After school the next day, Yi Yang came out of Teacher Shen Xiaoding's office, picked up the old Nokia mobile phone, looked at the call record with the second uncle, and smiled slightly.

Now it's a real general student.

At noon, Wang Sangning had already told him that she had made a bedroom and all kinds of cleaning things with Jiang Lili last night, and was waiting for him to officially move over.

After coming out of the office, I went back to the dormitory, at this time Li Maoxin, Zhou Xiang and Wang Jie were all there, and after seeing Yi Yang, Li Maoxin first got up and said in surprise: "I heard Zhou Xiang say that you are going to run through the school...... I really didn't expect it! ”

Wang Jie said: "I didn't expect that you still have relatives in Hanning City. ”

Zhou Xiang said a little embarrassedly: "I'm sorry, after you told me about this in the morning, I told them when we had dinner together at noon." ”

Have you already had lunch together? Yi Yang glanced at Zhou Xiang, with the kind eyes of an old father caring for his stupid son, and nodded with satisfaction.

Last night, Yi Yang forcibly pulled Zhou Xiang to apologize to Li Maoxin, of course, such a scene is still a little numb, in short, both of them were red-faced, and the scene was like a confession, and Wang Jie's goosebumps stood up.

Men have a peculiar nature, after a fierce conflict caused by small things, the two sides will probably have a cold war for a period of time, and the relationship will be reduced to a freezing point, but as long as one party sincerely apologizes, no matter what the cause of the conflict is, how awkward the relationship is during the Cold War, the relationship between the two sides will often go further after reconciliation.

Now the duo of Li Maoxin and Wang Jie can be regarded as accepting Zhou Xiang, and this matter can be regarded as a successful end.

And this is just a starting point, Zhou Xiang has a little inferiority complex in terms of socialization, but in addition to this, he is essentially a person worth dating, and Li Maoxin and Wang Jie also have a lot of small problems, they are compatible with each other very well, and naturally they can also be compatible with Zhou Xiang, and even in the next two years or so, the relationship is getting better and better.

Yi Yang shook his head: "What is there to apologize for, it's not that I said anything about my privacy, but I didn't tell you about this incident because it happened suddenly." ”

"Alas, the only one in our dormitory who has good sleeping habits, and the brother who doesn't snore and grind his teeth is gone." Wang Jie sighed deeply.

"You're embarrassed to say this, you're the one who snores the loudest in our dormitory, right?!" Li Maoxin said dissatisfied.

"Fart, it's you!"

"Nonsense, Zhou Xiang, you say, who is it?"

"Uh...... Belch...... It could be me......" Zhou Xiang smiled.

"Huh?"

"Look at people's thoughts, when will you have this kind of awareness!"

"Damn, you still have the face to say that I ......"

Yi Yang saw that they could get together smoothly, and once again showed an old father-like smile.

There wasn't much to pack, except for two quilts in a big pocket, and everything else was a suitcase.

After saying goodbye formally, Li Maoxin suddenly proposed: "Sleeping on the same pillow for thousands of years, let's live in a dormitory, there is no thousand years, there are five hundred years, brothers, let's get together together?" ”

Wang Jie seconded the proposal.

Yi Yang thought for a while and said, "Okay, then it's the weekend." ”

Zhou Xiang saw that it was quite inconvenient for Yi Yang to take things alone, so he took the initiative to help him get the suitcase, but Yi Yang was not polite to this, and the two walked out of the dormitory together.

Zhou Xiang said: "Thank you Yi Yang. ”

"Thank you too many times."

"Ha ......"

While walking, Zhou Xiang said, "Yi Yang, I really think you have a high emotional intelligence. ”

Yi Yang was slightly stunned and smiled: "You are really, you can't praise anyone......

"Hey ......"

After a pause, Yi Yang's expression became serious, and he said, "But since you talked about this thing......

"What exactly is emotional intelligence?" Yi Yang glanced at Zhou Xiang.

Zhou Xiang was slightly stunned.

There is no absolute connection between emotional intelligence and IQ, but emotional intelligence must be related to cognitive ability.

Zhou Xiang is naturally not the first person to praise his high emotional intelligence, and even in the previous life when he was very poor, someone said something similar, and he didn't take this matter to heart, and he never felt that he was very emotionally intelligent.

But back to this question, is your emotional intelligence high?

Yi Yang thinks back to his previous life, whether it is himself as a repairman, or now he who has read a lot of books and has excellent grades, it seems that he does have a talent...... Feel the emotions of others.

To put it simply, it is to capture the emotional state of the other party, and then analyze it a little to deduce why the other party has such emotions, and finally predict what kind of interaction will affect the other party's ability to produce what emotions.

Although it is said that this is a talent, but if you think about it carefully, this ability is not immutable, and the previous life is much worse than this one.

And the reason for this is the gap in cognitive ability.

