338 The key to finding a husband is to have a positive outlook, which will hurt people

Half an hour later, Chrissy drove Hu Qiang to the underground parking lot of a large supermarket.

After that, Chrissy took Hu Qiang to the supermarket again, and met Chriss's mother in the supermarket through the phone.

By the time everyone met, Chrissy's mother had already bought almost everything, and the cart was full, and everyone just had to go out and pay the bill.

In this regard, Hu Qiang smiled on the surface, but he was secretly complaining in his heart, which clearly made him pay and helped carry things.

Also, how can an old lady be able to hold such a cart full of things?

Also, he always felt that Chrissy's family was too good at talking to themselves, so he made a decision and directly recognized Hu Qiang as his boyfriend, and even said it everywhere, without asking others if they were happy or not.

Especially if Lisa knows about this matter, this is a big problem.

Hu Qiang decided that after the showdown with Chrissy's family, he would find an opportunity to explain it to Lisa.

If nothing else, at the very least, you have to keep your job first.

Otherwise, Lisa would be angry and let herself go, which would be a big problem.

Although Lisa said before that she was very disappointed in herself, it was basically equivalent to giving up talking to herself about friends.

But a woman's mouth, a deceitful ghost, how can you really believe this kind of thing?

Even if it's true, you can't just have a fight with Lisa here, and you can go back to Lisa's secretary.

This kind of thing, ordinary women can't stand it, let alone Lisa?

But what worries Hu Qiang the most is that Lisa is still very happy after knowing the news, which is obviously wrong.

Most likely, Lisa did it on purpose, trying to tell herself that she already knew about it through Chrissy's mouth, and then wait for her own explanation, and finally deal with herself according to her own explanation.

Therefore, he must make it clear to Chrissy as soon as possible and reject her as soon as possible.

As for when to make it clear to the Chrissy family.

Well, now that there are so many people, it's better to wait for less people, so let's talk slowly.

After all, her mother is still there, and she is still sick, so she has to take care of it somewhat, don't be too excited.

If something happens to her mother, she can't afford to take this responsibility.

That's right, you can't talk about it in front of her mother.

I'll have to coax her mom over first, and then talk to Chrissy alone.

At the end of the day, the problem is Chrissy.

If Chrissy thinks he's not suitable, it's useless for her mother to urge him.

After having this idea, Hu Qiang obediently pushed the trolley and slowly followed at the back, while Chrissy and her mother walked in front of them to talk and laugh.

I don't know, but when I look at this situation, I really think it's a family out to purchase.

Hu Qiang, who was pushing the trolley, was speechless all the way, acting like a classic version of a little man in Shanghai, working hard and complaining and talking less.

He had already figured out that he would take Chrissy to his apartment later.

The apartment was very dilapidated, and I hadn't lived in it for a long time, and it hadn't been cleaned for a long time, and now it is estimated that it is dirty.

Presumably seeing the environment of that apartment, Chrissy and her mother will dislike him.

When the time comes, I will take the opportunity to say that I am a little miserable, a little incompetent, maybe, I don't need to break up by myself, Chrissy and her mother just broke up because they couldn't stand it.

Wouldn't that be the most perfect?

Oh, sure enough, self-defilement and clumsiness are the king.

No matter how handsome a man is, if he has no money and no ability, and his life is still sloppy, there will still be no woman who sticks upside down.

If that doesn't work, then, then we'll talk about it then.

Just when Hu Qiangmei was thinking about his self-defilement plan, he unconsciously came to the checkout, and then queued up to wait for the checkout.

But soon, a familiar voice came from behind Hu Qiang: "Huh, old Hu? Are you really? ”

Hu Qiang was stunned for a moment, and when he looked back, he really ran into an acquaintance.

