As soon as Ouyang Mofei left, Hu Qiang sighed deeply.

He knew that Ouyang Murphy was for himself to be good with Hu Tao, and he also knew that Ouyang Murphy was a little interesting to him, and he knew it.

But he couldn't afford it.

The reason is that there are too many and too complicated, I don't want to analyze it, and I am tired.

In addition, he did feel that Ouyang Mofei's approach was very problematic, too serious, and too unwilling to compromise.

Seriously, when Ouyang Mofei scolded the little chubby parents before, Hu Qiang still felt very cool.

But after being analyzed by Teacher Chen, he learned that Ouyang Mofei's approach was very problematic.

Yes, if the child is not taken care of, he will be seriously injured.

This is the country, and here you have to talk about the rules here.

It doesn't matter who has more responsibility, it's not right to hurt someone.

It's just that Hu Tao is a child, if he is an adult, this proper defense is too much, and it is even possible to deliberately hurt people.

And if you think about it carefully, Hu Tao's style of being unforgiving and beating people to death after gaining the upper hand is indeed a bit terrifying.

When I was young, I was like this, and when I was older, I still like this...... That's unimaginable.

The reality is not Shuangwen, not that after beating someone, a group of people cheered and applauded 666, but to obediently enter the bureau and go to jail.

Not to mention now, it was the same in ancient times, otherwise why write "Leave your clothes and go to hide your merit and fame?" ”

Do you really think it's a chivalrous demeanor, doing good deeds without leaving a name? Aren't you afraid of getting into trouble and getting caught?

Especially in the current country, all kinds of stressing the rule of law cannot be done, let alone beating people like that.

And just like Mr. Chen said, Ouyang Mofei's practice of not compromising with others really has many hidden dangers.

I can't go home every day to see Hu Tao, I can't pick up Hu Tao every day, in case people really don't give up, and they have to deal with their own children with all their hearts, what should I do?

Do you go to the door to beat the other party's parents?

Or is it really a lawsuit with them?

Or, spend money to find people in the community to block them?

Doing that, on the surface, it seems that I don't have to be angry, it's completely a cool routine, but what about the child? What will happen to you?

In reality, if you really insist on going your own way, fight with others to the end for a little thing, and never compromise, how can you ensure that the other party does not retaliate against your children?

Will Hu Tao continue to go to school with peace of mind in the future?

After thinking about it, Hu Qiang suddenly found that Shuangwen's routine could not be used in reality, it would only make the road narrower and narrower.

Especially in the domestic environment, it is the king to turn big things into small things.

Of course, this fight incident is actually a trivial matter, and it should not be difficult to solve it if Hu Qiang apologizes and gives more money.

What is difficult is Hu Tao's attitude and how to deal with similar things again.

I still want Hu Tao to realize that it's not right to hit people casually, whether you are reasonable or not.

A gentleman doesn't do anything, and a woman must be even more so, otherwise she will suffer a big loss sooner or later.

Ouyang Mofei's style of coming with everyone looks very cool, but there are many hidden dangers, not everyone can learn it, especially Hu Tao can't learn it.

But Hu Qiang understands the reason, but let him tell Hu Tao, Hu Tao may not be willing to listen.

And to be honest, Hu Qiang thinks that although Ouyang Mofei's approach has hidden dangers and is easy to be retaliated against by the other party, in essence, it is a more correct outlook on life.

Hu Tao acted bravely and stood up to protect his classmates, which should be a virtue.

If this is all wrong and she has to be taught a lesson, it will seriously hit Hu Tao's three views and make her disappointed in the world in advance.

Therefore, it is not wrong to act bravely, and this point must be clear.

Hu Tao's only mistake is that he has the wrong method, he chose not to say anything, and he obviously beat the other party away, and he still grabbed others and continued to fight to the death, which is obviously excessive defense.

But as long as she understands the problem and scale of excessive defense, it can't be said that the other party is wrong to act bravely.

When I was in the conference room at the time, the first thing I thought of was to apologize and then calm down.

However, I forgot what kind of impact my own approach would have on my children.

Parents are the first mentors of their children.

If you subconsciously choose to avoid and avoid anything you encounter, how much can you expect your child to be promising?

Now that I think about it, I was a little cowardly.

At this point, he is really not as handsome as Ouyang Mofei.

It's strange, I'm not such a person in the first place, is it because the habits of my predecessor are still affecting me?

Forget it, that's all an excuse, in the final analysis, it's still not tough enough and lacks experience in solving similar situations.

Thinking about it again, if Ouyang Mofei hadn't been present at the time, I'm afraid that he would have settled this matter by admitting and apologizing.

