As soon as Chrissy's mother's voice fell, the scene immediately fell silent for a moment.

Soon, Chrissy smiled and said to her mother: "Mom, it's nothing, I'm with Qiang, I just had a little conflict before, and he was not happy in his heart, so he deliberately said that, in fact, our relationship has always been very good, right?" ”

Speaking of this, Chrissy looked at Hu Qiang and glared at him, obviously asking Hu Qiang to come back quickly.

Hu Qiang was a little hesitant, not knowing whether to follow Chrissy's words and come back, or stick to his own opinion.

In fact, Hu Qiang said that just now, but he was just forced by Chrissy's mother to not do it, and then he was impulsive.

Of course, in his heart, Hu Qiang really didn't want to continue playing, but he didn't want to stimulate Chrissy's mother either.

Now Chrissy wants to reunite herself, and Hu Qiang doesn't know how to choose for a while.

"Qiang, you speak!" Seeing that Hu Qiang kept frowning and not speaking, Chrissy urged, "You were just angry just now, right?" ”

Speaking of this, Chrissy also came to Hu Qiang's side and whispered to him: "Don't forget my mother's situation, help!" ”

Just when Hu Qiang began to be embarrassed, Chrissy's mother suddenly said, "Okay, Xiaojie, don't embarrass him." It's all this time, what are you lying about? Is it true that our old lake is painted? ”

"Mom!" Chrissy looked at her mother, "Actually, ......"

"That's it!" Chrissy's mother waved her hand, then pinched the bridge of her nose with her other hand, "I don't want to hear you lie anymore, let's be honest." ”

"yes." Chrissy's father also spoke at this time, "Xiaojie, don't insist anymore, let's be honest, I can't stand it anymore." ”

Speaking of which, Chrissy's father added:

"Don't worry, your mother isn't so angry now, because when we came, we had already considered the matter of you finding someone to pretend to be your boyfriend, and we were mentally prepared for a long time, but if you continue like this, don't talk about your mother, I'm going to be angry!"

Chrissy's eyes widened: "What, when you came, you already thought that I would find someone to pretend to be my boyfriend?" ”

Chrissy's father nodded and sighed: "Not only that, the boyfriend you told us in the video before, we suspected that it was fake, but we were not sure, so we had this trip to Shanghai." ”

Chrissy frowned, and then looked at her mother: "Mom, you just said that when I sent you that group photo last night, you noticed that something was wrong, what was wrong?" Where are the flaws? ”

Chrissy's mother shook her head, and was about to speak, when something suddenly came to mind.

I saw Chrissy's mother turn her head and say to her wife: "Old Yuan, you take Xiaohu out for a walk, and I will talk to my daughter alone." ”

Chrissy's father smiled, and then said to Hu Qiang: "Little Hu, why don't we go out first and find a place to have a cup of tea?" Drop by for a chat? ”

"Okay, no problem." Hu Qiang immediately smiled and nodded, "I know that the café here is quite good, there is not only coffee in it, but also a lot of good tea, why don't we go there and sit there?" ”

"I don't dare to ask for it." Chrissy's father smiled, "Then let's go, and leave it to their mother and daughter here." ”

After saying that, Chrissy's father walked out of the room with Hu Qiang.

After they left, Chrissy's mother smiled and said to Chrissy:

"Daughter, they're all gone, and I'll tell you something heart-wrenching.

In fact, if you have really been in a serious relationship, you know what the problem is, but you don't, you have no experience in love, so you have made some basic mistakes. ”

Chrissy was stunned: "What do you mean?" ”

Chrissy's mother continued: "It's very simple, people get along with each other to follow a certain social distance, and the distance is different depending on the relationship.

This sense of distance is often a subconscious performance, unless you deliberately perform after being conscious, you will often subconsciously distance yourself from the other party.

For example, between you and ordinary friends, you will subconsciously open up a social distance, and you will not be too close to each other.

And I'm your mother, and when I'm with you, I'll subconsciously get closer, such as subconsciously touching my hands and patting my shoulders, which is not a problem.

But the relationship between family and family is not the closest, and the real most intimate relationship is actually a couple relationship.

Just like this photo! ”

Speaking of this, Chriss's mother took out her mobile phone and brought up the photo of her and Hu Qiang sent by Chrissy yesterday.

"Look." Chrissy's mother pointed to the photo and said, "Although the two of you are sitting together, there is still a big gap between your bodies, which is not close to each other, which shows that the relationship between the two of you is not too close."

If you just met, you would just subconsciously distance yourself, but you have known each other for half a year, and normally speaking, this should be the best time for your relationship.