From the point of experiencing the emotional state of others, whether it is himself in the previous life or in this life, he has stronger acumen than ordinary people, many people in life are numb, even if the friends around him are already sad, or just hypocritically happy, he has no way to judge, at this point, Yi Yang seems to have an innate intuition, that is, he can detect the joys, sorrows and sorrows of the people around him, and empathize with them.

But emotional intelligence is not limited to this, many people can also perceive other people's emotions, but more important than it is the ability to judge why others have such emotions, otherwise blindly paying attention to other people's emotions will become a people-pleasing personality like Yi Xiaoqing......

This requires you to have stronger cognitive abilities.

For example, if you don't recognize the pain of learning, even if you know that your child is bored with school, you can't understand why he is tired of school, and guide your child not to get tired of school, so naturally there is no way to talk about it.

You don't have to experience some things, but you must be able to recognize that event from a higher perspective, so that you can think from the other person's point of view, empathize with his experience, and come up with a proper way of interacting...... This is the emotional intelligence that Yi Yang understands.

At this point, the lack of reading in his previous life limited his gaze, so even if he was sensitive to emotions, he could not cultivate a high level of emotional intelligence.

So...... Still have to learn.

Of course, learning is not only limited to books, for example, his father, although he didn't read much, but he entered the society early and did some big things, and these processes are also learning and accumulating.

Walking to the school gate, Yi Yang said, "Emotional intelligence...... To be honest, I don't know what emotional intelligence is, but I guess first of all, I should make myself comfortable......"

Zhou Xiang was slightly stunned: "Huh? ”

Yi Yang smiled: "If you have any similar troubles, I can help you analyze it, just send it here, thank you." ”

Zhou Xiang nodded: "Okay." ”

After Zhou Xiang left, Yi Yang waited at the school gate for a while, a Beetle slowly stopped in front of him, the window rolled down, Jiang Lili said a little proudly: "Since I drove Cruiser last time, and now I drive the little Beetle, I feel that the car is becoming more and more handy, it's just a combination of people and cars, hee-hee-hee......"

Yi Yang nodded casually, "Sister, you park the car a little first." ”

"Good ......"

Then Yi Yang lowered his head to carry his luggage, but as soon as he turned around, he heard: "Bang!" I was stunned for a moment, and quickly turned around, only to see the front bumper of the little Beetle hit the trash can on the side of the road.

Yi Yang was speechless: "People...... People and vehicles in one? ”

Jiang Lili looked at the front blankly and pulled his hair in pain......

"Abominable ......"

……

Deng Zhou glanced at his sister a little speechlessly, and said, "Aren't you usually the most fond of eating spicy tang?" Changed tastes now? ”

Deng Wenxiao nodded: "I don't like to eat spicy things lately." ”

Deng Zhou looked at his sister who seemed to have something on his mind silently, picked up a piece of potato chips, and said, "What sad things have happened?" ”

"No......"

"Haven't your studies slipped lately?"

"Nope."

"That's when your parents scolded you?"

“……”

"Also, your hairstyle shocked me for a whole year, didn't you swear not to cut your hair short? How can I ...... now?"

Deng Wenxiao blushed a little, at this time her waist-length hair had been cut to shoulder length, although it was not particularly short, but it was a big contrast compared to her previous image.

She thought about how Yi Yang would react if she saw herself like this......

A little apprehensive, a little anticipating.

"No, don't guess, brother." Deng Wenxiao said dissatisfied.

Deng Zhou sighed slightly, "I'll come back to make a certificate, I can stay for three or four days, and I originally said that I would take you to a few restaurants to eat, but you are in such a bad mood, I have no interest." ”

Deng Wenxiao shook his head: "Don't just talk about me, talk about you...... It's a thing to walk a high-level athlete......"

Deng Zhou smiled slightly: "Don't worry, I got a first-class athlete last year, it's not a big problem to go to Qingbei, and this year is mainly to train newcomers, I just follow the team to keep the bottom and get the top two." ”

"That's amazing, brother."

"Hehe, then again, fortunately, I didn't listen to my dad back then, I went to high school in Hanning City, and with the basketball level in Hanning City, let alone the top two in the country, the top eight are difficult."

"Although I don't know much about this, our school has made great progress in the past two years, and I heard that last year...... Looks like you've made it to the quarterfinals, right? ”

"Luck, to be honest, I didn't even pay attention to your school, but we abused me for more than 20 points last year! Is your school in the divisional competition again this year? Deng Zhou said contemptuously.

Deng Wenxiao was a little unhappy and said, "Hmph, I will definitely be able to defeat you this year!" ”

Deng Zhou was a little surprised, he didn't expect his sister, who had never been interested in basketball, to maintain his school so much, and when she used to say anything about blowing up the high school in Hanning City, she just smiled and said that her brother was so good.

My sister has changed......

Deng Zhou was inexplicably a little sad.

(End of chapter)