But in that way, she may not be retaliated against by the other party, and she can calm things down, but it will impact Hu Tao's heart, look down on herself, and seriously hit her enthusiasm for righteousness and bravery, and directly distort her three views of integrity.

Ouyang Mofei seems to be right, and his previous thoughts, even Teacher Chen's ideas, are wrong.

Even if Mr. Chen's ideas and practices are more rational, it is easy to turn people into cowards.

Perhaps, this is the original intention of this kind of school, which is to turn children into individual, only obedient and calm, like docile pigs, so that it is more convenient to manage.

Of course, it can't be said that Ouyang Mofei is not wrong at all, she is also wrong.

Her fault is that she doesn't give people face and doesn't leave room at all.

Ouyang Mofei scolded the little chubby parent in front of Hu Tao in front of the teacher and the other party, which was not only relieved, but also made Hu Tao firm up his correct outlook on life.

But Ouyang Mofei did not point out the mistakes of his own legitimate defense, but instead scolded others vigorously.

Ouyang Mofei didn't give the other party a step, which was tantamount to intensifying the conflict, not alleviating the conflict.

Mr. Chen didn't object at the time, but later he said those words to himself alone, obviously trying to alleviate the conflict.

In other words, a correct outlook on life should be established for children, and children should know what is right and what is wrong.

But at the same time, it is not possible to intensify the conflict and provoke the retaliation of the other party's parents.

From this point of view, Ouyang Mofei only did the right thing in the front, her outlook on life is really good, she is a good example of being a person, no wonder Hu Tao likes her so much, she is indeed handsome enough.

In addition, Ouyang Mofei is not only handsome, she is also good-looking.

Handsome beauty, who wouldn't like it?

Not to mention Hu Tao, I was stunned at the time, and I admired it very much.

But having said that, Ouyang Mofei is young and skilled, and she is an outsider, so she can not be afraid of heaven and earth, but it does not mean that others can learn from her.

Thinking of this, Hu Qiang suddenly felt that his brain couldn't react, all kinds of right and wrong went around, and he was dizzy.

"Damn, what's wrong, why am I always thinking about this, why am I always thinking about the child, why am I always thinking about Ouyang Mofei?"

Shaking his head vigorously, Hu Qiang turned his head to look in the direction of Hu Tao.

After finding that she was still playing happily with a group of newly met children, and she didn't look stressed at all, Hu Qiang scratched his head and sighed again.

He now finds that raising children is really a headache.

Of course, it's not about money, it's that he doesn't know how to educate this child, and he doesn't know how to get along with this child.

It's okay for him to make money, and it's okay to provide enough material conditions.

But when it comes to how to get along with children, he really doesn't have any eyebrows at all.

In his previous life, he was never married or had children, and he was used to being free alone.

Now he suddenly crossed, and suddenly there was an old lady and a child, and the child was not worrying, which gave him a headache.

"How do you educate Hu Tao? How to let Hu Tao know that it is right to act bravely, but it is wrong to defend too much, especially chasing others? ”

"Tell the child this, I'm not good at it, otherwise, let Su Damiao persuade you?"

"It's not proper, Su Damiao was just scolded before. And after this incident, it is estimated that her status in Hu Tao's mind has plummeted, and this child may not listen to Sister Su in the short term. ”

"Otherwise, let Grandma Hu Tao persuade you?"

"That's all there is to it."

"In the past, Grandma Hu Tao took care of Hu Tao, and Hu Tao must be willing to listen to Grandma."

Thinking of this, Hu Qiang took out his mobile phone and decided to call his current wife and tell him about it.

He wasn't worried that his old lady was not in a good head.

Because he had already given the special medicine for Alzheimer's disease produced by the system to his mother, he told her to take the medicine on time, and said that this was the test product he asked someone for, which was an informal channel, and he was not allowed to tell others, nor was he allowed to share it with others.

Not to mention, my old lady didn't care about it, but when she heard that it was a special test product obtained through a special channel, she immediately paid attention to it.

As for the effect, although the time is still short, according to Sister Su, it is not bad, the old lady has rarely forgotten and lost recently, her spirit has improved a lot, and there is no problem with her body.

In that case, let's give Grandma Hu Tao a horse and educate Hu Tao.

However, just as Hu Qiang was about to call Grandma Hu Tao, the mobile phone suddenly rang.

When I looked at the phone number, it turned out to be an unfamiliar number.

After answering the phone curiously, a somewhat familiar woman's voice suddenly came from the phone.

"Hey, is it Daddy Walnut?"