But even so, there is a subconscious distance between you, which is very problematic.

Of course, just this photo can't tell the story, after all, there are more restrained couples, otherwise, there would be no word for respect.

However, the way you walked in today, I knew you two were fake couples. ”

Chrissy frowned: "Is there anything wrong with the way you look when you enter the door?" ”

Chrissy's mother smiled: "When you entered the door before, you were in front, he was behind, and then when you walked in one after the other, you were half a body apart from each other, which is obviously an ordinary social distance, not a distance between lovers." ”

Chrissy frowned, "It's nothing, is it?" Among many couples, when the man meets the woman's parents for the first time, it is normal to be a little restrained and restrained, right? You can't kiss me in front of my parents, right? ”

Chrissy's mother was slightly stunned, and then immediately shook her head: "This, of course, is not only seen from this, but also your movements, demeanor and micro-expressions.

From your movements and expressions, I can see that this little beard's movements are a little stiff and unnatural, and you are a little apprehensive. ”

Speaking of this, Chrissy's mother sighed: "Xiaojie, you are my daughter, I watched you grow up, I know what your subconscious actions are."

As soon as you are nervous, you will subconsciously brush the hair around your ears.

This time you entered the door with Xiaohu, and you subconsciously brushed the hair around your ears, which obviously showed that you were nervous.

If it's normal nervousness, it's fine, but you deliberately behave naturally, and even deliberately grab Xiaohu's hand.

When you grabbed Xiaohu's hand before, I saw Xiaohu subconsciously shrink back, and then he was held by you, and his behavior after that was also very unnatural.

It's just one thing, and so many unnatural things add up, and it's very abnormal. ”

"So you just deliberately rushed to marry immediately?" Chrissy asked, "Actually, I want to verify it one more time and see if we're real?" ”

"Yes!" Chrissy's mother smiled, "If you were real, then Xiaohu would definitely be fine, but his face changed at that time, and he shirked everything, and I knew at that time that you were fake." ”

"Awesome!" Chrissy clapped her hands, "Mom, it's a shame that you don't want to be a detective." ”

Chrissy's mother shook her head: "I don't want to, but you lie to me again and again, and I have to be sick for a long time." ”

"Mom." Chrissy didn't pretend this time, walked over directly, sat next to her mother and held her hand, "I didn't mean to lie to you, but, but you keep urging me, urging me, my head is too big, so I have no choice but to make this decision." ”

Chrissy's mother sighed and patted the back of Chrissy's hand with her hand:

"Xiaojie, my mother also knows that urging marriage is not good, and I don't want to urge you to get married, I am annoyed when I see this kind of thing.

But there are some things that are often confused by the authorities and clear by bystanders, and the words of the old man are often reasonable.

I know that you young people now like to be some kind of independent woman and what kind of single aristocrat.

But, Xiaojie, those poisonous chicken soups, just listen to them, but you must not believe them yourself.

This woman, she still has to fall in love seriously, find a partner seriously, get married seriously, and then give birth to a doll honestly, this is the real happiness.

You're too young to feel the importance of your family and loved ones.

But when you're as old as us, you can't do anything, and you're sick, you'll know the importance of your family.

When you get old, our old couple may have long left and can no longer take care of you, and at that time, who will be able to take care of you by your side? Isn't it your wife and your children?

Don't listen to anything about going into a nursing home, that kind of thing, it's not reliable at all.

When you get old, you are alone, you have no wife and no children, do you really want to be that kind of day? ”

Chrissy bit her lip and lowered her head: "Mom, to be honest, of course I also want to find a boyfriend seriously, have a good relationship, and then get married and have children, but, but this kind of thing, always have to talk about fate, right?"

I can't just feel old enough to just go out on the street and pull one over, right?

If you are looking for a partner, you must always look pleasing to the eye, otherwise, the two of them will quarrel all day together, and it will be better to be alone.

So, it's not that I want to be a single aristocrat, and it's not that I don't want to look for it, but I'm too busy with work to find a partner everywhere, and even if I do, I can't always find the right one. ”

Chrissy's mother frowned: "Then what exactly do you want?" Are there any standards? If you don't have time, I'll help you find it. ”

Chrissy sighed: "Actually, I don't have any standards, I'm a man, I don't have bad habits, I can't be shorter than me, my education can't be much lower than me, at least I've gone to college, and then, then just be nice to me." ”

"That's all?" Chrissy's mother asked.

"That's all." Chrissy nodded, "By the way, I have to look at it well, and if I look at it and it makes me uncomfortable, then it won't work." ”

Chrissy's mother shook her head: "Alas, your requirements don't look high, but it's actually very high!" I said, you haven't been in a serious relationship until now, it's too demanding. ”

"Am I still demanding?" Chrissy flattened her mouth.

