"Why?" Duan Yizhen listened to Sanzang's words and was even more puzzled.

"Sister! The two sides of love are equal, she is not charity, and she is not something that can be given casually. I'm afraid you come to your family life with this attitude, I guess you never do household chores such as washing clothes and cooking at home! ”

"Hey, hey! Usually he rushes to do it, and as soon as I started cooking, she would criticize me, saying that washing clothes would hurt my hands. Sanzang shook his head when he heard this,

"I'm afraid that the food you cook can poison people, and you can't wash your clothes!"

"Hey, hey! I didn't do any of these things when I was a girl, it was all done by the cook and nanny at home. ”

"Understand, my aunt doesn't know how to cook much. In fact, these things are not the most critical factors. I guess you've never wanted to know what he likes, what he hates, and what he's thinking. ”

"This ...... I don't think I know! It was always him who bought me what I liked to eat and what I liked to wear. ”

"Hehe, I'm afraid you're not very friendly to his family, usually when you see it, it's probably a commanding and domineering attitude!"

"This ...... I never objected to him giving his parents money, and I would ask him to give more. During the holidays, I would also buy clothes and good food for his parents. ”

"It's fine! It's not incorrigible yet! ”

"So what's my problem?" Duan Yezhen already regarded Sanzang as an expert in emotional issues.

"Because my brother-in-law married you, his career was smooth and he became a deputy director-level cadre."

"At the right level!"

"Hmmm! It's at the level! He knows that his future and fate are tied to you, so no matter what you usually do to him and his family, he will not dare to resist, and will endure it all. Because the consequences of rebellion will definitely be serious, and you will teach him to be a man every minute. ”

"Giggles!"

"Sister! Don't laugh, if he is a big-hearted person and really loves you, you may grow old like this in this life! ”

"Hmmm! It seems that my sister can only live like this in this life! ”

"Sister! You might be a little wishful thinking, in case he's a scheming man, huh! When your old man retires, your good days will come to an end. ”

"Does he dare to divorce me?"

"He does not dare to bring up the divorce first, because it will affect his future, and he will continue to be cold and violent towards you, such as being cold, contemptuous, permissive, alienated and indifferent to you. I'm afraid that when the time comes, you will be forced to stand it, and you will first file for divorce, and then he will go back and find a young and beautiful female secretary or something. ”

"What! How dare he? ”

"Why wouldn't he dare! The old man will retire in two years, and if you take the initiative to divorce him, he can pretend to be a victim. At that time, he was only in his early 40s, and he was in a high position, and he was good-looking, which was the golden age of men, and he was catching up with a lot of young and beautiful girls. ”

"Why is that?"

"Because you have a good family background, high culture, smart and beautiful! He has low self-esteem and can't admit that you are excellent, or that the light in you has been overshadowing him. He needs to find a sense of self-superiority in more disadvantaged women, such as the cult of female secretaries. ”

"Isn't it because you're looking for Jingru that's it! Or maybe you've been hurt by a woman with a good family background, high culture, intelligence and beauty! Could it be that you also have low self-esteem? But I can't see it! Sanzang laughed when he heard this,

"Sister! I'm here to help you analyze the problem! Why did it come to me again? ”

"I just want to know your emotional experience, and see if you stinky men are the same virtue."

"What about me! It is impossible to have low self-esteem in this life, because I believe in my own ability, can completely control my own destiny, and am confident in my future. Twenty years ago, I came to Yandu with five yuan and two catties of food stamps to look for relatives, starting as a cleaner who swept the floor, and did not rely on anyone, and completely relied on my personal hard work to get to today's situation. I don't think 99 percent of people are going to do better than me. Duan Yizhen nodded, it was the first time she had heard about Sanzang's past, and she was full of sympathy for him.

Then he nodded appreciatively, and his old man praised him many times in front of her and her eldest brother, asking himself and his eldest brother to learn from him.

Gu Ji

"It's not enough to say that I have been hurt by a woman with a good family background, high culture, intelligence and beauty, I had a crush on such a senior sister when I was in college, and when I went to confess to her, she rejected her. She chose a brother who was a little more handsome than me and had a much better family background than me, I had nothing at that time, I was a poor bastard, and I didn't resent her, and now our relationship is quite good! ”

"Why do I hear your words now, there is still a sour taste in the words, hehe, if I were your senior sister, I would definitely choose you! I guess she must have a little regret in her heart now. ”

"Oh?! Why? ”

"It doesn't hurt to tell you, you just said that only men understand men, and it makes sense. In the same way, only women understand women, and the so-called 'wealthy' like ours is not so easy to enter. I estimate that your senior sister should honor her in-laws, maintain the unity and harmonious relationship between her concubines, and take the children to do housework occasionally and serve the men. I guess she's already exhausted, and I'm afraid she's mostly smiling outside, and she probably wouldn't dare to betray her family casually now! Sanzang listened thoughtfully, no wonder Li Luoying was so happy and unrestrained when he saw him.

"In fact, people like you are golden bachelors, with simple family relationships and high incomes, and two people don't know how comfortable it is to live behind closed doors. Only a stupid woman values her family background and wants to rely on the help of her parents, I think your so-called first love sister is nothing more than that! ”

"This ...... Please be merciful to my sister! ”

"Okay! I'll praise you a few more words! Times have changed, and you probably don't even know how dazzling your own light is! Strong financial resources, long-term durability, simple family relations, and a woman who wants to be a moth to the fire. I really envy Jingru, it's better for women to be simpler and more innocent, you probably also like her! Sanzang nodded.

"This is probably the so-called 'not fighting is fighting, fighting is not fighting, the husband is not fighting, so the world can not fight with it'! Even if you change your mind in the future, I'm afraid you can't bear to abandon Jingru! ”

"Sister! How could I change my mind? I'm a simple good man! ”

"Huh! I'm not Jingru, I'll believe your nonsense? Do you really think you're doing it seamlessly? I ask you, what's going on with that Japanese tutor of yours? ”

"This ...... Sister! Sister! You will be my sister from now on! Hit where to fight! ”

"Okay! You said it yourself, I didn't force you! So what do you do about me? ”

"You're so smart, do you need me to teach you?"

"Huh! I'm not in a mess now, and I can't heal myself! ”

"Okay! You can first test what kind of person your brother-in-law is. If it's the first one, you need to change yourself, communicate more with the two of you, and live a good life. If it is the second type, then you need to expose his true face as soon as possible and stay away from him, otherwise you will be the one who will be hurt the most in the future. I don't want to think too badly of my brother-in-law. ”

"How should that be tempted?"

"When you go home today, you pretend to be drunk, and you see if he will really come over to give you a warm greeting, cook you sobering soup, wipe your face or something, and let you rest well. Usually do some housework within your ability, try to communicate with him in an equal tone, try to change for a while, and then see how he reacts! If he remains indifferent, he really has a problem. If he responds positively to your response, it means that there is still salvation! ”

"Wouldn't it be too much trouble?"

"Sister! If it is confirmed that it is the first case, you will put down your high profile in the future and treat him and his family with an equal mentality, and he will be willing to do these little things! ”

"Okay! Sister will listen to you! ”