"Ahem, ahem, ahem!"

Seeing Hu Qiang's sudden cough, Hu Qiang's mother immediately threw away the sweater needle in her hand and hurriedly came over to help Hu Qiang pat his back.

coughed twice, Hu Qiang exhaled and waved his hand with tears in his eyes: "It's okay, Mom, it's okay." ”

Hu Qiang's mother stopped and asked with a concerned face: "Qiangzi, what's wrong?" Scared? ”

"No, no, no." Hu Qiang hurriedly shook his head.

Immediately afterwards, Hu Qiang took a few pieces of toilet paper from the coffee table, first wiped his nose with a piece of toilet paper, and then took out a piece of toilet paper to wipe his tears, and then said: "No, Mom, when I just ate strawberries, I was choked by strawberry meat." ”

Hu Qiang's mother was stunned for a moment, and then shook her head funny: "You, you, how old are you, can you choke on a strawberry?" Is there a shame in it? ”

"Accident, accident, pure accident!" Hu Qiang waved his hand with tears streaming down his eyes.

Hu Qiang's mother shook her head, quickly stood up and poured a glass of water, and handed it to Hu Qiang, who was still wiping his nose and tears: "Come, drink some water and press it." ”

Hu Qiang hurriedly took the water, and Gu Dong drank it all in one go, and then let out a long breath: "Cool!" Much better! ”

Seeing that Hu Qiang was fine, Hu Qiang's mother simply got up and took a bottle of mineral water, unscrewed the lid and handed it to Hu Qiang: "Come, drink some more, drink it all, drink more water." ”

"Good!" Hu Qiang took the bottle of mineral water and drank two sips in a row, then put down the waterway, "It's much better, thank you, Mom." ”

Hu Qiang's mother shook her head with a smile: "Qiangzi, aren't you, you can choke on a strawberry?" Do you want to be so excited? Or do you already have thoughts about other people's Xiao Su? As soon as I said it, did you break your heart? ”

Hu Qiang smiled bitterly: "Mom, this joke can't be messed around, I have never had this kind of thought." ”

"Then you can think about it now." Hu Qiang's mother smiled and said.

Hu Qiang sighed: "Mom, I think you're thinking too much."

Yes, I admit that Sister Su is very good, she works diligently, has a kind attitude, can take care of you, accompany you to relieve boredom and chat, and can also help Xiao Hu Tao with homework, everything is done perfectly, and I can't find anything wrong for the time being.

A person as good as her, you have a good impression of people, and it is normal to take a fancy to others.

But to say a thousand things and ten thousand, people are the nannies I hired, no matter how good they do, no matter how good their attitude is, that's their work, and that's what they do.

But work and life are two different things.

When working, of course, you have to put away your little faults and temperament, and only show your best side, which is called professionalism and highlighting a profession.

But if you become your own daughter-in-law and your own person, it will be different.

Believe it or not, once he becomes my daughter-in-law and becomes a family, when the time comes, she will not only give you a good side like now, her various little temperaments and small problems that you couldn't see before, and even her own troubles, all come out, maybe you can make you angry half to death.

So, don't mess with the mandarin duck spectrum, and don't think about turning people from nannies to daughters-in-law, this is purely asking for trouble.

In addition, people may not be happy to be your son's daughter-in-law.

After all, although being a nanny has to serve people, it is a job after all, which is a bipolar choice.

When people are nannies, they naturally have to have a good attitude and work well, but as an employer, you also have to be good to people, and you can't lose your temper casually, otherwise, people can pick on them at any time.

But the daughter-in-law is different, once she becomes someone else's daughter-in-law, the relationship with her mother-in-law is complicated, and it is difficult to leave after being wronged, and the involvement is big.

Anyway, if I were Sister Su, I would definitely just want to be a nanny, so I wouldn't be willing to be a daughter-in-law and suffer that kind of foreign crime.

Not to mention that Sister Su also used to ...... Forget it, don't mention it.

In short, Mom, it's okay if you like Sister Su, but if you want someone to be your daughter-in-law, it's best to extinguish this idea quickly, don't be delusional.

Also, don't reveal this idea to Sister Su.

If you really tell her this idea, you might scare people away.

Just kidding, mom, you don't know how difficult it is to find a reliable nanny in Shanghai now.

