Frankly speaking, Hu Qiang has always felt very strange about this daughter named Hu Tao before.

After all, she is indeed her own child physically, but emotionally she seems to be a little behind.

If you say it reluctantly, it has the meaning of forcibly taking over.

But after that long, open and honest conversation, he was touched somewhere in his heart.

For the first time, he really realized how good this cheap daughter was, how sensible she was, and how much she cared about herself.

And after listening to her words, Hu Qiang was not only distressed, but also moved.

For the first time in his life, he really felt like a father.

Because of this, Hu Qiang has strengthened his determination to remain single.

Because he doesn't want to easily find an incompetent woman to come in and be an incompetent stepmother for Xiao Hu Tao.

Unless she really treats Walnut as her own.

But this kind of woman is rare, and Hu Qiang has long lost hope.

Anyway, in his previous life, he had never seen the kind of stepmother who was really good to other people's children.

Think about it carefully, he now has a mother and a baby, if the income keeps up, life should not be too comfortable, why can't he think about it so much, and find a woman to marry.

But then again.

After the impact of the little walnut before, Hu Qiang was already touched in his heart.

Now Ye Zhenzhen has re-mentioned her remarks about fooling her.

Hu Qiang suddenly felt.

It seems that it is probably, probably, really necessary, to solve the emotional problems left by the previous body.

Even if it's not for anything else, even if it's just to make his daughter feel at ease, so that his mother and daughter don't worry about him anymore, he should do it.

He used to be too selfish, and he always thought about himself in doing things.

but ignores the fact that he is no longer a person.

Now, too many people care about themselves.

I shouldn't continue to take the fact that my ex-wife ran away from home, and continue to sell miserable sympathy.

After all, others don't know, he knows it very well in his own heart.

He didn't sue for divorce before, and he didn't go back to being single, not because he was afraid of his mother's forced marriage, nor because he didn't want to harm other women, and he didn't want to bear it alone and not cause trouble to others......

Those reasons are all fake, and they are all Hu Qiang's excuses!

The fundamental reason is still lazy!

That's right, to say a thousand things and ten thousand, Hu Qiang has never solved the problem of his ex-wife's departure before, but it is just a lazy word, and there is no other special reason.

The other reasons are just lies created to cover up their laziness and fear of trouble.

It's like he had hemorrhoids in his previous life, and the hemorrhoids are still very dangerous, but he has always been afraid of trouble, he has never dared to make up his mind to completely cut it off, and he has been looking for various reasons not to go to the hospital.

When he finally suffered from hemorrhoids again, and finally made up his mind to cut it off, he crossed over.

Things are different, but the truth is the same.

To put it bluntly, if you don't get a divorce, how can there be any inside story, it's just that Hu Qiang's lazy and selfish bad nature is at work.

Think about it again, why did he achieve nothing in his previous life.

Is it just bad luck and bad luck?

I'm afraid not.

After all, strictly speaking, the starting point of his previous life was no worse than most people.

At least his childhood was complete, and his parents died when he was growing up.

Even cold-blooded, in a sense, the death of his parents in his previous life was actually more beneficial to him.

But even so, he didn't look like a person in his previous life, he gave up halfway in everything he did, and he didn't succeed in anything.

If he hadn't inherited his parents' inheritance in his previous life, he wouldn't have been chic at all.

Although he was unsuccessful in his previous life, there are indeed many objective reasons.

But the reason is a little more subjective.

In the final analysis, he was very average in his previous life, or he has many characteristics that are common to losers.

Such as laziness, such as fear of trouble, such as thinking too much and doing too little.

I have failed in my previous life, can I continue in this life?

I have already lived up to the expectations of my parents in my previous life, do I have to live up to the expectations of others who care about me in this life?

If I really continue like this, I'm afraid that even with the blessing of the system, the future will not be too good.

Even if he can fool everyone, he can't fool his own heart.

These ideas all appeared in an instant, and they were not controlled by Hu Qiang himself at all.

It's like clicking on a 32x fast-forward screen.

It feels like he has had these thoughts for a long time, but he has been suppressed in the corner of his heart in the past, has not been found, and has been living in a blur.

Now, after being stimulated by her daughter, she was mentioned again by Ye Zhenzhen.

It was as if the seal had been unsealed, allowing his suppressed thoughts to rush out uncontrollably.

That's right, at this moment, Hu Qiang made a decision.

He decided to simply take advantage of this vacation to find a lawyer directly to help him sue for divorce.

It's better to be single again.

Resume being single, say goodbye to the past completely, and reassure your daughter and mother, as well as everyone else who cares about you.

A sympathetic life may be able to take advantage of it.

But in fact, the big future is really lost!

There are some things that should be solved.

It's not good for anyone to keep dragging on like this.

After thinking about it, Hu Qiang suddenly smiled.

Then he spoke first, breaking the quiet scene caused by Ye Zhenzhen's words just now.

"Thank you, thank you, Vera!" Hu Qiang said with a smile.