"I don't think it's high! I didn't ask the other party to have a higher income than me, nor did I ask the other party to have a house and a car and a bride price.

Anyway, it's not good to be shorter than me, and I don't want to take it out and lose face.

It is even worse to have bad habits, this kind of person will definitely not be reliable.

It's not okay if you haven't gone to college, this kind of person, after we get together, we don't have a common topic, and we soon have nothing to say.

You see, my requirements are actually not very high, they are all the most basic.

I'm looking for a boyfriend, not a father, if the other party doesn't even have these conditions, it's better not to look for it.

Anyway, I'm not going to force myself to be with someone I don't like in order to get married. ”

Chrissy's mother nodded, and then smiled slightly: "Xiaojie, have you ever thought that in fact, the man you want has already appeared, and it is far away in front of you!" ”

Chrissy frowned: "It has already appeared?" Far away, close at hand? What do you mean? ”

But soon, Chrissy thought of something: "Wait, you don't want to say strong, do you?" No, no, you know he's fake, why do you still say him? ”

Chrissy's mother smiled: "That's right, I'm talking about Xiaohu, but if you think about it carefully, Xiaohu doesn't quite meet your requirements." ”

Immediately afterwards, Chrissy's mother counted her fingers and said, "Look, first of all, his height is good, at least one meter eight, standing with you is a good match, not shorter than you."

And then he's about the same age as you, a little younger than you, but better.

He definitely doesn't smoke because there are no traces of smoking on his hands.

I don't know much about drinking, but looking at his face, prostitution and gambling are definitely not related, he doesn't have that kind of anger, but seems very gentle.

A person's words and deeds can't deceive people, and Xiaohu's behavior after entering the door shows that he is a very educated person, and such a person is a suitable person to be a husband.

Also, didn't you say he was the department manager, right? ”

"Yes, he's a department manager." Chrissy nodded, "But he's just been in office, not even three months." ”

"That's nothing." Chrissy's mother smiled, "Although he only became a manager at his age, he was a little late, but this shows that he is a late bloomer."

Besides, this also means that he at least went to college, otherwise your company wouldn't want him, right? ”

"That's right." Chrissy nodded.

Chrissy's mother said again: "You see, the height is right, there are no bad habits, and the education is also suitable, and he meets all the conditions you want."

Then, if you are willing to find him to pretend to be your boyfriend, it means that you at least have a good impression of him, at least not hate, isn't this the perfect boyfriend candidate?

And I think he is also good-looking, gentle and polite, otherwise he will be wrong, you can just play friends with him. ”

Chrissy frowned: "Mom, no, he, he can't." ”

"Why?" Chrissy's mother frowned and asked, "Daughter, I think he's good, don't be too picky, try it first." ”

"Not this." Chrissy shook her head, "This is strong, he, he's actually married, and he has a child. ”

"What?" Chrissy's mother was shocked, "Won't it?" It doesn't look like it. ”

"It's true." Chrissy said, "I know his situation very well, you can listen to me tell you more carefully." ”

Immediately afterwards, Chrissy briefly told what she knew about Hu Qiang's family background.

When Chrissy's mother heard that Hu Qiang was married and had a daughter who had just entered elementary school, and then his wife had been away for four years, and there was a mother with Alzheimer's above, she immediately frowned.

"Look." Chrissy sighed, as if she had some pity.

"Hu Qiang has a good personality and is a good person, but his ability is not outstanding, his performance is not outstanding, and he is a typical old bastard all day long in the company.

Seriously, he can stay in the company for ten years without being fired, and even become a manager, I was quite surprised to hear the news.

That's all, the key is that his family situation is not very good, there are old and young, there are two oil bottles, how can I be with him, isn't this asking for trouble? ”

But who knows, Chrissy's mother squinted her eyes instead: "No, listening to you say that, I think this Hu Qiang is very suitable." ”

"Mom, what are you talking about?" Chrissy asked with a frown.

Chrissy's mother smiled slightly, subconsciously looked at the door, then got up and walked over, opened the door and looked.

After making sure that there was no one outside the door and no one eavesdropping, Chrissy's mother walked back to the couch and sat down.

After that, Chrissy's mother said softly: "Xiaojie, in fact, you only see the appearance, not the essence. In fact, in my opinion, this Hu Qiang is really a strange commodity! ”

"Strange goods?" Chrissy frowned.

Chrissy's mother nodded: "First of all, let's talk about the ability to work."

