Life 17

With the passage of time, my mind has matured and matured, and the word "home" seems to have suddenly become a place that I dare not go back to. It's as if you're back in the place where you were born, and all the pretense is broken. In the summer vacation of 2021, when I returned to my hometown, I didn't expect my mother to come to pick me up at the train station.

When my mother was young, my mother who never got motion sickness started to get sick as soon as she got in the car after giving birth to me, and it became difficult for my mother to go to other places to take a car. My mom is the eldest in the family, she has two younger brothers and a younger sister. My mother is a knowledgeable person, and her life customs are also open to her mouth. It's a pity that the family was relatively poor at that time. My mother gave up her studies for the sake of her family. But unexpectedly, her younger brothers and sisters did not walk out of the book door. This made my mother linger in my heart, I don't know if it was my mother's wish or her yearning for the profession of "teacher", which made me embark on the road of teaching.

My mother is very strong in her life, physical factors, allergies to any drugs, colds and flu and even sometimes uncomfortable eating, my mother always survives by herself. I actually admire her very much, admire her strength, and even more admire her will. When I was a child, my mother always taught me to "go the world with reason". Therefore, she never spoiled me when I was a child, and began to instill those "big truths" in me when I was a child, resulting in me being a "little adult" since I was a child.

My mom always said that my sister and I were two people, but the truth was that my sister and I were really different. It was as if the moment I was born, my mom decided to let me fly away and not wander around her life. In fact, my mom and I lived peacefully for three days, and after that heat, we would definitely quarrel over a certain topic. I feel very sorry for her, in my dad's words, "how pitiful, no dad, no mom, no place to live" Actually, I was my dad's joke, but it was the truth. In my mother's life, I can't find any other adjectives except persistence.

My mother always said that if she lived past the age of 55, she would earn it. Because my grandmother died of stomach cancer at the age of 55, I always told her that if she lived two more years, she should be with me. My mom and I communicate like bosom friends, and she always asks for my opinion when I'm not sure. She will accept my opinions, and I respect her very much. I will report to her wherever I go, I am not a "mom baby" because she never interferes with my itinerary and thoughts, and we both respect each other like this.

I always call her Comrade Xiao'e, and she always calls me my eldest son. In fact, we have more space and more intimacy. Many of my friends do not get along well with their parents, and they envy me and Comrade Xiao'e. Actually, this is the most comfortable mother-daughter relationship between me and my mother. Sometimes the relationship between children and their parents is very easy, but sometimes they spread their bad feelings on their relatives, and over time they slowly start to have no communication.

In fact, I like to communicate with my family by letter, and I always think that writing letters is one of the most effective ways to communicate between hearts, but unfortunately this primitive mode of communication seems to be slowly decreasing in this society.