"Ye Zhenzhen?" Hu Qiang said in surprise, "It's you?" ”

"yes, it's me." Ye Zhenzhen, who was also pushing a trolley, smiled, "I just looked at your back and felt familiar, come and take a look, it's really you!" That's a coincidence! Why, you're here to buy something, huh, buy so much? ”

Hu Qiang smiled dryly, and was about to speak, but Chrissy came over and smiled: "Qiang, who is this, don't introduce you?" ”

Hu Qiang was stunned for a moment, and said awkwardly: "This, this is Ye Zhenzhen, it's me, it's my friend." ”

"Friends?" Chrissy frowned subconsciously.

Seeing this situation, Ye Zhenzhen blinked and hurriedly smiled: "Yes, we are just ordinary friends." In fact, strictly speaking, we are just neighbors, living opposite each other's doors and nothing more. ”

"Ah, you're neighbors." Chrissy laughed.

"Yes." Ye Zhenzhen smiled and nodded, "We're just neighbors." ”

"Hello." Chrissy took the initiative to smile and stretched out her hand, "My name is Yuan Baijie, I am Hu Qiang's colleague and his girlfriend. You can just call me Chrissy or you can call me Ajie. ”

"Ahh Ye Zhenzhen looked at Hu Qiang, who looked embarrassed, with a smile, and then shook hands with Chrissy with a smile.

"Hello, my name is Ye Zhenzhen, you can just call me Zhenzhen."

"Okay, Vera." Chrissy laughed.

After letting go of her hand, Ye Zhenzhen smiled at Hu Qiang: "Okay, old Hu, don't you introduce me sooner if you have a girlfriend?" Do you still treat me as a friend? ”

Hu Qiang smiled embarrassedly: "This, this...... It's a long story, it's a long story. ”

Chrissy smiled: "Don't blame him, we have just established a relationship for a short time, strictly speaking, less than two days." ”

"Ah, that's right." Ye Zhenzhen smiled.

"That's right." Chrissy pulled her mother over at this time, "This is my mother." ”

"Hello." Chrissy's mother nodded kindly to Ye Zhenzhen.

"Ah, hello Auntie." Ye Zhenzhen hurriedly nodded restrainedly, "I'm Ye Zhenzhen." ”

Chrissy's mother smiled: "Miss Ye is so beautiful, and she has a special temperament, she is not an ordinary child." ”

"Where, where." Ye Zhenzhen smiled and said, "It's a joke." ”

Chrissy's mother nodded: "Miss Ye is so good, do you have a partner?" ”

"Auntie!" Hu Qiang hurriedly said, "I didn't ask that." ”

Chrissy's mother covered her mouth: "Oh, look at me, talking nonsense again!" I'm sorry, Miss Ye, I didn't mean to, but you also know that we old people, come and go on these issues, alas, say the wrong thing, you don't blame. ”

Ye Zhenzhen smiled slightly: "It's nothing, in fact, my parents always ask me that, I'm used to it." ”

Chrissy's mother nodded: "Yes, this parent, I hope that my children can start a family as soon as possible, especially if you have a daughter, you are worried about her early love before she grows up, and she is worried that she will not be in love when she grows up."

Alas, sometimes I feel that being a parent is really tired, and I always want to just leave it alone, but in the end, how can I really leave it alone. ”

"Mom!" Chrissy tugged at her mother's arm, "What are you talking about?" ”

"Hey, I'm sorry." Chrissy's mother patted her mouth lightly again, and said to Ye Zhenzhen, "I'm sorry, Miss Ye, I said some nonsense again, so you didn't hear it." ”

Ye Zhenzhen smiled, and then looked at Hu Qiang's handbarrow driveway: "Ah, you bought a lot of things, yo, and a mandarin duck pot?" Look at this, you don't want to eat hot pot, do you? ”

"Eyesight!" Mother Chrissy nodded.

"Truth be told, I'm not here for long, so I'm going to have a good meal together before I leave.

But you also know that the food outside is expensive and unhygienic, and it is all technology and hard work, and you don't know how many additives are used in it, which is very unhealthy.

So I'm going to have a meal together at home.

But where my daughter lives now, it's a shared house, and there are two girls there, so it's not suitable for Xiaohu to go over.

