I don't know how long it took, Su Damiao suddenly let out a long sigh.

"I'm sorry, Mr. Hu, for making you laugh." Su Damiao, who sighed, said with a red smile in his eyes.

"Nothing." Hu Qiang smiled slightly, "Who hasn't been sad yet, it's okay to go over." ”

"Actually, I'm so unbearable today because I remember the past." Su Damiao raised his head and looked at the sky outside.

"Back then, I worked as a nanny for a family, which was in a similar situation to you, a single father with a daughter.

Originally, I had a good relationship with that family, and I couldn't even hold back and fell in love with the girl's father.

But then one day, her daughter was bullying other classmates at school, and when I went to negotiate with the parents, the parents of the other party pointed at me and scolded me when they saw me, saying that I was just a nanny and had no right to care about it.

That's it, the key girl who was defended by me was also very dissatisfied with me, and said on the spot that I shouldn't be nosy, saying that I was just a nanny, just a servant, what qualifications did I have to take care of the master's affairs. ”

"What? It's too much! Hu Qiang immediately said, "How can this kid speak?" Who did you learn this from? ”

Su Damiao smiled slightly: "I was very sad at the time, but I thought it was just the other party's angry words, so I wanted to continue to negotiate and persuade that girl to apologize."

However, the girl not only did not accept my kindness and refused to apologize to the other party, but also sneered at me on the spot, and even picked up a glass of water and threw it in my face.

She also said at the time that she couldn't beat her classmates, but she could beat me.

Then she also said that I was a vixen, and I was worried about her family's property, which was quite her stepmother or something.

A lot of people were there, including the parents and teachers of the other children, and I, I couldn't stand it anymore and just left.

But later, when I went back, I thought that the other party would reflect, thinking that even if the child is not sensible, the child's father should always be sensible.

As a result, what I waited for was not the child's apology, nor the child's father's understanding, but the expulsion.

Not only that, but the child's father also spoke ill of me everywhere, saying that I had seduced him and wanted to take over his family's property, so that I could not stay in the local area and continue to work as a nanny in the local area. ”

"You didn't complain?" Hu Qiang frowned, "Didn't you sue them for slander?" ”

"How do you sue?" Su Damiao's tears flowed down again, "I'm just a nanny, and the other party has a head and face in the local area, is a civil servant, and a small leader, and his usual style is also well-known, I was also deceived by his superficial efforts at that time."

In a situation like this, everyone will only believe what the family says, they will not believe me, they will only think that I am the kind of vicious woman who wants to hook up with the master and then seize the property.

Even if I sue him, I won't be able to win, because there is no evidence, let alone the time and energy, to go to a lawsuit with a local civil servant. ”

Speaking of this, Su Damiao took out a tissue and wiped his tears:

"I am also a person with children, I can be wronged myself, but I can't let my children be wronged.

My child is still in college in the local area, my reputation has been ruined, and I can't ruin my child's reputation anymore.

So, I left the city alone and came here quietly.

Shanghai is a cosmopolitan city, there are all kinds of people, and no one cares about your past.

Here, I repackaged myself, took the English name Susan, and then worked and studied at the same time, gradually becoming an elite nanny.

The so-called elite nanny is just a packaging and gimmick, but the essence is still to serve people, but the income will be very different.

Of course, the reason why I want to find a way to be an elite nanny is not only for the money, but also because I don't want to encounter all that bad stuff again.

Because I have heard that the rich people in Shanghai tend to be more generous, and the quality is generally relatively high, and they will not look down on people at every turn, at least on the surface, they will be better.

I don't know anything else, I can only do housework and caretakers, so I can only continue to work as a nanny.

And I'm not young, my children are older, if I don't work hard to save some money, I will have a hard time in the future.

That's why I worked hard to become an elite nanny.

In addition to the high salary, the biggest advantage of high-end nannies is that they can raise their own value, choose an employer at the initial stage, and find out the employer's situation in advance.

Unlike ordinary nannies, who can only unilaterally choose our nannies, our nannies can't find out the employer's situation in advance.

To put it bluntly, it is between high-end nannies and employers, information access is more reciprocal, which is a bit similar to blind dates, and can put their respective conditions and needs on the bright side in advance, which avoids a lot of troubles later.

