Chapter 376: The ancestral hall is a hall of storytelling
Yuting agreed to donate money, Jackie Chan replied in the past two days, Wang Defa felt that there should be no problem, Ma Xiu'e sent Wang De's problem, if it is not solved, even if Yuting gave him this 10,000 yuan, Wang Defa felt a little unsteady.
Wang Defa felt that this matter could not be simply discussed with the second child.
The second child can only give him advice from the perspective of yin and yang, but this ancestral hall is the ancestral hall of the Wang family, not the ancestral hall of the second family, and it is possible that each family has different requirements, and the Wang family still has to discuss it together, Ma Xiu'e's problem is her own problem, and of course it is also the problem of other Wang women.
What can be discussed is nothing more than a few elderly people from the Wang family who came out to take the lead in agreeing to repair the ancestral hall, Wang Defa invited them to the house and asked Chrysanthemum to clean up a few dishes at home.
When a few people entered the door, they had already thought in their hearts that Wang Defa must have asked them to come in for the purpose of repairing the ancestral hall.
"Defa, how is the progress of the ancestral hall now?" Master Wang Defa asked during the banquet.
"As for the money, the money for buying the land has been completed, and I will go to sign the sales contract in the past few days, and the money for repairing the ancestral hall is basically not a big gap, and there are also the heirs of the Wang family outside one after another donating, and the problem is not big." Wang Defa gave a brief introduction to the situation.
"That's good, Defa, the matter of repairing the ancestral hall, you are the hero of the Wang family, the matter was proposed by you, and the work was also done by you, it is indeed a matter of accumulating merit, good."
"Well, if you look at other people's homes, they have already started, let's not start, and it won't work, merit is not meritorious, I don't dare to be greedy for merit at all, it is all our Wang family's concerted efforts." Wang Defa said politely.
"Uncle Wang, you have been so busy recently, and you have asked Chrysanthemum to cook so many dishes for us, thank you, if you need any help, you can just tell us, as long as it is not a matter of money, we can be on call." Someone at the table finally brought the topic to the place where Wang Defa thought.
"Yes, yes, when you say that, I really have something to ask a few elders to tell me what to do."
How can there be a banquet in the world for no reason, as soon as I heard Wang Defa's words, everyone understood what they were here for today.
"Defa, what's the matter, or what is the difficulty, you just say." Master Wang Defa said.
"It's such a thing, what about my situation, everyone knows, home is also a broken mirror reunion home, I want to build an ancestral hall this matter, I must have to tell my current woman, a few days ago she asked me a question, it really stumped me, said that if she is gone, can she enter the ancestral hall, I really don't know if a woman can enter the ancestral hall, so, I just want to call everyone over, there are older people, there are younger generations, everyone see how to solve this problem."
Everyone was silent, and no one was at a loss, because they had never encountered such a problem.
"Defa, I see that everyone is silent, so let me tell you my opinion first." Master Wang Defa said.
"Okay, master, you say, let's listen." Wang Defa hurriedly replied.
"This ancestral hall, in the past, in addition to being a place to worship the ancestors, it was actually a place for the whole clan to discuss, so the ancestral hall is also called the hall of affairs, as long as it is a big or small matter in the clan, everyone sends some representatives to the ancestral hall to discuss together. In the past, when a woman with a foreign surname entered the door of the Wang family, she had to come to the ancestral hall, and she couldn't enter the ancestral hall, even if she couldn't really be a woman of the Wang family, the question of whether a woman could enter the ancestral hall was definitely said to be able to enter, and she still had to enter. But the woman of your family has raised a problem this time, Defa, but no matter how difficult it is, how to solve it is in your hands. ”
"Master, you explain it to me, what the hell is going on, I will definitely do what I can do."
"What about your situation, we all know that I'm old, and I've never seen a man and two women enter the ancestral hall from our ancestors, so the question is, who do you want to let into the ancestral hall, as long as it's one, it's okay to do anything, this question is completely yours."
"Oh, then I understand, what do you mean, let my deceased wife enter the ancestral hall, or let Xiu'e enter the ancestral hall, I have the final say."
"That's the truth, but there is still an unwritten folk custom, and the women who can enter the ancestral hall are basically reserved for the Wang family." Master Wang Defa added.
This addition, everyone who eats understands, this is obvious, Ma Xiu'e can't enter the ancestral hall.
"Okay, then I will understand, and I know how to tell Xiu'e, everyone continue to eat, eat well."
Wang Defa forced a smile on his face, accompanied everyone to eat, and from time to time brought a drink for everyone to drink together.
The ancestral hall, the hall of affairs, women can enter, and who they enter, the man has the final say......
A series of questions are in Wang Defa's mind, and at this moment, the most difficult thing is Wang Defa.
Wang Defa and Ma Xiu'e don't have their own children, let alone a man, just this one, Ma Xiu'e can't enter the ancestral hall, in Wang Defa's heart, if he really wants to choose between his deceased wife and Xiu'e, he would rather choose his deceased wife, he doesn't want to break these rules handed down by his ancestors, if he breaks it, if it has an impact on future generations, it will be more than worth the loss.
But if she decides to do this, Ma Xiu'e will definitely not be willing, which woman marries into a man's family, and in the end the two ancestral halls can't enter, so if she dies, won't she be a homeless lonely ghost? When Ma Xiu'e asked this question, she must also know what it means to be able to get in.
Wang Defa has never had such a headache over a problem as he did this time.
Within a few days, Wang Chenglong called home, saying that the young couple had discussed and donated 10,000 yuan, and they both agreed, and they had already called Wang Defa's card, so that Wang Defa was free to take a look.
Ma Xiu'e's temperament is an urgent one, saying good things will never drag on for too long, Jackie Chan has already replied to him about what he promised, and he hasn't seen Ma Xiu'e call, and in the end, this 10,000 yuan is a trivial matter, Wang Defa is afraid that Ma Xiu'e is probably waiting for her answer.
In the end, Wang Defa still couldn't bear it and took the initiative to call Ma Xiu'e.
"Xiu'e, did you tell Yuting what I said?" Wang Defa said.
"Say, I'm going to tell you tomorrow, your phone called, she said that her two sisters have helped you, she has no reason not to pay this 10,000 yuan, the money is given to me, let me take the child to call you when I am free." Ma Xiu'e said.
Ma Xiu'e didn't mention whether she could enter the ancestral hall, Wang Defa thought about whether to tell her the answer, in fact, until this meeting, Wang Defa did not make a decision, who could enter the ancestral hall with him in a hundred years.
"Xiu'e, last time you asked, whether women can enter the ancestral hall, I consulted the elders of the Wang family, and the reply I gave was that women can enter the ancestral hall, so you can rest assured." Wang Defa said
"Oh, that's okay, I'll call you today, tomorrow at the latest, since you have taken this matter down, then do a good job for the Wang family."
"Okay, that's for sure, this thing is done beautifully, it's a good thing to accumulate virtue for our family, you can rest assured. That's it, I'm hanging. ”
Wang Defa told Ma Xiu'e that women can enter the ancestral hall, but he didn't tell him who could follow him in, Wang Defa didn't know how to choose, and Ma Xiu'e didn't think much about it, knowing that women could enter the ancestral hall, who else could there be, Wang Defa's woman was not her.
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