I heard that Xiaohu lives by himself, so we discussed and went to Xiaohu's house to have a home-cooked meal together tonight.

I know that Xiaohu is from the Northeast, but I don't know how to cook for them.

So after thinking about it, let's eat hot pot.

Listening to my daughter, Xiaohu also likes to eat our Sichuan hot pot, which is so simple and lively. ”

"Yes, it's good to eat hot pot." Ye Zhenzhen smiled, "It's delicious and lively." ”

"Hey, that's right!" Chrissy's mother smiled and said, "Miss Ye, aren't you Xiaohu's neighbor, why don't you just come over and eat together, there are so many people." ”

Ye Zhenzhen was stunned: "This, this is not appropriate." ”

"What's out of place." Chrissy's mother smiled and said, "As the saying goes, distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors."

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You are Xiaohu's neighbor, and my daughter is now Xiaohu's girlfriend, maybe, you will have to move around a lot in the future, what's there to have a meal together?

Besides, I bought a lot of ingredients here, and the three of them can't eat it, if you have time, come and eat together, it's lively, and by the way, it's familiar, maybe it's friends in the future. ”

Chrissy also followed: "Yes, Zhenzhen, let's come and eat together, there are many people." ”

"I don't think so." Hu Qiang hurriedly interrupted, "Auntie, Chrissy, this, Miss Ye is also very busy, how inappropriate it is to rashly invite others to dinner." ”

"It's not appropriate." Chrissy's mother said, "It's normal for neighbors to walk around with each other, and it's rare to meet, it's also fate, it's not appropriate not to invite people over for a meal." ”

Speaking of this, Chrissy's mother looked at Ye Zhenzhen with a smile: "Miss Ye, I was so offended by what I said before, if you don't dislike me as an old woman, why don't you come over and have a meal together?" ”

Ye Zhenzhen was stunned for a moment, then nodded with a smile: "Okay, it's better to be respectful than to obey your fate, then let's have a meal together." ”

Hu Qiang was dumbfounded: "No, Auntie, it can't be like this, it's not appropriate." ”

"What's out of place." Chrissy's mother said with a smile, "I like it when I look at Miss Ye, and everyone agrees, Xiaohu, don't intervene." ”

Hearing Chrissy's mother say this, Hu Qiang sighed and stopped talking.

Ye Zhenzhen smiled and nodded: "By the way, how did you get here?" ”

Chrissy laughed, "We drove here." ”

"I'm here by car, too." Ye Zhenzhen smiled, "Otherwise, where is your parking space, I'll drive to find you, everyone will meet in the underground parking lot first, and then you follow my car, how about it?" ”

"Okay." Chrissy nodded, "That's it." ”

Hearing this, Hu Qiang frowned, but still didn't speak.

He knew that with the appearance of Ye Zhenzhen, it was impossible to take Chrissy's family to his original apartment, so he could only go to the Ode to Joy community.

But it doesn't matter, anyway, there will be a showdown in the end, and it's okay to have fun first.

Yes, there have been so many accidents, but Hu Qiang is calm now.

He decided to follow the established plan, coax the old lady away first, and then have a showdown with Chrissy alone.

As for Ye Zhenzhen here, it doesn't hurt to go back and explain again.

In other words, Ye Zhenzhen is the most troublesome here, and the trouble is actually how to explain it to Lisa.

But either way, it's a farce after all.

No matter what the Chrissy family does, as long as they don't admit it in the end, everything will be in vain.

The reason why Hu Qiang is still silent now is purely because he doesn't want to irritate the old lady, lest something happen to her.

When the old lady is coaxed away, he will immediately have a showdown with Chrissy, and there will be no more ambiguity.

In this case, before that, you might as well behave freely, and default to Chriss's boyfriend, so that the old lady and everyone can be happy.

After making up his mind, Hu Qiang was no longer entangled, and he could talk and laugh.

Soon, everyone settled their bills, and then went to the underground parking lot together to find their own cars.