He can stay in your company for ten years without being fired, and then ten years later he is promoted to manager, which must have his merits, otherwise, how can he stay for ten years and not leave?

Therefore, don't underestimate him, Hu Qiang should still be very skilled, maybe, if you are fired by the company, he may not be dismissed. ”

"Impossible, absolutely impossible!" Chrissy shook her head, "He wasn't fired, it was just a fluke."

I'm different, I'm Lisa's henchman, and Lisa is the big leader on our side, or the henchman of the big boss, no one will dismiss Lisa if the group resigns, and as long as Lisa doesn't fall, I'll have no problem, so the company can't dismiss me, you can rest assured! ”

Chrissy's mother shook her head: "Okay, then let's talk about the second, that is single-mindedness!"

In fact, after his wife left, this Hu Qiang can not mess around, take care of the children wholeheartedly, and support his mother, isn't this quality high enough?

He can devote himself wholeheartedly to his children and mother, and when you are with him in the future, he will also treat you wholeheartedly, and he will never betray you.

It is easy to ask for priceless treasures, and it is rare to have a lover.

In today's society, people are impetuous, there are really not many reliable good men like this, most of them say that they are good men on the surface, and they are all male thieves and prostitutes behind their backs.

But this Hu Qiang is different, he has been tested by time, and he is obviously a really good man.

The word reliable, this is the most important thing for women.

And then there's his family problem, which is what you call a drag bottle, but in my opinion, it's really nothing. ”

After a pause, Chrissy's mother lowered her voice and said: "First of all, her mother, since her mother has Alzheimer's, it seems to be quite serious when I hear you say, then it is not good, in fact, she has not lived long."

Therefore, if you want to fall in love with Hu Qiang, it will be bitter for a few years, at least three years, at most five years, and his mother should be gone, so this is not too much of a problem for you.

As for his daughter, that's not a problem.

The daughter is not a son, there is no big problem with getting along with each other, and she is going to get married when she grows up, and she doesn't need to think about the house.

Therefore, Hu Qiang's problems all look bad on the surface, but if you think about it carefully, it is actually not bad.

Of course, if you're ten years younger, we won't consider him.

But you'll be forty years old now.

At your age, it's really hard to find.

After all, you have to know that this man is different from a woman, a man with real good conditions, who is about the same age as you, and everyone likes girls in their twenties, how can they find you?

Therefore, those men who are really good and ambitious, you don't have to think about it, it is not very likely.

But this kind of man who seems to be flawed, but in fact has little flaws, and is very inward-looking, is what you should focus on. ”

Speaking of this, Chrissy's mother sighed: "Xiaojie, the years are not forgiving, as a person who has come over, I have to remind you a few words."

This woman, it's okay if she's not over forty, and she can maintain it a little bit through exercise and makeup.

But once you are past the age of forty, the spirit and spirit will decline obviously, and all kinds of diseases will begin to come uninvited.

When the time comes, let alone having children, you will feel low on energy even in your daily life.

If you're still carrying it alone, it's going to be really hard.

So, now it's time for you to really hurry, hurry up and get married and have children right now, and if you drag it on, it's really dangerous, you know? ”

"But......" Chrissy hesitated.

"Let's give it a try." Chrissy's mother smiled.

"Okay, you can get in touch with Xiaohu first, give it a try, and at least fall in love first.

Listening to me, I think Xiaohu is a good kid, and he has a good appearance and personality.

If you follow him, at least you won't be angry, and he can take care of you properly.

As for the problem of his money and money, and the problem of two oil bottles, that is not a problem.

Look beyond the surface to see the essence.

You are not really short of money, what you lack is a good man who can hurt people.

When the time comes, you can also be outside the main and he is in the main house.

I'm not like that with your dad.

Back then, it was me who worked hard outside, and it was your father who served me at home.

Otherwise, how can we have this career now?

Do you really think that you can earn so much money by becoming a teacher?

Didn't you rely on my brain work to make money from teaching and auxiliary materials?

By your dad? What can he do?

What else would he do besides teaching and serving?

Girl, you are so capable, you will definitely have a future in the future.

So, you don't need to find any elite career men, what you need most is actually a good backing like your father, understand? ”

Chrissy thought for a moment, frowned, and then nodded: "That's right...... Okay, I'll listen to you, let's get in touch with him and give it a try. ”

"That's right!" Chrissy's mother patted her daughter's hand with a smile.

"Listen to me, Mom won't hurt you, Xiaohu is indeed a good man, sooner or later he will be robbed by many people, you must hurry!

After all, you're no longer a little girl in your twenties, and there's no time for willfulness! ”