the water." ”

"That's the question, why does such a good person choose to be with your mother after returning home? You must know that at that time, people were able to leave the countryside, and few went back, and did your mother really accidentally fall into the water?

If it wasn't accidentally falling into the water, but jumping into the river to commit suicide, it would be completely different, according to Wei Guoqiang, your mother supported him in the college entrance examination, and even waited for him to go to college, which at least shows that before this, your mother's mental state was not problematic at all, so why did she suddenly jump into the river when Wei Guoqiang was in his senior year?

Even if your mother really accidentally fell into the water, then had a high fever for a month, followed by a low-grade fever for a long time, and then had a complete mental problem, then when did your mother have you? ”

"This ............"

Andy was stunned, her previous attention was all on Wei Guoqiang's saying that her daughter had mental problems, so she ignored the question of how she came to this world and when she came to this world.

However, Andy's memory is excellent, and he immediately remembered what Wei Guoqiang said, he was in his senior year of college when he received a notice from the village to go home, and he also found a doctor for treatment for his mother, which means that his mother was not pregnant before this.

Otherwise, when the doctor treated his mother, he would not have known that she was pregnant, and Wei Guoqiang would not have known that he had such a thing, so it should have been a year after his mother became ill before she became pregnant.

If things are really as Wei Guoqiang said, his mother's mental state has not been good since she fell into the water, then Wei Guoqiang is afraid that it is too late, how can he make love with a psychopath, or even make her pregnant?

But what Wei Guoqiang said is not true, then there is only one possibility, that is, the mother was stimulated because Wei Guoqiang suddenly disappeared after she became pregnant, and finally led to a psychotic attack, because only this explanation is more reasonable.

Thinking of this, Andy felt that his mind was in a mess, and asked: "Han Tao, if he lied, then why did Wei Guoqiang run away after my mother became pregnant, was it really because of my mother's mental problems, or did he simply not want my mother and me, so he ran away?" ”

"This is also what I want to ask, according to the reasoning, it is very likely that he abandoned you during your mother's pregnancy, or after giving birth to you, so it caused your mother to suffer from postpartum depression, and was not taken seriously, and finally developed into mental illness.

After all, there are many such cases, and many mothers are not taken care of in time by their families or lovers because they are not taken care of, so the pressure is increasing, postpartum depression, and finally suicide, and there are not a few who are regarded as mentally ill. ”

When Andy heard these words, he was like grasping a life-saving straw, and he excitedly shook Han Tao's hand and said, "You mean to say that my mother's disease is not necessarily due to genetics, right?" ”

Han Tao nodded, and said with a gentle smile: "Yes, don't you think it's ridiculous to always suspect that you have inherited mental illness before, don't be subjective about anything, otherwise you will drive yourself crazy." ”

"Really, if it weren't for you to help me analyze, I guess I'd have driven myself crazy!"

Andy smiled, but as soon as he finished speaking, he frowned again and said, "But you can't rule out the possibility that I have this gene, and Xiao Ming's problem is there, isn't it?" So ......"

"No, Andy, you're wrong, Xiao Ming has his father's genes in addition to your mother, and Xiao Ming is not neurotic, he is autistic, and the recovery effect is not bad now!"

Han Tao interrupted Andy's conjecture and directly dispelled her concerns: "Even if you make sense, the chance of your illness is only about ten percent, because when you were the same age as your mother and your grandmother, you did not show the slightest mental problem, which just shows that your mother's mental illness is not genetic, but caused by psychological stimulation."

So you have to take it easy, you can't scare yourself, and you shouldn't wrap yourself up layer by layer, you can enjoy life like most people, you can have your own family, you can also go to a relationship, don't leave regrets after a hundred years. ”

Andy nodded very seriously, and said with a relaxed smile: "I can accept your logical theory, but I still can't rule it out 100%, so I will accumulate more capital for myself and Xiao Ming in the future, as for starting a family, I don't want to harm others and myself." ”

Although it can't be 100% ruled out, don't worry too much, now that society is under pressure, everyone may have more or less mental illness, such as common depression, obsessive-compulsive disorder, cleanliness and so on.

What's more, according to scientific statistics, if both parents have mental illness, then the prevalence rate is 50%, and if one parent has mental illness, the hereditary chance is 13%, so don't worry too much. ”

"Han Tao, I see that you are not just a lawyer, you are also a psychiatrist, how can you know everything, you will not be a superman hiding by my side, right?"

Andy made a surprise joke, and the big stone that had been pressing on the bottom of his heart could be regarded as a little relaxed.

Hereditary psychosis is like a time bomb, tormenting her all the time, so she pursues efficiency too much, hoping to let herself do as much as possible before the onset of the disease.

But after listening to Han Tao's analysis, she felt that she could slow down a little, and in the future, she could take Xiao Ming to see the beauty of the world more, and even talk about a vigorous love, it doesn't matter if she has a family or not.

Thinking of this, Andy couldn't help but look at the man in front of him, and a trace of indescribable feeling in his heart also grew, slowly occupying a large position.

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