It was not easy for me to find such a good nanny as Sister Su.

Mom, you can save me some snacks, don't scare people away.

When the time comes, you may not be able to find a good helper like her to help you and Xiao Walnut. ”

Hu Tao's mother glanced at Hu Qiang, and handed Hu Qiang a glass of water: "As long as you talk too much, don't talk about it yet, drink some water and moisten your throat." ”

"Oh." Hu Qiang pursed his lips, but obediently picked up the mineral water bottle and drank it gently.

In fact, he is not thirsty now, and his throat is not uncomfortable, he just uses this method to go down the ladder.

Anyway, in his opinion, he has said so much, his mother should be able to dispel that unrealistic idea.

Who knows, Hu Qiang's mother picked up the sweater needle again at this time, and said while knitting the sweater again: "Qiangzi, what do you think your mother is, can I not understand these truths?" ”

Hu Qiang looked at his mother later: "Mom, since you understand, why are you still telling me that?" ”

Hu Qiang's mother stopped her hand, looked at Hu Qiang and sighed: "Why do you say this?" It's not for you and Hu Tao. ”

"For me and Walnut?" Hu Qiang was stunned, "What do you mean?" ”

Hu Qiang's mother shook her head and said with a slight smile: "Qiangzi, I know my disease, and it is impossible to cure it."

Although the medicine you gave me works very well and seems to be working very well, who can guarantee that it will always be effective and will not deteriorate?

In addition, even if this medicine is really good, it is only a two-year supply, which means that after two years, without this medicine, my disease may continue to worsen and recur.

You also said that this drug is coming from the wrong way, so can you guarantee that this drug will be on the market within two years, or can you get enough of this drug again? ”

Hu Qiang frowned and said: "Although I don't dare to guarantee these now, but Mom, don't worry, there will be a road before the car reaches the mountain, as long as I work hard to do the task, no, work hard, there will be a way to cure you when the time comes." ”

"Silly boy." Hu Qiang's mother smiled, "Being given a special medicine and being used as an experiment by someone is just the right thing, which is unavoidable, and it can't be regarded as the norm, so as to be a person, you still have to have a long-term plan, not just for the present." ”

After a short pause, Hu Qiang's mother continued: "Of course, if you can get this medicine again, and it doesn't cost anything, then I am naturally willing to continue to be a guinea pig."

But I have also heard of this kind of thing that has not been formally approved, and secretly finds someone to do drug experiments, and usually this situation cannot last, so let's not expect to make a lifetime of cheap and eat this kind of special medicine for a lifetime.

So let's come prepared for the worst, as if I only have two years to live.

During this period, I will try not to cause you trouble, and I will try my best to help you take care of Xiao Hu Tao, so that you can work with peace of mind, make good progress, and preferably become a bigger leader and earn more money.

But two years later, it's hard to say. ”

Hu Qiangyi frowned: "Mom......"

"Don't talk!" Hu Qiang's mother waved her hand, "Listen to me." ”

After taking a deep breath, Hu Qiang's mother looked at Hu Qiang and said, "Qiangzi, you are an honest person, you don't please women, and you haven't had much peach blossom luck since you were a child, and you finally have a wife, and you ......

Forget it, don't mention her.

In short, when your mother is still there, I can help you, but if my mother is gone, what can you do.

Not to mention anything else, what to do with the walnut? Who do you find to take care of her?

Xiao Hu Tao is different from you, she was lively and jumpy when she was a child, but because her mother was absent early, she has always been a little sensitive and rebellious.

Although Hu Tao has never said it, I, as a grandmother, know that she actually wants to have a mother.

And you're not a father, you can't take care of the child at all, and you can't get close to Xiao Walnut.

That is, you are her father, and Xiao Hu Tao is actually a little precocious and very sensible, otherwise you see, after you come back, it is strange that she is willing to talk to you! ”

Hu Qiang touched his nose in embarrassment, and was a little speechless for a while.

Well, if you think about it carefully, whether it is Hu Qiang, the predecessor of the past, or himself in the previous life, it seems that he has never taken a child seriously.

I don't mention myself in my previous life, I was a single dog before I crossed over, let alone marrying a wife and having children.

The predecessor of this life was not much better.

