"Sister Ouyang, you are really handsome! I've decided, I'll be your fan from now on! ”

"Okay, then you have to study hard, sister, I've been a top student since I was a child, and I don't like children with poor studies to be my fans!"

"Don't worry, my academic performance is good, I will definitely work harder in the future, and I will not disappoint your expectations!"

"Hahaha, okay, then it's decided, study hard in the future, I will agree with you to be my fan, come, high-five as an oath!"

Seeing the intimate appearance of the two girls outside the conference room door, one big and one small, playing high fives there, and then giggling and hugging, Hu Qiang didn't know what to say for a while.

This is special, I don't know, I thought Hu Tao was really Ouyang Mofei's child, no, sister.

Although Ouyang Mofei's approach saved Hu Qiang a lot of money, and he was quite relieved, he always felt that Ouyang Mofei's education was a little wrong.

But if you want to say something specifically, Hu Qiang can't say it, anyway, he always feels a little contrary to his traditional education philosophy.

"Daddy Walnut, please stay."

"Huh?" Hu Qiang hurriedly turned his head and put away his heart, and looked at the middle-aged female teacher with a blank face opposite, "Teacher Chen, is there anything else?" ”

That Teacher Chen nodded slightly, then glanced at Ouyang Mofei before lowering his voice and saying, "Mr. Hu, can I talk to you alone?" ”

Hu Qiang looked at Ouyang Mofei, then at Teacher Chen with a serious face, and nodded: "Okay." ”

After that, Hu Qiang asked Ouyang Mofei and Hu Tao to wait for him in the conference room, and he went out of the conference room with Mr. Chen and came to the side of the corridor.

It's still class time, and there's no one in the hallway.

Hu Qiang followed Teacher Chen to the side, and after making sure that no one around could hear him, Teacher Chen stood up and nodded to Hu Qiang.

"Mr. Hu, although the matter of Hu Tao beating people has been resolved, I still hope that you can restrain Hu Tao well after you go back.

Especially your family's educational philosophy and methods, with all due respect, it's really time to change it.

Otherwise, Hu Tao can now escape this catastrophe by virtue of his young age, but what can he do? What will she do when she grows up?

Or let me put it another way.

Let's talk about today's incident, if Hu Tao and the child she injured were both adults, do you think the matter would be resolved like this?

Obviously not, right?

Today, however, you talk to ...... Uh, I'm sorry, but what is the relationship between that lady and you? ”

Hu Qiang laughed, and then explained: "Don't get me wrong, she is my colleague and my subordinate, but she has a better relationship with Hu Tao, and then she is straightforward and quick-witted, so she ......"

"Alright, don't say it." Teacher Chen waved his hand, "I don't care what you have to do with that lady, but what I want to say is that you'd better not let her use her crooked reasoning to educate your daughter anymore, so he will suffer a big loss."

When I say this, I don't have any opinion about the lady herself, but purely on the facts.

Your child Hu Tao is just a child, and his three views are not yet sound.

The first and second grades of primary school are the critical period for establishing the most basic outlook on life.

Therefore, the more this time, the more important it is for children to develop some good habits and some basic understanding.

For example, let children develop the habit of reading, develop the habit of writing homework automatically when they go home, and the habit of not swearing, not littering, etc., etc., etc., are all instilled in them during this period, so that they will remember it in the future, and they can get used to it in the future.

In addition, some basic outlook on life, such as not being able to hit people casually, is even more important.

If you are like littering and the like, it is at most a personal moral problem, but if you develop the habit of hitting people at every turn, something big will happen in the future.

As the old saying goes, steal needles from a young age, and steal gold when you grow up.

Hu Tao is only six years old now, and she has such a short temper and beats people at every turn, even if many things seem to be justified by her, but it is not right to beat people in themselves.

Once you don't correct it at this time, let her think that this is right, and it will become natural to get used to it in the future, and if something happens when she grows up, she will hit someone again, then she will have to do it?

We live in China, and the laws and regulations of the country are there.

It's like today's incident, it seems that the other party is not reasonable, but Hu Tao injured someone, that is, she is wrong.

If Hu Tao was an adult, she would probably have been caught.

I say that, you get the idea, right? ”

Hu Qiang immediately nodded solemnly: "I understand, I will definitely educate Hu Tao well when I go back, and I must let her get rid of the habit of messing around." ”

"That's for the best." Teacher Chen nodded, "Okay, I still have something to do, so I'll go back first, as for Hu Tao, you can take it home directly, it's almost after school anyway." ”

Hu Qiangyi frowned: "Then her schoolbag homework ......"

Teacher Chen pondered slightly: "Then you wait here, I'll go to the second classroom and bring her things to her."

Well, Hu Tao's current situation is not suitable to go back to the classroom, so you might as well take her back first.

Don't worry about homework or anything, every day homework we are teachers will post it in the group, your aunt will be in charge, you can ask her if you don't understand anything.

Also, have Hu Tao write a deep examination and bring it to me on Monday, okay? ”

"Yes, understood." Hu Qiang nodded.

Hearing Hu Qiang's cooperation, Mr. Chen sighed:

"Daddy Hu, the growth and education of children cannot rely on teachers alone, the key is parents, especially parents' example and teaching.

If the lady inside is really not close to you, it is recommended that you try to let her have less contact with Hu Tao and not let Hu Tao learn from her.

Her performance today seems to be hearty and happy, but in fact, there are many hidden dangers.

Have you ever thought that this time the lady in it exonerated Hu Tao in the name of being young, not legally responsible, and not constituting a crime, which would not only make Hu Tao create a false impression that it was the right thing to do, but also cause more trouble.

For example, the beaten party can also use the trick of being young and not constituting a crime to deal with your walnuts in turn.