But when you enter this industry, you know that the so-called high-end nanny is not so easy to be, not just serving people, but also young and beautiful, with special talents.

I can't compare with those highly educated and high-quality young people, I can only work my work attitude, and then I can get more skill certificates and package myself.

But even so, I'm still not very sought-after among high-end nannies, because real high-end people don't like people with miscellaneous academic qualifications like me, and they don't like people of my age, so they will be brushed off at the beginning.

So I'm so grateful that you chose me and that you trusted me so much. ”

"That's what you see." Hu Qiang shook his head, "You have also helped me a lot, I thank you for it." ”

After a short pause, Hu Qiang said: "Sister Su, I understand your mood now, I'm sorry, because Hu Tao reminded you of those unhappy things in the past." ”

Su Damiao shook his head: "Like you said, who hasn't been sad to live to this age?" It's good to be in the past, after all, people have to look forward, right? ”

"Yes, look ahead." Hu Qiang nodded.

Speaking of this, Hu Qiang suddenly frowned: "Wait, how do you feel, it seems that you are comforting me?" ”

After taking a closer look at Su Damiao's appearance, Hu Qiang asked: "Sister Su, you didn't look at me angry, and in order to make me feel better, you deliberately came to tell me this, right?"

Deliberately uncovering my past scars, just to make me feel better? ”

"Huh?" Su Damiao was stunned, and then smiled slightly, "Ah, you can see it." ”

Hu Qiang shook his head and sighed: "Sister Su, in fact, you don't need to be like this. ”

Su Damiao was silent for a moment, and then smiled slightly: "Yes and no."

What I said before was true, when I went to negotiate with the other party's parents for Hu Tao's matter, I was really scolded by the other party, and then I remembered the past, and I couldn't stand it for a while, so I ignored Hu Tao's feelings and chose to escape.

I'm sorry for Hu Tao's trust and for betraying yours.

Especially because of my affairs, I made your father and daughter discordant, and I felt even more guilty.

I didn't know what to do, so I had to come and admit my mistake and explain why. ”

"Oops." Hu Qiang sighed, "Sister Su, you are really a confidant sister, I am about to be cured by you." You shouldn't be a babysitter, you should be a counselor. ”

Su Damiao smiled and shook his head: "Psychological counselors are not so easy to test, I can't pass the test, at least my academic qualifications can't pass." ”

Hu Qiang nodded: "Okay, I won't mention it, but Hu Tao is ...... What am I going to do? Seriously, I'm not good at communicating with children. ”

Su Damiao smiled and said, "Okay, Mr. Hu, don't be entangled, leave Hu Tao's matter to me, I'll go and persuade Hu Tao." ”

"You?" Hu Qiang frowned, "Hu Tao scolded you so much just now, and you still want to persuade you?" Will it work? ”

"Why not." Su Damiao said with a smile, "Children are actually very simple, as long as you are usually good to her, and then apologize to her after doing something wrong, admit your mistakes, and make her feel face-saving, you can reason with the other party."

In fact, Hu Tao is a very smart child and a very reasonable child.

She is just still angry, and she can't wipe off her face so she speaks badly and hurts people.

But as long as I apologize to her first, the problem will not be difficult to solve. ”

"Is this appropriate?" Hu Qiang frowned, "It's obviously Hu Tao's fault, but you took the initiative to apologize to her?" ”

"You can't say that." Su Damiao shook his head.

"Actually, Hu Tao is right, the source is that I did something wrong, I shouldn't have been scolded at the time, so I left Hu Tao and ran away, because I didn't have enough heart.

So I took the initiative to apologize, and rightfully so.

In addition, don't think that the other party is a child, and we adults can ignore their psychological appeals.

On the contrary, it is precisely because the other party is a child and has a relatively simple idea that we should apologize as soon as we do something wrong.

As long as you sincerely apologize and reason with them, they will understand you. ”

"But ......"

"Don't worry, don't worry, leave it to me, you go back to the living room and wait, we'll have dinner later."

After speaking, Su Damiao nodded to Hu Qiang, then left the balcony and went to Hu Tao's room.