"I am." Hu Qiang said, "Who are you?" ”

The other end of the phone said: "Hello, Daddy Hutao, I am Zhao Zhijian's mother, and I met it in the school conference room before." Oh, Zhao Zhijian is my son, the one who fought with your daughter. ”

Only then did Hu Qiang react: "Oh, it's Mother Zhao, oops, sorry, sorry, I didn't recognize it just now." ”

"Nothing." The Zhao family's mother hurriedly smiled.

"That's right, Daddy Walnut, I came here to talk to you.

My son fought with your daughter before, and it was my son who was wrong first.

You don't have to pay for the medical expenses, this matter is over, and I hope you will not pursue it again, stop pestering our family, don't trouble our family, okay? ”

"Huh?" Hu Qiang was stunned, "Mother Zhao, I'm sorry, I don't quite understand what you mean." ”

Zhao's mother said: "Daddy Hutao, don't pretend, your wife just called me to warn me."

This time, we admit that the child fights.

You can rest assured, we will never hold on to this matter, we will never find someone to beat your walnut, and we will not collude with other parents to force your walnut to drop out of school.

Anyway, I hope you have a lot of them, and that's it, okay?

It's really not good, I, I'll give you money, how much do you say is appropriate? ”

Hu Qiang frowned: "Ah, no, no, it's all children fighting, how big it is, as for it." ”

"Yes, yes, yes." The other party hurriedly smiled, "It's just a child fighting, a small matter, a small matter, hehe." ”

Hu Qiang's eyes rolled: "Okay, this matter is over, we won't pursue it anymore, and you won't pursue it anymore, it's better to settle the grievances than to settle the knot, what do you think?" ”

"Yes, yes, yes, it is better to settle the grievances than to settle them!" The other party continued to smile, "Then this matter is over, you must not trouble me again, okay?"

Especially to tell your wife, the content of my WeChat with others must be kept confidential, don't say it, please! ”

Hu Qiang blinked: "Ah, I know, don't worry, no, we're not that kind of people." ”

"Thank you so much, Mr. Hu, you are really an adult." The other said, "That's it?" ”

"That's it, bye-bye!"

After hanging up the phone, Hu Qiang frowned, and then quickly called Ouyang Mofei.

Soon, the phone was connected, and Ouyang Mofei's lazy voice came: "Hey, what's the matter?" ”

Hu Qiang said: "Mo Fei, the mother of the child who fought with Hu Tao, called me just now, you did it, right?" ”

"Yes, it's me." Ouyang Mofei admitted very simply, "What did she tell you, did she beg you for forgiveness, and promised not to pester your walnut again, and promised not to retaliate?" ”

"Yes, that's what she said." Hu Qiang said, "What I wonder is how her attitude changed so quickly, and her attitude is still very low, she feels like she is begging me, and she takes the initiative to give me money......

By the way, she seems to be talking about what WeChat content, you, what did you do? ”

Ouyang Mofei said lazily: "It's nothing, it's just hacking her phone, peeking at the content of her phone, especially looking at her WeChat, and knowing some of her little secrets." ”

"Little secret, what little secret?" Hu Qiang asked.

Ouyang Mofei said: "It's nothing, this woman, her husband is a long-distance truck driver, and it's rare to go home."

Then, this woman has a concubine outside.

That's fine, the key is that the identity of this concubine is a little special, she is her husband's younger brother, her own brother.

This woman committed adultery with her husband's younger brother and cuckolded her husband, and the key is that she is very sensitive, and she is often contacted on WeChat.

Oops, if this thing gets out, hehehe. ”

"So exciting?" Hu Qiang opened his mouth wide, "No, I mean, how do you know about this?" So much can you know in such a little time? ”

Ouyang Mofei said: "Their WeChat contact is clearly said, what sister-in-law, your brother, I guess I said it on purpose, maybe it's more interesting to say this, oops, these people are really good at playing." ”

"Yes, it's pretty good at playing." Hu Qiang nodded, "My wife and husband's brother...... Ah, the classic plot of the island country. ”

But soon, Hu Qiang reacted: "No, I'm not asking you this, I mean, how did you hack someone's mobile phone?" ”

"It's easy." Ouyang Mofei said, "I called your teacher Chen and asked her for the other party's mobile phone number, and said that she wanted to apologize sincerely."

After asking for the other party's mobile phone number, I sent a text message to the other party, saying that I wanted to give her money and add her WeChat transfer.

Then she added my WeChat without any doubt, and then I gave her a small video in WeChat, saying that she should click on the small video, saying that it was my apology video.

That's certainly not my apology video, it's a hacking program.

After she clicked on it, I could see her WeChat content.