Especially ......"

"Especially what?" Hu Qiang asked again.

Teacher Chen looked left and right, and then lowered his voice and said:

"Daddy Hu, I won't hide it from you, the parents of the child on the other side were originally nearby villagers, and later became rich by demolition and relocation when the city was built.

Although I don't discriminate against these people, you have to know that the quality of some of these people is actually just that.

Or will their children be able to spit and push people first when they do something wrong?

This is obviously learned from parents!

It can be seen from this that the other party's parents are not good stubble.

This time, their children don't fight, and you have lost such a big face, do you think they will be willing?

On the surface, I may not discuss the law with you anymore, but in private, I can't guarantee it. ”

Hu Qiang frowned and asked, "Teacher Chen, what do you mean ......by not daring to guarantee?"

Teacher Chen said with a calm face: "For example, I'm just making an analogy.

For example, if they can't get angry, they turn around and entangle a group of relatives and friends' children and beat your children at school, no matter how much your children can fight, they can't beat them with two fists, right?

When your child is beaten, you go to them to theorize, and they will follow what the lady said before, saying that the child is young and has no legal responsibility, and it is okay to beat your child, so you don't have anything to do with them, right? ”

Hu Qiang's face immediately became serious: "Teacher Chen, if you let the child bully the child, this is bullying, right?" Your school doesn't care? ”

Teacher Chen sighed: "Of course, you have to see it."

But our school is a public school, with eight classes and forty-five children in one class, so many classes and so many children, but the number of teachers is very small, and it is inevitable that there will be an omission for a while.

If you are not afraid of thieves stealing, you are afraid of thieves, if people have to target your children, they will always find opportunities.

Of course, the kind of situation I'm talking about is a bit serious, and it doesn't have to happen, but if it does, we'll definitely take it seriously.

But there is another situation that has to be guarded against, and it is even more tricky. ”

"What's the situation?" Hu Qiang frowned and asked.

Teacher Chen lowered her voice and said: "For example, they gathered a group of parents of children to come to the school to make trouble, saying that your child is too dangerous, and jointly demanded that your child be expelled and let your child leave the school.

Your child has a record of many fights before, and if they ask for your child to be expelled because your child is too dangerous, it will be difficult to discourage your child, and the school will probably dissuade your child in order to calm the emotions of most people.

Even if you insist on not dropping out of school, or even have to go to court with the school, you may be able to stay, but in this way, the school has a way to treat your child coldly.

Even if the school treats everyone equally, parents are not allowed to play or talk with your child if they unite and isolate your child together.

Isn't this kind of cold and violent environment a greater harm to your child?

And Ah Hu Tao, no matter how good your female friend said before, she only persuaded me and scared the parent.

But you can't change the fact that the other child's injury is more serious, and it looks miserable.

People look back and figure it out, take pictures of the child's injuries and send them to the group, and then the wicked person sues first, guides public opinion, and says that your child has a violent tendency, so he likes to beat people, who do you say people will believe when the time comes?

Do people believe in your children who are intact, or do they believe in children with bruised noses and swollen eyes who have been beaten?

At that time, did other parents who didn't know the truth believe them, or did they believe what you said?

Don't expect the school to handle it, if public opinion is really guided, even if we tell the truth, the parents of the students will not believe it.

After all, you also know that today's parents are very concerned about their children, if they know that there is a child around them who has a violent tendency and likes to hit others, they don't like it, and they are afraid that their children will be hurt one day.

If everyone really believes it and unites to demand that your child withdraw from school, what will our school do? You can only persuade your child to quit.

The other child's parents are locals, and there are a lot of local relatives and friends, and many of her relatives and friends' children are in this school.

Because this was originally a rural area, after the urban construction and transformation, the children of these villagers became urban people, and the children naturally came here to go to school.

Isn't it easy for them to make a tandem?

When the time comes, do you think they will trust the locals, or will they believe you as an out-of-tlander?

So, if you don't want your child to be forced to transfer schools, then I advise you to go back and apologize to the parents.

Don't be serious with others for your own momentary hiatus, and the child will be restless in the future.

I know you're very busy at work, and you rarely go home again, otherwise you wouldn't have entrusted your children to a babysitter.

In this case, you can't watch your children every day, can you?

But those locals, especially the demolition households, have money and leisure, and they are very good-looking, and they really want to find a way to deal with your children, and there are ways.

Didn't you look at the eyes of the parent when they left just now?

It was clearly an unconvinced look, and you gave me a waiting look.

Now that it is a society governed by the rule of law, maybe they can't deal with you adults, but if you deal with children, do you really think it's difficult?

Mr. Hu, you are angry with their locals, aren't you asking for trouble? Isn't this the time for retribution? ”

"Yes, I see." Hu Qiang nodded with a serious face.

"Teacher Chen, don't worry, I will educate Hu Tao well when I go back, and I will let her reflect on it and write it well.

Also, can you give me the contact information of the other parent, and I will apologize to the person in return. ”

Teacher Chen nodded with satisfaction:

"Okay, I'll give you the contact information of the child's parents.

Remember, be sure to speak well, apologize well, and don't exacerbate the conflict!

It is better to settle the grievances than to settle them! ”

"Yes, understood!" Hu Qiang nodded solemnly, "I promise to apologize." ”

After that, Hu Qiang and Teacher Chen added WeChat friends to each other and joined Hu Tao's parent group.

After a while, Teacher Chen took Hu Tao's schoolbag, handed it to Hu Qiang, and then gave Hu Qiang the contact number of the other party's parents, and told him again, before turning around and leaving.

Looking at the back of Teacher Chen leaving, Hu Qiang frowned deeply.

"Ouyang Murphy! You're such a troublemaker! ”