Hu Qiang also left the balcony and came to the sofa in the living room to sit and play with his mobile phone.

About half an hour later, the door to Hu Tao's room opened.

Immediately afterwards, I saw Hu Tao flattening his mouth, walked up to Hu Qiang, lowered his head and whispered, "Dad, I'm sorry, I was wrong." ”

"Huh?" Hu Qiang frowned, sat up straight and asked in a deep voice, "What are you wrong?" ”

Hu Tao continued to lower his head and didn't dare to look at Hu Qiang: "I, I shouldn't say Su, Aunt Su is a nanny, I shouldn't say that she has no right to control me, I, my words hurt Aunt Su's heart." ”

Hu Qiang looked at Su Damiao behind Hu Tao in surprise, and found that after she smiled and nodded, Hu Qiang asked Hu Tao: "Do you really know that it's wrong?" ”

"Hmm." Hu Tao nodded.

"I really know it's wrong, it's rude to say Aunt Su like that, after all, she is also good for me.

Moreover, I should not have beaten people at school, I should have told the teacher as soon as possible.

Because whether the other party is doing something wrong or not, you should be reasonable and not do it.

If the other party starts to beat someone, and I also start to beat people, then it is a reason for the dog to bite me, and I bite back.

The dog bit me, how can I learn from the dog?

Of course, it is to use human means to counter, beat the dog with a stick, or find security guards and police, and let them deal with the dog, otherwise, will I also become a puppy? ”

"Well, that's a good point." Hu Qiang nodded.

But soon he frowned again: "Wait, the dog bit you for this statement, who taught you?" ”

"Of course it's Sister Ouyang!" Hu Tao suddenly smiled and looked up.

However, seeing Hu Qiang's frowning appearance, Hu Tao stuck out his tongue and lowered his head again.

"Sister Ouyang?" Hu Qiang was stunned, "Ouyang Mofei? ”

Hu Tao nodded.

"Nani?" Hu Qiang looked surprised, "Why is she again?" What's the situation? ”

At the time of the last sentence, Hu Qiang looked up at Su Damiao.

Then Su Damiao came over and explained.

It turned out that after Su Damiao entered Hu Tao's room before, Hu Tao ignored Su Da Miao at first.

It was only when Su Damiao admitted his mistake first, saying that he should not have left at that time, and that he should fight for reason and defend Hu Tao, that Hu Tao said a few words.

Hu Tao said at the time: What's the use of apologizing now, if you are like Sister Ouyang, will I be punished for standing for so long? Okay, don't talk about it, I don't want to see you.

After that, Su Damiao said something bad again, including Grandma Hu Tao, who also followed suit, but Hu Tao just didn't listen and asked them to leave quickly.

Later, Su Damiao had an idea, and contacted Ouyang Mofei on WeChat, first using typing to tell Ouyang Mofei about the situation here, and then hoped that Ouyang Mofei would persuade Hu Tao.

Because Su Damiao found that Ouyang Mofei had a very high status in Hu Tao's mind at this time, if Ouyang Mofei could come over to persuade him, the effect should be good.

When Ouyang Mofei replied that it was okay, Su Damiao turned on the mobile phone video and asked Ouyang Mofei to video chat with Hu Tao.

Sure enough, as soon as Ouyang Mofei spoke, Hu Tao immediately listened.

For example, Ouyang Mofei said to Hu Tao that Aunt Su didn't care about her and didn't care about her, but she was in a bad mood after being scolded at the time, just like Hu Tao now, so she couldn't hold back for a while before running away, but now she apologizes, which means that she regrets it.

Ouyang Mofei also said that Aunt Su is a person who really cares about Hu Tao, and she can't complain about the people who love and care about her because others have done something wrong.

In addition, Ouyang Mofei is also saying good things to Hu Qiang, saying that Dad Hu has always cared about Xiao Hu Tao, but he is a man, not good at expression, and he is usually very busy at work, and he is bent on making more money and improving the life of Hu Tao's family.

Dad Hu is very hard, I hope Hu Tao will stop blocking Dad and learn to understand and tolerate.

Well, anyway, Ouyang Mofei said a lot of comforting words, and he moved Hu Tao at once.