Just when Chrissy unlocked her car, Hu Qiang put things in the trunk, and subconsciously wanted to go to the co-pilot, Chrissy suddenly said: "Qiang, you have a driver's license, right?" ”

Hu Qiang was stunned: "Yes." ”

"Do you have an electronic driver's license?" Chrissy asked again.

"Yes." Hu Qiang nodded subconsciously.

Chrissy smiled: "Then you can drive, after all, it is to your house, and you are more familiar with the road." ”

Hu Qiang frowned, but still nodded: "Okay." ”

In this way, Hu Qiang took Chrissy's car key and got into the driver's seat.

Chrissy didn't get into the car immediately, but pulled her mother aside and whispered, "Mom, why do you suddenly want to invite that Ye Zhenzhen to dinner together?" None are familiar. ”

Chrissy's mother narrowed her eyes, smiled and whispered: "Silly boy, that one named Ye Zhenzhen, since he is Xiaohu's neighbor, why don't you touch the details of other people's houses first?"

Besides, if you want to get along with Xiaohu in the future, you need to know more about each other, and if you want to understand each other, you must first start by understanding the people around the other party, especially your neighbors.

Although the neighbors may not know much, at least they are objective enough.

Therefore, if you want to understand a person's temperament, you must first understand his neighbors.

Also, if you get along with Xiaohu's neighbors and become good friends, won't Xiaohu's every move be easy to master?

In addition, that Ye Zhenzhen has a good appearance and temperament, all of them are famous brands, and at first glance, they are from everyone's beautiful background, and they seem to know that they are single.

Although I feel that she and Xiaohu are unlikely, everything must be prepared in case.

After all, this lonely man and widow are neighbors, and they are about the same age, who dares to be okay all the time?

Therefore, inviting her to have a meal with you is also asking you to swear sovereignty in person, understand? ”

Chrissy was stunned, then nodded and smiled: "Mom, you are still amazing!" My dad wouldn't have been taken down by you like this back then, would he? ”

"What nonsense." Chrissy's mother hurriedly said, "It was your father who chased me back then. ”

"Really?" Chrissy laughed, "But that's not what my dad said." ”

"Humph!" Chrissy's mother flattened her mouth, "He's just a good face, don't listen to him." ”

Immediately afterwards, Chrissy's mother said: "In short, Xiaohu, you must hurry!" I didn't think it before, but now I suddenly found out that he seems to be quite a woman, you have to be careful. ”

Chrissy shook her head: "Mom, it's not me who said, he is a married middle-aged and elderly man, with no money and no ability, and he has a child and a sick mother, and he is basically the one who has been eliminated in the marriage and love market."

I can give him a chance, and he will burn high incense, how can it be so exaggerated as you say, as if he is very popular. ”

Chrissy's mother sighed, "What do you know! Some men, who don't look good on the surface, actually have an inner show, and are the kind of master that the more you come into contact with them, the easier it is to be attracted.

Before, I just looked at Xiao Hu and wanted you to give it a try, but if it didn't work, I would pull it down.

But later, after contacting him for a while, I found that he was really good, versatile, good-tempered, good-spoken, and very able to hurt people, really a good man.

Compared with his inner show, his surface conditions actually don't matter.

Of course, those women who worship money may be frightened by Xiaohu's superficial conditions, after all, they are asking for money and material things.

But those women who have detached themselves from low-level interests, they have long been less thirsty for money and materials, they have long been out of this low-level interests, and what they pursue is something higher, more of a kind of spiritual and emotional satisfaction.

I'm not saying that money isn't important, but I'm saying that inner qualities are more important than money and material things.

Although our family can't be said to be rich, at least it can be regarded as a well-off family, not to mention anything else, buy you a house in Shanghai, then it's no problem.

If we can afford to buy a house and a car, why do we have to ask men to have these conditions as well?

It's like a lot of rich men who have the ability to buy a house and a car independently, when they are looking for a woman, do they really look at each other's education and wealth?

No, men who are really rich and capable, they want to find a woman, more to see if she is young, not beautiful, and disobedient.

As for a woman's education, work, and wealth, they are all secondary to those men who are really capable.