The woman didn't understand anything, she didn't have any defense, and when she saw that there was no apology video, she asked me what was wrong.

I said I made a mistake, and then said there was something wrong, and I'll talk to her later.

Next, her WeChat is synchronized with me in real time, and I can see her WeChat content in real time, including who I am chatting with.

And guess what, the woman was so bold that she immediately talked to a man about it.

I thought she was talking to her husband, but after looking at it for a while, I found out that it was her husband's younger brother, and it was her concubine.

Oh, this pair of dog men and women, while talking about the children's fights, are also flirting and scolding.

Then, as expected, the woman asked her concubine, her husband's brother, to find someone to deal with your walnut, saying that she was going to gather a bunch of children to beat her.

Seeing this situation, how could I bear it, so I decisively copied the content of their conversation, and called the other party again, asking the other party to apologize to you immediately, and no longer pursue Hu Tao's matter. ”

Hu Qiang was dumbfounded: "Just a moment of effort, you have done so much?" ”

Ouyang Mofei said: "It's also luck, who made that woman can't help it, and she is chatting and complaining with her concubine on WeChat, which just made me see enough." ”

"No, Murphy." Hu Qiang said, "You are a crime!" ”

Ouyang Mofei said: "But it's very useful, isn't it?" ”

"But, but ......"

"Don't do it, just settle the matter, that's it, I still have something to do, hang up!"

After ending the call, Hu Qiang was stunned for a moment, then shook his head and silently put away his mobile phone.

This Ouyang Mofei can cause trouble, but he can also settle things.

It's just her way to settle things, it's always not so formal, and she always likes to go off the beaten path.

I don't know if it's good or bad.

"Forget it, it's good that things can be solved like this, you can't get cheap and sell well."

"But I just scolded Ouyang Mofei like that before, she, she won't hold a grudge, right?"

Thinking of this, Hu Qiang shook his head and decided not to think about these anymore, but to think about what to eat today.

That's right, he decided to take Hu Tao home today, and everyone will have a reunion dinner together.

"Reunion dinner, it must be hot pot!"

"It's too much trouble to go out to eat, so let's just eat at home."

"It's so decided, I'll go to the supermarket in a while, buy some ingredients, and go home to eat hot pot together!"

The plan was decided, and Hu Qiang went to the playground to take Hu Tao away.

After Hu Tao came out of the playground, he found that after Ouyang Mofei left, he was still a little unhappy, very sullen, and seemed to be very reluctant to Ouyang Mofei.

Hu Qiang had no choice but to say that Ouyang Mofei had something to do temporarily, and he would play together in the future.

After that, Hu Qiang went to a big supermarket together and bought a lot of ingredients and seasonings related to hot pot.

Among them, Hu Qiang especially bought a lot of expensive things, such as Hu Tao's favorite high-quality fatty beef, as well as oysters, octopus and other seafood.

Well, at least now, Hu Qiang has realized the freedom to buy groceries, and he no longer has to worry about whether it is expensive to buy groceries.

After getting out of the supermarket, they took a taxi together, and when they got home, they found that Su Damiao was already at home, but he seemed to be in a bad mood, his eyes were a little red, and he seemed to have cried once.

But after seeing Hu Qiang and Hu Tao coming, Su Damiao immediately put on a smile and took the initiative to come over to help get things.

But obviously, after Hu Tao saw Su Damiao, he immediately flattened his mouth and directly wrote his dissatisfaction on his face.

Hu Tao's grandmother hurriedly asked what was going on, and Hu Tao took the initiative to tell him what happened at school this afternoon.

According to Hu Tao, Su Damiao was too weak and useless, and she didn't dare to argue with the teacher like Sister Ouyang, but she was left after a few words from the other party, which made her very embarrassed, so she didn't want this new mother.

These words were all said clearly, so of course Su Damiao also heard them.

"Walnut!" Hu Qiang hurriedly reprimanded with a straight face.

"Why are you talking to Aunt Su like that?

Is there still a bit of politeness?

Aunt Su is already sad and worried about you, how can you say that about her? ”

"I'm not wrong!" Hu Tao said with a disapprehensive face, "And, and I already know, she, she is just our family's nanny, you paid for it, she is not a new mother at all!" She doesn't have any control over me! ”

"You!" Hu Qiang subconsciously raised his right hand.

Well, just raise your hand to scare.

"Hit, you hit!"

Hu Tao looked at Hu Qiang with tears in his eyes, slanted his eyes, and looked at Hu Qiang stubbornly.

"If you fight hard, I'll wrinkle your eyebrows and count you as a winner!"