Yan's words can be said to be a very straightforward reminder.

Yes, such a big thing, the longer it drags on, the more powerful it spreads, and the more powerful all kinds of speculations become.

In the end, any unreliable guess can come out.

Zhao Cuilan hesitated for a moment: "Then what will happen if it is a lawsuit?"

"Fines, slapsticks, that's it." Yan's words are very pertinent: "Then there is harmony and separation, and I will give you some compensation. But there are downsides to this. In this way, even if things get bigger, whether you or your children, how will you live in the future?"

Yan looked at Zhao Cuilan, and then persuaded her bitterly: "You girl is too young. If you want me to say, you really shouldn't make trouble. What's the benefit of making a big fuss?"

This shocked everyone, not only Zhao Cuilan, but also Zhang Sijiu and Zhen Niang couldn't help but look at Yan.

But Yan was very calm, not uncomfortable at all, and still said: "If the He family doesn't make this incident, you can't have children, you say, how will you live in the future?"

Zhao Cuilan thought about it for a while, and was a little distracted, and when she finally spoke, her tone was not very firm: "He Youguang and I will just live like this, and when we are thirty-four years old, we will have a child......

"If you don't give birth to yourself, can you be the same as your own?" Yan said this sentence very unceremoniously: "As the saying goes, only those who crawl out of their intestines can be intimate with themselves. You are also a mother now, you think about it yourself, you are not pregnant in October, and you are stuffed with a half-grown child, can you be intimate with him? Can you pour out his heart and lungs to him as if he were his own?"

These words can be regarded as stopping Zhao Cuilan.

Even Jane Niang thought about it.

As for Zhang Sijiu - she has never given birth to a child anyway, and the only experience with children is a little pumpkin, but that is not a child born by herself, she is raised like her little sister, it may still be different......

Of course, Zhang Sijiu privately thought that he had no right to speak. After all, the mindset is completely different.

Nowadays, people raise children to prevent old age.

As a modern person, Zhang Sijiu feels that raising children is not to prevent old age, but to experience that period of life, just to let himself have one more blood relative, and one more intimate time that only belongs to children and their parents.

Different requirements naturally have different mentalities, and the attitude towards children will of course be different.

But there is one thing that Zhang Sijiu will not deny: whether it is affection or family affection, it can be cultivated and bred as time passes. Even, there are people who love beyond borders and don't care if their children are their own blood. However, blood kinship, the things brought by October pregnancy, cannot be erased or replaced. Chinese Net

Zhao Cuilan thought for a while, but there was still hesitation on her face.

As soon as Yan Shi saw her expression, he knew that she had listened to this matter, and immediately continued to speak slowly, still in that bitter tone: "Stepchild, it's a big deal that he is also the second child of the He family, when the time comes, the biological parents will live next to it, how can you be suitable for that child?" It's not a last resort, and who wants to go this way? If you can give birth to yourself, it must be better to give birth to yourself. Let's talk a little more selfishly, He Erlang's child is related to He Dalang by blood, and he will definitely be no different in the future. But what about you? At that time, you were the only outsider in the family."

"In case He Dalang leaves earlier, you are alone, guarding such a child. Do you think life can be comfortable? But if the child who guards it is born by himself, it will be different. It crawled out of your belly, and I kissed you no matter what. I should support you and honor you no matter what." Yan's face was a little embarrassed: "How many of these have I seen? Step-by-step children, remembering their parents, are still so separated from the ones they gave birth to."

"There are even those who have lost their conscience, take the money, and go back to honor their own parents."

"Of course, there are good ones. But that's a matter of luck. If you're unlucky, it's really a shame for the heavens and the earth!" Yan shook his head and sighed, "If you want me to say, it's better to give birth to one yourself."

Zhao Cuilan acquiesced to this.

Zhang Sijiu also felt that Zhao Cuilan's heart was really shaken

It's amazing.

But, in the same way, Yan's is actually a bit of a stealing concept.

When it comes to having a child, if Zhao Cuilan chooses by herself, then of course there is no problem. To live, or not to live, is Zhao Cuilan's own choice, and no one will be blamed in the future. Not to mention any grievances or grievances.

But if it's ...... What about the family?

What is it according to modern law? It's *** sin! It's a cheating marriage!

But Zhang Sijiu didn't say this.

Because Zhao Cuilan doesn't necessarily want to hear it.

Zhao Cuilan did not resist Yan's persuasion from the beginning, which shows that Zhao Cuilan was shaken in the first place.

No matter how much you say, it's in vain.

In this world, no matter what it is, there are many options. Even in the face of crime, some people choose to settle things.

Zhang Sijiu does not judge. She felt that she did not represent justice, let alone be the embodiment of justice. Someone needs help, and it's understandable. But what if the other party doesn't need it? If you get together, you're causing trouble.

Everyone's life is everyone's own choice. What path to take, who to spend your life with, and how to live this life are all your own choices. Especially adults. They should be more responsible for themselves.

Yan Shi has already continued, "Of course, this matter, the He family did not do it right. First of all, He Youguang's situation, although he himself may not have told his parents, it is not a cheating marriage, but he did not have sex with you after marriage, and you could have proposed to divorce. If you can persist for so many years, you are already a kind person. They have failed you by choosing to do this to you."

"It's just that this thing is still making trouble. It makes you feel embarrassed as if nothing happened." Yan looked at Zhao Cuilan lovingly: "They have made you suffer a great grievance."

Zhao Cuilan burst into tears.

"We're all on your side. Speaking of the sky, it is also you who have been wronged, and we are definitely willing to make decisions for you. The He family's current attitude is also very simple, He Youguang means that he wants to live with you for the rest of his life. I asked him and he said he was confused too. Listen to his mother's advice. When it happened, he regretted it. I originally wanted to hide it from you for the rest of my life, but I didn't expect it to be broken by Liu. And let you suffer such a great grievance." Yan patted Zhao Cuilan's back, like an elder comforting a junior.

"He said that his mother had promised to split up. When the time comes, let He Erlang and his family move out, and they are not allowed to come back except for the New Year's holidays. Even if you don't want to see them during the New Year's holidays, don't let them come back and make you a problem."

"Of course, if you don't want to be at home, you can even move out alone with your children. All things are based on your will."