According to the inherited memory, the predecessor of this life, after his wife gave birth to a child, was still focused on work, working overtime and working overtime all day long, and the children were taken care of by Hu Qiang's mother and Weiwei.

Even when the child was older, Hu Qiang didn't take much care of the child, and Weiwei took care of it with Hu Qiang's mother.

Taking care of a newborn child is a big problem, and even many mothers have postpartum depression, so it's no wonder that Weiwei finally left because of a sentence from her predecessor and never came back.

Although there may be other reasons, no matter what, the predecessor Hu Qiang is actually quite incompetent.

Anyway, from the perspective of Hu Qiang now, Hu Qiang, the predecessor, seems to be working hard, but in fact, he has done a lot wrong.

The work is not prominent, the family is not harmonious, although the essence is not bad, but it is still difficult to hide the word failure.

Of course, Hu Qiang in his previous life was not much better, but he had one good thing, that is, he was single, and there was no one else.

But Hu Qiang, the predecessor here, has actually been taking care of his mother and Weiwei before, but he doesn't know it himself, and he has always taken it for granted, until Weiwei left and all kinds of family troubles came together, he understood Weiwei's suffering, and understood how wrong he was in the beginning.

However, all in all, in fact, the predecessor Hu Qiang did not mean it, but was forced to do so.

Who let the beasts that worked in the predecessor like to squeeze employees?

According to memory, the predecessor Hu Qiang was doubly careful during his work, for fear of being fired if he did something wrong.

At that time, Weiwei had just given birth to a child and had no job, so the family had to rely on Hu Qiang to make money.

To put it mildly, the predecessor Hu Qiang doesn't want to get off work at the end of the day and spend more time with his wife and children?

No, he has to work, he has to make money, and he has to support his family, otherwise there will be no source, and the family will have to drink the northwest wind.

Therefore, the source of all contradictions is one word - poverty!

Because of poverty, the predecessor did not dare to give up work at will, did not dare to slap the table with the leader casually, and had to listen to the leader's words, and constantly worked overtime and overtime.

is also because of poverty, when giving birth to a child, she can only let Weiwei give up her job, and she can't afford to hire a nanny and a confinement lady, so she can only ask her mother to come over to help take care of the child.

Poor couples mourn everything, and they don't speak hard when they have no money.

The predecessor Jing Xiaoshenwei and Wei Wei, to put it bluntly, were all pressed by money.

On the other hand, if he didn't have a system, would he be able to live so freely?

In short, he is really not good at taking care of children, and his relationship with Xiao Hu Tao is indeed not very close.

In fact, Hu Qiang also thinks this is very good and doesn't want to change too much.

After all, he really let him contact with Xiao Hu Tao all day long, and he couldn't stand it himself, it felt weird.

That's why he spent a lot of money to hire a nanny, just to make everyone feel at ease.

In this way, his cheap mother and little walnut can be taken care of, and he can work and live with peace of mind, which can be regarded as a happy person.

But this kind of thinking is also thinking about it privately, and now when it is said by the current mother, it is naturally a little ashamed.

"Hmph, you will still be ashamed, it proves that there is still salvation!" Hu Qiang's mother pouted.

"Huh." Hu Qianggan smiled, "I'm sorry, Mom, I, I ......"

"Alright, don't say it." Hu Qiang's mother waved her hand, "I don't blame you, after all, you are a big man, and it is not easy to work to earn money to support the family, so I will just say that, you can just listen to it." ”

Hearing this, Hu Qiang scratched his head, not knowing what to say.

Hu Qiang's mother suddenly smiled at this time: "So, Qiangzi, if you were alone, it would be fine, but now that you have a little walnut, it can't be the same as before."

As for me, I don't know how long I can live, and the worst plan is just over two years.

What will you do in two years? Or, I'm gone in two years, who will take care of Walnut and you?

So, after thinking about it, I think you still have to have a daughter-in-law, and let your daughter-in-law take care of you. ”

"Mom, I'm ......"

"Shut up!"

Seeing that Hu Qiang was about to interject again, Hu Qiang's mother glared: "I haven't finished speaking, don't interrupt!" ”

After Hu Qiang shut up, Hu Qiang's mother looked out of the glass window, looked at Su Damiao, who was still pruning flowers and plants, and said: "Qiangzi, I understand what you said, and Xiao Su also understands it."