So far, Hu Tao not only forgave Su Damiao, but even forgave Hu Qiang, realized his mistake, and was willing to come out and take the initiative to apologize to Hu Qiang.

"Really?" After listening to Su Damiao's words, Hu Qiang couldn't believe it at all, "You mean, that's all Mo Fei, Ouyang Mo Fei said?" Was it Hu Tao she persuaded her? Did she really say that? ”

"Of course!" Before Su Damiao could speak, Hu Tao suddenly raised his head and said, "Sister Ouyang is fine, she has been reasoning with me, and she speaks well."

By the way, she also said that she plans to take me to the playground to play go-kart tomorrow.

Dad, you'll agree, won't you? ”

Hu Qiang blinked: "I ......"

"You'll agree!" Hu Tao hurriedly said, "Sister Ouyang said, you love me so much, I will definitely agree, but don't go, it will be very boring if you go, Sister Ouyang said that she just wants to play with me, and she doesn't want to play with you." ”

"I don't want to play with her yet!" Hu Qiang subconsciously said, "However, aren't you interested in the class?" You don't dance or play the piano anymore? ”

"I'll be free tomorrow morning." Hu Tao said, "My interest class starts tomorrow afternoon, and there is only one art class at three o'clock tomorrow afternoon."

So I'm going to play with Sister Ouyang tomorrow morning, it should be fine, right? ”

"This ......"

"Daddy!"

Hu Tao suddenly said: "If you don't agree, I won't pay attention to you in the future!" You don't want me to ignore you in the future, do you? ”

Hu Qiang frowned and said: "But you are still so young, I am very worried about playing alone with Mo Fei, she is not very reliable." ”

"No, it won't!" Hu Tao said, "Sister Ouyang is much more reliable, anyway, I'm going to go to the playground with her!" If you don't agree, I'll never pay attention to you! ”

"Mr. Hu." Su Damiao suddenly said, "Since Hu Tao wants to go so much, let her go, it's really not good, I'll go with her, but Auntie, I need you to help take care of it." ”

Hu Qiang thought about it and felt that there was no problem, so he nodded: "Since that's the case, then you can go together tomorrow!" I stayed to take care of my mom. ”

Immediately afterwards, Hu Qiang said to Su Damiao: "By the way, Sister Su, you can drive, right?" ”

"Yes, I will." Su Damiao nodded.

Hu Qiang thought for a while and said, "That's it, you rent a car, and tomorrow you will drive Hu Tao and Ouyang Mofei, that is, my colleague, let's go out together."

I remember Hu Tao only had one art class tomorrow, and it was three o'clock in the afternoon.

Well, you go and talk to the art teacher and change the class time to 6 p.m.

That way, you can play a little more and spend the whole day outside.

Don't worry about the cost, I will call you in advance, refund more and make up less, what do you think? ”

Before Su Damiao could speak, Hu Tao jumped up first: "Dad, really? Can you really play for a day tomorrow? ”

"Of course it's true." Hu Qiang smiled, "When did I lie to you?" ”

"Hmph, you've lied to me a lot!" Hu Tao pouted.

Hu Qiang was stunned for a moment, and then said, "Okay, I won't lie to you this time, it's true." ”

"Great!" Hu Tao jumped up and kissed Hu Qiang's face, "Dad Saigao, Dad is so good!" ”

Hu Qiang wiped his face with a bitter smile: "You, you, cry and laugh, say what is good about you." ”

"Don't say it, don't say it." Grandma Hu Tao suddenly smiled and said, "Come on, come on, eat, eat hot pot together!"

Hu Tao, I bought your favorite beef roll today. ”

"yes, eat hot pot, and my favorite beef roll, that's great!"

"Since you love to eat, why don't you come over to help grandma set the plate? Get something out of the fridge early, let's start eating early! ”

Seeing Hu Tao happily running to the dining table to help set the plate, Hu Qiang sighed and subconsciously looked at Su Damiao.

After finding that Su Damiao smiled at himself and mouthed at the dining table, Hu Qiang was stunned and immediately stood up.

After putting on a bright smile, Hu Qiang followed and walked over: "I'll come too, let's eat hot pot together!" ”