On the other hand, if a woman is rich enough to buy a house and a car on her own, does she really want a man to have money and status? No, what she may want is a man who can really hurt herself, be considerate of herself, and take good care of herself.

To put it bluntly, whether it is a man or a woman, if you can meet your own needs materially, then your requirements for the other half are no longer materialistic, but other needs.

For rich men, they like young, beautiful and obedient girls.

For rich women, they like young, handsome, and honest boys.

So, what kind of money and material, we don't have to ask too much.

I didn't want you to find a rich man to be your husband, that kind of man is not a solid life at all, and he is not a good match for you.

The kind of man who stares at money all day long, calculates and calculates all day long, absolutely can't ask for it!

I just want to let you find a man who looks okay, has a good height, has a good temperament, can hurt people, and doesn't go out to. ”

"Like my dad?" Chrissy laughed.

"yes, just like your dad." Chrissy's mother smiled, "What, look down on your dad?" ”

"Of course not." Chrissy laughed, "I like my dad." ”

"yes." Chrissy's mother sighed, "Your father's kind of person, although he is not very good in his career, he really doesn't say anything to me."

I thought there should be a lot of men like him, but then I found out that in this society, there are fewer and fewer such men.

It's like Xiaohu, don't think that a man like him grabs a lot of things, but it's not.

Most of today's young people, especially men, are very selfish and selfish, and men are generally more materialistic and calculating than women, and few can really love women.

Now that you can meet Xiaohu, you can steal the fun, as for his other problems, what has a daughter, there is a sick mother, I have analyzed it with you before, in fact, it is nothing.

The key to finding a husband is to have a positive outlook, which will hurt people.

To put it bluntly, you must be virtuous!

A virtuous man is a good husband.

And Xiaohu is a virtuous and good man, this kind of man is a real scarce product nowadays.

Let me tell you, in fact, a man like Xiaohu is easy to attract those rich and empty and lonely women.

So that Ye Zhenzhen, you must not be a child's play, don't think it is impossible.

If you don't declare sovereignty sooner, maybe one day, I'll tell you about the chaos. ”

Chrissy smiled: "Yes, yes, you have a unique vision, you plan ahead, I listen to you, okay?" ”

"That's pretty much it." Chrissy's mother nodded.

Just then, a burgundy BMW M8 drove up and stopped in front of Chrissy's BMW mini.

Soon, the car window was lowered, revealing Ye Zhenzhen's figure.

"Hey!" Ye Zhenzhen smiled and waved her hand to Chrissy and Chrissy's mother, "Are you in a hurry?" Sorry, my car was parked a little far away. ”

"It's fine." Chrissy smiled and said, "It didn't take long for me to talk to my mom for a while." ”

Ye Zhenzhen smiled and nodded: "Then you guys hurry up and get in the car, I'll open the road in front, you follow me, okay?" ”

"No problem!" Chrissy nodded.

Soon, Chrissy got into the co-pilot, and Chrissie's mother sat in the back seat.

Seeing that Chrissy and her mother got into the car, and Hu Qiang also started the car, Ye Zhenzhen raised the window of the car, and then slowly drove forward.

Hu Qiang drove to follow, hanging behind Ye Zhenzhen's car.

At this moment, Hu Qiang's face was not shocked, because he had already made up his mind and was naturally determined.

How to say it.

Anyway, Hu Qiang thinks that the more urgent the trouble, the easier it is to have an accident, and it is better to deal with it suddenly.

said a thousand things and ten thousand, the source of this kind of thing is actually Chrissy.

As long as you go back and explain the matter to Chrissy alone and take a firm stand, this kind of misunderstanding will not be a problem at all.

So until then, there is no need to panic and be apprehensive.

It's better to make mistakes, eat happily first, and give each other a face, which is also good.

After all, I am a colleague with Chrissy, and I still have to pay attention to ways and means of doing things, and I can't do too much.

Give enough face, serve the old lady well, and believe that when there is a showdown in the future, Chrissy will also understand herself.