"Huh? Well? Ye Zhenzhen, who was looking at her parents seriously, was stunned, obviously not expecting Hu Qiang to say this.

"Thank me for what?" Ye Zhenzhen asked subconsciously.

Hu Qiang just smiled and shook his head, and then continued to smile: "Thank you, let me have a complete epiphany." ”

"Huh?" Ye Zhenzhen was confused, "What epiphany?" ”

Hu Qiang didn't explain, but took a long breath as if he had put down his burden, and then looked at Ye's father and Ye's mother with a gentle face.

"Uncle and aunt, about my affairs, I think that's it, after all, you two are shrewd people, what is the truth, in fact, by now, I believe you all know it in your hearts."

"However, although my relationship with Zhen Zhen is fake, our friendship is real."

"So as a good friend and good neighbor of Zhen Zhen, I also have a little sincerity and want to tell the second elder, I don't know if you want to hear it."

Father Ye sighed: "You say, don't be so polite." ”

Mother Ye also looked at Hu Qiang and nodded, but did not speak, but the meaning was the same as that of Father Ye.

Hu Qiang smiled: "Uncle and aunt, what I want to say is that in fact, you care about Zhen Zhen's feelings, I can understand and empathize with it."

From your standpoint, I don't think you've done anything wrong.

After all, I am also a father, and I also have a daughter, so I put myself in my shoes, if my daughter grows up and does not fall in love or get married in her thirties, maybe I will also be in a hurry. ”

After smiling slightly, and waving his hand to Ye Zhenzhen, who had her eyebrows upside down, Hu Qiang continued to say to Ye's father and Ye's mother:

"But, aunt and uncle, times have changed.

This is no longer the time when parents did everything.

Nor is it an age when children must obey their parents.

Now, we can't just do things based on our own preferences and ideas, we still have to listen more to our children's real thoughts, and then seek common ground while reserving differences to find a way that everyone is satisfied with. ”

Speaking of this, Hu Qiang sighed and said: "Before, I was like you, I always thought that I was a father, I know my daughter very well, my daughter is very young and not sensible at all.

That's why I always make all kinds of claims when I don't have a serious conversation with my daughter and don't ask her about her true intentions.

For example, in order to let my daughter win at the starting line, I enrolled her in a lot of classes without asking her.

Later, I listened to other people's words, thinking that my daughter hated studying very much, didn't like the study class, and wanted to cancel it for her.

Fortunately, because of one incident, I went to talk to my daughter calmly for a while for the first time, and then I learned her real demands and wishes, and also knew the real reason why she was naughty in the past.

It turned out that my daughter didn't really hate going to tutorial classes and study classes, she was just afraid that going to study classes would cost me a lot of money, that I would be too burdened, and that she didn't want me to work too hard. ”

After shaking his head with a wry smile, Hu Qiang continued to look at Ye's father and Ye's mother and said, "Then, my wife, well, my ex-wife ran away from home and has not returned."

I thought that the child had been waiting for his mother to come back, so he never went to the divorce.

But in fact, my child has long known the truth and has long wanted me to get out of the past and start a new life.

At that time, I realized that it was I who had been unable to get out.

I didn't really blame myself, and I didn't really wait for my wife to come back.

I'm just afraid of trouble, I'm used to days like this, and I can't get out of my comfort zone.

Thanks to my daughter's words, as well as Zhen Zhen's reminder just now, I was enlightened and awakened.

I...... Forget it, don't talk about me, that's not the point. ”

After shaking his head again, Hu Qiang took a deep breath and said to Father Ye: "Uncle, what I mean is very simple.

Vera is excellent, very good.

And she not only has a super high IQ, but also has a very high EQ in dealing with people, at least much higher than me.

In other words, she is not a novice in life, but a person who understands life very well.

Such an excellent person in all aspects, I think she must have her own life plan.

Therefore, as a parent, if there is such a daughter who is excellent in all aspects and can see everything clearly.

So should we try to let go of our hands, try not to affect her, sway her, and let this daughter, who is excellent in all aspects, go on the path she has planned.

Maybe in your eyes, Vera's views on love and marriage are childish, and you don't understand it.

But in fact, she may have known what kind of love and marriage she wanted, and she has been silently looking for the person she wants.

On the contrary, if you have to intervene, let Zhen Zhen find someone she doesn't love to deal with against her will.

This kind of love and marriage will inevitably make Zhen Zhen unhappy, and such a relationship will inevitably not last long in the future, and it will only cause harm to Zhen Zhen in the end.

So, I understand your feelings, but I don't agree with your approach.

Others are just that.

But Vera is different.

She is a very assertive and planning person, who knows what she wants and what she wants to do.

Even if you are her parents, you may not be more assertive than her, you may not be smarter than her.

So, I am a friend of Vera and a father with a daughter.

I solemnly hope that you can completely let go, stop interfering with her, and let Zhen Zhen choose her life path freely.

This is the best choice for Zhenzhen and for you.

After I finish speaking, the key to where to go after that depends on my uncle and aunt. (End of chapter)