However, at this time and at that time, sometimes, you should not be presumptuous, let alone think about others.

Let's talk about Xiao Su, it's good for her to be a nanny, but after all, this is a job to serve people, and she doesn't look good on her face, and she can't be a lifelong person.

Also, although Xiao Su has a high income as a nanny, it is even more difficult to buy a house and settle in Shanghai with her age and income.

If she can find a reliable local man to marry, then she can settle here, which is still very attractive.

Although you are not local at the root, you already have a Shanghai hukou and a house here, so you are a serious Shanghainese.

Shanghai hukou, a local house, and a high-tech job, in addition, you have a good personality, not stingy, generous enough, and the key person is handsome, these are all good conditions.

I also feel about Xiao Su's situation, she also has a daughter, but she is already in college, and she will join the job as soon as she graduates from college, which is not a drag.

Coupled with Xiao Su's age, even if she marries you, it is estimated that she will not have any more children.

If she doesn't have a baby with you, then Little Walnut will naturally be treated as her own.

And after these years of contact, I can also see that Xiao Su is a really kind-hearted person, not pretending.

Not to mention, she is also very compatible with Xiao Hu Tao, and Xiao Hu Tao is willing to listen to her words.

In the future, if she becomes Xiao Walnut's stepmother, she will definitely not treat Xiao Hu Tao badly.

Of course, this is all secondary, the most critical, I knocked on the side before, and found that Xiao Su is actually quite satisfied with you.

So Ah Qiangzi, I don't think Xiao Su actually doesn't want to start a family again, but he just has some concerns, not that he wants to be single.

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The key is you, as long as you are willing to treat others well, you will be matched together according to your conditions, I don't think there is any big problem.

It just so happens that thanks to your medicine, I have at least two more years to go.

While I am still in good spirits and people are not in trouble, I want to settle your marriage as soon as possible, and I can see with my own eyes that there is a reliable person to take care of you and Xiao Walnut, then I will be relieved.

When the time comes, even if there is a case that I really have to leave, I can leave with confidence. ”

Hu Qiang said speechlessly: "Mom, don't worry about this, I really don't mean that."

Besides, I'll talk to Sister Su, that's not appropriate. ”

"How is it not appropriate?" Hu Qiang's mother asked.

Hu Qiang blinked: "It's not suitable anywhere."

And don't forget, from a legal point of view, I'm still married, not really single.

You asked a married man to fall in love with Sister Su, isn't this cheating in marriage? ”

Hearing Hu Qiang say this, Hu Qiang's mother frowned: "What nonsense? What marital cheating? Although you are still nominally married, Weiwei has been gone for more than four years, what is the difference between you and being single? If you go for a divorce now, it will definitely happen in no time.

Speaking of which, I've mentioned it to you several times before, why don't you go for a divorce? ”

Hearing what his mother said, Hu Qiang blinked, deliberately lowered his head, rolled his eyes, and said with a sad and lonely look: "Mom, don't say it, Weiwei just left in a negative mood, and when she is angry, she will come back sooner or later." So, I can't get a divorce until Vivi comes back, it's not appropriate, it's really not appropriate. ”

Seeing Hu Qiang's appearance, Hu Qiang's mother was angry, and subconsciously raised her hand, looking like she wanted to give her son a big-eared melon seed.

But in the end, I still felt sorry for him, so I didn't fight anymore, but put down my hand and said angrily: "Silly boy, what a stupid child!" How can you be as stubborn as your dad! ”

Speaking of this, seeing that Hu Qiang still bowed his head and remained silent, Hu Qiang's mother sighed and said again:

"Qiangzi, I know that you haven't let go of Weiwei in your heart, and you always feel that you owe her, but she has been gone for so many years, and you have waited for her for so many years, which is enough.

Even if it's for your mother, for Xiao Walnut, and for this family, you just let go of Weiwei and don't deceive yourself.

Then, you can try to get in touch with Ren Xiaosu and have a good talk, maybe your real fate is here.

To be a man, you still have to be realistic, objective, don't cling to the past, that will only harm others and yourself!

Letting go of obsession is liberation.

Hadron, don't make a mistake with yourself! ”